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Max Barry Obituary
Max H Barry, born December 9, 1994, died of an apparent drug overdose in the Denver area on July 29 at the age of 22.
Son of Mayor Megan Barry and Bruce Barry, Max was born and raised in Nashville. He attended Eakin Elementary School, West End Middle School, and Martin Luther King Jr. Academic Magnet High School before attending and graduating from University School of Nashville.
He graduated in June from the University of Puget Sound in Tacoma, Washington, with a bachelor's degree in communications. A lover of music, and 1990s hip-hop in particular, Max's dream was to find a career in music and radio. While at college, Max would occasionally DJ at KUPS, the radio station for the University of Puget Sound.
Max was our beloved boy. He made us laugh and he made us crazy. We will never hear him say momma or pops again. We will never dance at his wedding or celebrate another milestone with him. But we will remember him for the sweet, sweet soul that he was. The soul that was restless and calm and free and beautiful and kind. Max was the kindest person we ever knew.
He loved his family and his friends. He loved his dogs, Hank and Murray and Sherman and he tolerated Boris. He loved skiing and Colorado and climbing mountains and being outside. He loved hanging out and watching a movie and he loved fishing. He loved hugs and he loved baseball hats.
Max leaves behind so many people who loved him including his parents and his grandparents, Joyce Brody, Jan Mueller, and Ken Mueller, his aunts and uncles and cousins and his friends. Max, we will miss you. God speed, our precious boy.
Visitation will be held from 5-8 p.m. Monday at Vanderbilt University's Blair School of Music, 2400 Blakemore Ave. A memorial will be held at the Belcourt Theatre, 2102 Belcourt Ave., at 10 a.m. Tuesday, with doors opening at 8:30 a.m.
Memorial contributions can be made in Max's name to the Oasis Center or the Nashville Humane Association. Flowers should be sent to Blair School of Music, 2400 Blakemore Ave.
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Memories and Condolences
for Max Barry
Sponsored by Woodbine Funeral Home - Hickory Chapel.
Barbara Garner
August 12, 2017
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
You are surrounded by love.
Patricia Kerth
August 9, 2017
I am so sorry to learn of Max's passing. I served him breakfast often while he attended UPS in Tacoma. He always brought a smile to my face. With sincere condolences - Old Milwaukee Cafe.
Steve Kasloff
August 9, 2017
Megan - I am so so sorry for your terrible loss. You, your husband and your loved ones are in my thoughts. I wish you all strength at this time and the knowledge that many are thinking of you. I know your Max was a terrific young man and his memory will always be for a blessing for all who knew him and all the joy he brought.My deepest condolences.Your friend,Steve Kasloff
Chuck Sharp
August 8, 2017
To the family and friends of Max Barry:
I just watched and listened to his mother on the news. What a strong person to be able to be on
national tv this soon after such a tragedy.
My heart and thoughts are with you at this terrible time. We don't know each other, I was just moved to share a short note with you.
Carson Morton
August 8, 2017
I remember Max as a quiet, thoughtful figure threading his way through crowded holiday parties at Megan and Bruce's house; a peaceful presence amidst the Christmas chaos.
Scott Hudson
August 3, 2017
Bruce and Megan,
I do not know you personally, but know the love you have for this "Community" and as our Mayor I feel a connection. The loss of your son is a tragedy that many are facing every day. I can only say how sorry I am that this pain and loss is upon you, God in some way felt that he needed Max with him more than leaving him here with you.. and us.
Trust the Lord with all your heart that he will give you comfort to know that Max is there in his arms.. at peace!
Sheri Conn
August 1, 2017
My deepest condolences to the Barry family!!
ROSALYN L Caffey
August 1, 2017
Dear Megan :
I am so sorry to hear about Max. I am praying for you and your family. And I hope that God will help you and your family find some relief that he is with God and other members of your family that have gone before and is not suffering. You will of course see him again at the Great Home Coming of God. If there is anything I can do for you or your family, please let me know. God bless you and your family. Peace and Love.
August 1, 2017
Mayor Barry and Family,
Our deepest sympathy. May you feel the hugs of every Nashvillian around you....giving you strength.
Max seems like a wonderful young man. You were lucky to have him in your life and he was lucky to have you as parents.
Even though we are Wilson County residents, Nashville is our city and you are our mayor.
The Hartsigs
decarya andrews
August 1, 2017
my heart goes out to mayor barry and her family. my family is praying for your family. we are deeply sorry for your loss.
Mickey Trainer
August 1, 2017
Dear Megan,
My deepest sympathy and my heart goes out to you and your husband and to all of the family! You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you, Mickey
Lori M
August 1, 2017
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. God Bless!
Margaret Haas
August 1, 2017
God speed to Heaven Max. My prayers are with you Mayor Berry and family.
Charlene Rhea
August 1, 2017
Mayor Barry, you are in my thoughts and prayers. God will carry you through this. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Wanda Graves
August 1, 2017
To the Barry Family
Our hearts are with your Family
Wanda & Lee Graves
Nashville, Tenn.,
August 1, 2017
Bruce and Megan -- Our hearts are with ya'll.
Love,
Mitchell and Barbara Naimark and Family
Rolland & Sandra Corbin
August 1, 2017
We are praying for God to be near to you and provide great comfort. Our hearts break in the loss of your precious son. Our love and sympathy to each member of your family.
Rhonda Briskey
August 1, 2017
I pray God gives you the strength to endure his will may god bless you
George and Virginia Warren
August 1, 2017
Our deepest sympathy.
Janelle and Rick Uselton
August 1, 2017
Prayers for strength to get thru this sad time.Your Faith, family and friends will be there for you.Another Child that finished their work here on Earth earlier when we wish. I am sure touched More than you know.For my family knows the pain. Our Ricki Dawn gone at 22, 5 years ago.
Talishah Karim
August 1, 2017
My deepest sympathy to Mayor Megan Barry and her family at this most delicate time ....May the good Lord be with you every step of the way !!! Max will always be remembered as "the most loving son &grandson"that I knew .
Kathy Thomas
July 31, 2017
With Deepest Symphathy,Kathy Thomas
Sandra Williams
July 31, 2017
To the Barry Family,
Prayers are with you during this time. May God provide you the strength to continue on this journey.
Sandra Williams
Chief of Staff
Meharry Medical College
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