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James Gowens Obituary

James Robert Gowens, a native of Gadsden, AL and a resident of Shreveport, LA, passed away on October 4, 2019 at the age of 66. James dedicated his life to his family and career. He worked as a consultant with Anheuser Busch and in marketing, business development and management for multiple distributorships in numerous states. He worked and lived in Baton Rouge, LA, New Orleans, LA, Montgomery, AL, Tulsa, OK, St. Louis, MO, Houston, TX and Shreveport, LA. He spent his career moving to whatever challenge was asked of him by the industry to which he was deeply committed. During all his moves, he created lifelong friendships and was committed to his colleagues and job. James was most committed to his wife, Mary Ellen, who was the love of his life which was quite obvious to anyone who knew him. They were also each other's best friend, confidant, and rocks. In a testimony to his character, he moved his mother, Norma Gowens, to live with him in order to take care of her. He cared deeply for all the people in his life. James never complained about anything rather his sole purpose was to keep people happy and would frequently use humor and wit to accomplish this goal. Elona Sharbaugh (Kyle-husband) was his daughter and Joseph Crain was his son. He was always there for whatever his children needed and was always the calm presence in any scenario, never raising his voice. His love was always felt and returned. He had two granddaughters, Olevia Sharbaugh and Alyssa Sharbaugh, of whom he was very proud. James' passions were listening to music, playing his guitars, cooking, watching football, enjoying life and his dogs. James loved and treated his dogs as if they were his children. They equally adored him. James is survived by his wife, Mary Ellen Gowens; mother, Norma Gowens; daughter, Elona Sharbaugh and husband Kyle Sharbaugh, and his son, Joseph Crain; granddaughters, Olevia Sharbaugh and Alyssa Sharbaugh. He was preceded in his death by his father, James Doyce Gowens. A memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Published by The Advocate from Oct. 7 to Oct. 8, 2019.

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Joe McGinnis

October 11, 2019

James was as kind as he was helpful. What a great beer man. I enjoyed working with and getting to know him. He will be missed.

My sincerest condolences to his family.

Brian Wallace

October 11, 2019

My heart aches for Mary Ellen and the family he left behind. I've known James for 30 years working at first with him in New Orleans at the Bud operation. As so many have said he was a great inspiration as he never raised a voice in anger and always had a quiet calm regardless of the obstacles he faced. We recently reconnected through our beer relationship and he was still the same. Godspeed James as you are now in the loving arms of our Lord.

Reid Demster

October 11, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Gowens family and friends.

Linda and Larry McCain

October 10, 2019

Mary Ellen I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your wonderful husband! I wish I had words that can take the pain and sorrow away but know that I'm thinking of you and praying for you, Elona and Joseph! I wish I were close enough to be there for all of you and give each of you a hug!

Kathy & Allen

October 10, 2019

No words can express how sorry we are for Mary Ellen and family. James was one of the real nice people of this world. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Susan McMahon Taylor

October 10, 2019

To the Gowens family and friends,
We offer our most heartfelt condolences from the McMahon family and Belle Point Beverages, Inc. in Fort Smith, AR and Poteau, OK.

James helped us so much through the years, sharing his knowledge and patience with us. He was always available and willing to take time to share information and proper procedures that would help us get the best results.

We are glad we got to say hello to him last week. We feel sadness for ourselves, and even more for your family. We are thankful James passed through our lives!

Dave Jesse

October 10, 2019

I first met James in Hot Springs when he was teaching Mobility. He was knowledgeable, helpful, and always friendly. My sincere condolences to his family.

Mike Martinez

October 10, 2019

I met James when I started working at the New Orelans WOD a long time ago. Over the years when I would run into James, he was always kind and would always ask how you were doing. One of the nicest people I ever met during my 27 years in the beer busines. A great Bud Man. Take care James, you will be missed.

Carl Hamilton

October 10, 2019

Great person and friend RIP and will follow.

October 10, 2019

James, You were one of the nicest AB guys I had the chance to work with. You always spoke to everyone and greeted them with a smile. You will be missed by several people because of your kindness.

Dwain Dubroc, Alexandria, Louisiana

October 10, 2019

Mary Ellen I am so sorry and sending my thoughts and prayers for your family. James was a wonderful example of how we should all live. Again, sending our prayers for your family.

George Ford

October 10, 2019

One of the truly good guys.

Dylan Brown

October 10, 2019

So incredibly sorry for you loss! My thoughts are with the family at this time!

Brandon Reber

October 10, 2019

James... You were such a great part of Anheuser-Busch and to all of the persons from AB that you impacted during your time at the brewery as well during your time at Eagle Distributing. You will be greatly missed!

To the Gowens Family: My deepest sympathies for your loss and prayers to all of you during this incredibly difficult time.

Chris Jones

October 10, 2019

James, I truly have no words that can explain how much I'm gonna miss our coffee time, our job meetings, or even just our normal conversations we would have from time to time about life.... You meant so much to alot of people, and we're gonna miss the heck out of you my friend!! Rest well!

William Simmons

October 9, 2019

This saddens me , James was the nicest person I have had the pleasure to meet in the beer Business,he was a Good brewery man and a great wholesale partner . God Bless

Paul Higbee

October 9, 2019

James, you were always a great friend and your devotion to your family was truly an inspiration. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mary Ellen, and your family. Save a spot for me at the "bar" up there where we can enjoy a cold one, my friend!

Yvette Rison

October 8, 2019

Mary Ellen, Elona, Joseph....I have no words except to say how very sorry I am for your loss! I know you all loved him and will be lost without him. And I know he loved you all, and especially his Mary Ellen. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I pray for peace and understanding in the days ahead. I love you all and wish I could be there for you.

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Kathy and Mac McEnaney

October 8, 2019

James you and Murry were called our friends but in fact you have been our family for all our,years together. I cannot accept you leaving us. I can only think that heaven needed a really GREAT GUY and the BEST COOK EVER. We will miss you more than any word could say.

Elona Sharbaugh

October 8, 2019

I simply cannot say Goodbye. You were the symbol of peace and selflessness in our family. We will be lost without you. I love you forever.
I will never understand why you were taken from us so early. There are so many things I want to say to you. I love and respect you so much.
Your daughter,
Elona

Scott Dickes

October 8, 2019

So sorry to hear of James passing. I had some great times with him in St. Louis. I will miss him!

October 8, 2019

Father, I will love you forever. You were a great husband to my mother and a great father to me. We will all miss you more than I can say. I love you.

Mike Belanger

October 7, 2019

James, you will be sorely missed. You were a great mentor to me and my careerist Eagle. Godspeed my friend.

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