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Vineland - Gary L. Apel, 67, passed away at home on Tuesday morning June 1, 2021. Gary was born in New York, NY, raised in Millville and was a longtime Vineland City resident.
Before his health failed, Gary was employed as a Manager at the Double Eagle. He had a longtime career in automotive sales working as a General Manager.
He was a member of the North Italy Beneficial Association & the Recreation Club. Gary enjoyed surfing, golf, baseball & watching the Phillie's, making wine, cruising the neighborhood in his motorized cart, and most of all being with his family especially his grandchildren.
Gary is survived by his wife of 47 yrs.; Patricia M. "Tricia" (O'Neill), 1 Son & daughter in-law; Gary & Renee Apel, 1 Daughter & son in-law; Liz & Jim Harris, 3 Grandchildren; Sean, Angelina & Ava, 1 brother; Ray Apel, Brother & sister in-law Steve & Arlene O'Neill, Sister & brother in-law Peg & Gil Fanciullo, Sister in-law Paula O'Neill, Niece Karen Korsberg-Lowe & husband Preston, Nephew Steve O'Neill & wife Jodie, Nephew Scott O'Neill & wife Jana, Grandnieces Grace, Emma & Maggie.
Funeral services will be private. To e-mail condolences & or tributes, please visit www.pancoastfuneralhome.com
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Vera R. Giglio
June 7, 2021
To The Apel Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved Gary. I worked with Gary at Rossi Motors, Inc. where he always kept us laughing. He was a great guy and I'm sure he will be missed by all. I hope your memories of Gary will help to keep him alive in your hearts. My sincerest condolences.
Vera R. Giglio
Barry C Hodges
June 4, 2021
To Trish and the entire Apel family there are no words to express my sadness. Gary was my teammate, my friend, my Brother. The great memories will always be with me and there are so many. The things I will keep with me forever about my friend is He always had my back no matter what, his great since of humor, he could make laugh till I cried, but most of all that big heart of his and that wonderful smile. I will miss my teammate, friend and brother, but never shall I forget him. All my love Gary.
Marcel J Durand
June 3, 2021
My sincerest condolences to Trish, Liz and Gary Jr and spouses. Gary was the best. What I admired most about Gary was despite all his health issues, he never complained and always had an upbeat attitude. God Bless you Gary, see you on the other side. RIP
Jack Durand
Steven Vassallo
June 3, 2021
I am so sorry to read about the loss of Gary. I have so many great memories of being over the Apel's house growing up. I remember us kids playing in the pool while Gary grilled burgers and played cool music. It was the best. He was always kind and fun to be around. He will be greatly missed!
Carl Schuster
June 3, 2021
Gary and I worked together at Lilliston Ford, in the 80s. My sincere condolences to the family. May God enfold you in His grace and bring you peace and comfort, in your time of need.
Marie & Bill Herring
June 3, 2021
Gary and family
So sorry to hear the loss of such a good guy. He was always a true gentleman and great automobile man he will be greatly missed RIP.
Dian Erber Priest
June 2, 2021
Gary was my friend in high school and I was grateful to reconnect with him later. I am so sorry for the family. Liz, I know how it feels to lose a dad. Trish, I am so very sorry. Al and I send our deepest condolences to the family. Praying for you all.
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