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JANE TOLA Obituary
Jane Anna (Hopp) Tola's courageous and inspirational journey came to an end on Monday, May 2, 2011.
She lived an inspiring life for 36 years as she cared for strangers, friends, family and her two beautiful daughters, with a passion for the human spirit and the belief of the goodness of everyone. She will be remembered for all that she did for many, many people and the courage she showed after being diagnosed with cancer more than two years ago.
Jane was born and raised in Newfield, where she graduated from Buena Regional High School, Class of 1992. She graduated from Berry College in Rome, Georgia, with a bachelor's degree and continued her education at the University of Pennsylvania, graduating in 1998 with a master's degree in social work. Jane used her degree to help children at Vineland High School as part of the child study team.
Jane married the love of her life, Rob Tola, in 1999, and together they were blessed with two precious daughters, Jessica and Julia. Jane loved being a wife and mother and devoted her time and energy to sharing her passion for life with the three of them.
As a young girl, she participated in softball, basketball, ballet and gymnastics. Jane was an active member of her church and loved reading, inspirational writing and crafts. At college, she worked in the local community with the elderly and with young children. As a social worker at Vineland High School, she was an inspiration to at-risk kids and their families to help them improve their lives.
Amidst her fight with cancer, Jane traveled abroad, took trips to Disney World, visited family around the country and even sky-dived. On Easter Sunday she was visiting one of her favorite places, the beach at Ocean City.
Jane was an inspirational writer and amazing artist who loved travel, painting, reading, writing, the beach and life. Jane always looked for the good in all. Jane will be sorely missed by her husband, Rob Tola of Vineland, son of Marco and Monica Tola; and her two young daughters, Jessica and Julia. Other immediate family include parents, Joseph Hopp and Mary Ann Hopp; grandmother, Helen Porch; brothers, Joseph, Jeff and Jacob Hopp; sisters, Janice, Julie, June, Joelle and Jena; and many loving nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
In her diary, Jane said "With Jessica and Julia, I am always trying to teach them to acknowledge acts of kindness whether big or small because each one is a small beautiful gift from someone's heart." Jane would want us to acknowledge the acts of kindness, big and small, that she received from doctors, nurses, family and friends.
Friends and family are invited to her visitation from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday at Wainwright-Bernhardt Funeral Home, 1024 E. Landis Ave., Vineland. Visitations will continue from 8:30 to 10 a.m. on Friday at the funeral home, followed by a funeral Mass at 10:30 a.m. at Sacred Heart Church. Burial will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery, Vineland.
Donations in Jane's memory can be sent to Cancer Risk Evaluation: Dr. Susan Domchak, University of Pennsylvania, 3400 Civic Center Blvd., 3rd Floor, West Pavilion, Philadelphia, PA 19104.
Written condolences to the family may be emailed to [email protected].
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Memories and Condolences
for JANE TOLA
David Gorman
October 25, 2021
Mrs. Tola was my counselor at Vineland High School from 10th-12th grade. She seen more in myself than I did at the time. She was a wonderful person and I know she truly cared about me. I cant believe she has been gone so long now. Condolences to the family.
Dawn (Elbeuf) Cerana
May 18, 2011
I was extremely saddened when I heard of Jane's passing. I worked alongside of Jane when dealing with that part of her caseload involving my counselees,(formerly a counselor at Vineland High 9-10/ North.) I was always so moved by the way she spoke to our students when helping them through decision making involving school choices. It was wonderful working with Jane - so genuine and caring, always giving the students a fair shake in coming up with a plan. She was soft-spoken and kind in all her dealings on the job and grateful for others' kindness as well.
I know of the extended Tola family through my former residency on Chestnut Avenue, (Pat and Paula Tola, especially.) My heartfelt sympathy goes out to her family at this time.
Sam (Scrump) Davies-Abbott
May 16, 2011
Jane was a truely amazing and inspirational person and I feel priviledged to have had her in my life and to have spent so much time with her - so many wonderful memories... Sixteen years ago today I named a star after her for her 21st birthday and never has a gift been more appropriate as she truely was a star who radiated love and warmth to all those around her. Her light will shine on in the hearts and minds of all those who loved her. My thoughts are with Rob, Jessica, Julia and all the Hopp and Tola families.
John Fagotti
May 9, 2011
I supervised Jane during her tenure at Vineland High School. I knew her as an intelligent and caring person who always advocated for the students she served. She approached her very difficult job with confidence and a wonderful sense of humor. Jane went above and beyond for the sake of her students. May her little girls always be reminded of what a wonderful person their mom was. My deepest sympathies to Rob and family. God bless you.
Linda Sharp-Gray
May 9, 2011
Dear Rob and family,
I was so sorry to hear about Jane. I met you at my parents shore house in Sea Isle City. My parents are John (Winnie) and Doris Sharp from Williamstown,NJ. I am also a friend of Georgette Ortiz. My Mom said to send her condolences and that she is saying a prayer for you and your children and family.
God Bless you and your family.
Linda Sharp Gray
May 9, 2011
Dear Tola family,
I had the pleasure of working with Jane when I was Director of Special Education in Vineland. Jane was one of the most positive, cheerful people I have ever known. She was a problem solver and helped may to manage difficult lives. Her spirit and love gave many hope. I am privileged to have known and worked with her.
Kerrie Bryan
Longmont, Colorado
Lori Vertolli
May 9, 2011
God Bless the Hopp family and everyone that Jane knew and loved and that loved her. She was a blessing to our District and to our children in the Special Education Department in Vineland. She will be sadly missed by all who knew her but I am sure she will continue to work her magic from up above.
God Bless the littlest angels that she has left here for the world to know.
Hugs to Heaven.
walt wilson 3rd
May 8, 2011
to all the hopp family.. sorr y to hear about your loss. may god be with you all....walt wilson
Lynn, Colby& Morgan Phelan
May 7, 2011
Dear Rob and girls,
Please know that our love and prayers are with all of you. Jane was a fantastic and beautiful person and will be greatly missed!
John Hagen
May 7, 2011
John and I just heard the devastating news of Janes passing. John knew the Hopp family years ago. It is so hard to lose such a vibrant,unselfish person who has made such a difference in so many lives. Some in such a short time on earth makes a mark that is everlasting while others take a life time to begin. Our deepest heartfelt condolences to the entire family that has lost such a treasure. She will live on forever in the memories and goodness she has left all those she loved. God bless you all. John and Gail
Terry Wilson Hinsdale
May 6, 2011
Dear Hopp family, my thoughts and prayers are with you over the loss of your beloved child and sister; Our families were friends many years ago and the loss of Jane saddens my family
Barbara Jones McClure
May 6, 2011
To the entire Hopp family, Our deepest condolences for your loss. The Jones Family - Richard, Mary Jane, Rich & Barbara (McClure)
Leanne Kurtz
May 6, 2011
Rob and girls...
Please know I am thinking of you, and praying for your family at this horrible time. I will always remember Jane's smile....I don't think I have ever seen her not smiling. I haven't seen you in years, however know you have prayers of strength and love from all over.
Love, Leanne Mascola Kurtz
Suzanne Tarasevich
May 6, 2011
Dear Tola and Hopp Families:
Our deepest sympathy to your families at the time of this great loss. It is always hard to lose a loved one, particularly one as young and vibrant as Jane and we offer our sincere condolences. We will always think of Jane as that active, cheerful preteen we once knew -- not so long ago -- as an inseparable part of that "gaggle of girls" who so lovingly accepted our own daughter into the inner circle of friendship. Though time and circumstance took us along different paths, we remain firm in the faith that Jane will be with us once again. May the Lord bless and comfort you with the assurance that this is so.
Elder and Sister Tarasevich
Poland Warsaw Mission
Ul. Wiertnicza 135
02-952 Warszawa
Poland
Dana Queli
May 5, 2011
Dear Rob + Family,
I am so sorry for your loss... My heart breaks for you + your girls + the entire family. I remember when I heard you two were getting married :) I hadn't seen either of you in a long time, but I couldn't have chosen two people more perfect for one another... May you find the strength to get through this...for your girls. Keep the memories alive. love, Dana Tamburro Queli
Dina (Arcangeli) Mancus
May 5, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Hopp and Tola families for the loss of Jane. It was a pleasure knowing her and the other Hopps throughtout childhood and now. May your memories bring you comfort at this time and always. God bless you!
Stephanie Corsiglia
May 5, 2011
Rob & Family,
I know that she will be greatly missed by all of you. I know that she is in heaven this day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless You All!
maria DeSimine
May 5, 2011
My deepest sympathy to her family. I only knew her from taking the kids to storytime at the library and we had a class with our kids at the YMCA a few years ago. I always enjoyed talking with her and her prescious little girls> I am so truly sorry for your loss> We have been praying for her and will pray for her cherished family.
Maria DeSimine
May 5, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to you Rob and your two little girls. God Bless you and your family. (Leslie Cresci, Minotola, NJ-From Newfield Bank)
Susan Gramley (Paladino)
May 4, 2011
I have so many wonderful memories of Jane. She was such a caring and loving person. She will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Rob, the girls, and all of her family. God bless.
Lisa Jones
May 4, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Debbie Cesare
May 4, 2011
She was taken too soon...I lived on the same street, Oakland Ave., as child as the Hopps....may she rest in peace and be an inspiration to all....she did do much in her short time here on earth.
Nancy Masters
May 4, 2011
Jane was a wonderful advocate for the students at Vineland High School, and we are all better for knowing her. God bless you and give you strength and peace
Debbie (Green) Ruble
May 4, 2011
Jane was a cherished friend, the best mommy to her little girls, a blessing, an inspiration, an amazing woman. Jane lived a caring & compassionate life. She will live forever in our hearts & in our precious memories. Jane will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to the Tola & Hopp Families
K Jeffcoat
May 4, 2011
To the Tola & Hopp Families:
Sincere thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May you always have cherished memories to look back on and remember...
Becky (Roberts) Dryden
May 4, 2011
Tola/Hopp Families:
My thoughts & prayers are with you all. I will never forget Jane's warm smile & her kindness. Heaven has definitely gained an angel & we have lost a wonderful person, but she will continue to live through her daughters. God Bless You & may all the memories of Jane bring you comfort & peace during this difficult time.
Kristen Ingling-Hass
May 4, 2011
What a beautiful tribute....this brought tears to my eyes. I will miss you Jane, my "pen-pal" and friend. xoxo
Jennifer (Daubenspeck) Emond
May 4, 2011
Jane was a wonderful person in every way. It is my pleasure to have grown up in the same town and share in many childhood years and memories with her. I wish Rob, Jessica, Julia and all of her family and friends peace, love and light.
Nicole Flowers-Provenzano
May 4, 2011
My heart goes out to Rob, his daughters and the Hopp Family. My sincerest condolences to all of you. God Bless -
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