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Adam Rowland Obituary
He was born in New London on May 6, 1985, to Linda Spinnato-Tipton of Groton.
Adam went to Groton schools graduating from Robert E. Fitch High School in 2003. He was employed by Race Rock Landscaping on Fisher Island, N.Y. and truly enjoyed his work as well as the company of his fellow co-workers.
He was an avid fisherman and golfer and frequently joined his friends in a night of poker. Adam loved life, meeting new people and spending time with his family and friends. In the last two years, Adam had gotten to see his three favorite teams, the Celtics, Steelers, and the Yankees win world championships.
In addition to his mother Linda, he is survived by a sister, Jessica Rowland and her companion, Philip Dugas, of Opelika, Ala.; his maternal grandmother, Marjorie Spinnato of Groton, paternal grandmother, Ann Rowland of Westerly, and paternal grandfather, Alfred Rowland of Baltimore, Md.; nieces and nephews, Clay, Sky, and Nina Herrington and Marjean Dugas; many uncles, aunts and cousins; his fiancee, Cheryl Ebbinghaus and her family of Groton; his father, Alfred Rowland III and two half brothers, Matthew and Kevin Rowland, all of Canterbury.
He was recently predeceased by his grandfather, Anthony Spinnato.
A graveside service will be held 11 a.m. on Tuesday at Elm Grove Cemetery in Mystic. Calling hours will be held from 4 to 7 p.m. on Monday at the Byles-Groton Memorial Home, 310 Thames St., Groton.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Adams memory to Yale New Haven Cancer Center, Melanoma Clinic, 333 Cedar St., PO Box 208028, New Haven CT 06520.
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Memories and Condolences
for Adam Rowland
Pete DiMambro
February 24, 2011
Rest in peace Adam,
My Friend/Brother/Son
Love always !!
"mrpete"
February 17, 2010
Adam
You are a hero to so many people. You will forever live in all of our memories. You will never be forgotten.
Look down on all of us and help us through this time of sadness.
We miss you more with every passing day.
chantell beauchamp
February 11, 2010
Adam was such a great person, he had a huge heart and an amazing personality. It is hard to lose someone espically someone who has a special impact on the people around him.It is very sad to lose someone so young and i know that he is safe now, and has no more pain and suffering. He is looking down upon all his friends and loved ones and will live in all of our hearts and memories forever. Adam you will never be forgotten.
February 8, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
February 3, 2010
Dear Adam: It was wonderful to reconnect with you in the past two years. You brought back pleasant memories to me of that sweet, shy boy whom I met as a ninth grader at Fitch High School and whom I had the pleasure to watch grow into an awesome young man when he was graduated with the Class of 2003. I especially enjoyed your visit to me with Cheryl in September...I admired your courage and strength and spirit as you fought the disease that ravaged your body. I am so happpy that you and Cheryl got to experience a pure and special love , something that so few people get to have in life. And I am so very sorry for you and for her that your life was ended on this Earth so soon before you could realize many of your dreams together. Your smile , your love for Cheryl and your family will be always remembered by me. God must have needed a very special type of angel to have taken you from us. I know now that you are at peace and that your suffering is over. My tears have finally stopped. Godspeed, Adam. Ms. V.
Lynne Barrett
February 3, 2010
Adam,
I miss you so much! It breaks my heart I wasn't able to be with you or your Mom during all this. I'm grateful for the fun things we did--going to MA and passing Beetle Bailey, teaching you to drive in the parking lot, joking around, just hanging and being my surrogate son for 18 months. You were gentle and kind, funny, sweet,and a good friend to many, many people, including my sons, Tim, Jeremiah and Sam. They also are broken-hearted at your loss. I will think of you as always---Love, Lynne
Maryann Rowland Kassner
February 3, 2010
Linda, Cheryl, Jess, Al
As you begin your journey of life on earth without Adam, know that he is now the guiding light from above; assuring each one of you that you will go on until you all meet again. Don't let Adam's death be in vain - learn a lesson from him and move forward.
Michelle Kosztala
February 2, 2010
Adam,
We will miss you so much. Yesterday and Today have been two of the hardest days of my life along with other who loved you. You have touched the souls and hearts of so many people. I will NEVER say goodbye to you because my memories of you will live in my heart forever. Love you - Mich
Chris Fowler
February 2, 2010
what a loss,Iam so very sorry. Adam was such a great kid. I was Adams icecream lady at westside, He would make me laugh when I was having a bad day and was helpfull when I needed help without me asking.My heart goes out to his family and friends
Frank Bishop
February 2, 2010
I am grateful to have been linked to Adam,through my wife Sheila Bishop,who is Marge Spinnato's niece.I will always remember Adam as the kid with the infectious personality,and friendly smile.He had the ability to make a complete stranger feel like you had known him forever.That is a rare gift indeed.I will remember me and him playing scrabble together,and him saying "were family".
Diane Chin
February 2, 2010
I only met Adam once but he will forever touch my life! I know in my heart that Adam does not suffer any more and that he will watch over those loved ones that he has left behind. Linda and Cheryl, I don't know how to help you get through this most trying time of your lives. Just know that God is only a prayer away and he will keep you in his loving embrace always!
T Master
February 2, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go to this family. I live two thousand miles away and know there is NEVER a good time to lose a loved one, but my heart is with this family who has lost two family members in such a short period of time.
February 1, 2010
Marge,
Please accept out sincere condolences for the loss of your husband Tony and your grandson Adam. God be with you and the rest of the family at this trying time. God bless
Love
Barbara Thomas
Angela Renzullo
Mark Barrus
February 1, 2010
So sorry to hear about Adam,I was realy pulling for him.I only knew him a short time ,but he was a great kid, may God bless him. Mark from Z&S
ronda campbell
February 1, 2010
al im sorry to hear of adams passing my thoughts are with all of you. if you need anything please let me know
Jennifer
February 1, 2010
Adam, you showed a whole entire community how to make good out of bad. Because of your positive attitude and strong heart you proved to many what others thought was nearly impossible, staying strong. You made such an impression on friends, family and even more, strangers. Thank you for being you Adam. I know that you are in a better place and hope you are pain free. Always remembered, never forgotten. Rest in peace Adam, you deserve the best. Only the GOOD die young.
February 1, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to his daughter.
Pierre & Liz Bumgardner
January 31, 2010
Linda and family,
Our family would like to extend our deepest condolences during this time. We have spoken many times about how unfair life seems at times, but we hope that the words we have shared have filled your spirit. We shared the loss of loved ones during this month and through prayer we have somehow rejuvenated ourselves to keep their legacies alive. May God grant you the comfort and peace you desire.
Katy Pottebaum
January 31, 2010
I didn't know Adam, but I knew Cheryl. My brother, Ryan, knew Adam and graduated with him. Both of us are sorry for your loss and are praying for both families.
Teresa Welford
January 31, 2010
Dear Rowland family,
Adam would knock on my door to visit my son who was older. He looked up to Jamal when he was a young child. He was always pleasant and courteous whenever I'd run into him. My heart is heavy with this tragic news. I will keep your family in prayer.
A Shennecossett Rd. neighbor
Krystal
January 30, 2010
It's been a long time since seeing you. I am sorry to you and your family for this horrbile loss. Adam had a big heart and was so funny. He was truely an amazing person. Your family is in my thoughts during this time of deep sadness. God Bless, Love Krystal
John Taylor
January 30, 2010
Al-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart is heavy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
DAWNIA LUMADUE-PARISEK
January 30, 2010
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. ADAM SOUNDED LIKED A GREAT KID. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ATE WITH YOUR FAMILY
DAWNIA LUMADUE-PARISEK
January 30, 2010
i'll never forget the first time i met adam @ the pool. i knew right then & there he was an awesome kid, w/ a great sense of humor. remembering all the times he spent @ our house w/ kyle. i can still picture them playing w/ their legos on the front porch. i was granted the chance to see & talk to him before he passed away. what a strong guy. i have his pics up in the house. he WILL never be forgotten & will always be loved!
kriss, bernie, & kyle.
Elena and Bryan Lockett
January 30, 2010
We're so sorry to hear of Adam's passing. Our prayers to Adam's loved ones during this difficult time.
Barbara Dodge
January 30, 2010
Dear Linda and family,I was deeply saddened by the news of Adam's passing he will be grately missed! Adam's light will shine brightly in heaven as it did on earth!I hope the love of Family and friends will comfort you at this sad time and help to ease your pain. God Bless you all !
Love, Barbara Dodge
Madison Cook
January 30, 2010
Adam is and always will be in my heart, he was strong and brave and had a heart of gold. I know I will see him again and right now he is just taking a long nap until Jesus comes back. I pray that his family and friends and all the people who's lives intertwined with his will be at peace.
Pete DiMambro
January 30, 2010
Adam, you of all the people i know could reach right in anybodys heart and instantly let it be felt that YOU were a force from God put here to let everyone know there really is love in this world ! You tought me soo very much ( but we talked about all that life stuff often) You may have concidered me as a dad, but i was always honered to have you as the son i always looked up to ! God has you now, your battle is over ! Everyone that ever got to say Hi to you will truely miss your preasents, but you will ALWAYS remain in all our hhearts forever !! I love ya very much forever !
Mom,You can be very proud of your son, He is a TRUE spirit of all that is great ! If i can help in any way PLEASE don't hesitate to say so ! You are very loved ! Be strong and proud for both your farther & your special son ! luv ya so much ;-) your friend Pete D. ;-)
Susan Lunt
January 30, 2010
Dear Family,
I was one of Adam's teachers at Fitch High School. Adam was always a caring and thoughtful student in my classroom. He would come into class with a wonderful smile on his face and I loved his positive attitude. My prayers and heart are with you now and always.
Kelly Smith
January 30, 2010
My heart and prayers go out to Linda and her family and Cheryl and her family. I grew up with Adam every summer for many years. He was always the life of the room and could make everyone smile without much effort. I'll never forget him and all the stories in life we shared...He fought a hard battle and this loss is devestating to everyone his life touched. You will never be forgotten Adam...I hope your driving your Yellow Lamborghini in Heaven...I'll see you on the other side!
Ellen Post
January 30, 2010
To the family of Adam and to the family of Cheryl you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time, we will all be together again, God Bless
Jessica Donnel
January 30, 2010
Cheryl and all of Adam's family,
We will forever remember Adam as an inspiration to keep going and fighting. He never gave up and we never gave up our prayers for him. I still pray now that he is at peace, and for the all the people left behind missing him. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
Cheryl Mocek
January 30, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Melissa and Carl Goddard
January 30, 2010
Adam will be greatly missed by so many people whose lives he touched around him. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you in your time of sorrow. Your grief is shared by so many – please do not hesitate to reach out to us if there is anything we can do to help, both now and in the days ahead.
L'Ana Burton
January 30, 2010
I never even knew Adam except through Cheryl's Facebook entries. I taught dance to both Cheryl & Alycia for many years so I know that family well. Through Cheryl's entries I followed Adam's struggle & always felt LIGHT & LOVE pouring out. Though I felt saddness about the long struggle, I was always renewed of FAITH, HOPE & PEACE every time I would get more news through Cheryl's FB page. Today I only heard of his passing as I went to Cheryl's page to see how things were going. I feel so sad but remind myself to stay in THE GREAT LOVE & LIGHT that Cheryl always surrounded herself in. I send all of you who loved Adam wishes for peace to enter in. I know his spirit will always shine within all of you.
Margueritte Brogan
January 30, 2010
Linda,and family i'm so sorry to hear about Adam too.I remember him when he was in grade school and would go to his grandparents house after school.Amazing kid back then would have love to seen his as an adult.I'm sure he fought hard and strong he came from a strong family.My heart goes out to you all.My deepest condolences are with all of you at this most difficult time.Its been a hard week but they are with the angels now and protecting you all. my prayers are with you.
Alicia Carrion
January 30, 2010
we'll always love and miss Adam.He was the greatest guy.My prayers go out to his family and Cheryl and her family
Nadine Southard
January 30, 2010
Linda, Cheryl and family -
I cannot tell you how much Adam meant to me. From the day I met him he captured a piece of my heart. His smile, his humor and how he faced this challenge with strength and wisdom beyond his years - he made his imprint on my life. All of us at Yale are very saddened by his passing. Know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. He will love you from afar and always be your guardian in heaven.
Laura and James Dahl
January 30, 2010
Adam, you were an amazing person and friend. You found so hard for so long. You are in a better place now, free from cancer and pain. You left a footprint in the heart of everyone you met. You are an angel to us now and I know you are watching over all of us. Luv u forever, friends Forever.
Leah Starkey
January 30, 2010
Adam did fight a great battle. I'm so sorry we lost we a great person. His family is in my thoughts and family's prayers.
January 30, 2010
As I read the comments from your friends and family it is evident that Adam was an amazing young man. I do not know you but my heart aches for you. My prayers are with your family and friends.
another mother
Cheryl Ebbinghaus
January 30, 2010
Adam taught me so much about love and life. He was an inspiration to everyone he met and will forever be in my heart. I am blessed to have shared the love that people dream of with Adam, he has forever changed me and I will always love him. Thank you to Linda for giving me the greatest gift she ever could... my fiance, Adam... I will be forever grateful.
mark larson
January 30, 2010
God keep you bro.My prayers go out to your family.
Suzie Ducheney
January 30, 2010
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless. Paul & Suzie Ducheney, Westfield, MA
Kandace Taylor
January 30, 2010
im gunna miss u buddie i wont forget our crazzii convosations n class..im glad we got 2 b n eachothers life...u wont b forgotten....no goodbyes ill see u later..prayers to ur family n cheryl
Chris & Kelly Rediger
January 30, 2010
Linda and Family - When Adam was a friend, he was for life. WE will truly miss him. We are very sorry for your loss and are here for whatever you need. Adam loved life, family and friends and could make everyone smile. He will be missed!!!
Stella Martin (Rowland)
January 30, 2010
Adam you were an amazing young man who fought a courageous battle, You touched the lives of many people and brought smiles to many faces. You will be forever loved and missed by all. Watch over those left here until we meet again.
Stella Martin (Rowland)
January 30, 2010
Adam you were an amazing young man who fought a courageous battle, You touched the lives of many people and brought smiles to many faces. You will be forever loved and missed by all. Watch over those left here until we meet again.
January 30, 2010
My sympathy is with all the relatives and friends of Adam and Tony. You've had a tough week.
Sandy (Wargo)Damm
January 30, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Adam's family.
Maryann Kassner
January 30, 2010
We will always have our memories of Adam to carry us through. Adam can now go rest peacefully and be free from the struggles of melanoma. Adam, Go Rest High On That Mountain.
Linda, and Cheryl, continue to keep your love for each other strong; because Adam is watching over both of you now!
Carla Carrier
January 30, 2010
Linda, Jessica, Al and the rest of the family - my heart goes out to you. May God Bless you and give you strength to get through each and every day. Adam will be missed by soooo many people as he touched so many lives in such a positive manner.
Love,
Carla
January 30, 2010
Losing a father and a son in less than one week is more than anyone should ever have to bear. Prayers are with you.
John Scussel
January 30, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
amanda pendexter
January 30, 2010
We are deeply sorry for your loss Adam will be greatly missed.He was a great friend you couldn't ask for anyone better he would give the shirt off of his back if you needed it.Also he was the funniest guy I know my wife and I both Loved him a great deal and so did our 2 daughter's.He will forever remain in our heart's....We Love You Adam....Love Always, Amanda Pendexter & Jessica Miner
Melissa Bergeson-Martinez
January 30, 2010
My prayers are with the family at this very hard time!!! My family is has you all in our thoughts!!! God bless!!!
Jessica Cushing
January 30, 2010
I will miss my brother Adam SO very much. I will never forget the times we shared together and the unconditional love he gave to my children, his nieces and nephews, Clay, Sky, Nina and Marjean.
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