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Alvin Hayles Obituary

Alvin Noel "Vito" Hayles

Poughkeepsie - Alvin Noel " Vito" Hayles, a young man that loved his friends, loved his family, and loved to make everyone laugh, was born July 31, 1990, in Poughkeepsie, NY to Alvin and Floretta Hayles. At the age of 23, Alvin was tragically taken from this life on November 17, 2013. Alvin attended the Poughkeepsie City schools: G. W. Krieger Elementary School, Poughkeepsie Middle School, and graduated from Poughkeepsie High School in 2008, where he was a member of the Poughkeepsie Pioneers Football Team along with a host of other clubs and extracurricular activities.

In 2006, Alvin and all the young brothers of Poughkeepsie came together and developed a program to empower young men in the community. Alvin is a lifetime member of Brother 2 Brother and made his rite of passage on May 11, 2007.

Football was Alvin's passion, second to having a great time with friends and family. Growing up he was a member of the Poughkeepsie Cardinals Pop-Warner team, where he received multiple awards. He was a member of the Poughkeepsie Pioneers team where he occupied the #15 jersey and held the position of Tailback/Outside-linebacker. In 2008, Alvin received the Sherwin Thomas Award in recognition of his dedicated commitment to the City of Poughkeepsie Pop Warner. Recently, Alvin was a member of the Semi Pro Football team know as the DC Bears, a minor league non-profit football organization. He occupied the #6 jersey, held the position of Free-safety, and was scheduled to receive the Most Valuable Player award along with other certificates.

Alvin worked at a host of places but his most recent positions were with: Nubian Directions Fall Creek and The Poughkeepsie City Housing Authority. Tuesday November 21, 2013, he was scheduled to start working at Victory Lake Nursing Home. Alvin dreamed of becoming a professional football player; he completed a full year at Dutchess Community College and was preparing to start back classes in the Spring as a Business Major.

Alvin Hayles is survived by Alvin and Floretta Hayles ( Father & Mother), Jamel and SheriAnn Reynolds (Brother & Sister-in-law), Anquinette Hayles (Sister), Kerisha Hayles-Heaven and Lincoln Heaven (Sister & Brother-in-law), Andrea Hayles ( Sister), Jenida Morgan (Special friend/Mother of his children), Ah'mel Hayles (Son, 1 year old) Armani and Amir (Twin Daughter & Son, 15 weeks), Missipha Hayles (Grandmother), Willie B. Moore ( Grandmother), 10 Aunts, 5 Uncles, 2 Nieces, 2 Nephews, several cousins, a host of friends, his God-Children: Izan Webb, A'Riyah Parker, Azalae Murray, and Mi'King Bennett, who he was especially fond of.

He was preceded in death by: Grandfather Eleazer Hayles, Grandfather Price Tina Moore, Grandmother Marie Louise Reynolds, Uncle Noel Hayles, dear friend Abdelle St Ange, and dear friend Lloyd Banks.

Rhodes Funeral Homes in Poughkeepsie, NY is handling funeral arrangements. Services are being held Monday, Nov. 25, 2013 at Beulah Baptist Church 92 Catharine Street Poughkeepsie, NY, with viewing from 9AM-11AM and the home going service will start at 11 AM sharp. In lieu of flowers, the family ask that you consider honoring his last wish, which was for his children to be taken care of: Custodial accounts have been set up for each child; envelopes will be available at the funeral service and can also be mailed to 3 Harrison Street Poughkeepsie, NY 12601 c/o Anquinette Hayles.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day from Nov. 23 to Nov. 25, 2013.

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W SoaresNottingham

December 9, 2013

I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times.

Wanda Soares Nottingham

December 9, 2013

I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times.

stacey Vines

November 30, 2013

Our deepest sympathy, Alvin was a wonderful young man. Always kept a smile on my face. S.I.P. Baby. Hayles family may GOD grant you light in your darkest hour. Know Alvin was so very special. God bless you all.

Janasia T

November 28, 2013

May your soul rest in peace Alvin. God bless your family.

Jeremy lee

November 26, 2013

I love u bro and ur gonna b missed but ur here in spirt and thru ur beautiful children watch over us bro

November 26, 2013

I'm so sorry for you loss. May God be your source of comfort and stregnth in this most difficult time. May you be encouraged by His promise of eternal life. My heart goes out to you.

November 26, 2013

I didn't know alvin personally but he was a great friend to my nephew T.T. He was a nice person always with a smile. R.I.P Alvin and may God watch over your children and family. Heaven received another angel. I bet your hanging with abdel as we all speak.

Renee Parker-Galloway

November 25, 2013

My Dear Floretta Condolences; Prayers of Comfort and Strenght to you and your family on the lost of your son.

Justine A

November 25, 2013

RIP Alvin. You are a beautiful soul. May your family find peace in this tragic time. We will always remember you. xox

November 25, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 25, 2013

Alvin You truly will be missed. Numerous memories of you at PMS and PHS .My condolences to the Hayles family. You are in my prayers. Trust in the faith of The Lord stay strong.

Melanie Lynch Short

November 25, 2013

May God provide you with strength, comfort and love, during this difficult time.

Dinha Mercado

November 25, 2013

Alvin Hayles you and your Family are in my prayers.I remember you from playing Basketball with my son at Holy Trinity for a number of years. I will always remember that wonderful smile you always had and was always respectful. Rest in peace Alvin you will be missed.

Lori Elting

November 25, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
The Eltings

Tracy & Mike Tompkins

November 25, 2013

Our love and prayers are with you.

Donna Johnson

November 25, 2013

To the Hayles Family Continue to look up to God for that is where your strength will come from. Remember all the good times you shared with Alvin that will keep a smile in your heart. Donna & Denacca Johnson

Regina Stroman

November 25, 2013

A light has been dim on earth but will remain lit in your heart. May the God of all comfort be with you always. Praying the peace of God be with you.

Kelly Felipe

November 25, 2013

Heaven received an angel way to soon. May he light up the heavens with that infectious smile. RIP Alvin...I will continue to pray for your family.

Michael Bostick

November 24, 2013

Our deepest sympathy...
Bostick Family

lisa banks

November 24, 2013

God bless u all

November 24, 2013

You and your family are in our thoughts.
May the light of God be with you all.Blessed are they that mourn for they shall be comforted.

Vernell Dimps Johnson

November 24, 2013

May The Comfort of Our Lord Hold You In His Love And Care At This Very Difficult Time And In The Midnight Hour. My Deepest Thoughts And Prayers Are With You.

john Biscardi sr

November 24, 2013

Our deepest condolences. From the Biscardi family.

Jasmin Correa

November 23, 2013

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS I KNOW YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE NOW THE LORD WANTED YOU WITH HIM BECAUSE YOU'RE SO SPECIAL AND A BEAUTIFUL PERSON ANGEL I MISS AND LOVE YOU DEEPLY<3

Lola & Roger Light

November 23, 2013

so very sorry for your loss . may he rest in peace. love and prayers

Linda Colander

November 23, 2013

My Dear Flo, I pray in this time of sorrow that no one can take this hurt from you, that our Lord would just hold you in his arm to give you a rest from your hurt. No one can explain this, but God will fix it. Love you Linda Goode

The Haylett family

November 23, 2013

The Hayles Family,

We will have you in our prayers!!

The Haylett Family

November 23, 2013

To Alvin's family,

Please accept our deepest condolences as you'll be in our prayers and thoughts. We watched Alvin grew from a boy to a young man and then became a father. We remember the times we spent together playing basketball in our backyard, celebrating birthday parties and BBQs with us, and just hanging out with us sharing jokes and laughing. His smile will be greatly missed!!!

carolyn gonzaalez

November 23, 2013

to the hayles family im so sorry for your loss may he rest in peace

November 23, 2013

May you find strength in God blessings my condolences

Dianna Johnson

November 23, 2013

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Alvin's entire family. There are no words that can help your pain, but please know that we are very sorry for your loss.


Dianna Johnson
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estella hernandez

November 23, 2013

Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

MICHELE LEE

November 23, 2013

ALVIN YOU WILL BE MISSED ITS GONNA BE REALLY STRANGE TO GO TO LINKYS HOUSE AND NOT SEE YOU THERE.YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN

Kusa

November 23, 2013

May you rest in peace... My condolence to the family..

kim elmendorf

November 23, 2013

Rest in peace baby prayers to you and your family

Cynthia Glozier

November 23, 2013

So sorrowful for the loss of Alvin, a fine young man whose smile was a light to those who taught him at Poughkeepsie High School. Sending prayers for his family and hope for an end to the violence in his community.

ashley marie

November 23, 2013

Rest in peace we all miss you .

Valerie Littlefield

November 22, 2013

Praying for you and your family

Valerie Littlefield

November 22, 2013

Praying for you and your family

Carla Cummings

November 22, 2013

May GOD comfort the family and give you all strength during this difficult time. Please know that our prayers are with you. The Cummings Family

vicky brown

November 22, 2013

Loss but never forgotten forever in our hearts. I will always remember the smile on ur face no matter what was going on watch over ur family and friends especially those 3 babies u and Jenida have u r their personal angel R.I.P Alvin

Fatima Tania

November 22, 2013

Anquinette, I am praying for you and your family. I know this hurt all to well. May God bless you and cover you. Love you always!

Peggy Rogers

November 22, 2013

Prayers to the family..

Melvin Huggins

November 22, 2013

Alvin your gonna be missed i will always remember you Smiley Face is what I always call you S.I.P. Alvin

dorothy caswell

November 22, 2013

EVERYTIME I SAW YOU; YOU HAD A SMILE ON YOUR FACE; SUCH A NICE RESPECKFULL PERSON YOU WILL BE MISSED THE WOOD FAMILY

Lynn j

November 22, 2013

My prayers r with the family through this terrible time alvin was a good guy may he rip

Latanya Reynolds

November 22, 2013

??Love and miss you cuz
Gone but never forgotten ????

Kayann Green

November 22, 2013

R. I. P Alvin

brenda daniels

November 22, 2013

SIP Alvin, my heart is heavy because you were such a great young man, always had a hug for me and called me Auntie. I will miss your smile, your voice and your presence. GOD has work for you to do, cause he only calls the best!Hug my son, Rasean and all your fellow friends and family. You will never be forgotten sweetie, TRUST!

LaAimia Cheek

November 22, 2013

Love and blessings to the family

kenny

November 22, 2013

I remember playing pop-warner football with you bro. How you made everyone laugh. Im going to miss you bro. R.I.P. VITO.<3

November 22, 2013

Keep smiling Alvin

Kerisha Hayles-Heaven

November 22, 2013

You will always be in my heart Al ~ my mind holds the memories, my heart keeps the love, my faith allow me know that we will meet again. Death takes the body but God takes the soul.

Leatrice Swain

November 22, 2013

Al-vee will b missed. I remember when u were a little boy and grew.onto a young man. U r gone too soon. Gone to soon
:(

rose gordon

November 22, 2013

Didnt knw u but my u R.I.P prayes to the family n friends may god give u the strength threw this sad time

November 22, 2013

To Anquinette and family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this tragic time. We are so unbelievably sorry for your loss and will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Please contact us if you or your family need anything.
Love you always,

McKinley Jones and family
Albany, NY

Kendra Smith

November 22, 2013

He was a great son father brother and Friend you will be missed and we will always remember that beautiful smile ...

November 22, 2013

S.I.P. ALVIN

Tiana Best

November 22, 2013

Rip Alvin . I still can't believe your gone. Smh every time I think about you I start crying.

Charlene S

November 22, 2013

It was a painful moment for us all, too. Our sympathies and support is with you. We are always with you. I know that your faith is strong, and I want to encourage you to hold on to it. Faith is the evidence of things unseen. Even though we can't see a reason for what has happened, we can have faith that there is a reason in His plan.. I LOVE ALL

Kari Wright

November 22, 2013

Alvin was a amazing young man great father excellent football player we watched him grow up with my son they would play football till 1 in the morning I'm so sorry for your loss

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