She was born May 3, 1938, in Westerly, the daughter of the late John and Angeline (Ballato) Whitty. She attended local schools and graduated from New London High School.
She was united in marriage to Vincent DeJesus in November of 1965; Mr. DeJesus survives her.
Mrs. DeJesus was employed at the former Garfield Belt Co. in New London for more than 25 years, retiring in 1985.
She is survived by her daughter, Maryann Starkweather of Waterford, a goddaughter, Maritza Vargas and two godsons, Artie Shea and Laron Gittiens, all of New London; a sister-in-law, Chila Serrno; and nieces and nephews, J.R., Lillian, Marco, Latoya, Miguel, and Crystal, all of New York.
She was predeceased by two brothers, Thomas and John Whitty.
Her family will receive relatives and friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London A funeral home service will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday. Interment services are private.
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Elisa Rodriguez
July 13, 2006
Vincent and Maryann, So sorry for your great loss. Ann was a good person and she will be missed. I remember not too long ago going to pick up my Avon and watching a bit of the soaps with her before I had to rush back to work from my lunch hour. I like to think that she is now in a better place, feeling no pain, looking down on us and probably sharing laughs of the old days with my Grandma Margie. Losing someone so important to us is one of the hardest things we, as humans, go through. But always remember she is truly not lost...hold onto the memories of the good times and the love you shared so that when you meet up again you will have things to reminisce about.
Sandi, Linda & Kids
July 12, 2006
We are here for you when needed and when not! We will all miss her. See you soon.
Ann Marie Saunders
July 12, 2006
she will be sadly missed
Irene, Willie & Wil Lozada
July 12, 2006
Vincent & Maryann:
Sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you and your family during this time. Anne will be greatly missed by our family. May God continue you to bless you all during this time.
Love always,
Your aunt and cousins,
Marisol & Elina Rivas-Rivera
July 12, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Linda Klepach
July 12, 2006
It was a pleasure to know Ann. She was warm hearted and a delight to be with. Whenever I had the pleasure of her company, it was always fun.
My sincerest sympathy to Vincent, Mary Ann and the family.
Le-Ron D. Gittens (Love your GodSon)
July 12, 2006
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Keisha Beasley
July 12, 2006
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Mrs. Tracy L. Carouthers
July 12, 2006
May God bless and keep you strong, Vincent. I remember when we all lived on West Coit, next to Frances Hearn. I lived up the street a few houses down. I remember Ann sitting on the porch while you roasted a pig and watching us kids playing outside. You will be sadly missed.
Nadine Kabat
July 12, 2006
Maryann, may Mom's love and dedication to you and your family pull you and Dad through this difficult time. My prayers are with you.
eileen monroe
July 12, 2006
To the Dejesus family i am sorry for your lost just be stong and God will get your thru this
Norma Kelley
July 12, 2006
Maryann and Rich so sorry to hear of your loss my sympathy goes out to you
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