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Barbara Startz Obituary

Groton - It is with sadness, but with the certainty Barbara Viola Startz of Groton, is in a better place after a courageous battle with cancer. She went home peacefully on June 17, 2010, while surrounded by her loved ones at Apple Rehab in Mystic.

She was born on Feb. 15, 1923, in East Greenwich, R.I., the daughter of Otto and Esther Fakler.

She was predeceased by her husband of 63 years, Francis H. Startz of Groton; her son, Gary W. Startz; and her sister, Ethel Crouch.

Mrs. Startz is survived by her sons, Robert D. Startz and his wife, Jane, of Groton and Kenneth L. Startz and his wife, Kimballi, of Stonington; her daughter-in-law, Eva Startz of Florida; her sisters, Dorothy Jones and Lois Rossi; 10 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, June 26, in Old Mystic Baptist Church, 151 Shewville Road, Groton. The family will receive friends immediately following the service. Burial will follow at 3 p.m. in Lambtown Cemetery, Ledyard.

Donations in her memory may be made to Hospice Southeastern Connecticut, 227 Dunham Road, Norwich CT 06360 or to the Old Mystic Baptist Church.

To sign the online guest book, visit www.fultontherouxnewlondon.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jun. 19, 2010.

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Sue and Steve Champagne

June 24, 2010

Ken, Kim and family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Your mom was a pretty special lady, and will be greatly missed! Love to all.

Perry Ebel

June 24, 2010

Ken and Kim,

We extend our deepest sympathies and love to you and your family.

Perry and Kathy Ebel

Frank and Diane Ring

June 23, 2010

We will always remember Barbara with a her great smile, her sense of humor, her friendly personality and her love of chocolate candy bars. We grieve with you in your loss of a wonderful lady. May all the happy memories you share help you through this difficult time. God Bless you all.

June 22, 2010

To The Startz Family,
I was so sad to read of the passing of Barbara. What an incredible woman she was! Not only remembering her as a child, but later in life to get to know her as an adult, she brought much happiness to everyone she came in contact with. There will always be a special place in my heart for her, and now she joins the love of her life. You are all in my thoughts and prayers,
Sincerely, Pam (Teague) Champlin and The Whole Teague Family

Geraldine Lane

June 22, 2010

Dear Ken and Kim,
She will always be with you because, heavenly people are always there. So when you look up to the stars or moon at night say hello, that is when they do their best work of loving you and anything that you would need to be helped with.
Love to all, Geraldine Lane @ Beltone New England XXOO

Christine Iannazzo

June 22, 2010

Sorry about the loss of your mother...My thoughts and prayers are with you...

Joseph Dumont

June 21, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Kerri Noel

June 21, 2010

Ken, Kim and the entire Startz family, It is always so hard to loose a loved one but having the wonderful memories that I'm sure you all have makes each day a bit easier. Our deepest condolences and prayers go out to the entire family in this difficult time. The BNE Salem, NH Office - Sera, Kerri & Christine.

Gail Nixon

June 21, 2010

I have never known Mrs. Startz, but through association with her son Kenneth, I am sure she was a great lady. My condolences go out to Ken and Kim, and the entire Startz family, as I can only pray for God to help strenghten them, as she herself was strong throughout this whole ordeal. May the peace and love of God be with you always, now and forever.
Gail Nixon

Judy Glaude

June 21, 2010

Ken, Kim and the Startz family. Although I have never had the pleasure of meeting Barbara, It seems I could feel her in my heart through you. So sorry for your loss. My prayers are will you all.

Anita Varney

June 21, 2010

So sorry for your loss Ken, your in my thoughts and prayers.

Joan Grandchamp

June 20, 2010

I would like to send my condolences to Barbara's family. She was a very sweet woman and will be deeply missed. Her friend Joan Grandchamp.

Joan Grandchamp

June 20, 2010

I would like to give my condolences to Barbara's family. She was the sweetest woman Iv'e ever met. She will be deeply missed. Your friend Joan Grandchamp.

Peter O'Hara

June 19, 2010

Ken and Kim and the entire Startz family, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I never had the pleasure of meeting Barbara but I feel as though I know her through all the wonderful stories I've heard about her. Be well, and know that my prayers are with you.

Henderson Family

June 19, 2010

Dear Bob and Jane, and the whole Startz family,
We are so sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. Her beautiful smile and loving way will be missed by MANY. Please know our thoughts, prayers and love will be with you in the coming days.
Always, The Henderson Family (Lisa, Chuck and Mary Henderson, Bill and June Henderson)

Juliana Woodworth

June 19, 2010

I met Barbara at Apple Rehab where my mother lives. She brought so many smiles on the faces of the patients there. She was so full of life and will be sadly missed. My thought and prayers are with you at this time.

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