He was born in Great Lakes, Ill., on March 8, 1962 the son of John and Donna Gessler Gullickson of San Diego, Calif.
Barry had graduated from St. Bernard's High School and had completed a two year course at Grasso Tech in Groton. He was a self employed plumber.
He was a member of the Herwegh Lodge No. 12, German Club, of New London an was an avid outdoorsman.
Besides his parents he is survived by a son, Brett Gullickson, of Mystic; and a brother, Bryan J. Gullickson and his wife Nikki and their children Marc and Jayme of Groton.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday morning at 10:30 at Sacred Heart Church, Sacred Heart Dr., Groton. Interment will be in Colonel Ledyard Cemetery. Visiting hours will be today (Friday) from 6 until 8 o'clock at the Byles-Groton Memorial Home, 310 Thames St.
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Eunice Sherrick
November 13, 2005
Dear Donna & John, May the gift of friends and the love of the Lord help you through this difficult time. Received your note and Thank You for sending it. A Friend and Classmate of 1954 class of Bloomer High. Eunice
Tom & Karen Zielinski
November 13, 2005
Dear Donna & John,
May GOD give you strength and courage to face each new day
while you suffer the pain of the loss of your loved one, Barry.
Love sent to you from Tom & Karen
carole Dutton
November 12, 2005
Dear Donna and John,
Your friends and classmates in
Bloomer share your heartaches and grief. Please feel the Lord's comfort.
Class of 1954 and old friend, Carole
Lucille & Bob Nowak
November 12, 2005
Dear Donna, John & Family
Our deepest sympathy at the tragic loss of your beloved Barry.
Brett Gullickson
November 11, 2005
Dad, Mom misses you even i miss you. I remember when you were my dad. I like when you buy me toys. You were my dad I remember when you were my dad. You were my special dad. I remember when mom and dad were together and I remember when we go to places. I had fun with you. I remember when we played yu-gi-oh cards.
Love your son, Brett
Dean Gullickson
November 7, 2005
Even though we may be many miles apart, our thoughts and prayers are with you. It's hard to lose a loved one. With the loss of Barry, there will always be an empty spot when we think of your family. You are family and we care. Miles can't separate one from the love of their family. God Bless
Robin Shinn
November 1, 2005
To all my family and friends,
I would just like to take this time to thank you all for your kind expressions of sympathy and for all your love and support to both Brett and I during this tragic time. I truly appreciate everything you have all done, and it will remain in my heart always.
I want to also say again to Mom, Dad, Bryan, Nikki, Marc and Jayme how very very sorry I am for everything, you will always be a part of my family and are always welcomed in my home.
And to the rest of Barry's family out in Wisconsin who could not be here, I am truly sorry for all of you also. I can't imagine how you are all feeling and being so far away. I miss you all and wish you all well.
You will all remain in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Love, Robin
Brett Gullickson
November 1, 2005
dad, i miss you. you are my friend you are my best friend. you are the best dad in the whole world. i miss you. im sad that you died. i had fun with you. i miss you alot. we had fun together. everyone misses you alot. even i miss you. i always will be with you. I will always love you.
love your son brett gullickson
Margaret James
October 27, 2005
I just got an email from my sister with Barry's obituary and I can't explain how shocked and sad I felt. Barry was a wonderful friend in every way during our years together at St. B's. He always had a positive attitude, a warm smile and a great sense of humor!!! I will always have fond memories of our school days and the great times we shared with all our friends.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mike Gullickson
October 27, 2005
Dear John, Donna, and family,
Carol and I wish to express our deepest sympathy to you over the loss of Barry. We want you to know that you are in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers during this difficult time. May you find strength and comfort through your family, friends, and each other.
God Bless You.
Mike and Carol Gullickson
Larry & Sheryl Gullickson
October 26, 2005
Dear John, Donna, Byran and Family
Our sincere sympathy's on the untimely lose of Barry. We just found out yesterday of your lose and are deeply saddened. Barry has left us all a lot of fond memories. He was fun loving and always full of smiles. I will always remeber the time I was in boot camp in San Diago
and was able to spend my day of leave with Bryan and Barry at the Zoo. May God Bless you and comfort you in the days to come. Our hearts and prayers will be with you. Love,
Larry, Sheryl, Glen & Kari Gullickson
rhonda hislip
October 24, 2005
Dear John,Donna,Byran,Niki,Brett and family
I just wanted to say how sad we are to lose Barry, he was like a brother to us and i couldnt wait for you all to come to Wisconsin and visit. I have such great memories of the boys when they spent summers with all of us, getting in trouble! The time I spent in San Diego will always be cherished for ever. I pray for all of you. I try to keep each memory alive in my heart and mind each day,( of Wayne) and know I will keep memories of Barry to . I know Wayne was there waiting for Barry and I,m sure they will have alot to talk about. And I know we have two Guardian Angels watching over us all. You will see signs all around you so watch for them. I've seen them. We Love you all. You will all be in our prayers. Love Rhonda (Peterson) Hislip
Shane Gesler
October 24, 2005
Aunt Donna and Uncle John. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Barry was absolutely a character, who could make anyone laugh and smile. Dad and Donna, Brent and I, and Mom have you in our prayers. God Bless. Love your nephew, Shane
George & Lois Perrault
October 21, 2005
Dear Donna, John, Bryan & Nikki:
Lois & I were so shocked and heart broken to hear the news on Barry. Our fondest memories are when we were neighbors in San Diego (66-70). How the three boys liked to tease baby Lori, but also had a lot of fun with her. We could go on and on. Our love goes out to all of you. Keep the faith and take care of each other.
Your friends of 39 years.
Lois & George & Family
Saline, Mi.
Dick Cearfoss
October 19, 2005
Dear John,Donna and family
It was such a blow to hear of Barry's passing. He was always bright and cheerful and full of it. I know that the Lord will have a special place for him. May the Lord help you to get through this hard time.
Diane Stahl
October 19, 2005
Dear John, Donna and family:
What a shock to learn of Barry's
passing! It's so hard to believe he is gone. Dick and I always enjoyed being around the boys when
they were little. Barry was never without a new idea or clever answer
to a problem. He would carry Blackie
around like a baby and talk to him
for hours. Well, we have a special
angel and I'm sure will be standing
watch to welcome the rest of us.
All my love and sympathy to all of
you at this dark hour.
Sincerely, Diane
Denny & Donna Peterson
October 18, 2005
Dearest Barry,
In our hearts you will always remain the loving young man who spent vacations in Wisconsin with us. We love you now as we loved you then. Now we have two angels in heaven.
Love,
Lori Chapman Gatheral
October 18, 2005
To Barry's Family,
My deepest sympathy for your tragic loss. I first met Barry in the seventh grade at Sacred Heart School, and we remained dear friends throughout our high school years, with many terrific memories. He was always a true friend and always eager to help. It has been over ten years since I last saw Barry and I was shocked to hear of his passing. May your fond memories get you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Lori Gatheral
Cheri Siverling
October 17, 2005
Dearest Bryan,
I can't begin to tell you how much the "Peterson's" enjoyed the summers that we spent with you and Barry!! We had so much fun and so many memories that I will cherish for a lifetime!! Barry always made me smile and laugh!! And oh what a proud Daddy he was of his son Brett!! He would talk with me for hours on the phone about his precious son!! I'm sure Wayne was there to welcome Barry home!! But, both he and Wayne will not have to suffer anymore!! They are both in a better place even though our hearts are broken!! I'm sure their laughing and singing up a storm right now!!
I will miss my chats on the phone with Barry! But, someday we will all be together again and we will have no more pain or suffering!! Bryan, my deepest sympathy to you and your Mom and Dad and the rest of your family! Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers and we love you all very much!! I feel as though I lost another brother, but God has brought another angel home and he and Wayne will always be there for us as our guardian angels! The signs are there - you just have to look for them!! I have seen mine!
I love you!
Emily Daingerfield
October 17, 2005
Nikki, Bryan, Marc and the Gullickson family; I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all family members and friends of Barry. Keep strong by embracing the wonderful memories that you will always share with him.
Alicia Alvarez
October 17, 2005
Bryan, Nikki, Jay, and Marc- Just want to send you all my love and prayers. I wish I was home and miss you all. Keep your heads up! I love you!
Kristi Hayes
October 17, 2005
John, Donna, Bryan and Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could have gotten to spend more time with Barry. I have such great memories when we would all get together. I know that Wayne is there with him. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. My love to you! Kristi
Robin Shinn
October 16, 2005
My Dearest Barry,
Even though we were just recently divorced, I always truly loved and admired you. What I will remember most about you is that teriffic smile I loved so much and the gentlemen you really were, always willing to help someone out. You will always hold a special place in my heart. We shared some wonderful memories that I will always treasure, and will always make sure that Brett, our beautiful son, knows what a terrific father and person you really were. I am so sorry things did not work out so well for us, but I know someday we will all be together again.
All my Love, Robin
Cheryl (Blanche) (Turner) Main
October 14, 2005
Bryan, Nicki and the Gullickson family,
I was so sad to hear of Barry's passing this morning from Susan. My heart goes out to you all. Barry will always be remembered for his smile and laugh. He was such a great person to be around. I will never forget Barry and how fortunate I was to know him.
My prayers are with you at this time.
Michael Lowry
October 14, 2005
To Barry's family,
I'm very sorry to hear of this sad news.I've known Barry from his days at Southeastern Tech.We were there together in the early 80's. We worked at EB for a few years as well. It's hard to believe the reality of all this. I can only imagine the pain and shock you all are going thru.I will pray for you to some day find peace and smile again.Barry will always be remembered for his positive and friendly disposition. Every time he was around he was always smiling and happy. He was always "cool"! I enjoyed his company and will always remember him like that.He will be missed greatly.I'm truly sorry for your loss.
Carol Cerreto - Burke
October 14, 2005
I would like to offer my deeepest sincerest condolences to Robin and Bret. I will always remeber Barry's smile and sense of humor. But more importantly I will always remember how much he loved Robin and Bret. Please know that Barry is in my prayers as your are also.
Carol Cerreto - Burke
October 14, 2005
I would like to off my condolences to the Gullickson family. Barry will be missed.
Susan Winton
October 14, 2005
We at Longwood just wanted to send our deepest condolences to Bryan and the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this tragic time. God Bless.
Allison Vary
October 14, 2005
Uncle Barry you were the best guy around when i was younger and i learned so much from you. I know as i got older you and my father stopped hanging out as much so you werent around as much but you were still in my heart all the time. I am sorry to see you go and i wish i could of made a better effort to stay in touch. your loved and missed so much.
we love you truly -- the vary family
The Gullickson Family
October 14, 2005
We would like to thank everyone for their support during this tragic time. Your thught and prayers are greatly appreciated. -The Gullickson Family-
The Gullickson Family
October 14, 2005
We would like to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers through this tragic time. Your constant support is greatly appreciated. -The Gullickson Family-
Robert R. Demars
October 14, 2005
Barry, You were a good kid and had one of the greatest smilesI have seen. I hope your son will some day hear about your days at St. B's and what a happy person you were and how you were always willing to help. You were a hard working kid and a pleasure to work with. May you find the peace that only The Eternal Father can give. Eternal rest--- Coach Demars
Gold Star Homes
October 14, 2005
We were stunned to hear that Barry has passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sandi Kirk, Steve Delaporta & Joe Lampasona
Robin Glaze-Dunbar
October 14, 2005
To Barry's family, I was sadden to see the passing of Barry. We were high school friends and I would see him on occasion at my place of employment. I loved running into Barry he always had a smile and I loved our chats about days gone by. I held such high regards for Barry, and will miss him dearly.
Jennifer Kayser
October 14, 2005
I just wanted to send my deepest condolences to the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this tragic time. God Bless.
Bess Jessop
October 13, 2005
Barry, To a friend that Brad and I will miss dearly. Our dinner plans will now have to wait until we meet again. You were so proud of your son and he will someday understand what a great Dad he had and how much you loved him. We will miss you.
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