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Christian Alexander Hird

1998 - 2020

Christian Alexander Hird obituary, 1998-2020, New London, CT

BORN

1998

DIED

2020

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Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London

12 Ocean Avenue

New London, Connecticut

Christian Hird Obituary

New London - Christian Alexander Hird, 22, of New London, passed away Dec. 25, 2020. He was born Dec. 24, 1998, in New London, the son of Tricia Sneider and Ian Hird and brother of Meredith and Brendan Hird.

Raised in both New London and Waterford, Christian was very active in youth sports. He played on several soccer and lacrosse teams. Golfing since the age of two, he played in leagues throughout southeastern Connecticut. As a runner, he participated in many children's road races including the Hershey Youth track meets. Another of Christian's passions was swimming on the Camel, CAC and CAT teams. One highlight of his swimming career was setting the Camel team record for the eight and under 200 freestyle. His love for water sports carried on in later years when he rowed for the Blood Street Sculls.

Christian appreciated the family community of the Catholic schools. He graduated from St. Joseph School in New London where he was involved in their activities. Always happy to help, Christian participated in their Santa's Workshop, Pancake Breakfast and Shamrock Tea events. One of his favorite memories was spending every first Friday with his classmates at Ocean Pizza. Once a week, he and his friends assisted at the senior community at Kindred Crossings, an experience he found rewarding. He matriculated at the Saint Bernard School in Uncasville. As a member of St. Bernard's Class of 2017, Christian's dedication to school continued. He was a member of the soccer, track and golf teams. As way to give back, he served as both a senior leader and student ambassador. Although he loved the camaraderie of sports, it was in the music department that he found his passion. As a member of the school choir, Christian performed at St. Patrick's Cathedral in New York City, Disney and the Vatican in Rome. During the trip to Rome, Christian took a picture with the Pope in the background. While he hadn't noticed, the Italian police did; a story he enjoyed retelling.

Christian enjoyed working at his various summer jobs, including Camp Dash, Camp Harkness and the Mystic YMCA. He especially adored working with his sister at the Mystic Y. He loved spending time with his siblings and cousins, whether it was building Legos, skiing or hanging at Pequot Beach in New London. He treasured his dogs, Jaffa and Buddy, as well as his gecko Filipe. A kind and gentle soul, Christian was known for his humor and was a constant source of entertainment for his family and numerous friends.

Survivors include his parents Tricia Sneider and Ian Hird; older sister Meredith Hird; and younger brother Brendan Hird; as well as his paternal grandmother Marion Stubbs. He was blessed to spend the last year and half with the love of his life, Bree Bohle, by his side. He leaves behind several loving aunts, uncles and cousins, as well as many caring friends. Christian's loving nature and sense of humor endeared him to the many wonderful people he met throughout his life.

A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday Dec. 31, at St. Joseph Church, corner of Squire Street and Montauk Avenue, New London. Interment will follow in St. Mary Cemetery, Jefferson Avenue, New London. Due to COVID-19 regulations, we ask that those in attendance be mindful of social distancing and wear a mask at all times. Kindly omit flowers. Donations in his memory may be made to St. Bernard School. The Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London, is assisting the family with the arrangements.

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Published by The Day on Dec. 28, 2020.

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Linda Walsh

January 3, 2021

Dear Tricia and Family,
Two of our mutual friends called to tell me about your terrible news. Although I never met your Christian, he was, beyond a doubt, an incredibly accomplished young man whose gentle spirit drew everyone to him. I am so very sorry for your loss and the empty sadness that you’re experiencing.
My deepest sympathies, Linda Walsh

Victoria Hersant

January 2, 2021

Trish,
I remember the days, almost 10 years ago now, when you and my mother would joke about Christian and I getting married one day. He will always hold a special place in my heart, and in the hearts of all of us as we drive by Ocean pizza, remembering those happy and beautiful moments with him. I am so sorry for your loss, he was truly an amazing human being.

The Britners

January 2, 2021

Trish, Brendan, Meredith, and family,
We are so sorry for your loss.

Steve and Sue Durham

January 1, 2021

We are so sorry for the loss of your son and brother taken from you far to soon. Our prayers are with you.

Lisa Paterno

December 31, 2020

Trish and Family

My sincere and deepest condolences. I am sorry to hear of Christian’s passing.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Lillian Kennedy

December 31, 2020

To Meredith and Family - So sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. We send our deepest sympathy.
Love Dave, Lillian and David Kennedy

Aharon

December 31, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about this tragic loss, I didn’t know him for long but I met him at school and we had a lot of good memories together. He had a big impact on me and to this day even though we don’t talk much I still think about him and talk about the days of the past amongst others that knew him and those that didn’t. He was a great kid, he was very kind, funny and honestly, in a good way, one of the more unique and interesting people I’ve met and I am very happy to have known him.

Siobhan

December 31, 2020

Trish, Ian, Meredith and Brendan,

Our hearts ache for you.

Siobhan, John, Giancarlo & Massimo

Siobhan

December 31, 2020

Trish, Ian, Meredith and Brendan,

Our hearts ache for you.

Siobhan, John, Giancarlo & Massimo

Pete

December 30, 2020

Ian and Meredith, So terribly sorry to hear about Christian. Thinking of you guys in these hard times

Jaclyn

December 30, 2020

Ian & Meredith my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ❤

Marilyn Goodman

December 30, 2020

Dear Tricia, Ian and Family,
There are no words to express my sorrow at your loss. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that I love you.

Marilyn

Mace & Laurie Lewis

December 29, 2020

All our love is being sent to you and your family during this devastating time. Please know we are holding you tight as you grieve this unimaginable loss.

Nissi

December 29, 2020

Ian and Meredith praying for you and your family ❤

Eoin, Deirdre and Pat Reeves

December 29, 2020

Dear Tricia and family, we are so sorry to learn of Christian's passing. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of all your cousins in Ireland.

Mary Ellen Masciale

December 29, 2020

We hope your hearts are full of happy memories to sustain you in your grief, and we wish you peace. Our deepest sympathies to your entire family.
The Bonser Family

Karen Feanciosi

December 29, 2020

So very sorry for your loss. Christian was a kind and wonderful boy.
Karen Franciosi

Chelsea

December 29, 2020

Meredith and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all, through this difficult time.
With love,
Chelsea

Craig

December 29, 2020

Ian and family - I am so sorry for your loss. You are an incredible father and he was so blessed to have you.

Michele Vecchitto

December 29, 2020

Sending thoughts and prayers to Christian's family. He was a lovely boy and such a kind-natured student. He will be remembered fondly.

Larry Croxton

December 29, 2020

Tricia, Meredith and Brendan, we are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to you and the rest of your extended family.

Veronica

December 29, 2020

Tricia, Ian, Meredith, and Brendan,

Words cannot express my feelings of sorrow at learning this news. God bless you.

Stephanie Codner ( Melocowsky)

December 29, 2020

Trish, Brendan, and family,

We have known your family since Brendan and the girls started kindergarten. I have memories of Christian at The Dewit's house, sailing at the yacht club, and smiling in the halls of St. Joe's and St. Bernard's. He was always smiling. Your family is in our thoughts and in our prayers. We hope you find comfort in the memories shared and in your faith. Look for the all the signs that will let you know that Christian is with you. We are so very sorry for your loss.

With all our love,

Stephanie, Allison, and Caroline Codner

Mary Neilan

December 29, 2020

So deeply sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful boy.

Marina Britos-Swain

December 28, 2020

Christian was such a kind person always made those around him laugh and never failed to make people feel included. I have many fond memories of Christian from our trip to Disney to choir practice to watching movies together after school in the game room at Saint Bernards. My family and I will miss our friend dearly and send prayers to his family and fellow friends. Rest In Peace Christian, we love you.

Jane Oliver

December 28, 2020

Tricia and Ian,
This breaks my heart to hear of this tragic loss......may you find peace.
Jane Oliver

Kathy Calnen

December 28, 2020

The McKinley family extends our deepest condolences. Kat and Anna have fond memories of Christian from their days at St Bernard. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jonathan

December 28, 2020

I became friends with Christian while working alongside him during summer camp. We guarded the beach together and quickly became friends. I will miss the jokes and laughs we shared . Christian had a heart of gold and will be missed dearly by many.

Jonathan

December 28, 2020

I became friends with Christian while working alongside him during summer camp. We guarded the beach together and quickly became friends. I will miss the jokes and laughs we shared . Christian had a heart of gold and will be missed dearly by many.

Jonathan Denson

December 28, 2020

I became friends with Christian while working alongside him during summer camp. We guarded the beach together and quickly became friends. I will miss the jokes and laughs we shared . Christian had a heart of gold and will be missed dearly by many.

Lisa Riel Abate

December 28, 2020

I am deeply saddened to hear of Christian’s passing. There are no words to adequately express condolences for such a loss. I hope in time memories of his kindness and laughter will bring comfort to his family and friends.

Loving Light Dishgarden

Adrian Sheffield

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Maria (Stevenson) Bolt

December 28, 2020

Oh, Christian, I will always remember that great big smile and boundless energy! Thank you for being my student and an unforgettable part of my life. To you parents, peace is my prayer for you. Blessings and love to the family.

Julia

December 28, 2020

I worked with Christian and Meredith for a few years at summer camp. We quickly became great friends, and they both always brought a smile to peoples faces. Christian made work so much fun! He was funny, kind, and a great person.

Laura Velletri

December 28, 2020

Tricia, much love to your family. We are thinking of you and share your grief.

Laura jepsen velletri

Larry Bevilacqua

December 28, 2020

I remember his wonderfully kind spirit even as a toddler and preschooler. To the amazing family our thoughts and prayers are with you. Larry Bevilacqua, CEO of the Carelot Childrens Center family

Holly Bevilacqua

December 28, 2020

Thoughts and prayers are with your entire family!!! Deepest sympathies!

Laura Light

December 28, 2020

My heart brakes...the Lights will keep you all in our prayers

Polly Ford

December 28, 2020

I remember how much fun and joy Christian brought to our after care program at St. Joe's. Always with a ready smile, full of creative ideas and positive energy. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Taylor

December 28, 2020

Sending my love to the Hird Family, I met Christian briefly at Dunkin Donuts, he was a joy to speak to. His girlfriend is my best friend and told me how wonderful he was to her. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Taylor

December 28, 2020

Sending my love to the Hird Family, I met Christian briefly at Dunkin Donuts, he was a joy to speak to. His girlfriend is my best friend and told me how wonderful he was to her. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Peg Curtin

December 28, 2020

My prayers for your family Tricia. God Bless.

Missy J Whitford

December 28, 2020

Please accept our deepest sympathies to The Hird & Sneider families. You are all in our thoughts & prayers at this time.
Missy J Whitford & Family

Heather Lemire

December 28, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Samantha Rose

December 28, 2020

To Christian’s family and loved ones, I am so sorry for your loss. I met Christian while working at Camp Harkness, and remember thinking that he was a special person from the very beginning. Funny and philosophical, Christian’s spirit shone with openness, sensitivity, and a deeply caring nature. I will remember him fondly. Peace to you.

Dennis Moore

December 28, 2020

Dear Tricia,
No words can ease the pain of your loss, but rest assured you are not without the love of family and friends who are here for you in this time of sorrow. Many prayers to you and your family.

Dennis Moore

December 28, 2020

Dear Tricia,
No words can ease the pain of your loss, but rest assured you are not without the love of family and friends who are here for you in this time of sorrow. Many prayers to you and please do not hesitate to reach out should you need anything.

Dennis Moore

December 28, 2020

No words can ease the pain of your loss, but rest assured you are not without the love of family and friends who are here for you in this time of sorrow. Many prayers to you and please do not hesitate to reach out should you need anything.

Dennis Moore

December 28, 2020

Dear Tricia & family,
No words can ease the pain of your loss, but rest assured you are not without the love of family and friends who are here for you in this time of sorrow. Many prayers to you and please do not hesitate to reach out should you need anything.

Dennis Moore

December 28, 2020

Dear Tricia & family no words can ease the pain of your loss, but rest assured you are not without the love of family and friends who are here for you in this time of sorrow. Many prayers to you and please do not hesitate to reach out should you need anything. Your friend, Dennis Moore(aka bubba) & family.

Donna Bailey

December 28, 2020

Tricia, Ian, Meredith and Brendan,
My deepest condolences to you all. I am happy to have known Christian and the sense of humor and outlook on life was a gift not many had. He could lighten a room with his infectious laugh and keen sense of humor. May your memories fill your hearts and help you through this difficult time.
Donna, Dean and Scott Bailey

Patricia Leroy

December 28, 2020

To the Hird, Arnold, and Ward Families,
It is hard to find the right words to express my sympathy for the loss of the much loved Christian. I ache for all of you and I cry with you. "Fair winds and following seas", Christian. You will be missed forever.

Rocco and Mary Timpano

December 28, 2020

We are very saddened to hear the news and our heart breaks for you. Our deepest condolences to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Christine Synodi & Family

December 28, 2020

Dear Tricia, Ian and family,
We are so heartbroken for you all at the loss of your beautiful son. Christian brought much joy to many in his short time here and will be missed and always remembered. Much peace and love to you all and may God lighten your sorrow with the memories you carry.

Julia Plunkett

December 28, 2020

In the past few days, I have been able to reminisce about the times we shared being partners at the nursing home, doing coloring activities in Kindergarten and joking around as we grew. You were always there with a joke or a new adventure for us to go on. Never too far from the beach. We all miss you and all the laughs you provided us with over the years. The blunt advice you gave us will live on. I’m so sorry to the family.

Marianne Cote

December 28, 2020

On behalf of the St. Joseph School Family, I extend thoughts and prayers for all the members Christian's family, especially his parents and sister and brother. Christian was in our thoughts most recently, as we remembered the time he took the part of Joseph in our Nativity Tableau at Lessons and Carols, as an 8th grader. Christian was a wonderful young man, who has clearly continued his journey in this fashion. Our faith tells us that his goes on...

With Love and Prayers,
Marianne Cote and the SJS Family

Caroline Traynor Chapman

December 28, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss Tricia. My heart breaks for you and your family.
I did not know your son but I can see what an amazing human being he was and what an impact he made on the community.
Please know we are keeping you and your family in our prayers.

Maureen Howley-Brigham

December 28, 2020

Tricia and Ian and family. Please accept my condolences at the loss of your dear son. I will pray for your healing. Always. Mo

Robert Welt

December 28, 2020

Trish - Lora joins me in expressing our sorrow at the loss of your son. You're in our prayers.

Sabina Vogel

December 28, 2020

Dear Tricia and family, I am so heartbroken to read about Christian in today’s Day paper. I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a handsome and talented young man. God Bless his precious soul.
Sabina Vogel

Debbie Lau

December 28, 2020

Trish - I was saddened to read of Christian's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Elizabeth Burdick

December 28, 2020

Dear Trish and Family, My heart breaks for you for the loss of Christian. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Liz Burdick and Family

Erica Watson

December 28, 2020

Trish we send you and your family prayers of Love and support - We are so sorry, and call on God’s loving arms to embrace you~

Erica Watson

December 28, 2020

Trish we send you and your family prayers of Love and support - We are so sorry, and call on God’s loving arms to embrace you~

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