Name: Visitation for Cynthia O'Brien
Start: 2021-04-07T22:00:00.000Z
End: 2021-04-08T00:00:00.000Z
Location: Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home

Salem - Cynthia O'Brien, 50, of Salem entered eternal life April 3, 2021. She was born Oct. 11, 1970, in New York City, N.Y., the beloved daughter of John and Rosemary (Rotunda) O'Brien of Salem.

Moving to Salem at an early age, she attended local schools, and graduated from East Lyme High School. She later received her undergraduate degree from New Haven University. Went on to receive her master's degree from University of Connecticut, and her MBA from Pepperdine University.

She was an amazing mom, which was the most important aspect of her life, devoting all her love, and time, to her three children. Cynthia was currently employed for Pfizer Co. in New London.

Besides her parents, she is survived by her three children, William Stadler, Avery Stadler and Keegan Stadler; and her brother, Sean O'Brien of Virginia.

Her family will receive relatives and friends from 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Avenue, New London. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Thursday, in Our Lady of the Lakes Catholic Church, 752 Norwich-Salem Turnpike, Oakdale. Interment to follow in Salem Green Cemetery, Salem. In lieu of flowers, donation in her memory to, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

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Published by The Day on Apr. 7, 2021.

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26 Entries

barbara thomas

April 4, 2022

Such a beautiful life cut short. May she rest in peace

Kolette

March 31, 2022

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of Cynthia. I miss her.

Barbara Serluca

May 11, 2021

I’m so sorry for your loss! May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Michelle Murphy

April 9, 2021

My sincere condolences on the passing of Cynthia. She was a dynamic person with energy and zest for everything she did evident in the beautiful photo you shared of her. May you find peace and comfort in the wonderful memories.

Carol vara

April 8, 2021

My heart goes out to you Rosemary , Jack and family!! I know your pain and will pray for all of you! God is with you! Carol Vara

Louise

April 8, 2021

Loss is always a difficult time, and I extend my deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss of Cynthia. While we only knew each other as coworkers while in Finance, we would always share stories of our children and chat like we had been long close friends, her kindness and smile made it so easy to do. We are all mourning Cynthia's absence alongside you. I am so sorry for your loss.

Kolette Fly

April 8, 2021

There are no words to adequately express how a room would light up when Cynthia walked in to it. Her smile and her laughter were infectious. She was warm and fierce and her attention to detail was astounding. The love for her 3 children was palpable. Will, Avery and Keegan: Please know your mom could not have loved you more. She was so smart, kind, warm, intense, elegant, compassionate and present. Most importantly, she was so proud of each of you and will be with you every step of your lives. She would have slayed a dragon for you and if anyone could have done it, it was your mom. I, too will miss her forever but will keep her present in all of the warm memories of her impactful but too short life.

Elizabeth Courtney

April 8, 2021

My sincere condolences to Cynthia's entire family. Shocked and saddened to hear of Cynthia passing. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Esther Gowitzke

April 8, 2021

Cynthia and I worked together in finance. I have six kids and we had a lot of discussions on parenting. She was a kind and loving soul. Hugs to her children and family.

Rob Evans

April 8, 2021

I am utterly speechless to read of Cynthia's passing. I have so many memories of not only working with Cynthia but of being a friend. The agony of when Bella ruptured one cruciate ligament, had it repaired in the finest veterinarian hospital she could find in NYC, only for the other one to go a short while later. But with Cynthia's love she made a great recovery. The almost daily reports of trying to have a family and then along came Will, the pride of a mother's face when she brought him into the office which changed to horror as I picked him up without sanitising my hands. What did she expect from a man from the UK! And then it was like waiting for a bus not only did one come along but quickly followed by numbers 2 & 3. The day I noticed she had her long hair cut only to be told by 9 other ladies around the table that it had been cut a week previously!! I will cherish the memories of Cynthia being a co-worker, a mother and most of all a Friend. God Bless, rest in peace, Bella will be waiting for you.

Barbara Gorini

April 8, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Barbara Gorini

Nancy Travers

April 8, 2021

My thoughts and prayers are with Cynthia's family. I'm sending special angel hugs to her children from mom. She was a special lady, who I had the pleasure to work with at Pfizer, and I will always remember her enthusiasm and grace and, of course, her very sweet smile.

Jessica

April 7, 2021

So sorry to hear of the loss of Cynthia. She had such a bright smile and was so kind. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Diane Ferri

April 7, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Cynthia. Rosemary, Jack Sean and Cynthias beautiful children. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love and strength.

Carol Dicesare

April 7, 2021

So shocked to hear of Cindys passing, condolences to Rosemary,Jack,Sean and her children. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

barbara thomas

April 7, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Cara and Jena Falconi

April 7, 2021

Our deepest condolences to Cindy's mom and dad, brother, and Jon. The world lost an incredible woman and we send our love, thoughts, and prayers.

Dear Will, Avery, and Keegan,
We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. We can imagine how difficult this time may be for you and want you to know that your mother was amazing and we know how much she loved each of you. Your mother was a gift to this world and her compassion will carry on through you. She will be deeply missed.
With Love,
Cara & Jena Falconi

Gil Gallant

April 7, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Cynthia. She was a wonderful mother, parental advocate and delightful person. She had a marvelous sense of humor and her smile could light up a room. My deepest condolences to her family.

Kim

April 7, 2021

Cynthia impressed me as someone who not only cared deeply about pulling her weight as a member of a team, but she also cared about connecting with people on a personal level. She was a nurturing soul with a loving light that she was happy to share. I will miss her so much. This is a heavy loss to everyone she touched.

Simoncini/Tirabassi Family

April 7, 2021

Will, Avery, Keegan and the O'Brien family,
We are so very shocked and saddened to hear of Cynthia's Passing. You are all in our Thoughts and Prayers at this very difficult time. I will always remember that beautiful smile, her love for her children and her family. Our Deepest Sympathy Michael & Karen Simoncini and Ian Tirabassi

Maxine and Luke Varanko

April 7, 2021

Rosemary and Jack, our thoughts are with you and Cindy's brother and her children. It is clear from the comments already posted that she was a very special woman of whom you must have been very proud.

Tony Gialpis

April 7, 2021

My sincere condolences to the entire family. I worked with Cynthia at Pfizer for a few years in our finance group. She was such a kind and caring person. Thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

Tony Gialpis

Lisa Feeney

April 7, 2021

We are terribly saddened to hear of the passing of Cindy. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of her family.
Lisa & Joe Feeney

Robin Soule

April 7, 2021

Dear Will, Avery, and Keegan,
I am so very sorry to learn of your mom’s passing. She loved you three so very much and was so committed to ensuring that you had wonderful opportunities to discover your passions and excel. I know how proud she was of each of you. I’m sure you will continue to feel her love and guidance. Sending much love,

Susan

April 7, 2021

I knew Cynthia for a short time. She transitioned a study over to me. I was new in my role and she was the most kind, caring and patient person. She offered to continue be a mentor to me to help me if I ever needed anything in the future. Her compassion for others is rare. Please know she was a bright light in this world. I will always remember that. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Neil & Payton

April 6, 2021

I still can not believe this. Since meeting Cindy, she has been one of the most genuine and concerned individual(s) I have ever met. Always checking on others, always putting her kids, family and friends before herself, offering solid advice when asked, and put any issue aside just to hear and help others. The O’Brien family and friends (including myself) along with the Pfizer and Salem community have suffered a huge and impactful loss.

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