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Doris Sylvia Obituary

Stonington - Doris Elizabeth Sylvia, formerly of Stonington, passed away Wednesday, Sept. 9, 2020. She was the wife of the late Robert "Bobby" Sylvia of Stonington. For the past six years, she lovingly called Nashoba Park Assisted Facility in Ayer, Mass. her home. Born in Westerly in 1934, Doris was the daughter of the late Henry and Helen (Banker) Heinold of Westerly.

Doris, who was lovingly known as Mom, Grammy, Dot and Turtle, had a love of reading, history, travel, fishing and playing cribbage. She met her husband in a soda shop, fell in love and married in 1952. Doris and her late husband raised their four children in Stonington, where she was a dedicated mother to her children and their friends, always having a pitcher of Kool-Aid in the refrigerator and snacks in the cupboard. Additionally, she was a community volunteer including at the Pawcatuck Little League, Stonington Community Center and St. Mary's Catholic Church. In addition to raising her children, Doris worked for two decades in the billing department at the American Velvet Company. After the end of a long week, Doris and Bobby frequently joined their friends Friday evenings at the Harborview Bar in the Stonington Borough.

Upon retirement, Doris spent two decades sharing a wonderful companionship with Lawrence Clay, with whom she shared a mutual love of surf casting, playing cribbage and world travel. She continued to give back to the community serving as the treasurer of the Rhode Island Fisherman's Association and as a deacon of the Ladies Guild at the Stonington Congregational Church. She was also a major fan of the Boston Celtics, Boston Red Sox and Providence College Friars.

Doris is survived by her four children: Roberta Fusari (David) of Groton, Mass., Steven Sylvia (Cheryl) of West Simsbury, David Sylvia (Martha) of Vienna, Va. and Paul Sylvia (Kerry) of Bedford, N.H. She has eight grandchildren: Anna, Jessica and Abby Fusari, Owen, Matthew, Thomas and Grace Sylvia and Vivi Sylvia.

Calling hours will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 17, at the Mystic Funeral Home located on Route 1 in Mystic. Social distancing guidelines will be in place when entering the funeral home for calling hours. A private burial will take place at the Stonington Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Doris' memory to The Michael J. Fox Foundation which has a single, urgent goal to eliminate Parkinson's disease.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 13, 2020.

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Auntie Janet

September 17, 2020

To all of you, I want you to know,your mom was special to me. I saw a lot of her with aunt Lorraine and uncle Gene when I was young then when auntie Carole married uncle Rick we were always at functions together! She is with the love of her life and no longer suffering!

Sharon & David Pacheco

September 15, 2020

Dear Roberta, Seven, David & Paul
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Your mom was a woman of
integrity and great compassion and will be remembered by all who had the joy of knowing her. May all your thoughts be filled with warm and loving memories. God bless you all.

Doreen Banker Gerrish

September 15, 2020

Sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. She was a beautiful person, I remember all the Banker reunions we had with her will miss her. Sending our thoughts and prayers to your family.

Rich Champ

September 14, 2020

So many fond memories of your mom and dad as you all grew up in the borough. Condolences for your loss.

The Shaw - Steve, Chris and Josie

September 13, 2020

Roberta, Steve, David, and Paul,
We're so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. Growing up, I'll always remember her laugh and the many good times that she and your dad had with my parents. She was a wonderful woman and will be missed. We hope you all take care!

the good times that she enjoyed with your dad and my parents. She was certainly one of a kind and will be sorely missed!

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