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Joanne Fowler and family
February 24, 2011
Lorri and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Berend Tober
February 14, 2011
I really liked Gary and his family. I remember having a long discussion where he related fascinating history about the Waterford Country School and his family's direct ties to that wonderful program. I was amazed beyond belief that I was in the presence of a man with such a direct link to such a significant mission right here in Waterford. He was always very friendly and had a warm charisma that immediately earned the friendship, trust, and respect of anyone who had the good fortune to meet him.
john morrissey
February 4, 2011
gary would take up a whole chapter in my avaition career, a good friend and boss at coastal,many happy memories on nankucket,rest in peace big man, shamrock
Brent Devine
February 3, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Howard Smith
February 3, 2011
Lori, I am not good with words but my sympathy goes out to you and your daughter
Love Howard and Edee
Stillman Brown
February 2, 2011
To the Saunders Family
Gary was an example of the people who have "made" the aviation industry. He will be missed.
Melissa Suprin
February 2, 2011
Hugs to both of you. I am sad for your family and wish you all the strength you need right now.
Cathy and Jim Elliott
February 2, 2011
Lorri and Casey, Jim and I were shocked and saddened to hear of Gary's passing. He was a wonderful mentor for our son Jesse in his passion for aviation. We wish you both peace in comfort as hard as it may be to find at this time. He touched so many lives. Cathy and Jim Elliott
David Bartz
February 2, 2011
Dear Cousins Lorrie and Casey,
I am so sorry for the loss of your loving Gary! What a man he was, and still is in your hearts. Though we never became as close as I would have liked, I know that we could easily have become best friends over these years. I very much remember him helping me try to find a corporate flying job when National Airlines went out of business. He called around and we talked many times about many things, including helping me. We also shared that passion for aviation that some have shared in this forum. I wish that I could have found a job in the Northeast, so we could have been closer.
I also remember the lobster dinner, talking by the fire pit at night, watching Gary work on his latest antique vehicle and the wonderful hospitality that your family gave to us when we vacationed in the East in 2004. What a wonderful memory! God bless each of you during these trying times.
Love,
David, Vicki and Lyle Bartz
Annie Chambers
February 2, 2011
Lorri & Casey: I recently had the pleasure of meeting Gary, somewhat interesting as our paths had crossed so many times over the last 30 years. I admired his photo of Casey on the Airplane Tilt a Whirl in his office and he pulled out recent photos of both of you. He was so proud of you and it was obvious that he loved you very much. May the knowledge of that love and pride remain with you both and may you draw on it for comfort and strength in the days, months and years ahead.
February 2, 2011
Lorri & Casey So sorry for your loss..Our thoughts & prayers go out to you at this difficult time..A day with Gary... flying, playing golf or just solving the world's problems was fun & full of laughter. He will be missed & not forgotten.
Paul & Marie Savona
Joan Haiss
February 2, 2011
Lorri, Thinking of you and Gary and the times we shared always brings a smile to my face. I am saddened by this loss and extend my sincere condolences to you and Casey.
Andre Danford
February 2, 2011
Lori and Casey
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Gary. My thoughts are with you both. Peace and Blessings to your entire family.
Chuck & Myra Saunders
February 2, 2011
Lori and Casey, Garooo its Chucker or Uncle Chuck is the way we always greeted each other on the phone. As you know Myra and I flew thru the Grand Canyon with Gary on our way to Vegas. We flew together so many times and shared so many treasured memories. I was a Marine Fighter Pilot but Gary was a better pilot than I ever was. He had "The Right Stuff" that made him the Best ! Myra and I always loved you and Gary and this sad, sad news breaks our heart. Please know that our prayers are with you. Love, Chuck and Myra Saunders in New Mexico
Nick burlingham
February 1, 2011
Lori and Casey, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Gary was so full of life and you two were the stars in it.
With love, Nick and Camille Burlingham
Raylene Taskoski
February 1, 2011
There are people that you meet and are acquainted with for the shortest amount of time before you think, 'I love this guy!' and when you bump into someone else who knows them, you both say 'I love that guy!' That guy was Gary.
I'm so glad I had a chance to reconnect with him at this years Kabaret for Kids, and introduce him to my husband. Even though my husband had only just met Gary the one time, when I told him of Gary's passing he said 'Aww. I loved that Guy.'
I'm so sorry for your loss, Lorri & Casey, and for all our loss as well. Gary will be truly, truly missed.
Kelley Sullivan
February 1, 2011
Keep strong Case. I know you and your mom will because you are such an amazing family. The memories and love will never fade. Your family, friends, and community are in my prayers every day. Keep smiling that beautiful smile.
Eric R. Straub
February 1, 2011
Lorri and Casey,
I worked for Gary in 1979 – 1980 on the fuel line at Coastal Air. I remember his fairness and generosity. He was discerning and very professional. He filled a room with his presence. He packed several lifetimes into his all-too-short stay here on Earth. He followed and pursued his passions - a good lesson for all of us.
I am sorry for your loss.
Mark Scott
February 1, 2011
Dear Lorri, I was shocked to hear the news of Gary, he was a was a very special person that gave so much to so many, I will miss him.
John & Carol Byrne
February 1, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Rev Bill Titus
February 1, 2011
I knew Gary through my employment at WCS (84-03). He will be sadly missed by the program and all associated with it. Thank you for "lending" Gary to us over the years. May God bless you with peace and comfort. Rev Bill Titus
Kelly Cornell Mecartney
January 31, 2011
Lorri and Casey, Gary introduced me to the two greatest loves in my life...flying and my husband. One of the most special days of my life was when he married us at Little Palm Island, with you two there as our sole witnesses. He helped change the course of my life for the better, and I will always smile thinking of our flights together. He always had wings, he's just flying higher, now.
Rick Rakowski
January 31, 2011
Lorri, I only wish that I lived near you longer, and had time to be around you both more. You both gave so much to me while I lived there. I am so sorry for you and Casey, and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, always - 'Slick'
gary schmid
January 31, 2011
Dear Lorri & Casey.. I am deeply saddend by your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I know we will never replace his ability to help any and all and how he would light up a room with his presence..sorry i am on the road and cannot be there with all of you at this time. Gary Schmid & Christian
Amy Pjura
January 31, 2011
Lorri & Casey-
I'm very sorry about you loss. My thoughts are with you during this hard time.
Linda Hanrahan
January 31, 2011
Dear Lorri and Casey... I bought my first airplane from Gary, a Cessna 172 [N4253Q]that had a nearly run out engine and was part of his flight school fleet. I will never forget that two weeks after the purchase the wing tank started leaking. When I asked him what I should do he said, "Nothing...I will take care of it" with a Gary smile. And he did. He was the epitome of character and a totally trustworthy person. What a man. I will surely miss his smiling face.
You are both in my prayers!
heather buscetto
January 31, 2011
Lorri, I was so sad to hear of Gary's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family. He was a great man and I am lucky to have known him. All my love, Heather Buscetto
Lisa Powell
January 31, 2011
Gary will be truly missed, such a wonderful person and an awesome pilot!
Clark Creswell
January 31, 2011
As a long time friend of Gary's, I am saddened by his passing, he was a "bright moment" in life, and will always be remembered for this uplifting quality he imparted. Please know my "thoughts and prayers" are with you.
Deb Dyer Perkins
January 31, 2011
Lorri and Family,
My mother (Mary Jane Dyer) and I are very saddened by Gary's passing. My Dad (Doctor Charles F. Dyer) loved Gary very much! Gary will be greatly missed. Love, Deb Dyer Perkins & Jane
January 31, 2011
Dear Lorri and Casey,
We will all miss Gary for the love and friendship that he has shown our family over the years. His passion for a good time with friends was great. Our many family vacations together have given us all a wealth of memories that we will hold dear to our hearts for years to come. Please know that we are there for you.
Love the Hughes Family, Wilton CT
Bob Brewster
January 31, 2011
Gary will be sorely missed. He was a true professional and the best aviation person I had the pleasure of dealing with over the past thirty plus years. My prayers are with everyone in Gary's family.
Bob Brewster
Port Orange, Florida
January 31, 2011
Dear Lorri and Casey,
So sorry to hear about Gary.
My thoughts are with you.
Fetchie
Ellen Troy
January 31, 2011
I am so sorry to learn about Gary. He touched so many people through his life. My thoughts are with you.
ed kolnaski
January 31, 2011
Lorri and Casey, i was so sorry to hear the news. You both will be in mine and Diane's prayers. Ed Kolnaski
Ellie DeMontigny
January 31, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Gary at columbia. He will be missed and my blessings goes out to your family. Ellie
Barbara Wise/Baca
January 31, 2011
Dear Lori & Family, I was so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. What a Great Husband,Father,& of course Friend. We go back some 40yrs a long time, his Corvett days the crazy good ole days. All the memories may they comfort you and Casey during this very difficult time. My love and prayers are with you. Love Barbara Wise/Baca
Harvey Redak
January 31, 2011
Lorri,Casey,&family, although we have not met, I feel close to you at this time because of my friendship with Gary and my feeling that you reflect the admirable qualties the he showed us all. I know very few people who have managed to polish so many facets of life in one visit to this world. His joy and enthusiasm gave each of us who had the priviledge of knowing him an optimistic feeling that stays beyond his presence. Even with his passing, he remains with us in so many ways. I feel blessed having known him for even part of his life.
Gary Joseph
January 31, 2011
I knew Gary in High School. Although we lost contact over the years, I will always remember his infectious personality. My sincere condolences to his family.
Darcy(Shoreline OB/GYN)
January 31, 2011
Lorri and family,
May you find comfort in all of your memories and stories you share with all of the many friends Gary has made in the short life he had. You will be in my thoughts and prayers
Steve Heard
January 31, 2011
"Lori, I was so saddened to learn that Gary had left us. I trully enjoyed his friendship. He was a true gentleman and professional and he will be missed."
January 31, 2011
Dear Mrs Saunders,
My deepest condolences. I had the honour of working with Gary through my time at Lanmar Aviation. Oh, what a gracious gentleman he was...and he loved his family so...you, Mrs Saunders, graced his PC Screensaver - such were you the Love of his Life, as he always said. I will miss him dearly..his wise words, his kindness and his zest for life....my heart aches for you...find strength in knowing the immense Love he had for you and Casey, and how many people's lives were positively affected by Gary's presence. Christine Shannon, Munich. Germany
David Eneix
January 31, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss Lorri and Casey. Gary was a very generous man who touched so many throughout the years. Gary gave me and many others our first aviation jobs instructing and chartering after graduating from college. He wanted me to succeed and saw to it. I owe where I am today in aviation to Gary. In fact I still use alot of his personal sayings to me on my own kids today. He will be missed but never forgotten. Blue skies and tailwinds Gary...
Garry Weiss
January 30, 2011
Lori and Family,
Janet and I are so sorry for your loss. We will truly miss him,we had such great fun talking at the lambs this summer. He will always be remembered as a wonderful caring person always ready to lend a hand. His eyes would light up every time he talked about you and Casey. We should all live our lives like Gary. There are many great pilots up in heaven, I just wished that they didn't need him this soon.
Judy Dimmock
January 30, 2011
Lorri, I'm so very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. My thoughts are with you and Casey.
Marge Byrne
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey, Gary was truly one of the kindest men that I ever had the pleasure to meet. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and Casey. He will be missed dearly.
Katrina Ocampo-Sheehan
January 30, 2011
Dear Lorri & Casey,
There are no words to express how sorry I am of your tragic loss. Certainly a precious life taken too soon. May the memories you've shared over the years comfort you in some way during this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Pete Sejersen
January 30, 2011
Dear Lori and Casey,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Gary took a chance and offered me my very first flying job, when I was a brand new and inexperienced flight instructor. I wouldn't be where I am today, if it wasn't for Gary. I often fly over Groton airport on the way to Europe and every time it brings back great memories of working for Gary at Coastal Air Services nearly 25 years ago. I know he will be missed by many.
john bailey
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey,
I have known Gary for over 40 years. He was a friend and business competitor for years. He was always bright, honest and one of the good guys in the aviation business. I worked with him recently on a repo case and was very impressed with his knowledge and expertise in the matter. I will miss him at our table during our monthly club meetings in Groton. He will be remembered with respect and admiration for ever.
Joann Trudelle
January 30, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Steve Mag
January 30, 2011
Lori and Casey, We go back 47 some years experiencing a little bit of everything in life. I was present during so many different situations and I have always know that Gary was a righteous man.
Lori and Casey, cares and prayers.
January 30, 2011
Dear Lorri and Casey, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Gary was truly an extrodinary man, he was always so funny and very loving. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. Paul, Crystal, Cerina and Paulie Albamonti
Wayne Savluk
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey,Our deepest condolences go out to you in this very difficult time. Although i didnt know Gary as long as i would have liked to, his friendship ment so very much to me. May you find comfort in knowing what a great man Gary was and how much he felt for his passions, the greatest was family.
Joe Heap
January 30, 2011
Lori, After I heard the tragic news, I sat remembering the great times Gary and I had. We met in summer school when we were both Freshman in high school, my Dad was the teacher and we always had a great time both in and out of class. He was a great guy. He will be missed.
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey we are so sad to hear of your loss. You know how much he meant to me. MY LAST MEMORY of him, as August 28 2010,when he officiated the wedding for Melissa and Tommy. He will be missed by all who knew him .
Anna and Jeff
Umile Guido
January 30, 2011
Gary was a major reason why I enjoyed working at Lanmar Aviation. His outgoing personality always brightened my day. He helped make the work day very enjoyable. I am very sad to hear of his passing. My prayers go out to his wife, daughter, and those close to him. Rest in peace, Gary.
Anne & George Yarnall
January 30, 2011
Lorri - We are shocked and terribly sad to hear the news. So many joyful times with that guy - just so hard to believe. Very best wishes for healing and peace for you and Casey. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lots of love,
January 30, 2011
Dear Lori and Casey, e are so sorry to hear about Gary, he truly was a great man. We will miss him. our thoughts and prayers are with you. Janet, Rich JJ and Paul
Shelly Hardwick
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey,
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. May you find strength and comfort in your family and friends during this difficult time.
Shelly Hardwick
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey,
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. May you find strength in your family and friends during this time.
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey:
The only thing close to being as big as Gary's heart was his hug and his smile. We send our hugs and smiles to you to wrap you in whatever comfort we can offer as we take our own in the many memories we have of our Gary. With all of our love -- Bob, Kathy, Brittany and Ian
Steven Wilson
January 30, 2011
Sorry about this, Gary was a great guy, I had the pleasure of chatting with him many times at Linders - he always had time to say hello even if he didn't know someone that well.
January 30, 2011
Lorri & Family, I was so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He was a Wonderful-Kind Friend. We go back to his Corvett years what a crazy time but we all had so much fun. Going to Mrs. Saunders house at Christmas and she would have made those Great Bourbon Balls."You kids can have 2 and that's all". Even after all these years I would hear a plane fly over head and think could that be Gary & Lorri? My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Barbara Wise Baca, Santa Fe New Mexico
Tom & Diane Harrington
January 30, 2011
Our thoughts are with you. May the memories you shared help comfort you.
January 30, 2011
Lori, we are saddened to hear of Gary's passing ...I wish there was more I could say to lessen the pain in your heart.....We 've known each other so very long and have a very heavy heart along with you and you daughter.....We are so very sorry for your loss. He'll be in our prayers , ....Larry & Linda Elliott
January 30, 2011
Lori, Casey, and family. We are so sad. As you know Gary was such a close friend and we spent so much time just talking about how fortunate we were to recover from heart surgery and go on to share our lives with our wives and that special relationship we shared with our daughters. Casey, your dad was soooooo excited when he surprised you with a car. Our trip to Florida in the Meridian was a classic,with SIX at the controls. We spent hours driving and rembering where Gary lived growing up. Robin and I are in LA so unable to attend Monday but will be with you in spirit and hope to visit with you Lori and Casey next week. Robin and Randy Bonnist
Alison Holloway
January 30, 2011
Lorri & Casey - my heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Barbara Zarcone
January 30, 2011
Lori and Casey, I am so sorry to hear of Gary's untimely passing. He will be missed by many. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time and in the future.
January 30, 2011
To Lori, I was so shocked to hear of Mr. Six's passing. It's been a long time, but I remember our days in Nantucket the 4 of us when you would come out to the island. Please know he was a great mentor to me, teaching me the ropes of the aviation world. "Trim is your friend" It's because of people like Gary and yourself that make this world a little easier to live in. My deapest condolences.
Suzanne Smith Rathbun
Carole (Lee) Baier
January 30, 2011
To Gary's family, I'm so sorry to learn of Gary's passing. May your memories bring you comfort at this most difficult time. You are in my prayers.
Jesse Elliott
January 30, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Mr. Saunders, as a young pilot he provided me with career advice whenever asked. He was one of the nicest people in the aviation world and will be deeply missed.
Karin and Ted Genard
January 30, 2011
Lorri,
We send our heartfelt sympathy to you and Casey for your loss. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Keith Caron
January 30, 2011
Lorri & Casey,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Gary was a great friend that we will miss dearly and will not be forgotten.
Keith, Margo & Kelim Caron
Kim Thibeau
January 30, 2011
Casey and Mrs. Saunders-
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Ms. Thibeau
Cathy Tackling
January 30, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you. During my time at Columbia Air Services Gary was so friendly and kind. I really enjoyed working with him.
Susan Woodworth
January 30, 2011
Lori and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Martin Weiss
January 30, 2011
To the Saunders Family,
I first met Gary a few years back when I was purchasing a new airplane. He was up front with me and gave honest and candid advice with the ultimate suggestion that another plane I had found from a private owner was a "heck of a deal" and to buy it, or else he would! Then I made his acquaintance once again when i had the honor of joining the Groton Quiet Birdmen in which he served as an officer. He was, and will remain, a leader among men and a testament to a life well lived. I regret not having had time to become a close friend and envious of the hundreds of others who did earn that privilege. My sincere condolences at this most difficult time.
Sandy LaValley
January 30, 2011
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts and prayers of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Gary was a wonderful man who touched everyone he met.
Barry Alexander
January 30, 2011
Dear Lori, Casey, and family,
Gary and I became friends in 1983 when I was a new aircraft salesman in Portland, Maine.
Gary and I spoke often, our paths crossed frequently, and his ethical aircraft sales practices were his signature.
I will miss him dearly.
Stacy Radford
January 30, 2011
Lorri, So sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Jane Shaver
January 30, 2011
goodbye my old friend. thanks for giving my lovely friend Lori and your wonderful daughter Casey the best of your life.So many will miss you.
Jane Shaver
William Brower
January 30, 2011
Dear Lori and Family, I am so sorry about Gary's passing. He was a good friend. He instructed me in getting my Private Pilot License in Groton. He was a great instructor and a great guy. I'll miss him at our QB meetings. Bill and Linda Brower
Willard Family
January 30, 2011
Lori and Casey, We are sorry for your loss, we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Gary will be missed at our poker games.
January 30, 2011
From Charles Lindbergh "" . . . If I take the wings of the morning,
and dwell in the innermost parts of the sea.
I had the fortunate opportunity to meet Gary 2 yrs ago when he bought some of my late dad's Aviation books. He shared his passion of flying with me; Although my dad was a Simple Cessna man, he also had the POF ( Passion of Flying ). I offer my sympathy to your family and know when you hear the gentle humm of a plane above, it is his spirit watching out over you all.
Sincerely,
Joanne ( Slossberg ) Kelly
daughter of the Late Great
George E. Slossberg
HFD
January 30, 2011
Lori, We are so very sorry to hear of your deep loss, we are in SC right now and will not be able to be with you at this most sad time for you & your family but please know your are in our thoughts & prayers.
Gary was a great man & will be sadly missed.
With our deepest sympathy,
Skip & Birdie Conti
Gladstone Family
January 30, 2011
Lorri & Casey,
My family and I wish you our heartfelt sympathy. We feel very privilaged to have shared countless great times over many years with our friend Gary. His memory and the numerous conversations over a wide array of topics will resinate with me forever. He surely lived life to the fullest, always giving his unconditional love and support to anyone in need. There were very few conversaton we had that didn't mention how much he loved his family, friends and the Waterford Country School.
January 30, 2011
Gary, As I look into the sky everyday, I will always look for you. Thank you always for your friendship.
Big Boy
Lori Burdick
January 30, 2011
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Gary Bertman,MD
January 30, 2011
The loss of my friend Gary is so painful and upsetting. I remember him in so many ways and with warmth in my heart. He was my first flight px as a new ame. He had such a zeal for life. As short a life as it was Gary lived many lifetimes and shared many memories with so many folks. We send Our prayers for the family and loved ones.
Dorothy Rideout
January 30, 2011
Lorri and Casey, my deepest sympathy to you both.
I had the honor of knowing Gary as his dental hygienist which of course , when you know Gary, means his friend. Gary's smile and laugh were contagious. Our visits always encompassed his pride and love of you. His encouragement for me to have my family is the best advice I ever recieved. He truly was a beautiful man. I will miss him dearly. My love and deepest sympathy , Dorothy
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