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Waterford - James Wilmer Wadlow Jr., 85, of 129 Oswegatchie Rd., died Sunday, April 26, 2009, at his home in Waterford.

He was born on Friday, July 13, 1923, in North Edgecomb, Maine. He was the son of the late James W. Wadlow and Frances Millet Dunphe Wadlow. He was married to Margaret Diana Heatley on July 10, 1954, in the Little Church Around the Corner, in Manhattan, N.Y. At the time they married Margaret was an employee of the Pfizer Purchasing Department at Groton.

Mr. Wadlow was a graduate of Brooklyn Technical High School, of Brooklyn, N.Y. and the Polytechnic Institute of Brooklyn, N.Y class of 1949.

He was a World War II veteran, serving first in Norden bombsight and automatic pilot maintenance for B-17s and B-29s in the Army Air Corps. After completing Medical Administrative O.C.S. in Carlisle Barracks, Pa., he served as Transport Surgeon on the troop transport S.S. New Bern Victory.

After graduation from Brooklyn Technical High School Mr. Wadlow worked for the Warner Instutute for Therapeutic Research in New York. After a short period he was hired by John McKeen then Asst Superintendent of Chas. Pfizer & Co. in Brooklyn where he attended B.P.I at night. He entered the army in 1943, returned to B.P.I in 1946, to complete his education. He then returned to Pfizer, in Brooklyn, transferred to Groton where he was a Chemical Engineer and Assistant Manager in the Antibiotic Recovery and Penicillin Recovery Departments, retiring in 1986 after 42 years.

He was a member of the Civil Air Patrol, serving as Commander of the Groton Squadron, and the Eastern Connecticut Group. He was assigned to the Connecticut Wing, CAP. He was co-founder, and past president of the Thames Valley Flying Club and over the years gave many young people their first flying experiences.

He was Treasurer of the Republican Town Committee for ten years. He was appointed to the Zoning Board of Appeals and was later elected and re-elected for eight four-year terms. He also served on a Charter Revision Committee in Waterford

He was president of the Oswegatchie Colony Association, the Waterford Civic Association and the Eastern Connecticut Chemists and Chemical Engineers Club.

Mr. Wadlow was a member of the First Church of Christ in New London, where he served as trustee, deacon, moderator, on a pastoral search committee, chairman of the parish house building committee and the churches 350th anniversary committee.

He traveled extensively with his wife.

In addition to his wife, two daughters, Joyce W. Finn of Waterford and Kathe W. Yost and husband, George P. Yost of Waterford; a son, James W. Wadlow, III of Waterford; three granddaughters, Gretchen Y. Lally and husband, Michael D. Lally, Jacquelyn M. Yost all of Waterford, Meghan C. Yost of Orlando, Fla. and great-grandson, Christopher M. Lally survive him. He is also survived by a loving friend, Georgina Kyeremah of Worchester, Mass.

There will be no calling hours. Memorial Service will be held at 6:30 p.m. on Tuesday, May 5, at the First Congregational Church of New London, 66 Union St., New London. The burial to be held in North Edgecomb, Maine will be private.

Memorial donations may be made to First Congregational Church of New London Memorial Fund, 66 Union St., New London, CT 06320; the Edgecomb Congregational Church Memorial Fund, Cross Point Rd., Edgecomb, ME 04556; or the Macular Degeneration Foundation, Inc., P.O.Box 531313, Henderson, NV 89053.

Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington St., New London is assisting the family with the arrangements. Please visit www.byles.com for the family's online registry.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 30, 2009.

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Spence & Sue Williams

May 6, 2009

Jamie and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad.
Our hearts and thoughts are with you.
Your happy memories will help you through this sad time.
May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.

Patricia Booth

May 6, 2009

Joyce,Kathe & Jamie, It was good to see all of you last night. I have such wonderful memories of Mom & Dad and you growing up. Oswegatchie was a great place to live and bring up a family! I am sorry about dad's passing and that mom wasn't able to be there for the memorial service. You and your beautiful families are in my prayers. I will go to see mom soon. Take care & God's blessings be with you. Here's a little prayer that I carry with me. It's called the Prayer for Protection: The light of God surrounds me; The love of God enfolds me; The power of God protects me; The presence of God watches over me. Wherever I am, God is. Much Love...

Tony Hodgson

May 5, 2009

Joyce,
Nancy, Brandy and I send our condolences to you and all your family at the loss of your Dad. Our thoughts are with you.
Nancy, Brandy and Tony

Bob & Marie (Dunphe)Wood

May 4, 2009

To the Wadlow Family,
I have very fond memories of my cousin Jim in Connecticut when I visited as a kid and also in N. Edgecomb for all the family get togethers my whole life on the Sheepscot River. He will be missed a lot for his caring and his dry sense of humor that was pretty much like my father's. Our sympathies and love to the whole family.

Bryan Smith

May 4, 2009

Sorry to hear about your father aunt Joyce, love Bryan.

Aimee Smith

May 4, 2009

Aunt Joyce,
I'm sorry about your dad

Cindy-Marie Smith

May 2, 2009

Dear Joyce, Kathe, and Jamie,
So sorry about your dad passing away. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Cindy

Heather & Andy Yost

May 1, 2009

Dear Kathe - Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Your father was a wonderful man with a warm heart. He will be missed.

Leslie (Olsen) Cragin

April 30, 2009

Dear Mrs. Wadlow, Joyce, Kathe, Jamie & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Family is so important and I know this loss is most difficult to bear. May your happy family memories stay with you and give you great comfort and joy during this most difficult time.

Although I have not lived in Waterford for a very long time, I still keep in touch through the local newspaper. I have fond memories of your family. Take care.

Fred & Doris Sabin

April 30, 2009

Jim and I worked together at Pfizer and shared a deep friendship. Our thoughts, prayers, and love will always be with him, Meg, and their family. May he rest in peace.

Tony & Maida Romaine

April 30, 2009

He was a wonderful family historian and a good friend. Sorry we couldn't spend more time together. We will miss him. May he rest in peace.

Deborah Howland

April 30, 2009

Dear Maggie and Family.
We remember Jim with great fondness. May you know great comfort at this time. You are all in our prayers.
Sincerely,
Rev. Deb Howland & Peter and John Hermansader

Thomas B Heatley

April 30, 2009

Jim truly was a wonderful brother-in-law and a loving husband to my sister, Margaret Diana. He was always willing to help the Heatley family, especially my mother and brothers Bud and Charlie. He also did an outstanding job as a father raising three wonderful children who've turned into considerate, loving, and responsible adults. Credit also goes to their mother. Jim, I will miss you. Joyce, Kathe, and Jamie- I'm so sorry about your Dad's passing. May he rest in peace. Uncle Tommy

Carol Dunphe Walsh

April 30, 2009

Ray Walsh and Carol Dunphe Walsh send our condolences to our cousins Joyce, Kathe and Jamie on the loss of your father. He will be fondly remembered for his desire to keep our ever decreasing Family Tree updated.

janet secchiaroli

April 30, 2009

The First Congregational Church was never the same without Margaret and Jim; I'm glad he is finally at peace. Sincerely, Janet McIntyre Secchiaroli

JOHN AND ORCHIS MOON,JR

April 30, 2009

WE WOULD LIKE TO SEND OUR CONDOLENCES TO THE WADLOW FAMILY. JIM WAS ONE OF THE FINEST TO COME OUT OF PFIZER. HE WAS ALWAYS A GENTLEMAN. I WORKED WITH JIM FOR ABOUT THIRTY YEARS.

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