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John T. DeSantis

9/30/1947 - 3/11/2025

John T. DeSantis obituary, 9/30/1947-3/11/2025, Niantic, CT

BORN

9/30/1947

DIED

3/11/2025

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Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home

48 Grand Street

Niantic, Connecticut

John DeSantis Obituary

Niantic - John T. DeSantis, 77, of Niantic, passed away peacefully March 11, 2025. He was born Sept. 30, 1947, to the late John and Josephine DeSantis of New London.

John's early years were spent in New London, where he attended New London High School and played football throughout his four years before graduating with the class of 1966. That same year, he answered the call to serve his country by enlisting in the U.S. Army. He was deployed to Vietnam from 1967 to 1968 and was honorably discharged in 1969 with the rank of E5 Sergeant. Following his military service, he worked at Amtrak, the Connecticut Labor Department and briefly as a car salesman.

In 1982, John became a proud member of the Laborers' Union and dedicated his career to the trade, serving in officer positions until his retirement. His unwavering commitment to fellow veterans defined much of his life; as a life member of AMVETS, VFW, DAV, and VVA, he worked relentlessly for over fifty-five years to support those who had served.

A man of deep faith, John was an active and devoted member of Saint Agnes Catholic Church in Niantic. He will be forever remembered by his sons, John and Joseph DeSantis; his daughter-in-law Brittany DeSantis; his two granddaughters and grandson; his brother Thomas DeSantis and sister-in-law Cyndi DeSantis; as well as his nephew Kyle DeSantis; and niece Eliza DeSantis-Slowik.

Visitation will be held from 5 to 7 p.m. Friday, March 21, 2025, at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, 48 Grand Street, Niantic. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place at 10 a.m. Saturday, March 22, 2025, at St. Agnes Church, 22 Haigh Avenue, Niantic. After a brief prayer service at St. Mary Cemetery, 600 Jefferson Avenue, New London, a reception will be held at noon at the Waterford VFW, 382 Boston Post Rd., Waterford.

John's legacy of service and dedication will live on in the hearts of those who knew him. May his memory bring comfort and strength to all who mourn his passing.

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Published by The Day on Mar. 16, 2025.

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Elaine Ritucci

March 20, 2025

A beloved friend always, a classmate N.L.H.S always a beautiful smile.He will be greatly missed. Elaine Podzaline

Danielle Bouchard

March 19, 2025

He was part of our family. We love him and we will miss him a lot. He helped so many people
LOVE. Elie, Chantal and Danielle

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David Ellis

March 17, 2025

My Condolences to the DeSantis family. John played football with my brother in 1966 at New London High. He was a good football player and a great person. He will be missed. Tom, I am very sorry for the loss of your brother.
Sincerely, David Ellis

Dr. John Carroll, Kim & Kim

March 17, 2025

So, so sorry to hear of John's passing. We always looked forward to his visits in our office. Rest in peace John.

Pete McKittrick

March 17, 2025

Sorry for your loss fellow union brother Local 547 Laborers Union

Al&Maureen Contillo

March 16, 2025

Our sincere condolences to the DeSantis family!! He was a good man that loved and supported his family deeply. So sorry John jr and Joey and the whole DeSantis family!!!!

Dave Thibodeau

March 16, 2025

John was a good friend and will be missed. He worked relentlessly for his fellow veterans and has helped many including myself. Condolences to his two boys and his family
Rest in peace John

Dana McFee

March 16, 2025

To John's entire family I express my sincere condolences. I worked with John at New London Motors back in the 90's He could make me laugh with his comedic negativity I likened him to the cartoon character Glum (Gulliver's Travels) who used to say "we're doomed" "it'll never work" RIP old friend!!

Dave Fairman

March 16, 2025

Rest in Peace John

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