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John Ellis

1948 - 2022

John Ellis obituary, 1948-2022, Old Saybrook, CT

BORN

1948

DIED

2022

John Ellis Obituary

Old Saybrook - John Ellis, 73, who played major league baseball for 13 years with the New York Yankees, Cleveland Indians and Texas Rangers, and who established the Connecticut Cancer Foundation in 1987, with his wife Jane, died Tuesday, April 5, 2022, after a second bout with cancer.

First afflicted with the disease in 1986, after both his older siblings, Delores and Richard, died from cancer, he appealed to the Almighty, saying with Jane at his bedside, "You let me live, and I will dedicate my life to helping Connecticut cancer patients." And he did. The Connecticut Cancer Foundation, whose earliest supporters included Mickey Mantle, Whitey Ford, and Billy Martin in 1988, now has an endowment of more than $10 million and has supported countless Connecticut families stricken by cancer.

John Ellis was born in New London in 1948, the son of Mr. and Mrs. Louis Ellis, a U.S. Coast Guardsman. John was a high school star athlete in football, basketball and baseball, where he was nicknamed "New London Strong Boy" and "Moose," as he stood 6 feet, 2 inches tall and weighed 225 pounds. When he heard major league baseball scouts would attend a game his senior year in 1966, he took a cast off his injured hand and hit three home runs that day, one traveling more than 400 feet. He was drafted by the Yankees practically that day. After three years in the minor leagues, John was brought up to the Yankees in 1969. In his first game, he slammed a 457-foot homerun to left center and his major league career had begun.

"When Ellis is around, things seem to happen," said his manager, Ralph Houk. "No matter where he plays, he gives you that added punch." With Thurman Munson on the team taking over as catcher, Houk moved Ellis to first base. Later that season, a hand-written note arrived in the dugout for John Ellis. It was from Lou Gehrig's widow Eleanor in the stands. "To John, for 30 years I have been looking for Lou's successor, if not better, and I am rooting for you. Mrs. Lou." Ellis didn't think there would ever be another Lou Gehrig, but said Gehrig "was a leader who always gave 100 percent. That's the type of guy I want to be."

In the vagaries of baseball, Ellis found himself traded to the Cleveland Indians for Graig Nettles. In three years, he had 322 hits including 31 homeruns and batted .285 in 1974. It was on to the Texas Rangers in 1976, where Ellis was Gaylord Perry's catcher. He retired after the 1981 season and established a highly successful real estate career based in New London.

At an early Cancer Foundation dinner, master of ceremonies Reid MacCluggage, the editor and publisher of The Day in New London, put John Ellis's career in perspective. "Did you know," he said from the podium, "that John hit over .270 six times in his 13-year career? And in 1974, just to pick a year at random, his .285 batting average was higher than Hank Aaron, Pete Rose, Al Kaline, Harmon Killebrew, Willie McCovey, Frank Robinson, Mike Schmidt, Thurman Munson, Johnny Bench, George Brett, Dave Parker, Jim Rice, Billy Williams, Dave Winfield, Robin Yount, and Graig Nettles." "And furthermore," said MacCluggage, "Reggie Jackson had one RBI for every five at bats; John had one for every six. Reggie's lifetime batting average is .262. John's is .262 . . . and John had more assists, fewer errors, and a higher fielding percentage than Reggie."

Then John Ellis introduced Reggie Jackson to that night's dinner crowd of close to a thousand people there to talk and hear about baseball and raise hundreds of thousands of dollars in one night in the fight against cancer. John and Jane Ellis's marriage and partnership in life was dedicated to their Connecticut Cancer Foundation. At the 2020 Celebrity Dinner at the Mohegan Sun, Jane rose to the podium. She talked of a six-year-old boy named Evan she had just met. He had brain cancer and was hooked up to an oxygen tank. "I can't get it out of my mind. Can we even begin to imagine what he has been through? John and I walked away in tears." She put Evan's photo on the large screens in the vast dining hall and asked everyone to take out their cellphones and click on the link everyone just received. "If everyone gives $100 or $50 or whatever you can do, our goal is $25,000," she said. The screen instantly lit up with donation upon donation. In ten minutes, they raised the $25,000. Jane thanked everyone and John Ellis said, "The need in Connecticut is greater than ever. We cannot do it alone. Please give your unconditional support." They raised a total of $600,000 that night. "It has been a privilege. It has been our life," said Jane Ellis.

John was also an avid outdoorsman who loved fishing on Long Island Sound. He was a striper tournament champion and was featured in a May 2017 article in Angler's Journal fittingly headlined "The Battler," because of his hard-nosed spirit in life and in his fight against cancer. In the article, a good friend stated, "He's a tough guy. He confronts things head-on. He's 24/7 thinking of ways to raise money for cancer patients. He just doesn't stop." John woke up each day at 4:30 a.m. ready to take on the world with a smile on his face. If you were blessed enough to know him, he made you laugh often; he shared incredible stories; and he inspired you.

John Ellis is survived by his wife Jane; his daughter Erika and husband Steve Jayne; son John and fiancée Joann Braun; brother Dave and wife Marge; sister Joanie Tarby and husband Tom; and several nieces and nephews; along with Jane's extended family. He was beloved by his family.

In honor of John Ellis, memorial donations to the Connecticut Cancer Foundation would be appreciated to continue the mission of helping Connecticut cancer patients at www.ctcancerfoundation.org. A private Celebration of Life memorial will be planned for a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 10, 2022.

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Jerilyn holmes

October 9, 2024

I worked for John Ellis back in the 80's in Connecticut and Florida.

Robert H. Wilder Jr.

October 4, 2022

I haven´t reached out to John since May 1995 when he represented CHFA in restructuring and selling a 100 unit I completed affordable housing community under construction at the time. We will be refinancing the project soon and I wanted to thank him for all his efforts. While he was a consultant for CHFA John focused on everyone´s interests. Very John Ellis.

Gilly Goodwin

April 17, 2022

Jane,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. You and John made a great team. Thank you for letting me see a glimpse inside the positive impact you both have provided so many people facing tough obstacles. My heart is with you.

Ann M. Buonocore

April 13, 2022

To the family of John Ellis,
My deepest sympathy to all who knew and loved him.
My first real estate job ever at John Ellis & Associates- New London, CT. My dad Henry knew his dad Lou who was working at the office at that time. Lou would do rentals and provide furniture to tenants in need. John told me to go get my license. I did and off to the Highland Park and Gallup Hill apts in Ledyard I went. I learned from the best. From John I learned how to collect rents from late paying tenants at noon on a Sunday late morning with a credit card machine in hand.
I learned how to scope out a building while driving around. Stop and ask if it was for sale and many of the subtle points of "deal making." I am happy to report that but just a few months ago I had the opportunity to talk to John about a property he was helping a fishing buddy attempt to lease and John had not changed one iota from how I remembered him as the new agent on the block. John was still full of enthusiasm and a winning and protective spirit for the fellow he was assisting. I had the chance to reminisce a bit and recant a story from the past when he interviewed me for director position at his firm. My mom dad and sis saw him play ball in Ohio when he was with the Cleveland Indians and as irony would have it.. my first oriental rug purchase got rolled up just days ago for wear and tear. A rug I purchased from a first client I assisted during my beginning days at the firm. May His Memory Be Eternal.

Tom Heatley

April 11, 2022

Jane and the Ellis Family. I was a player on the 1966 Niantic American Legion Baseball team with John. He was the best ballplayer I'd ever played with. I knew that John had a real good chance to play major league baseball. He was gifted, strong,determined, worked hard, and he had plenty of confidence in himself.I remember when the Yankees signed to a contract when the Legion season ended.I will always remember John taking some of the signing money to buy a brand new muscle car. I rode in the car quite a few times. We used to go to the YMCA or Sub Base Gym to work out. Good times. So happy that John did make the majors and played for 13 seasons. Also happy that John dedicated his life's work to raising interest and funds for cancer patients in his state of CT. John liked people and he had a big heart. He sure did touch a lot of people's lives! Rest In Peace, JOHN.

Rob Goodwin

April 11, 2022

Jane and family, I was very saddened by the news. John was a terrific fella and did so much for the community. My prayers are with you at this time

Jim King

April 10, 2022

Jane & Family

I am so sorry that you lost John. We went to high school together and six years in the National Guard. He did so much to help stricken families with cancer and his legacy will go on forever.

Rest easy John,... you did wonderful things with your life and thanks so much for the great memories!

Jane Moriarty

April 10, 2022

Sorry to read of John´s passing; my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Jay Brennan

April 10, 2022

I was very sorry to hear of John's passing, had the pleasure of playing against John before he was drafted. Great ball player,businessman and humanitarian, will be sorely missed, my condolences to his family!

Donna Bienkowski-Smith

April 10, 2022

To Johnny's family I extend my most sincere condolences and heartfelt sympathy. I grew up in the neighborhood and my Parents were close friends with Johnny's parents and the entire family. My Dad had some adventures with Johnny and they remained friends until my Dad passed 4 years ago. In true fashion, Johnny was in touch with me and gave me great comfort. What a compassionate, kind, funny, loyal man.
New London should honor this amazing man somehow permanently. Join me on a committee.
I know there's a hell of a baseball game including Daddy in Heaven today Johnny......play ball!!! Eternal peace xo

(Father) Ed Dempsey

April 10, 2022

In late 1967, as John and Jane were about to marry, the priest, who had intended to witness that marriage, left New London for graduate school. It fell to me to serve as "substitute" for the wedding. I have never forgotten John and Jane's graciousness in accepting this late-coming interloper. May John now reap the harvest of one whose life has been spent in doing good for others, and may gracious hearts accompany him. (Father) Ed Dempsey, Woodstock, CT

Michael & Debra Porretta

April 10, 2022

To the entire Ellis family we are so sorry to here of the loss of John he was a great man who cared and loved life ,may you Rest In Peace , thank you so much for all you have done over the years for the Cancer foundation and the thousands you and your organization has helped god bless you.

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