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John Alan Rathbun

1930 - 2016

John Alan Rathbun obituary, 1930-2016, Groton, CT

BORN

1930

DIED

2016

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Dinoto Funeral Home

17 Pearl St.

Mystic, Connecticut

John Rathbun Obituary

Groton - John Alan Rathbun, of Noank, born in 1930 to Capt. Benjamin F. Rathbun and Anna (Johnson) Rathbun, passed on Thursday, Nov. 10, 2016, due to complications of Luewy Body Disease.

A Noank native, he was a graduate of Fitch Senior High School and UCONN. He joined the ROTC and served in the Korean War. He worked for 35 years as a computer analyst for the phone company.

For 40 years, John was an active participant of AA, helping others achieve sobriety.

John, AKA "Ben's brother," was predeceased by his wife, Evelyn; and his beloved dog, Cleo, the wonder dog.

He is survived by his children, Laura R. Hall, John Rathbun, Nancy Rathbun, James A. Rathbun and their mother, Pat Mayo. He is also survived by his stepdaughters, Elise Cain, Cynthia Dragon and Rachelle Barron; his grandchildren, Kyle Hall, Ellie Hall and Julia Rathbun; his stepgrandchildren, Elliot Cain, David Dragon, Matthew Dragon, Kathryn Dixon and Thea Dixon; and his caregivers, Bernie Mullins and Douglas Bennett.

A funeral service will be held at noon Saturday, Nov. 26, 2016, at the Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., Mystic, with Pastor Vicki Burdick officiating.

In lieu of flowers, donations in John's memory may be made to the Visiting Nurse Association or Hospice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Nov. 13, 2016.

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Stephen Pulaski

November 16, 2016

Dear Laura, Kyle, and Ellie, and all of the Rathbun Family,

I was saddened to learn of John's passing on 11/10/16. While I was living in Noank , John was my neighbor, and I have fond memories of John, and I, having good talks over the fence, and I learned of his wisdom. On other occasions, I appreciated his quick suggestions about how to fix my lawn mower when it puttered out, and with other things on the property! He seemed to have a sixth sense of how to fix things! I am sure he will be missed by all of you. Your family is in my thoughts, and prayers, and my deepest sympathy to all of you.

Stephen Pulaski

November 16, 2016

To Laura, Kyle, and Ellie, and to all of the Rathbun Family,

I was saddened to learn of John's passing on 11/10/16. While I was living in Noank, John was my neighbor, and I have fond memories of John, and I, having good talks over the fence, and I learned of his wisdom. On other occasions, I appreciated his quick suggestions about how to fix my lawn mower when it puttered outor other things on the property! He seemed to have a sixth sense of how to fix things. I am sure he will be missed by all of you. Your family is in my thoughts, and prayers, and my deepest sympathy to all of you.

Donna G

November 15, 2016

Laura,Kyle & Ellie, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your dad and grandfather were a big part of your life. No matter how sick or old you can never prepare yourself for the loss of a loved one. RIP Mr. Rathbun.

Jennifer Couri

November 15, 2016

Condolences to the Rathbun family! Nancy you are in our thoughts! Mary and Jen

Laurel Sweet

November 14, 2016

I'll never forget how John came over to my house and helped out with our flooded basement. He was a great man, a scholar, and a wonderful role model.
Our thoughts go out to all his family and his devoted caregivers

Laurel and Zahra

John Foley

November 13, 2016

Bernie, my thoughts and prayers are with you, John and John's family. John was a very special person touching the lives of so many. Rest In Peace John

Wayne Winslow

November 13, 2016

God Bless you John you will be missed by many good friends, you have always been there to lend support help someone in need.
Please accept my condolences.

David DeBiasi

November 13, 2016

Laura, John, Nancy and James, I am thinking of you at this time of loss. I am happy your dad is in a new place unencumbered by his body and free to soar as he liked to do and you have shown well in the photo you posted here. The corner of Riverview will never be the same. Sorry for your loss.

Lisa King

November 13, 2016

John, Pam, Julia and family you are in our loving prayers as you process through this time of sadness and loss. Love and Light. Lisa & Jeff

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