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1953
DIED
2024
John Spillane Obituary
A graduate of Ledyard High School's VoAg program, John excelled in horticulture, earning numerous local and national awards for his remarkable talents. His passion for plants led him to Longwood Gardens in Pennsylvania, where he further developed his skills and met his first wife, Debbie. They had two children, John J. Spillane of Griswold, and Melissa Kumeiga of Manchester. A gifted gardener and landscape designer, John was once offered an esteemed position at Kew Gardens in London. However, he chose to remain in the U.S. to prioritize his family and pursue a long career as a sheet metal fabricator at E.B.
John's love for nature extended beyond his professional life. He found joy in fishing, gardening, and cooking. Animals were naturally drawn to him - a reflection of his kind and gentle spirit.
In 2018, John married Melody Woodin, a longtime friend who brought immense happiness to his life. Melody has two children, Paul and Eric Woodin of Groton. John is survived by his father, Neil Spillane of Mystic; his beloved wife, Melody Spillane of Groton; siblings, Nancy and Jamie Spillane; children John J. Spillane (Barbara) and Melissa Kumeiga (Craig); grandchildren, Nikki and Logan; as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends who will deeply miss his warm smile.
In lieu of flowers, please plant a tree in honor of John. Aborday.org
A Celebration of Life will be held 1 p.m. Sunday, Jan. 19, at St. Marks Episcopal Church in Mystic.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for John Spillane
Dave Fairman
January 13, 2025
Rest in Peace
Jim Schiessl
January 12, 2025
Lots of fond memoriers working and hanging out with John .... RIP
Linda Robinson
January 12, 2025
My condolences to the family of John Spillane.
Patricia
January 12, 2025
So sorry to hear of Johns passing. He was probably my first friend when we were born. There were some wonderful memories.
richard palazzo
January 12, 2025
worked with john for a number of years at eb. always had a good laugh together may he rest in piece.
Charlie Bruno
January 12, 2025
Very sad to read about John..we worked together...and his son was a close friend with my son...my respect and condolences for the family
John spillane
January 12, 2025
Thank you for some good laughs over the years. I am thankful you shared your love of plants and veggie gardens with me. Had some good times fishing. Love, John
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