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Kyle Startz Obituary
He was born in New London, on March 20, 1989, the third son of John Ray and Lockie (Klewin) Startz. A lifelong resident of this area, he graduated from Ledyard High School, Class of 2007, which is where he met the love of his life, Felicia, who he married on Oct. 11, 2013, in Norwich.
Kyle most recently worked for the American Red Cross as a mobile unit assistant. He loved his job and was so proud and passionate about the career choice that he made. His previous work experiences were with Foxwoods in their landscape department and with Grossman's Seaford Market in Mystic.
Kyle enjoyed playing football and basketball while in high school, keeping the tradition of jersey number 22 in the family. He loved to cook and grill for his wife, wrestle with his dogs, steal recipes from his mom, play paintball with his brothers, and go four-wheeling with his friends. He was an avid movie collector, was always working on upgrading the looks of his vehicles, and he loved having the largest TV. He looked forward to going to Yankee games and spending time in his "man cave" while watching his Dallas Cowboys play. Kyle was a true jokester, had that "one of a kind" smile that everyone loved, and was always one to pitch in and help someone out if they needed a hand.
In addition to his wife, he is survived by his mother, Lockie Startz of Ledyard; his brothers, Bryan Startz of Ledyard and Nick Startz and his wife, Jenny, of Waterford; his grandmother, Lockie Klewin of Mystic; his in-laws, Scott and Leslie Hardy of Ledyard; his sisters-in-law, Trisha Hardy and Mariah Hardy of Ledyard; and also his three nephews.
He was predeceased by his father, John Ray Startz and his grandfather, Charles Francis Klewin.
Relatives and friends are invited to honor his life at a funeral service at 11 a.m. on Friday, April 18, 2014, at Mystic Funeral Home, 51 Williams Ave., Mystic. Calling hours will be held from 9 a.m. to the time of the service. Burial will follow at the close of his services at Elm Grove Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Ledyard Animal Control and Shelter, 889 Colonel Ledyard Highway, Ledyard, CT 06339 or to the American Red Cross via www.redcross.org/ct/donate.
Please visit www.mysticfuneralhome.com to leave an online message of condolence.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kyle Startz
Sue McGonigle
April 21, 2014
Lockie,
I am so sorry to hear about Kyle. Even though I never met him he sounds like he was a wonderful young man. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Karen Klewin Gauthier
April 21, 2014
My condolences to all of you for your families loss. You will all be in my prayers.
Joann Kerr
April 20, 2014
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Dee Knowles
April 19, 2014
Lockie I'm so sorry to hear about Kyles passing. My heart goes out to you, Brian, Nick & his wife. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
April 19, 2014
I worked with Kyle landscaping and was so happy to see him move on to a better work place He was a great kid and a good worker Im so sorry for your loss just a wonderkul kid, my thoughts are with all of you. Brenda, mystic
William Mignault
April 18, 2014
To Felicia, Lockie & family mambers
Kyle left us too soon. However in a short time he left us great memories.
At Ledyard high school he was a very respected player. He always played with hardness and intensity. He took great pride in wearing his number 22 varsity football jersey. Kyle we will miss you very much.
All our sympathy and love.
Bill & Pat Mignault
Michael. & Debra Sargent
April 18, 2014
To the Startz and Hardy family,
We wish you peace, comfort, and courage to face the difficult days ahead, know that you have family and friends who will help you through this sad time. Kyle is gone too soon but his spirit lives on in your hearts.
Our deepest sympathy
Colleen Cooper
April 18, 2014
Sending out strength and prayers to the Startz family. Im am so sorry for this horrible loss. May God watch over you all and just know that Kyle is near the beautiful angels and he is the first brightest star that you see in the dark sky shining down and watching over all if you! <3
Joe & Gina Jullarine
April 18, 2014
Lockie & Family
Please except mine and Gina's deepest sympathies. The loss of a family member is a terrible thing to experience. We are unable to attend the services. Our hearts and prayers will be with you and yours
Sandra & David Pasieka
April 17, 2014
Lockie
I am so sorry to hear about Kyle. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.
Patricia Brigham
April 17, 2014
My heart goes out at this difficult time to everyone who had the wonderful opportunity to know Kyle. His too early passing has created deep sadness in all of our hearts, and I wish for his wife and family much comfort and peace as they manage this unimaginable and painful journey. Kyle was so full of life… his hugs, smiles and positive attitude were inspiring to those around him. Every day became a GREAT day when he arrived!
There is a tradition that says that the stars are but holes in the fabric of heaven which allow the love of our dear ones to shine on us. Shine on, Kyle...with Love & Light & Peace to you and those you will now watch over.
charlene stoddard
April 17, 2014
We're so sorry for you're loss. Life can be so cruel but take comfort in the fact he was welcomed on the other side by his father.
Brenda Morey
April 17, 2014
Sending my thoughts and prayers to all of you.
Brian King
April 16, 2014
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
April 16, 2014
We pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief.
We send you thoughts of comfort. Grandpa Ray.
April Jacques
April 16, 2014
There no words to express my most deepest sympathy for your entire family. I have been going through the walk of the same tragedy and to give you words from my heart believe you will see him again. May god be with you and your family through this most difficult time.I truly feel your pain and loss.
Bonnie Haggan
April 16, 2014
Lockie and family
My deepest sympathies are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Auntie Cheryl
April 16, 2014
Our family will never be the same without Kyle who we loved very very much!! I know that he is in Heaven with his loved ones & ours and they are being taken care of! We will see them again! Love you all! xo
Alissa Johnson
April 16, 2014
Lockie, Bryan and Nick,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and I pray for peace and comfort to all those who love Kyle.
Sharon (Cookie) Burdick
April 16, 2014
Lockie, Felica and family,
I remember when Kyle used to come to my house for picnics. He was such a fun loving kid. It just seems like only yesterday and now he is gone at such a young age.
Aunt Cookie
Bev Nachtwey
April 16, 2014
Thinking Of all of you at This Difficult Time, Hold fast to your Great Memories
With Deep Sympathy , Bev,Dave, Chris Nachtwey & April
April 16, 2014
So very sorry for your loss
Sean Coleman
April 16, 2014
To the entire Startz family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Kyle had a great spirit and we truly enjoyed our time with him when he worked at Grossman's Seafood.
April 16, 2014
Kyle, If we could bring you back again,
For one more hour or day,
We'd express all our unspoken love;
We'd have countless things to say.
If we could bring you back again,
We'd say we treasured you,
And that your presence in our lives
Meant more than we ever knew.
If we could bring you back again,
To tell you what we should,
You'd know how much we miss you now,
And if we could, we would. Love always your Uncle Shane
Keith Dauplaise
April 16, 2014
I am very sorry for your loss. I have worked with Kyle and he always had an infectious smile no matter what kind of day it was. He was a great guy and everybody at work liked and respected him. He will be sorely missed
debra robinson
April 16, 2014
my sympathys to the startzs family, may he R.I.P.
Joe Watters
April 16, 2014
So sorry to hear about Kyle's tragic passing. My family sends our blessings to you in this time of sorrow. God bless.
Linda Esposito
April 16, 2014
Felicia and family, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
Linda Esposito, grandmother of William Southworth
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