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Louis D'Amico Obituary
He was born in New Haven Aug. 22, 1928, the son of Rose and Leo D'Amico. A Political Science graduate of Providence College, Louis went on to pursue a second degree in music at Western Connecticut State University, where he met and married a young singer, his wife of 64 years, Marjorie D'Amico, deceased just 5 months ago.
He is survived by his four children, Vicki Kelly and her husband, Pat, Susan Todd, Pamela Murphy and her husband, Kenneth, and Eddie D'Amico. He was a devoted "Poppy" to his 10 grandchildren, Jay Kelly (Lucille), Kahley Apostolou (Mike), Krysti Todd (Alden), Erin Murphy, Tara Kelly, Ryan Todd, and Nolan, Darren, Trevor and Lucy D'Amico. He was a great-grandfather to Roselyn Kelly.
There are no words to provide adequate testimony for all of Lou's contributions to the Waterford community. He led a colorful, active life; his booming presence always known in a crowd. Lou was a dedicated teacher in the Waterford School System for 40 years; fondly known to his students as "Mr. D". In many instances, his students became an extension of his family. It was not uncommon for him to be approached in public by former students proclaiming how greatly he impacted their lives, often with respect to a love of reading. One former student even dedicated a book he authored to him.
Lou was also a professional musician, lead of the "Lou D'Amico Trio", playing at local weddings and the Light House Inn for over a decade. His musical influence in the community was far reaching, providing personal musical lessons to all ages and voluntarily assembling a youth swing band which performed at charitable functions. He touched many, many lives, both from an educational standpoint and through his musical entertainment.
Lou was an avid sports fan, always attending all of his grandchildren's sporting events. He coached tennis at Clark Lane Middle School, even long into his retirement. He was a loyal and dedicated fan of the Red Sox and Giants, even when these teams were struggling.
A "celebration of Lou's life" will be held in the near future; details to be provided.
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Memories and Condolences
for Louis D'Amico
Sherryl Evans Smith
January 7, 2022
Just wanted to let Pam and her family know that you are all in my thoughts during this time. I miss my parents very much too. God Bless All of You.
Sherryl
March 21, 2019
To The D'Amico Family:
I will always remember Lou with love and admiration- as a young girl he taught me to play the clarinet and as a young woman he and his band provided the music for my wedding. My sincere sympathy for your loss.
Laura Scacciaferro
East Lyme, CT
John Boyle
March 18, 2019
Louis - thank you so much for the gift of jazz, the memories and life lessons taught along the way. Thanks for making English my favorite class. And thanks for teaching us it's a homer if it hits the back wall of the class.
January 18, 2019
My sympathies to the D'Amico family. Mr. D was a great man and teacher. He was always smiling, and always remembering all his "kids". For many years after graduating school, I would see him at the Quaker Hill Post office.He would always stop to chat, asking how I was and how was my family. He knew how to make you feel good about yourself and life.
RIP
Tricia Stapleton Faraci
Kristin Hoagland Erickson
January 18, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of his passing. I was fortunate enough to have him as my teacher in the 7th grade. I'll always remember hearing about the Red Sox in his class. He was a great saxophone player that my dad jammed with. He influenced and inspired me more than any other teacher I had. RIP Mr. D'Amico. You really made a difference in so many lives.
Fran(k) Hoagland
January 17, 2019
He certainly was my favorite teacher! He was inspirational and motivating. He loved the kids and loved what he did! I remember reading The Bounty Trilogy. His passion and enthusiasm led his students to read literature and appreciate it in countless new ways. I couldn't put the books down. Westside Story and every other novel we read was inspired in the same way. He and my Dad played together when Dad needed a fifth instrument or really good sax player. Lou fit the bill. Lou & I also kept in contact through one of my best friends: Dicky Trask from California, adopted son of your Mom's sister. I would see Lou when I was building Quaker Hill Elementary School. Every encounter was special. Know that he was loved and will be missed by me and countless others.
Fran Hoagland
Building Official Town of Waterford (Retired)
Patricia (Mosley)Bove
January 16, 2019
Mr.D'Amico was a very nice teacher and he always had kind words to say to us students,it was a pleasure to have known him when I was at Clark Lane Junior High School
back in the 70's,my condolences, prayers and thoughts are with his family,thank you Mr.D'Amico for believing in us.
Carole (Lee) Baier
January 15, 2019
Dear D'Amico Family, I'm so sorry to learn of Lou's passing. He was a great teacher! He made learning fun and was an inspiration to so many. He had great musical talent and was always a trusted man with a big heart and great wit
Robert Sweeney
January 14, 2019
Mr D'Amico was a dedicated teacher and mentor to multiple generations of students at Clarke Lane Jr High School. A great teacher with a sense of humor and tremendous musician.May he rest in eternal peace.
Bob Sweeney
Doug Grimes
January 14, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of "Mr. D"'s passing. He was a terrific man and a fine musician! I learned a lot about music from him. I couldn't thank him enough for teaching me how to play the saxophone. With his teaching, I became better and better with playing my tenor saxophone. He was truly a gem in the jewelry store of life! God bless him always!
January 14, 2019
I'm sorry to hear about Lou's passing, he was one of my favorite teachers and a good friend through the years. R.I.P
Robbie Murallo
Kathleen (Reagan) and Frank Welch
January 14, 2019
Not just a man, a legend. Everybody in Clark Lane wanted Mr. D'Amico as their teacher, he made it fun because he enjoyed teaching, and us. He made us relax by being an understanding human being, and he was kind.
Later in life I was his neighbor. I could never bring myself to call him "Lou", he was Mr. D'Amico and that was that. We saw how devoted he and his lovely bride Marjie was to their family. They may not even know it, but they gave us a beautiful example of selfless giving to family that we admired. Clearly they adored their children and grandchildren. Our hearts are sad for you all. May God rest his soul and may he and Marjie enjoy heaven together. They deserve it. Thank you for everything, Mr. D'Amico.
Mark Boyle
January 14, 2019
My sincerest condolences to you, Pam, and your family. You have suffered back to back losses, take it easy, grieve well, and most important heal well.
-Mark Boyle and Family
Sally Quaratella Schrader
January 14, 2019
Mr. D. Was a wonderful teacher. He still would remember my name after so many years. He, like so many of the teachers at Waterford were so much more than teachers. Friends, listeners, mentors, and always there with a hug and smile when one was needed. He will remembered by so many. Condolences to his family.
Mary Porter-Price
January 14, 2019
Dear D'Amico Family,
I had the privilege of knowing both your mother and father. They were wonderful people. I came to know your dad at Clark Lane. He was always interested in helping his students. I met your mother several times when she was with your father. Both of your parents will be missed. I hope your many memories of them will bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Kim Damico
January 14, 2019
incredibly sad for my boys! They were lucky enough to have their Poppy live right next door ! They shared the love of the Giants and the red sox, enjoying many games together! Lou never ,ever missed a school meeting, or a sporting event! He passed on some traditions from his Italian heritage! He will be missed forever!
Fred Hill
January 14, 2019
Eddie and family,sorry for your loss.My condolences,To,You and your family.
Glenn Way
January 14, 2019
Eddie and family, our sincerest condolences to all of you. Fondly, Glenn and Cheryl Way.
Buddies
January 13, 2019
Whoever wrote this obituary did a remarkable job. Everything important was mentioned, well written and it all seemed like yesterday.
We'll miss that man sitting in his recliner, near all those newspapers, with his dog beside him, as he watched TV & enjoyed anyone that entered the door of that room.
He actually was the cornerstone to our marriage from early in our dating stages, & before marriage. Jim met Lou as a popular teacher at Clark Lane and the friendship began. They were a genuine twosome, ask the students.
We spent much time with Lou's family at their home where there were kids (now adults) dancing, singing, playing ball or watching sports. Lou sat watching them with a smile while Marge waited on everyone. They were nearly always together except when it came to shopping.
Please accept our condolences for your whole family. Things won't be the same as life goes on.
Buddies
Anne Logan
January 13, 2019
Whoever wrote this obituary did a remarkable job. Everything important was mentioned, well written and it all seemed like yesterday.
We'll miss that man sitting in his recliner, near all those newspapers, with his dog beside him, as he watched TV & enjoyed anyone that entered the door of that room.
He actually was the cornerstone to our marriage from early in our dating stages, & before marriage. Jim met Lou as a popular teacher at Clark Lane and the friendship began. They were a genuine twosome, ask the students.
We spent much time with Lou's family at their home where there were kids (now adults) dancing, singing, playing ball or watching sports. Lou sat watching them with a smile while Marge waited on everyone. They were nearly always together except when it came to shopping.
Please accept our condolences for your whole family. Things won't be the same as life goes on.
James Fetrow
January 13, 2019
MR D'Amico Was a strong influence on my life in READING and THEATER.MY favorite book is "Treasure Island" I would see him in Waterford Public Library When in CONN.I still do theater and went to clown school.I will miss seeing him around.
Sherryl Evans Smith
January 13, 2019
My sincere condolences to Pam and her family. He was such a great teacher. Oh and how He loved his family. Your parents are back together smiling down at all who loved them. Don't be surprised in the near future you see a sign that they were there. It happened when my Mom passed away.
Morgan Westbrook
January 13, 2019
Was very sorry to hear about Lou's passing. He was a good man. Prayers for all.
January 13, 2019
Sue and Family, my deepest sympathy to you with the passing of your beloved Father. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Jo Anne from Bayview
judy benedict
January 13, 2019
Thinking of you during this time of sorrow. May your memories bring you peace and courage.
dana mcfee
January 13, 2019
To the entire D'Amico family I offer my sincere condolences in the loss of your dad. He was my homeroom teacher during my yrs at Clark Lane. I remember he would read to our class, "Mutiny on the Bounty" being my favorite. I also was a band boy for his band on occasion. We called him "Lou farkle" I will always remember him. May God bless you all.
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