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Matthys Visser Obituary
He was born on July 11, 1955, in Rotterdam, the Netherlands, the son of Simon Visser and Barbara Hall. Matty immigrated to the United States at age 10 with his family. He graduated from Ledyard High School in 1974, attending the Vocational Agricultural program.
He was a gifted landscape designer and certified horticulturalist, beginning his career at Holdridge Farm Nursery and eventually starting his own business, Estate Caretakers and Design. He volunteered in the Ledyard Fire Department for 20 years and liked to help others whenever he could. Outdoor activities such as skiing, hiking, volleyball, and tennis were his passions, and he loved a competitive challenge of any sort.
For the last 20 years, he divided his time between Connecticut, New Hampshire, and Florida, where he welcomed visits from friends and family. His kindness and generosity toward others was remarkable, and this has been expressed by a large circle of friends who deeply miss his company.
He is survived by his wife, Wendy Woods; daughter, Delaney Santa Maria; son, Justin Visser, daughter-in-law, Sarah, and grandchildren, Lauren, Madelyn, and Joshua. Also surviving are his mother, Barbara Hall; father, Simon Visser; and siblings, Simon Visser, Lydia Von Borstel, Pierce Hall, and Eugene Hall.
His family will greet relatives and friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 7, at the Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., Mystic. Following a private burial, a celebration of his life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Nov. 8, at Port ‘N Starboard, Ocean Beach, 1225 Ocean Ave., New London.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Speare Memorial Hospital, Development Department, 16 Hospital Road, Plymouth, NH 03264, in memory of Matthys Visser.
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Memories and Condolences
for Matthys Visser
October 30, 2019
Matt, we think of you a lot when we go to Lincoln. I remember meeting you when we were at Woodstock Station and then doing a hike the next day at Lincoln Woods. I remember you saying that you were "double nickels," meaning you were 55. Cory and I have been playing a lot of tennis at Deer Park and Village of Loon. We miss playing against you and Wendy. We have gotten so good, we would kick your butt now !! I hope you can see us play. Miss you. Anne McGreal
Dave Foster
November 8, 2014
My deepest sympathies to Matty's Family. I've had the pleasure of knowing and working with Matty during my teenage years at Holdridge Farm Nursery. God Bless
Sue Bellone Perna
November 8, 2014
Matty was the Hugh Hefner of Ledyard in that his door was always open to his friends; he loved having us over for parties; bridal showers; swimming…he was a listener and an adviser. A good man has passed on….
Claire & William Baxter
November 8, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Suzanne Cattanach
November 7, 2014
My condolences to Matty's family and friends. He was a thoughtful generous guy who I recall fondly from back in the 80's- always welcoming countless friends to his Ledyard home for long volleyball nights and other summer fun. Everyone liked him so very much, and he will be missed
Jennifer Sim
November 6, 2014
We love you and will keep the wonderful memories in our hearts!
November 6, 2014
Matt, you will be missed for your generosity, kindness and friendship.
You gave great advice and your door was always open. Me and the boys will miss playing tennis with you. Thank you for always setting them up with mountain bikes and ski equipment. I will miss your personality and love of life.
Anne, Kyle and Cory
Jeffery Glidden
November 6, 2014
Our condolences and prayers from the Gliddens
Jack and Linda Ross
November 5, 2014
Jack and I were so sorry to hear about Matty's passing. We will never forget the wonderful weekend spent at the condo in NH. Matty had a real knack for making everyone feel right at home. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Santina Ragonese
November 5, 2014
It was my honor and privilege to have called Matty one of my closest friends for well over 20years.He was a kind loving man who was probably the most loyal and sincere people I have ever met.I will miss you my friend.My sincere condolences to his family.
November 5, 2014
It's been a great ride for 40+ years my good friend. We worked hard and played hard. Never a wasted moment. Kai will miss you much. Boo
Tara Cisco
November 5, 2014
My deepest condolences Lydia and Cori. I loved Uncle Matty so much and he was the most generous and fun guy!
Love, Tara
Robin Guiney
November 5, 2014
God Bless Matthys a high school friend. A great man.
Kasi Bern
November 5, 2014
In loving memory of a lost loved one...
Carol Ort
November 5, 2014
I'm so sorry to hear of Matty's passing. He was such a kind person and he will truly be missed. My thoughts are with his family.
Cheryl Carbray
November 5, 2014
It's hard to understand why people are taken from us,but take comfort in knowing we were all a special part of such a well-lived life.My heart aches for all who new him.
November 5, 2014
Pam,Rich and Rick Solnik with Love xxx.
John Ericson
November 5, 2014
Matty was both my friend and boss for over twelve years.He gave me a chance when I needed help.All he ever asked was that I worked as hard and long as he did!Boy, did we ever! I will always have a place in my heart and head for you Matty! To Matty's family, my condolences and prayers to all of you!Rest in peace my friend.
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