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Merle James Smith Jr.

1944 - 2021

Merle James Smith Jr. obituary, 1944-2021, New London, CT

BORN

1944

DIED

2021

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Merle Smith Obituary

New London - Merle James Smith Jr., 76, U.S. Coast Guard Commander, retired, died June 16, 2021, at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital. He is survived by his wife, Dr. Lynda B. Smith, to whom he has been married for 47 years; his children, Merle James Smith III wife Crystal Jones of Jersey City, N.J., Chelsea B. Smith of East Lyme, and Danielle Smith husband Marvin Bothuel II of Silver Spring, Md.; his two grandchildren, Majani Smith and London Jones Smith; his brother, Thomas G. Smith wife Angela; nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

He was born August 11, 1944, in Greenville, S.C., the son of Jacqueline T. Smith, a former English Professor at Howard University and retired Army Colonel Merle James Smith Sr. Merle's early years were spent living in Washington, D.C., Kaiserslautern, Germany, Tokyo, Japan, Albuquerque, N.M., and Aberdeen, Md., as the son of an Army Colonel, in counterintelligence, in charge of Army ordinance specializing in nuclear weapons.

After graduating from Aberdeen High School where he was an excellent student, a star football player and sports editor of the newspaper. Merle won an appointment to all four service academies but chose to accept the appointment to the U.S. Coast Guard Academy July 9, 1962. As a Cadet he played on the only undefeated football team which went to the Tangerine Bowl in 1962. He graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Marine Engineering, a Commission as Ensign in the U.S. Coast Guard on June 8, 1966. He was the first Black Cadet to graduate from the Coast Guard Academy. Merle served proudly as an active-duty Coast Guard Officer for 13 years retiring from active duty in 1979.

Smith's first assignment out of the Academy was the 311-foot cutter Minnetonka (WHEC-67), on which he served as Communication officer. By 1967, he received command of the Cape Wash (WPB-95310), out of Monterey, Calif., and two years later, he was assigned to serve in Vietnam, becoming one of the first academy graduates to hold a command position in the Vietnam war. There he commanded Point Mast (WPB-82316), and Point Ellis (WPB-82330), and directed more than eighty naval fire support missions in Operation "Market Time". In one Operation "Sea Lords" mission, his cutter accounted for the destruction of ten enemy bunkers, four rocket launchers, thirteen structures, and nineteen sampans. The honors he received for service in Vietnam include the Bronze Star Medal with "V" device, he was also awarded the Combat Action Ribbon, Coast Guard Achievement Medal, Presidential Unit Citation, Navy Meritorious Unit Citation, Vietnamese Training Medal 1/C, Vietnam Service Medal, Vietnam Campaign Medal (4 stars), National Defense Service Medal, Expert Pistol Medal, Sharpshooter Rifle Medal, Vietnamese Cross of Gallantry (Palm), and Vietnamese Civic Action Ribbon (Palm).

Merle became the first African American officer to command a federal vessel in combat, and the first African American sea service officer to receive the Bronze Star Medal. After returning from Vietnam, Smith served several years at Coast Guard headquarters in Washington, D.C. During this period, he attended law school at George Washington University, and served as Deputy Chief of the Coast Guard Military Justice Division. In 1975, Smith began teaching law classes becoming the first black officer, active duty or retired, to hold a faculty position as a law professor at the Coast Guard Academy. He was reunited with his friend, Otto Graham, and helped coach the Academy football team as an assistant coach. While a law professor at the Coast Guard Academy, Commander Smith was a 1977 Presidential Inaugural Staff Aide to the Secretary of Housing Urban Development, Patricia Roberts Harris. He was also the class advisor to the class of 1977. After retirement from active duty, Commander Smith joined the Coast Guard Reserves in 1979, and served as Commander of the Coast Guard Reserve, Group Long Island Sound, He then retired after nine years, ending a tenure of 26 years in the Coast Guard, retiring July 1, 1988.

Commander Smith received the USA Hall of Heroes Award in 2007, the Pioneer Award named in his honor in 2012, and he was inducted into the Coast Guard Academy Athletic Hall of Fame in 2018.

He had maintained his contact with the Academy by serving a four-year term on the Board of Control of the Alumni Association, and as a member of the Executive Committee of the Board of Directors of the Coast Guard Foundation for twelve years.

When Commander Smith left the active Coast Guard in 1979, he joined the legal staff at Electric Boat Division of General Dynamics Corporation, the premier designer and builder of nuclear submarines for the Navy. He assumed the position of Chief Counsel of the legal department, retiring from Electric Boat after 16 years in 1995. Not only did Merle love the Coast Guard, but he loved the community, serving on the Board of Directors of the Coast Guard Foundation, for twelve years leading the National Coast Guard Museum Project. He also served on the Board of Directors of the United Way, The Palmer Bodenwein Benevolent Foundation, Amistad America, and The Garde Arts Theater. He was also inducted into the National Museum of African American History and Culture in Washington, D.C., and he was a member of the Omega PSI PHI Fraternity.

During his tenure Merle did not consider himself a pioneer. His focus was always to serve his country. In light of his many achievements, he has been a stellar role model for not only the Coast Guard, but for many minority men and woman who have followed in his amazing footsteps. He was a true trailblazer. He represents the highest example of Honor, Duty, Respect and Hope. "Semper Paratus". Family, friends, and colleagues remember Merle as an "Officer and a Gentleman".

In retirement, Merle loved spending time with his family. He took great joy in coaching his son, Merle J. Smith III, in football and admired his tenacity in achieving his dream of becoming an investment banker in New York City. He also loved watching his daughter Chelsea, become an amazing, lovely, caring young woman. His relationship with his daughter Danielle he also treasured. Throughout his married life Merle supported his wife's career and took pride in her accomplishments.

Relatives and friends will be received by Merle's family from 4:30 to 8 p.m. Thursday, July 8, 2021, at the Garde Arts Center, 325 State Street, New London. A funeral service will be held at 3 p.m. Friday, July 9, 2021, at the Coast Guard Academy Chapel. The memorial service will be live streamed and can be attended through this link: https://uscga.video/cdr-merle-j-smith-funeral. A reception will immediately follow the service at the CDR Merle J. Smith Consolidated Club at the Academy.

Interment with full Military Honors will take place at Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in his memory to the U.S. Coast Guard Academy Alumni Association, 41 Mohegan Avenue, New London, CT 06320.

Online condolences may be shared on Commander Smith's memorial page at www.byles.com Byles-MacDougall Funeral Home, New London is assisting the family with arrangements.

We would like to express our deepest gratitude to the staff at Bride Brook Health and Rehabilitation Center, Lawrence + Memorial Hospital, Vitas Hospice Care and Vanessa Brown, for all your care and support at this time. Additionally, many thanks to the Coast Guard Academy staff and the Alumni Association for their tremendous help. As Merle was a Vietnam Veteran, we would like to express our gratitude for all the servicemen and woman who proudly serve our country.

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Published by The Day on Jul. 1, 2021.

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Barbara Osborn Kreamer

July 13, 2021

Deepest sympathy to Dr. Lynda Smith and all of Commander Smith's family. He was a distinguished graduate of Aberdeen High School. His record of service to our country is inspiring. After such a life of accomplishment, may he rest in peace and may you all be comforted by the peace of the Lord.

James Hartung

July 9, 2021

I Was a classmate of Merle's. He was one of the classiest men I have ever known. Everyone should lead a life like his.

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Willie Coleman

July 8, 2021

Merle was a good and admirable man. I will surely miss him. He accomplished much. His was a life well lived.

Janet McLeavey

July 8, 2021

I will always remember Merle´s wonderful and welcoming smile. He was a special person. We were colleagues and friends at the Academy. May the life and family that you and Merle shared comfort you as you grieve. May the compassion of those who care surround you, the memories of shared joys encourage you, and the warmth of God´s love embrace you.

Franklin Ivins

July 6, 2021

My deepest sympathies to Merle's family. I was a classmate at Aberdeen High School in 1962 and graduated with Merle. He was one of the nicest people in the class and a friend to all. I was proud to know him then and proud of his many accomplishments now. I am among many I know will grieve his passing,

Herbert Englund

July 5, 2021

My deepest sympathy to Merle's family. I greatly enjoyed working with Merle during his years at Electric Boat. Classy and thoughtful he had a great sense of humor and was a joy to work with. May God bless him and his loved ones
Herb Englund

Cleon Smith `78

July 4, 2021

Dear Smith family,

We are sorry for your loss and extend our sympathy and condolences. Merle is a great man and has touched sooooooo many lives. I speak in presence tense because he lives today and forever because of the impact he´s made. Please know you are in our prayers!!

Kathi Springer

July 4, 2021

I was very sad to hear of Merle’s passing. I had the pleasure of knowing him at Electric Boat and he was a wonderful person. May he rest in peace.

Patricia Harris Stock

July 4, 2021

What a incredible life & a true American hero! My condolences to his family.

Louis Reguin

July 3, 2021

Lynda and family,

So sorry to hear of the passing of your husband, Merle. What a beautiful tribute of all of his accomplishments and how special he was as a person. Louie and I send our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Louis & Diane Reguin

Sheila Reed

July 2, 2021

Lynda,


My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your beloved husband, father and grandfather. What an absolutely amazing tribute of such an accomplished man!! I pray that your memories of Merle provide you with comfort and strength in the days and weeks to come. I will continue hold you all in my daily prayers.

Sincerely,

Sheila Ring Reed

Bill Pedace

July 2, 2021

Lynda, we were very sorry to read of Merle's passing. He was the consummate professional and gentleman. I always enjoyed my interactions with him while at Electric Boat. May he rest in peace knowing he smoothed the way for so many.
Bill Pedace, Los Lunas, NM

Edwina Ross

July 2, 2021

My sincere sympathy goes out to Dr. Lynda Smith and her family at this time. It was an honor knowing Merle. I never knew all of his accomplishments as he was such a reserved, humble man. The world has lost a great man but his legacy will never be forgotten.

Rona Rutchik

July 1, 2021

Lynda, we kno u have been so proud of Merle, we send our sincere sympathy on your loss. We have been so glad to read about him. We are so glad to have seen you recently. Rona & Martin Rutchik

Beth Tillman

July 1, 2021

Dear Lynda and family, I was saddened to learn of Merle's death. I found him to be a wonderful individual and enjoyed seeing the two of you as a couple. He was to be admired for his tenacity and courage. My condolences to all of you. Beth (and Van)

William Cobb

June 29, 2021

Thank you Cdr Smith for paving the way for so many by the your contribution, not only to the Coast Guard but to man kind.

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