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Michael Ohar Obituary
He was born on Sept. 12, 1947 in Buffalo, N.Y., to Michael and Betty Ann (Glor) Ohar.
Michael was a 1965 graduate from Tonawanda High School in Tonawanda, N.Y.
He joined the U.S. Navy in 1966 and served aboard the USS Nautilus as a radioman; he was honorably discharged in 1970.
He worked at Electric Boat, in Groton, as a supervisor until 1984.
On April 13, 1989, Michael married Sandra Hewitt at her parent's home in Montville. He worked for many years at Command Technology, in Groton, as the manager of the graphics deptartment. Michael opened up his own business out of his home called Scottie Graphics, specializing in technical and graphic illustrations. In 2001, he started working for Sheffield Pharmaceuticals as a graphic artist and continued working throughout his illness.
In addition to his wife and parents, Michael is survived by his five daughters, Yvette Mason of Angola, N.Y., Holley Ohar of Griswold, Michelle Stolaronek of Lisbon, Jamie Gauthier of Preston and Cleora Luhong Ohar of Oakdale. He is also survived by two brothers and a sister of New York, seven grandchildren and numerous extended family members.
Calling hours will be held on Friday, Jan. 12, 2007 from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Montville Funeral Home of Church and Allen, Rt. 32, Montville. A funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Saturday, Jan. 13, 2007 at 11 a.m. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Mr. Ohar to Hospice of Southeastern CT, P.O. Box 902, Uncasville, CT 06382.
Please visit the on line memorial at www.mem.com.
The Church and Allen Funeral Home is entrusted with these arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Ohar
Pat Gladding
February 15, 2007
Hi Sandy and Cleora,
Mike was a devoted husband and father to you both. On Christmas Eve every year we would all come to my Mom and Dad's (The Boyers) to join in on: company, conversation, and good food. I looked forward to seeing you. I remember Michael would always give me a great big bear hug. God is with you.
Love,
Don Gladding
February 15, 2007
Hi Sandy and Cleora. Pat just told me about this wonderful venue to remind us all of Mike. I know from meeting with all of you that he loved you both very much. I remember that Mike had very strong opinions about most things and usually he had good arguments to back them up. I recall him telling Harry Boyer that he should get a 52" wide screen TV and satellite access. Mike always had a good attitude when discussing such things in my presence and when he talked about you guys, his love for you clearly showed. Hang in there, I know that time helps. Love, Don Gladding
Xiulan Huang, Jun Li and Yong Sun
February 15, 2007
Dear Sandy and Cleora,
We are deeply sad about Michael’s passing. We feel very privileged to know such a caring man, and understand how difficult it is for a loving family without Michael. Life is short, but the love and the legacy Michael left behind are long lasting. We are proud to see Cleora has grown to be such an accomplished girl, and a family built with so much love to continue the journey that you all planned together.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you, our love and support will be always with your family.
Christine Rodgers
February 15, 2007
Dear Sandy-
I never met Michael but I heard so many wonderful stories about him. It was so clear that he adored his special girls in his life. Sandy, I constantly remember Michael sending you to work with healthy lunches and you always speaking of the terrific meals he made at night time. I also loved the stories where he and Cleora would have a special date where just the two of them would go out. From time to time he would also indulge Cleora and give her a piece of jewelry.
To me it always just seemed like there was a unique bond in your family. I know family time always took precedence and was a cherished event. I know you and Michael have such a tremendous bond that just doesn't end when one passes on. Now, memories are what will help carry you through this very sad and difficult time.
Judy Zagaski
February 15, 2007
Dear Sandy and Cleora,
I am so sorry about Michael's passing. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting him personally, I certainly know that he was a man greatly loved. Your family's devotion to one another was evident in so many ways. Making peace with your loss is surely one of the most difficult things you'll ever have to do. I hope that in the end, the happy memories of your time together will emerge and overshadow the grief.
Fondly,
Judy Zagaski
Mary Chamberlain
February 14, 2007
Cleora - my name is Mary Chamberlain and I am the social worker from Washington, DC who played a role in helping you to find your forever family here in the US. I've never met your parents in person, although I've emailed and spoken to them many times over years - especially during the frantic days waiting for you to come home!
I know that BOTH your parents wanted you to join their family so very much...they wanted you to be their daughter and planned their lives around you. I know that they were great parents who love you and have given you all that they have to give to provide you a happy life here in the US.
You didn't have enough time with your dad...and no one knows why some of our lives are cut short...but we all know your dad as a wonderful man who will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom in this difficult time...
With heartfelt sadness...
Mary Ellen Sherwood
February 14, 2007
Dear Sandy and Cleora,
I am sorry for the loss of your beloved husband and father. From the stories you shared and the comments of family and friends, Michael was certainly a very special, gifted person who loved his family so much. You both brought him so much joy. The memories of his love and devotion will live on in your hearts and in daily reminders. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Peter DeLisa
February 13, 2007
Dear Cleora and Sandy: Your father and husband was a very fine man. I'm sorry for your loss. Cleora, I can tell you how very proud your Dad was of your many fine accomplishments. I'm sure you will continue to honor him in the manner in which you lead your life. Please let me know the next time you are performing musically. My sympathy and best wishes to you both, Peter DeLisa
Adam Miller
February 12, 2007
Sandy and Cleora,
I do hope you know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We hope we can give you a place to come and have fun, work hard, and take your mind off your troubles. I hope you know how many people care about you and send their love to you. May time and kindness help bring you to a future filled with hope and goodness.
David B. Erwin
February 12, 2007
Dear Sandy and Cleora, I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Michael for several years, as an interested father, caring person and one who was always interested in the care and well being of youngsters. He was a member of our Parent Advisory Council and he always offered keen insight and suggestions. In addition, he was a great supporter of our school building projects. He will be missed by all. If I can be of any help, please do not hesitate to let me know. Most sincerely, Dave Erwin
Mary Bolton
February 12, 2007
Dear Sandy and Family...We are so sorry to hear of your loss of Michael. Please accept our prayers and sympathy as you face this difficult time. Our memories of Michael at "Glor" family reunions are special. We are sure he will be sincerely missed. Our love to all of you. Doug and Mary Bolton, Mildred and Ernie Chonka (cousins)
Judy Abrams
February 12, 2007
Dearest Sandy and Cleora,
I grieve with you on the loss of this precious man in your lives. I know how much you miss him, yet I thank God that you have each other to lean on. Cling to the happy memories, the laughter and the times that brought you stronger together as a family. His life brought joy to many, and the memories of him will still bring a warm smile. I am praying for you both, and I'm here for you always. You are both very brave and very precious to me.
Please call me anytime if you need a shoulder, a listening ear, or a good laugh - anytime day or night!
Judy
Tom Giard
February 12, 2007
Although I only met Mr. Ohar a few times, it was clearly evident that he deeply loved his wife and daughter, Cleora. He was an engaging individual who cared about his daughter and her well-being here at Tyl. He will be deeply missed by all.
Kyle Gero
February 11, 2007
Dear Cleora and Sandy,
It was very sad to see the passing of mike. He was a great person and i have many fond memories of him. Me and Mike did alot of fishing together and I really enjoyed the time I spent
with him. He was a great man and a loving father and husband to you and cleo. He will be missed dearly
Mela Magno
February 10, 2007
Dear Cleora and Mrs. Ohar,
Words cannot express how both of you must be feeling during this time, as you have both lost a father and husband. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Michael Ohar, it is beautiful that his survivors are honoring his legacy.
Cleora Ohar
February 9, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Cleora Ohar
February 9, 2007
To my beloved Daddy,
I miss you more than I can say in words. I will remember how you used to tease me about different things. I remember how you always used to poke me with your so called "sharpened finger." Your warmth to me was intriguing. I was blessed to be your daughter. Your cooking was absolutely delicious. You were really intelligent and superior with a multitude of things. Your graphic designs of toothpaste tubes were so magnificent. I wish you could be here. But, I know that you are in a better place and are more peaceful than you were. I can't believe how bad the cancer was to you. It was as evil as the devil. I will love you for eternity. You were the best daddy I could ever possibly have. You will live forever in my heart and soul. God bless your soul.
All my love,
Cleora Luhong
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Paul Rae
February 9, 2007
Dear Cleora (and Sandy),
I only met him once, but I can tell by the amazing daughter he and you mom raised just how good a man your dad was. Words won't ease your loss, but please know that you are surrounded here at Tyl by many who care.
My deepest sympathies,
Mr. Rae (Tyl Middle School)
Bryan Ouimet
February 9, 2007
Mike,
You would always tell me a good wildlife story and listen to mine. I will miss you and our talks.
Debbi Sanchez
February 9, 2007
I did not know Mike very long, but I knew him long enough to know he was a true fighter. He faced his sickness with more courage and strength than most people have during their entire lives.
He was proud of his family and whenever he told stories about them, that pride and love was there for all the world to see.
He is in a better place now, still looking after the family he cherished so much.
He will be missed.
Kim Gero
February 9, 2007
The first long-lasting memory I have of Michael has often crept into my thoughts through the years, especially around Valentines Day.
It was close to twenty-five years ago, and I am not even sure that I had yet met my future brother-in-law.
The object of the memory occurred in New Smyrna Beach, Florida. Michael was 1,000 miles away, and I was in Florida with Sandy and other family members for the races.
On the morning of Valentines Day a florist delivered to Sandy a single red rose at our motel. It was from Michael, and his gesture toward my sister left a deep impression on me.
With love always
Lisa Punsalan
February 8, 2007
Dear Cleora,
I am so sorry to hear about your father. I know how very proud of all your accomplishments your father must have been. I am sure he was also a very big part of what a wonderful girl you are. Carry that part of him with you always.
Sincerely,
Mrs. Punsalan
Matt Royer
February 8, 2007
In the time that I knew Mike, we had many conversations about many things. They usually made me laugh other times they simply intrigued me. He shared my affinty for many things art, traveling/dining and leisure. He is missed and his humor is still with us everyday.
Margaret Pothier
February 7, 2007
Dear Cleora and Sandy,
I am honored to write about your dad and husband. I remember him well. He was always so supportive of you Cleora. Remember when he picked you up to model? I still have the picture of you modeling your outfit. Remember when your dad shared steamed rice and fortune cookies with us when we celebrated Chinese New Year? He even showed the class how to use chop sticks. I know those special memories of Grade 1 and your dad will always be in your hearts.
Love to you both,
Margaret Pothier Grade 1 teacher
David Hearty
February 7, 2007
In the few years I had the pleasure of his acquantiance, Mike was quite a guy. Always willing to lend a hand or opinion or share experience. When I heard his inital diagnosis I expected him to beat it as many of us have. Throughout his effort he was always pushing to learn more. I will remember him fondly. God Bless.
Ellen Carenza
February 7, 2007
Dear Ohar family and especially Cleora,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will find some comfort in your memories of your father;he will never leave you.
With warm thoughts,
Ellen Carenza
Mark Johnson
February 7, 2007
Dear Cleora and Sandy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I so enjoyed having Cleora as a student, and appreciated the support that Mom and Dad gave us.Mike was right there for me so often, making suggestions or helping me with the video camera at one of our nighttime activities.He will be missed by all. My uncle recently passed away. I am comforted by the thought that he is in a waiting place that is happy and peaceful. I can always close my eyes and live in the memories that I have of him, and that is a comfort also. Please stop by and visit, I would enjoy seing both of you.
Always,
Mark
Judy Scoma
February 6, 2007
To Michael Ohar's beloved family, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, please accept my sincere condolances. Michael & his family will are in my prayers.
God Bless You,
Judy Scoma (friend of Richard Glor)
Lynn Edwards
February 6, 2007
Dear Cleora and Mrs. Ohar,
I am so sorry to hear of the recent loss of your loving father and husband. The few times I met him last year remain in my memory because of his obvious devotion to you both. He was so proud of you Cleora and I remember the way he loved to tease you. You both had that easy humor between you, which I know makes you smile still. Your great sense of dedication and endurance at all you do in life, will get you through this very difficult time.
Fondly, Lynn Edwards
Amy Stoodt
February 6, 2007
Dear Cleora and Mrs. Ohar,
I'm so sorry for your incredible loss. When I lost my dad my good friend told me it would take a year before I felt like maybe I wasn't going crazy. And she was right. One day, after just about a year, I found myself actually not thinking about the loss every minute of every day and I knew she was right and I would be okay. In the meantime, keep him in your heart, as you are in his, and think about a good time you had together or a silly thing he did that you can laugh about. That way he will never be lost to you, because you are the reason he came to visit this good earth. You are both wonderful people and together you will thrive with your tremendous talents and love for each other, one day at a time.
Please know that we are here for you if you need us.
Amy Stoodt, Tyl Middle School
Robin Greenwald
February 6, 2007
Dear Cleora and Sandy,
I am so sorry for your loss. The one time I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Ohar, he impressed me as a true gentleman. If I can do anything to support you at this time, Cleora, please let me know. Your friends and teachers at school care about you a great deal. I hope you still have the "courage stone," and that it might give you courage during this difficult time. At the very least, it serves as a symbol that I care about you.
Love,
Mrs. Greenwald
Robert Alves
February 6, 2007
Dear Sandy & Cleora,
I was deeply saddened to hear of your lost. I know that you are going through a difficult time right now and I applaud your courage and bravery during this most difficult time. I too lost my father at a very young age. It is a very difficult thing to deal with and you have to believe that he is in a happier place watching over the both of you and he would want you both to live long and happy lives. Please do not hesitate to contact me if either of you need anything, my door is always open.
Elena Mancebo
February 6, 2007
Dear Cleora,
I am very sorry for the loss of your father. I had the chance to meet him when he chaperoned for the flamenco show, and he was a wonderful person and very helpful. I loved talking to him and his enthusiasm to the show.
I know you are missing him lots, but have in mind that he is and will always be looking at you and glad to have such a wonderful daughter.
Mark McGuire
February 6, 2007
Dear Cleora and Mrs. Ohar:
My deepest sympathy goes out to both of you. I never met Mr. Ohar, but knowing the both of you, I'm sure he was a very kind, caring and loving father and husband. I know how hard it is at first to go on with your everyday activities, but with each passing day life will get easier. You will always carry those loving memories with you, but it will just be a little less sad as time goes on. Please know that I am always here for you Cleora. You Dad is looking down on you and I know he is so very proud of you.
Love, Mr. McGuire
Jeff Burt
February 6, 2007
Dear Sandy & Cleora,
I was very sorry to hear of your loss. Cleora is such a wonderful person I can only imagine that her father must have been a person of high quality. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Jeff Burt - Tyl Middle School
Colin Delaney
February 6, 2007
Dear Cleora,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I lost my father two years ago, so I know that what you're going through is not easy. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about my father. But I know that he is in a better place and looks down upon us always. If you ever need anything, someone to talk to, or just someone to listen, my door is always open as your teacher and as your friend.
Kindest Regards,
Mr. Delaney
Suzanne Moreland
February 5, 2007
Dear Sandy & Cleora -
We are so very sorry to hear of Michael's death. Please know you are in our thoughts.
- Suzanne, Bob, Robin, Summer, & Willow Moreland
Ann Finneran
February 3, 2007
Dear Sandy and Cleora, and all Michael's loved ones,
I know, as many of you have said, that Michael's soul is free from suffering now, and I hope that helps you all in your grief. Our condolences therefore are to all his loved ones because of their loss of personal contact. He was a good man and father.
We only met in person the one time in NYC with our new daughters, but Sandy and I shared many correspondences. Sandy, I am sure you find solace in your beautiful Cleora, whom he helped raise so well. I am glad he was able to glimpse her potential at least.
Ann Finneran and Richard & NiNa Seehausen
Heather Gionet
February 3, 2007
To My Uncle,
I have many memories of spending time with you and aunt sandy. Im not very good at writing and putting my thoughts to make sense so here it goes(these are what I remember); I remember when aunt sandy,you and I went to Maine or I beleive it was Maine whatever it was, it was trip so we stopped at a store and I saw red hot dogs and you said they were yummy and I had never had one so you bought me one; and I remember liking the hot dog. It was around that same time you started with those cigars which I did not like at all so that leads me to the next story. We were at a resturant and I was complianing about the cigar that you where smoking and saying it smells and stuff and I remember you getting annoyed. I also remember us watching the Iron Chef and they had to use squid. The same night you called the radio station and made me talk to the DJ and tell him about the trip to Maine. You also showed me how to sprinkle salt on fresh garden tomatoes; which was to lick the tomato and sprinkle the salt on it. I have many fond memories of spending time with you and aunt sandy. Thank you for those memories. I will miss you. xoxo
Steven Forstein
February 2, 2007
Dear Cleora:
I was so sorry to hear about your dad.I know he doted on you greatly and was very proud of you. I hope the best memories stay with you always, and the pain of your loss grows less with time.
Dr. Forstein
Betty Ohar
January 30, 2007
Dearest Son, Not a day goes by that there isn't a memory of you,I only hope that where you are you have no pain. Time will heal our loss they tell me. See you some day in our eternal place. Love Mom
Gail Lovejoy
January 29, 2007
Dear Sandy and Cleora,
I know how much Michael wanted to stay with you and not leave you alone. I know your love for Michael will be without end and he understands the bond you all share.
This is a time when you and Cleora will need to reflect on the path that will now be open to you. Remember that you can surround yourselves with family and friends and we will be there for you to lean on when you are feeling alone.
Michael will definitely live in the hearts of so many people.
Much love,
Gail Lovejoy
Richard J. L. Glor
January 28, 2007
Sunday - 28 January 2007
Dearest Sandy & Beloved Cleora,
I am sorry that I have not signed your book of life Michael but you know that though you were so far away did not mean that I have not held you in my heart. I remember the day you were born, the time you visited me in Texas and the many talkes we had on the telephone. It was such an Honor to say your funeral service and you are for ever in my heart. Sandra and Cleora know that I am here for you now and in the future. Michael and Sandy what an honor and blessing you gave to CLEORA to remember my Mother and your Grandmother by giving Cleora her name. May you and yours be always blessed and you shall live always in my heart.
Love filled with GODS BLESSINGS be with you forever.
Uncle Richard.
Karen Ohar
January 21, 2007
I remember you at Grandma and Grandpa's with Grandpa's leg over the chair and a beer in his hand with all of the men watching football, as the women cooked and talked and the kids (so many played). It was always a nice time when the family got togther. Alot of laughter and love. Once again, you were met with love when Grandma and Grandpa walked through heavens gate with you, yet to another family gathering.
Michael & Cheri Page
January 20, 2007
Dear Sandy & Cleo,
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. We will miss not seeing Michael stop by.
Rick Trowbridge
January 18, 2007
Dear Sandy,
As you know Mike and I go way back. I met Mike in a Navy Radioman school in 1968. We got out of the navy and worked together at EB. He stayed much longer than I did. We remained in touch all these years. He was a very good friend. When I think of him I can only smile and reflect on our friendship and memories. You later taught both of my children in the '80's. What a small world. God Bless you and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Be strong for Cleora, just as Mike would have wanted.
Julie and D Cashin
January 18, 2007
Sandy and Cleora,
We are very saddened to hear of Michael's passing. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
May the memories of Michael bring you peace and fill your hearts with love.
In sympathy and love,
Julie D, Pierce and Cole Cashin
Kathy LaPorte
January 16, 2007
Sandy and Cleora,
Michael's love and caring for his family was always evident through these years of friendship. I will always be grateful that I have met your wonderful family. Thank you Michael, Sandy, and Cleora for extending your love to include those darling Scotties.
Roger Patel
January 16, 2007
You were my best friend. I knew you for the past two years. You always made me laugh with your funny jokes. Sorry for your loss Sandra. Take care of yourself Sandra you have a long way to go. God bless you and your family.
Marianna Tomey
January 16, 2007
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Dan & Jenny Ohar
January 16, 2007
Dear Family,
Michael’s passing was so hard to accept. We wanted so very much for him to win his earthly battle with cancer. What a terrible, terrible disease. We’ll miss him dearly.
No one could ever replace him in our hearts. There are just too many memories there.
Our only consolation is in remembering our summer conversation with him when he confided in us that he truly did believe in Jesus as his Lord and Savior…and knowing that he is now standing in awe in heaven in the presence of God and His angels.
All our love,
Brother Dan & Jenny Ohar
Anna Marie Lennon
January 13, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of Michael's death. We shared so many wonderful
times at Grandma and Grandpa's, at family picnics at Ellicott Creek,
graduations, first communions, confirmations, church picnics (church too...) and such.
We always knew that our adventures at Grandma and Grandpa's were going
to take a lively turn when Michael showed up with those flashing blue
eyes and great dimples. Thank you for all the great times we have
shared over the years. We will all be together again. Only no one will
get hollared at for jumping on the bed!!! But more imortant-no one
will be ill, or hurt or sick or sad or suffering. See you again, dear
cousin.
Much love and thanks,
Anna
Lori McCullough
January 12, 2007
Sandy,
When Megan called with the news of your husbands passing she immeadetly requested me to accompany her to the calling hrs. You and your loving husband have touched more lives than you will ever know. When Randy saw you tonight he said you looked so sad and depresses,I hope my hug will help her! You realy made a great team and now you can contune with his guidence from above. "Lord hear her Prayers!"
Robin Ohar
January 12, 2007
There are no more family reunions at grandma and grandpa's house but we will all meet again one day in a new, bigger House with a new Father. You will be missed cousin Michael.
Danielle Gemme
January 12, 2007
Dear Mr and Mrs Ohar and family,
So very sorry to be about your tremendous loss of Michael. I remember him as always kind to me and funny, adventurous and daring. I always admired him for his work on the submarine--that takes a special kind of man. I know that he had a full life and leaves so many memories. May all find comfort in these and in the love I am sure he had for all his family and friends. God is holding you all and, I'm sure, enjoying Michael up close and personal!
With our deepest sympathies , Danielle Gemme, Mark Devlin and all the kids
Rachel & Tim Hemingway
January 11, 2007
Uncle Michael,
You are a wonderful man, taken much too soon. You are loved by many and will be so missed by all of us.
Love,
Rachel Hemingway
Mary Martin
January 11, 2007
Michael:
I will always remember your beautiful blue eyes and how happy you kids were when you were all playing together. Those days will be remembered always.
Love,
Aunt Mary
Bonnie Vitale
January 11, 2007
I remember growing up with Michael. Our families would visit each other at our homes and at Grandpa & Grandma's house. One of my most vivid memories was getting mad at Michael when he broke the handle on my new toy refrigerator. (I was three-he was four)It's OK Mike, I'm almost over it. I have many fond memories of those days. I will keep you in my heart and thoughts.
Cousin Bonnie
Rose Stevenson
January 11, 2007
It's was too soon to say good bye.Beautiful memories will live forever. His happy nature and great smile will live on forever.May his soul rest in peace. Someday we will all be together again.
Aunt Rose
Michael, Betty Ohar
January 11, 2007
Son, I can not even express what is in my heart with my loss of you, my first born. There are so many many memories. All I know you were a wonderful son and father and our grief is deep but you are on your new adventure and Dad and I will meet you some day in that Kindom of Heaven. Mom and Dad
Linda Carle
January 11, 2007
Sandi and Cleora - I was saddened to learn of Michael's illness and death. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Like Hanni, I still vividly recall Michael's easy-going nature and humor that soothed our frazzled nerves on that adoption trip to China. His love for you and Cleora was so evident and I'm glad we all have those memories to cherish. May you feel the love from family and friends, both near and far, and may you especially find comfort in God's safe arms as He loves and cares for you as none other.
Love from Linda, Gordon, Bobby and Kristen
Keith Martin
January 10, 2007
I will always remember Michael. He added so much to the fun times we had at Grandma and Grandpas house. He had that great funny personality that just added to the madness on Sundays. I last saw Michael about six years ago and he still had that ability to make you laugh. It was great to see him.
Best Wishes
Keith
Fang Fang Wu Lee
January 10, 2007
I am so very sad to learn of Michael's death. Cleora, I wish I coulod be there to comfort you but I hope you know I will always be your friend. I remember Michael from those first days in Kunming when our parents came to adopt us. I remember your dad when you came to our cabin in Maine and he threw us both high up and into the water. I hope I will
see you soon. My love to you and your mom.
Xiaofang (aka Jenni)
Milton T. Glor
January 10, 2007
Greetings Sandy and Cleo and family,
It has been so many years since we have seen Michael but I have fond memories of him as a nephew growing up in Buffalo, NY and the many visits during those days. We left Buffalo in 1969, and donot get back very often. We will miss him and we wish you all God's blessing during this time of sorrow and grief. "Rest eternal grant to Michael, O Lord: and let light perpetual shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace." Uncle Milton, and Aunt Janice, Michael, Steven, and Kathy Glor.
Andrew Ohar
January 10, 2007
Sandra,
We are so sorry to learn that your beloved husband, Michael has Passed
away. Michael will be missed by many. He was always upbeat and had a
quick mind. Some times playfully mischevious. He is a great loss to all who loved and knew him. A very talented man. I believe he is looking down upon us thinking, "Why so sad? I never had it this good. Love you all."
Uncle Andy & Pat Ohar
Jacksonville, Fl
Bill Glor
January 10, 2007
I'll always cherish our childhood memories...Thank you, Michael.
Uncle Billy
Hanni Lee
January 10, 2007
I was privilidged to meet Michael and Sandy when we were both in Kunming, China, in April 1998, adopting our little five year old daughters! I will always remember those days with love and fondness. Michael made that trip better for me - he was so loving and doting to Cleora from the first minute he met her and not having grown up with a dad, his devotion touched me deeply. He was funny and warm and made me feel more at ease during that sometimes stressful time. I will always remember him that way. Sandy and Cleora, my love to you both and always to Michael
Sal Sgandurra
January 10, 2007
Please except our deepest sympathy, I worked with Mike at Sheffield and knew him a short time. Betty & Sal Sgandurra
Iris Dunn
January 10, 2007
Michael:
Fond memories of family gatherings at Grandma and Grandpa's house where cousins played and mothers and fathers socialized. That time was special and will never be forgotten.
Love,
Iris
John Stevenson
January 10, 2007
I'll always remember playing with Michael as kids on most Sunday's at our grandparents house in Buffalo, New York. He was lot's of fun with a good sense of creative humor. Most importantly he was a good person with a heart of gold. So sad that he is gone so soon. My sincere sympathies to all those that came to know and love him. His cousin John.
Charles E. Martin
January 10, 2007
Michael was fun and funny. Michael was smart and intellectually challenging. Michael was braver than most of us. Michael was like Coyote the Trickster. I am sorry that I only experienced Michael when he was young. My condolences to all who loved him. His cousin Charles.
Pam Rathbun
January 10, 2007
Dear Sandy & Cleo,
The depth of Mike's love for his family was so great. I believe that his love will always be with you.
With fond memories,
Lin East
January 10, 2007
Mike- I will miss our spirited conversations. You were always willing to share a story. Sandy and Cleo- he loved you both dearly.
Sandra Huff
January 10, 2007
Dear Sandy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Don't know if you remember us...my daughter Sarah Huff went to Gallup Hill Elementary school in the late 80's, she's now almost 22! We'll always remember the school fairs and you bringing your beloved scotties! We pray that God will comfort you and your family during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Sandra Huff
Mark & Linda Geer
January 10, 2007
Sandy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mark & Linda Geer
Margo Pierce
January 10, 2007
Sandy and Cleroa: I am so very sorry for your loss, but now Michael is out of pain and at peace. Wish I could be there for you but know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love Margo and Carl
Therese Roush
January 10, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Teresa Preston
January 10, 2007
I can not express how much you have touched my life. You will be forever in my thoughts and prayers.
Valorie McNatt
January 10, 2007
I will remember most the way Michael's voice and facial expression would soften whenever he spoke of Sandi and Cleora.
maureen & vincent ciancio
January 10, 2007
Dear Michael,
My handsome Big Brother. Today I have no words to explain the void we all feel in our hearts without you here. You are missed and loved, and thought of everyday. Our world is now a different place and forever will be. You no longer suffer the pain you had to endure and I know you are at peace and off to a new adventure. Your death is forever a heartache. I miss you and love you with all my heart.
I love you always,
Sister
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