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Patricia Duncan Obituary
Patricia was born in New London to the late Marion and Louise (DuFour) Faraci and graduated from the Williams Memorial Institute in 1954 where she was known for her playfulness, and "a terrific capacity for fun and a very easy-going nature".
A long-time resident of East Lyme until retiring to Florida in 1994, she enjoyed a successful career for the Federal Government as a civil service administrator while devoting herself to raising her pride and joy, her two sons.
Patricia enjoyed time at the beach, shopping (mostly on QVC), and spending time with her family.
Her infectious smile, quick wit, and knack for speaking her mind (and following it up with telling you that it "builds character") will be remembered by all that knew her. She was always glad to help others or lend an ear to a friend in need of comfort or a good laugh.
Patricia will be missed by sons, Daniel Stellenwerf (partner Monica Lanz) and Timothy Stellenwerf (partner Joan Simoneau); three grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by a brothers, Tommy Faraci, Joe Faraci, John Faraci; and a sister Viola (Dee) MacPherson.
There will be a private burial for the Family at Saint Mary's Cemetery in New London. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Heart Association.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patricia Duncan
Bud Lanz
January 8, 2025
Thinking of your mother, Daniel - I wish I had known her.
BUD LANZ
January 6, 2024
A beautiful woman. I wish I could have known her better.
My love to Daniel and Timothy.
Bud Lanz
January 6, 2023
The photo of a beautiful woman.
Daniel, I wish I could have known her more closely and for a longer time.
Please take comfort in knowing that you had a wonderful mom.
Patty Franco
January 13, 2022
I worked with Pat at SUPSHIP. She was always nice and loved to laugh. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.
Bud Lanz
January 13, 2022
Grieving for you Daniel, and for the family.
American Heart Association
January 13, 2022
May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
Alan Ginglardi
January 13, 2022
So sorry to hear of Pats passing. Knew her at Supships where we worked together she was a great person to be around RIP Par
Christina Langford
January 12, 2022
Dan, as you said, we think to pick up the phone and call to chat with her and then realize that she is gone. I have known her since the 70s when we began working for the government. We remained friends till she left us. Having been blessed so many years being friends (a long time), I am slowly adjusting to know I cannot call or visit her anymore. May God comfort you Dan, Tim, and family as all adjust to her silence now. What a beautiful picture of her. Your character description of her shows in her smile. I will also miss her kindness.
Ann(Donatello) and Gary Dacek
January 12, 2022
Dear Danny, Tim, and families,
We are so sorry to hear of your mom´s passing. She was a wonderful person. I have so many great memories of her. May your wonderful memories bring you peace and many smiles. She will always be with you in your hearts.
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