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Paul Sturges Obituary
He lived in New London, until designing and building his dream home for his family in East Lyme, in 1987. Paul's journey was one of love, dedication and service to his family, community and the Mohegan tribe. His legacy leaves behind an everlasting impression on many people. He is survived by his beloved wife JoAnne Sturges; his children, Paula Sturges Smith (Kyle) and Jesse Sturges (Alisha); and his four adoring grandchildren: Tyler, Joseph Paul, Valarie and Naomie Sturges. Paul was deeply involved with the Mohegan Tribe and served on the Tribal Council during federal recognition, organizing wigwam festivals, and was chairman of the board of education. Paul took immense pride in his work particularly during his tenure at Electric Boat and as senior director of regulation and compliance for the Mohegan Tribe.
Paul's commitment to community extended to his passion for baseball where he supported local leagues from fundraising to coaching nurturing the love of the game in countless young athletes. Additionally, he served on the board for the Connecticut Cancer Foundation. Paul's legacy is one of service, leadership and compassion. He will be deeply missed as the countless lives he touched throughout his remarkable life. In this time of mourning, let us remember Paul's spirit and the profound impact he made on his community and beyond.
Calling hours/visitation for Paul will be held from 10 a.m. to noon Saturday, June 8, at Montville Funeral Home of Church & Allen, 53 Norwich-New London Turnpike, Uncasville. Following the calling hours/visitation will be a graveside funeral service at 12:30 p.m. at Fort Shantok Burial Grounds, 340 Massapeag Side Road, Uncasville. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Paul's memory to the Connecticut Cancer Foundation, 15 North Main Street, Old Saybrook, CT 06475, (860)388-0788, CTCancerFoundation.org.
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Paul Sances/ Rawlings
September 19, 2024
Sorry to hear of Paul´s passing. He´ll be surly missed by his family and friends.
RIP Paul
Sharon Olsen
June 12, 2024
Joanne and family. We are sad to hear of Paul passing. Sending prayers for your family.
Maryann Clausen
June 12, 2024
My sympathies to you and your family.
Maryann Clausen, RPT
John McCullough
June 10, 2024
RIP Paul!
Ann Buonocore
June 10, 2024
Dearest Joanne and family.,
I just learned of Paul's passing and so many good memories of your family come to mind. I most certainly will never forget Paul's love for Christmas and how proud his parents were of him.
My deepest sympathy is extended at this time. May His Memory Be Eternal.
Chuck and Jeanne Palardy
June 8, 2024
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. So sorry for your loss.
Julia (Simons) Reinhardt
June 7, 2024
Dear Paula, Jesse, and Jo,
I have so many fond memories of birthday parties, pool parties, and sleepovers at your home. I am very sorry to hear of Paul's passing and hope you hold happy memories of him in your heart.
Linda, OT
June 4, 2024
Jo,
Sorry to hear of your loss...we remember a lovely Christmas party in your new house. Prayers and may all the good memories help during this difficult time.
Marion & Howell David
June 4, 2024
To Jo, Paula, Jesse, spouses, and beloved grandchildren. We are so sorry to hear of Paul's passing and will always remember him we with Christmas lights twinkling in his eyes and love in his big heart.
Linda Shea
June 4, 2024
When I think of a memory that stands out ,it would be putting up and taking down the Christmas trees. I looked forward to it every year and knowing he trusted me with his most precious ornaments meant a lot.( Sorry about the humpty dumpty ).My sincere thoughts ,hugs and prayers to Jo, Jesse ,Paula and family.
Marion & David Howell
June 4, 2024
To Jo, Paula, Jesse, spouses, and grandchildren. My heart goes out to all of you. I will always remember Paul with twinkling Christmas lights in his eyes and love in his heart. Peace be with you.
Don (Andy) Anderson
June 4, 2024
Paul was like a brother to me. I spent countless hours with him and his parents. I am shocked he is gone. My sincerest condolences to his family.
Michael Riccio
June 4, 2024
So sorry to hear this sad news. I have wonderful memories working with Paul on the great Red Sox shows we organized for Mohegan Sun. My sincere condolences to the entire family.
Doug and Lisa Wheeler
June 4, 2024
We extend our deepest sympathy to Joanne, Paula, Jessie and the family during this time. We have fond memories of Paul and will hold him close in our hearts.
Sandra Palardy
June 4, 2024
Joanne, Paula, Jesse and families, I know that you are all grateful for your lives with Paul, and I feel so fortunate to have been a part of your lives as well, thank you. My thoughts are with each of you, I know that you will be brave in your sorrow as he would want you to be. Sending much love, always.
Jeanette Pinch
June 4, 2024
Joanne, thinking of you! My sincere condolences!
Scott & Margie Sydney
June 4, 2024
Joanne & Family, We are so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. We have fond memories from get togethers at ours & your home in years past. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Cathy & Bill Discordia
June 4, 2024
Joanne, Paula, Jesse & family,
So sorry to hear about Paul. We have lots of good memories. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Charlie Bruno
June 4, 2024
I worked with Paul, his early days at E.B. when he was still a carpenter.
Sad to read this today.
My respect and condolences for his family.
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