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Raymond Boucher Obituary
Born in Attleboro, Massachusetts on September 2, 1963, he was a son of Margaret Beatrice (Pimental) Boucher, a Sister of Mercy Associate, and the late Raymond Boucher who died on May 25, 1992.
Raised and educated in Attleboro, Mr. Boucher attended St. John the Evangelist School in Attleboro and Bishop Feehan High School in Attleboro graduating in 1981. He earned his Bachelor of Science degree in architectural design from the University of Wisconsin in Madison, Wisconsin in 1986.
While a student at Bishop Feehan, he served as a drum major and played the flute and the glockenspiel. A longtime communicant of St. Mark’s Roman Catholic Church in Attleboro Falls, Mr. Boucher served as a church organist for 13 years having started while a teenager in high school.
Teachers and instructors early on described Raymond as a “fearless entertainer and performer.”
He was the owner and operator of Raymond G. Boucher Interior Design in Medfield since 1989. From 1986 – 1989 he had been employed as an interior designer for Newman-Coor Interior Design in Boston.
For years he was affiliated with drum and bugle corps and was a member of the “Boston Alliance” in early adulthood and was a member of the Madison Scouts in Madison, Wisconsin while attending college. He later was a member of the “Spirit of Atlanta” in Atlanta, Georgia.
He was an allied member of the American Association of Interior Design and was a member of the New England Scholastic School Band Association.
His most treasured times were those spent teaching and mentoring youth in his art.
Mr. Boucher served as an award-winning educator, coach and visual designer for the color guard corps at Bishop Feehan High School in Attleboro; King Phillip Regional High School in Wrentham and was currently serving the Dartmouth High School in Dartmouth.
He was a marching member, coach and designer for the Winter Guard International in Dayton, Ohio.
During the Christmas holiday season, Raymond would volunteer his time, energy and talents by decorating holiday trees to be auctioned off at the Westin Hotel in Copley Place, Boston to benefit the Children’s Hospital of Boston.
Mr. Boucher resided in Medfield for the past three years having previously resided in Norwood and the South End of Boston.
In addition to his dear friend and mother, he leaves a sister: Michele M. (Boucher) Brunelle and her husband, Armand J. Brunelle, III, of Attleboro; his nephew and Godson: Marc A. Brunelle of Attleboro; a niece: Rachel M. Brunelle of Attleboro; his Godfather and Uncle: Alfred J. Pimental and his wife, Louise Pimental, of Taunton and several aunts, uncles, cousins and cherished friends.
Relatives and friends are cordially invited to attend the funeral service on Tuesday, May 31, 2005 at 8:45 AM from the “Commonwealth Chapel” of the Dyer-Lake Funeral Home, 161 Commonwealth Avenue, Village of Attleboro Falls, North Attleboro followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 AM in St. Mark’s Roman Catholic Church, Stanley Street, Village of Attleboro Falls, North Attleboro with the Rev. Peter N. Graziano, Pastor, officiating.
Burial will follow in St. John’s Cemetery, Attleboro.
Following cemetery services, an invitation will be extended to join the family for a time of fellowship, remembrance and refreshment.
Visitation will be held on Memorial Day, Monday, May 30, 2005 from 4:00 – 8:00 PM in the “Commonwealth Chapel” of the Dyer-Lake Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Mr. Boucher’s name may be made to the newly established Raymond G. Boucher Memorial Fund, c/o BankNorth, 2 North Washington Street, North Attleboro, MA 02760 to assist in the advancement and development of children’s education and skill development.
Those in need of a ride to visitation may call the funeral home at (508) 695-0200 to make an advance reservation for this free transportation.
To send the family an expression of sympathy, please visit our on-line guest book at www.dyer-lakefuneralhome.com.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Dyer-Lake Funeral Home, 161 Commonwealth Avenue, Village of Attleboro Falls, North Attleboro.
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Robert Godbout
May 24, 2022
Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not for long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that once we shared
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all part of the master plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go the friends we know.
Laugh at all the things we used to do
Miss me, but let me go.
When I am dead my dearest
Sing no sad songs for me
Plant thou no roses at my head
Nor shady cypress tree
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet
And if thou wilt remember
And if thou wilt, forget.
I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not fear the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on as if in pain;
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember,
And haply may forget.
-Christina Georgina Rossetti
There is not a day I don´t think of you or miss you.
Love.
Amy Jacobson
June 22, 2020
Dearest Michele, I don't know what prompted me to look up Raymond's obituary today but I'm so glad I did. I loved learning what he did with his life post drum corps and it warms my heart that he continued to share his gifts with others in the activity. Marching with Ray in Spirit of Atlanta was a gift. He knew so much and I was so naive, I'm sure I drove him insane! When you joined the corps with him, I envied the close relationship you had together, almost like a twin connection between you, it was lovely to witness that bond and your shared laughter. I cherish the memories I have of Raymond and send you all my love.
Amy J.
Michele Brunelle
May 20, 2019
Yesterday was a big day for our family. Your Godson and nephew, Marc, graduated from college but you knew that as you were with us cheering him on. You were by his side these last 4 years as he pursued his goal. I know that your absence has molded him into the man he is today. I miss you dear brother as I care for our mother. I often wonder why I am the remaining one to be caring for her. She would say that "God only does right" so this was His plan. Rest easy as we approach your 14th anniversary. Love you always.
Brittany Collard
May 25, 2012
Ray,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and all that you taught me. I miss you so much but I know you are in a safer place.
Robert Godbout
September 2, 2011
Hey Buddy!
Just want to wish you a Happy Birthday! You are living in my heart and soul!
Love ya!
Jeannie Page
December 10, 2010
Ray was our Colorguard instructor at King Philip HS way back from 1989-1993. Sadly, I am only now learning of his passing and am very sad that I was not able to be there for his memorial.
Ray was wonderful. So kind, caring, compassionate, and a wonderful teacher. He always pushed us to be our best, and was always there to be supportive of us. And he always made us laugh and smile. He really was family to us. I have thought about him for all of these years and will forever picture him perfectly tossing that sabre.
May he rest in peace. He will remain in my heart.
Robert Godbout
May 24, 2010
Hi Ray,
There is not a day that I don't think about you and feel you in my heart. I miss you but I know you are in a better place. I hope you are taking long walks on the beach with your dad and talking about good times. I look forward to the day that we walk along together. Be an angel in my world and look upon everyone who loves you and spread your happiness. I know you're there! I miss you!
Allyson Garcia
December 7, 2009
Ray was, by far and wide, one of the most admirable human beings I've ever known. It doesn't matter how much time goes by -I will always remember him...he's in my heart forever.
Brittany Collard
December 4, 2008
Rest in the sweetest of peace Ray <3 Your guard girls miss you so much.
A young girl
September 18, 2007
He was born the same year as my father. Although I do not know you, I am SO sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Marc Brunelle
June 13, 2007
My Uncle saved my heart.I miss him.
Margaret Boucher
September 2, 2006
Today is your birthday. I labored on Labor Day! I miss you terribly but know God wanted you with Him. My love to Dad and you. Mom
Rachel Brunelle
March 20, 2006
My Uncle loved music. My Uncle Raymond started drumcorps when he was 15.He was very good at drumcorps.When he got bigger he taught the color guard. He was a good fan of color guard and a good teacher. My Uncle made a very nice flag for me. He was the greatest Uncle that I ever had. written by Rachel Brunelle
Ed and Carol Gronostalski
March 10, 2006
Dear Margaret,
We are saddened to learn of the passing of your son, Raymond. It is indeed a loss for your family and the people who he has touched through the years.
Michele Brunelle
October 30, 2005
Words can not express my saddness and emptiness with the loss of my dear brother, Ray. This void is so great. To hear my brother's name read at the mass for Bishop Feehan H.S. Deceased Alumni & Faculty on 10/29/05 was heart wrenching.
Ray would be so proud of the entries written about him in this guest book. These entries have been very comforting to my mother and I. Thank you for all your kind words and prayers.
My brother and I shared a very special relationship. I can only pray that my children, Marc and Rachel will have the same love and admiration that Ray and I shared for one another. We ask that you continue to pray for us as we learn to live without our Ray. Fondly, Michele Brunelle
Carol and Bill Moore
October 13, 2005
Dear Mrs. Boucher
We are so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. We enjoyed the conversations with Ray in Florida and the cookout last year. He was a wonderful and very talented person. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Ray and his Mom Margaret on Joan's balcony at Oceancrest, Jupiter Florida
June 16, 2005
Keri Miller
June 14, 2005
I've known Ray for many years. He was a great and lovable person. He taught me at St. Ann's for a few years. Ever since then everytime i would see him at a competition he would come up to my mom and i and give us hugs. I will never ever forget this wonderful man!
My deepest sympathy to the entire Boucher family. My thoughts are with you!
Bill Maier
June 14, 2005
I was upset to hear of Ray's early passing. I too met Ray while we were both members of the Madison Scouts. Although it was a short time, I have fond memories of Ray, his energy and humor. Thank you Ray, you will be missed.
Gloria Martin
June 7, 2005
I was so sad to hear the news of Raymond. Thank you for calling me.
Your family has been such dear friends to our family for a long time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and know we love all of you. God bless you and give you the strength you need.
Sincerely, Gloria Martin
Tom Dion
June 5, 2005
Dear Mrs Boucher,
I was so saddened to hear of the passing of your son. You are in my thoughts during this most difficult of times.
Sincerely,
Tom Dion
maura chadwick
June 3, 2005
I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing, I have fond memories of markching with him in Colorguard at Feehan. He gave so much and was so enthusiastic, and always made me laugh. My prayers are with you.
Maura O'Neil-Chadwick BFHS '83
David Doucette
June 2, 2005
I will always remember the work ethic and pride Ray had in everything he did, his family he loved so much, and his drive to perform and be the best he could be. We lost touch after high school but knowing him as a class mate and fellow band member during our high school years at Feehan, I am saddened to hear about the loss of such a good and kind person. My deepest sympathy to his family and loved ones at this difficult time.
Maureen Sweeney
June 1, 2005
To The Boucher Family & Bobby,
We were so saddened to hear the news of Ray's passing. I will always remember as a parent "He" asking how my daughter was doing.With the smile. He taught her at Boston Crusaders back in the day.
My husband and I have kept involved with our daughter in Winterguard and Drum Corps. We would see Ray every where.
I loved him as a person and a friend to all. Bobby my heart is so heavy for you ! My you always remember the good times .
Bruce,Maureen,Kheli Sweeney
Billerica, Mass
Debbie O'Donnell-Scanlon
May 30, 2005
My deepest sympathy to Bob, Michelle and the the Boucher family: I was a classmate of Ray's at Bishop Feehan. He was always smiling, encouraging of all those around him...a real friend to all. I dragged out my old yearbook and he wrote the nicest entry. Part of it said " sometimes you need the absence of someone to really make you realize how special they are to you...."we were all graduating and embarking on our new lives...saying goodbye to each other. I havene't seen Ray since then, but knowing his sweet and generous spirit, I was not surprised to read such a beautiful testimony to his life in the paper last week..and all the entries here from all of those that he truly made a difference in their lives. Ray is an example to all of us. My prayers are with you...
Bob, Margaret, Armand, Michele, Ray 2001
May 29, 2005
Peter Montanez
May 29, 2005
I only knew Ray for a short time back in 1982 marching Madison. He was fun and always made me laugh. One hell of a performer, and a talented individual. It is difficult for us when someone makes the transition into the nonphysical. My heart goes out to Ray's family and friends.
Jodi Lazarus
May 28, 2005
Ray was an unbelievable person. He taught me for many years at King Philip High School as well as Passion. He gave me so much confidence and made me the person that I am today. He will always have a place in my heart and will be greatly missed.
Lindsey "Cammie" Camara
May 28, 2005
Ray has taught me so much! not only as a performer but me as a person! Ray has done so much for the Dartmouth high guard... He tought us that when one person falls we all fall when one person stands up we are all up... but most importantly he tought us all to smile, even when the worst comes out to always smile. Ray will be terribly missed. He will always be with us!
Miracle Brodeur
May 27, 2005
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Boucher:
Although I lost touch of Ray through the years, I still have the fondest memories of your son. We marched together in State Street Review (1985- 20 years ago!) in Madison, Wisconsin. We were partners for some parts of our colorguard show. I'll never forget how strong and forceful Ray was with that huge rifle. And, his ability to whip it around!. It always amazed me how he totally manipulated that rifle and HE was in control. He had the ability to swing that rifle effortlessly- I always looked up to him and he always encouraged me to "bap" my sabre! We shared many bus rides together and many jokes! As a parent, I wanted to let you know that he was considerate and spoke very highly of his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Miracle Brodeur
bishop feehan color guard
May 27, 2005
our team loved ray soo much and we will deeply miss him we just want you to know that he was like family to us and we loved him very much. he was the best coach ever and he is the only colorguard coach that will ever really know what we are capable of.
nancy brawley
May 27, 2005
I wa so sorry hear about the sad passing of a great guy. Ray was a fair man to all of the kids he ever taught. Even the ones who gave him a hard time. I will never forget the trip we all took to Phoenix and the bus trips to Dayton Ohio. We never knew what would happen and we all had a good time. Ray you are joing a lot of very special people up with the Lord and you will be sorely missed.
Go with Passion
Nancy Brawley (parent of two former guard members)
Kathy Aruda
May 27, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with the Boucher family at this time.
Katherine Gallagher
May 27, 2005
I had the honor and privilege of marching under Ray in Blessed Sacrament colorguard for two years. I also taught with him in Boston Crusaders. He was a giving, caring person and a friend to everyone. The news of his passing is tragic and shocking. I send my deepest sympathies to Bob and the Boucher family and hope that you can somehow find the strength to get through this. Ray will not be forgotten.
Mary-beth Brawley
May 27, 2005
Ray taught me for years at King Philip and Passion. I still talk and tell my friends down here about it. I was just talking about Ray on Saturday and saying how much I missed him. I'm sorry I'll never get to see him again and thank him for all he did for us.
Rich Myers
May 27, 2005
I met Ray a couple of times and he gave the impression of a gentle, caring person. There are too few of these people. He will be missed.
Rich
Cindi (Brawley) Mumm
May 27, 2005
Ray taught me at King Philip and in independent guard and was a great instructor with wonderful and impacting ideas. He will be missed by most everyone who has come in contact with him in the art and everyday life.
Rev. Mr. Tony and Lorraine Cipriano
May 27, 2005
Dear Mrs. Boucher, Michelle and Armand,
Although Lorraine and I did not know Raymond, we are sorry to hear about Raymond’s passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
God’s mercy touches us at the last moment in a wondrous and mysterious way. Outwardly, it seems as if everything were lost, but it is not so. The soul, illumined by a ray of God’s powerful final grace, turns to God in the last moment with such power of love that in an instant, it receives from God his “Divine Mercy.”
Eternally in Christ I remain,
Steve Birch
May 27, 2005
Mrs. Boucher, Michelle and Armand,
I am deeply sorry about the death of Raymond. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl Machado
May 27, 2005
Robert & family,
I am so sorry to hear of Ray's early departure from us. We will truly miss him and we'll miss his smiling face. My sympathy goes to you and Ray's family.
Terri Wright
May 27, 2005
So sorry to hear about Ray's passing. I always enjoyed watching his guards. His wonderful smile and personality will be sadly missed.
Terri Wright
Gulf Coast Judges Association
MJA Judges Association
Gail Perrin
May 26, 2005
I grieve with thee.
May he never walk alone.
Jennifer Lazarus
May 26, 2005
Ray taught me for years at King Philip. He inspired me and impacted my life in more ways than words can explain. He gave me confidence in myself and I will never forget him. He will be missed.
Bertha Baroody
May 26, 2005
Ray was such an amazing person. He taught me so much and not just about performing and colorguard but about life. He showed me how to never give up and to always get back in there and gave us the determination and drive to become the best. But most of all he taught me to SMILE no matter what happens because everything is always better with a smile on. That's what he'd want us to do now. He'll be watching us perform and we'll smile for him!
mary winn
May 26, 2005
Dear Mrs. Boucher,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your son Ray. Kathy speaks often of the previous times, when you were all so close. She has fond memories of you all.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Mary Winn
[Kathy Plasse's friend}
Kathy Plasse
May 26, 2005
Dear Margaret & Michele & Family
The best memory I have of Ray is when I moved in across the street from the Boucher family, and first saw Ray, in his driveway, practicing with his white tapped up rifle, when I was first going to visit Michele.
He will be sadly missed. My deepest sympathy.
Kathy
Dot&Gil Matheus
May 26, 2005
To the Boucher family:
You have our deepest sympathy.
Christopher W. Berg "Alliance"
May 26, 2005
To the Boucher family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time.
Allison Norton
May 26, 2005
I was a student of Rays when he taught Salem High School two years ago. He was always joking around with us, and could always put a smile on my face. I can still picture him making up silly rifle work to our warm ups. I never got a chance to thank him for helping me grow as a performer, and more importantly a person. The memories I have of him will stay with me forever. We love him very much, and he will be greatly missed. All my love and prayers are with Bobby and the Boucher family.
Thank you Ray for everything. This years show was for you. “Angels watch over all of us, but sometimes we only know it once they’re gone”
Abbie Hamer
May 26, 2005
Ray taught us all of us what we need to know, he's been there, and what he's taught us will stay with all of us forever. we love you ray, and we were going places with you as our new instructor. You'll be terribly missed
Stephanie "bobo" Davignon
May 26, 2005
Ray tought me so much about colorguard. his funny stories. his lingo such as "sweetness" . He was a wonderful man and i couldnt ask for more in a coach. He was loved by the guard. and will always stay in our hearts. every performance is in his honor. One of ray's big things about a performance was to preform and smile. we will not perform to the jugdes but perform as high as we can for him . RIP ray. we miss you.
carol hendsbee
May 26, 2005
Dear Mrs. Boucher, Michelle and Armand,
So very sorry to hear about raymonds passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers and I know that in time the wonderful memories he left you will comfort you. God Bless you all.
Sincerely,
Carol Hendsbee
Alan and Ginger Armstrong
May 26, 2005
To the entire Boucher family,
I knew Ray and Michelle from their time with Spirit of Atlanta. We saw him at WGI Championsips a few years ago and had a few moments to catch up. I'm so glad we did.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this sad time.
AA
Tanya Tellum
May 26, 2005
I was a student of Ray's at King Philip for many years. He helped make me the person that I am today, and I will never forget him. We all loved him very much, he will be missed terribly.
Steve Sorrell
May 26, 2005
To the Boucher family: I marched with Ray and Michelle in Spirit of Atlanta. He was a wonderful performer and friend. Even though I haven't seen him in 20 years, I am deeply saddened by his passing. You will be in my prayers.
Linda Ausiello
May 26, 2005
Dear Mrs. Boucher, Michelle, Armand and Family,
Please accept our sincerest and deepest sympathy on the passing of your dear Ray. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The students and staff here at Bishop Feehan who knew Ray have great respect and admiration for him and are very sad. The entire community is praying for him and for all of you.
Sincerely,
Linda Ausiello and Family
The Staff of Dyer-Lake Funeral Home & Cremation Services
May 26, 2005
Our thoughts remain with you and your family at this time. We are honored by the trust and confidence you have placed in us during this difficult time.
steve lee
May 25, 2005
I had known Ray since the time he moved to Madison, Wisconsin and I am saddened to hear of his untimely passing.
He is in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve Lee
Karen Fischbach
May 25, 2005
Dear Mrs. Boucher, Michelle and Armand,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Dave, Alex and I will keep you close in prayer. God bless you all,
Karen, David and Alex Fischbach (Killion)
Francine, Phil & Alexandra Grover
May 25, 2005
Dearest Michele and Family,
With our heartfelt sympathy, words alone cannot express how we feel,except may we take comfort in knowing Ray is now your "GAURDIAN ANGEL". We knew Ray for a short period of time,but always knew he was a gift from above.
With our deepest sympathy
Phil, Francine & Alex
Nancy Shanahan
May 25, 2005
Ray was one of the most loving people I have ever known. I have so many fond memories of the times Ray, Bob and I spent together in Wickford...laughing or crying, singing or talking..it was all wonderful. I wish I would have spent more time with Ray the past of couple of years.
I will never forget you Ray...you were one of a kind!
Prudence Cowan
May 25, 2005
We were so sorry to hear about Ray, and wish we could be there to say in person. Noella and Allan sent us the information. Our prayers are with the family, and will see you in July. Sincerely.
Richard Rigolini
May 25, 2005
Thanks for bringing happiness to so many people and places. You will be missed.
Antoine & Raymonde Joseph
May 25, 2005
We share your sorrow.
Our best thoughts are with you and your family .
You will be in our prayers.
God bless you !
Design,friendship,music and laughter=Ray Boucher
Todd Brown
May 25, 2005
Although my wife Nancy and I did not see much of Ray and Bob recently; they have both been in our thoughts!
Ray and Bob have been more than friends; particularly to my wife Nacy SHanahan. THe shock of Ray's passing is indescribable! Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob and the Boucher family
Todd Brown
May 25, 2005
Although my wife Nancy and I did not see much of Ray and Bob recently; they have both been in our thoughts!
Ray and Bob have been more than friends; particularly to my wife Nacy SHanahan. THe shock of Ray's passing is indescribable! Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob and the Boucher family
May 25, 2005
We are deeply saddened by Raymond's untimely passing. We extend our most heartfelt sympathy to the entire extended Boucher, Brunelle, and Pimental families.
- Emerald Consulting Partners
Don and Joan Sidat
May 25, 2005
Dear Margaret, Michelle and Family,
May the peace of God that passes all understanding bring you comfort and strength in this time of loss.
Sincerely & Lovingly, Joan and Don Sidat, Oceancrest Friends
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