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Robert Irvine Obituary
He leaves behind his beloved wife, Melissa J. (Arnold) Irvine and his three beloved daughters, Jillian, Julia, and Jenevieve Irvine. Rob is also survived by his parents, Robert and Terrie Irvine of Preston; a brother, Ryan Irvine of Preston; mother-in-law, Patricia Arnold of Griswold; father-in-law, Walter Arnold Sr. of Groton; brother-in-law, Walter Arnold Jr.; and sister-in-law, Lisa Arnold of Groton: brother-in-law, David Arnold; and sister-in-law, Kim Arnold of Groton; a sister-in-law, Robin Arnold of Groton; four nieces, two nephews, as well as extended family.
Rob was a 1993 graduate of Ledyard Senior High School where he and Melissa met. He worked at Pfizer for 13 years and later became a private contractor.
Rob grew up in the close-knit community of Preston, where he and Melissa settled and enjoyed raising their three daughters. Rob loved to coach his daughters in basketball, tee-ball, and softball and was an active member in the Preston City Congregational Church where he and Melissa were married in 1999. He will be most remembered by those who loved him as a sincere, wise, humble and kind husband, father, son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. His illuminating smile and sense of humor will be forever celebrated and missed.
A Celebration of Life service welcoming all who wish to remember and honor Rob and his family, is planned for 12 p.m. this Sunday, Feb. 7, at Preston Veterans Memorial School, Route 165, Preston.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the family at www.gofundme.com/TEAMIRVINE-NoWhiteFlags. Other donations in memory of Rob may be made to his inspiration, TeamGleason.org
For further information about ALS, please visit facebook.com/weloverobirvine.
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Walter Sheldon jr.
February 10, 2016
Bob and the entire Irvine family,
I am very sorry for the loss of your son. I did not know your son, but I see that everlasting smile on his face which is what I remember the most about you, along with that witty intelligence. From what I have read he was just like you. A testament to your character which I am sure both of you instilled in him. All I can say is that I am sorry and I will keep you in my prayers at this difficult time. May he rest in peace.
Jeffrey L Walker
February 9, 2016
Bob...may I express my condolences in the passing of your son. I know it's been some years since our days at EB but I will always consider you a friend and I hope this note brings a smile to your face at this time.
Lisa Houghton
February 7, 2016
We love you. Always and forever. You are the strongest family I have ever known. ❤
Jody & Denise DeCarolis
February 7, 2016
Pease accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. His quick wit and smile will always be remembered.
Gail Rigney
February 6, 2016
May Rob's wonderful spirit shine on. Having touched so many lives in his short time here on Earth, Rob's legacy will surely live on in the hearts and souls of those who loved him. Blessings & peace, Gail Rigney
February 5, 2016
so very sorry for your loss. sending our deepest sympathy. Jeanne and Leroy Darrow
February 5, 2016
Melissa I am so sorry for your loss. I know you and Robert were very close and to your girls. I will pray for you and your family.
Robin Gunther
Judi Page
February 5, 2016
Melissa and girls, I'm so sorry for your loss. You have a new angel looking out for you. Forever keep the love and memories in your hearts. You are in my prayers.
Paula Adams
February 5, 2016
My thoughts are with you all. You guys have brought good light to ALS in Eastern CT. Your journey in life was worth something...to your wife, to your kids, to your family, to your friends and to the ALS community. RIP
kate Hunter
February 4, 2016
I didn't have the privilege of knowing Rob
personally, BUT I did attend a few fund
raisers for him.
He was spoken of with genuine love and
respect.
I send my prayers and sorrow for your loss.
Mike Charron
February 4, 2016
Dear Terrie and family, my heart goes out to you and your family. Mike Charron
Libby Bray
February 4, 2016
Sincerest sympathy to the family. God be with you.
Sarah DeLia
February 4, 2016
Melissa, Jillian, Julia, & Jenevieve,
We were so sorry to hear of Rob's passing. I met Rob at basketball when he was coaching Jillian's team about 10 years ago - the girls were in kindergarten or 1st grade. He was also a softball coach for the Preston girls. I always thought he was such a kind fun caring person. He always had a smile on his face, and watching him with his family was heartwarming. So much love.
He will be sadly missed, he certainly fought the good fight with ALS - and again - every time I saw him - always a smile no matter how sick he was. He is an inspiration, and he will be sadly missed by so many.
With our prayers and sympathy to all of Rob's family,
The DeLia Family
Elizabeth Lowney
February 4, 2016
I don't have the right words for such a tremendous loss, but I just want to send my prayers for peace and heartfelt love to Rob's family.
Brian and Jenn Horne
February 4, 2016
Sending love and condolences to Rob's family and friends. He was an amazing man, and will be missed deeply.
Matthew Roland
February 4, 2016
Rob will be sadly missed. He was a very polite man and a great person to know ,he always had something funny to say it would enlighten your day.
Bill Emerson
February 4, 2016
Bob and Terrie and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you. Bill and Maryann Emerson
February 4, 2016
Bob & Terrie - So very sorry to hear about Rob's passing. Love to you both and your family.
Merry Mattern Sylvia
Tim Lake
February 4, 2016
Rob, We grew up together in Preston and played Saturday morning basketball together at the plains from early age to high school. We played against each other down at Green Field all through the years in baseball. We went to high school together at Ledyard High School. Although I didn't party with you most of the time, we were still friends. Preston although a small town, we always took care of each other, watched over each other and remember each other. You went on to be a unbelievable father and husband to your family. Although this disease has taken you from us, the really great thing is you've been an inspiration to others struggling with this disease and helped people who may not understand it, do so. What you've accomplished while battling ALS is unheard of. Seeing the smile on your face knowing what was ahead of you was the greatest thing to see. I love you brother and thank you for making me a better person, father and husband because of it.
George Forson
February 4, 2016
Prayers and thoughts are with all the Irvine Family.
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