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Robert Roche Obituary

Pawcatuck - Robert D. Roche Sr., 85, beloved husband for 65 years of Lorraine Roche, of Sisk Drive, Pawcatuck, passed away at The Westerly Hospital on Tuesday, Jan. 9, 2018.

Born in Newport, R.I., he was the son of the late Manuel and Julia Roche.

Robert worked for Kaman Aircraft for many years, retiring as a supervisor. He created and donated many homemade hats to the Pawcatuck Neighborhood Center and was an avid New York Yankees and UConn women's basketball fan. His other passions and hobbies included woodworking, gardening, yearly winter trips to Myrtle Beach and summer trips to the campground. He enjoyed this all with his wife right by his side.

In addition to his wife, Lorraine; he leaves three children, Sheryl A. Mellow and her husband, Lawrence Mellow, of Westerly, Robert D. Roche Jr. and Karrie LaMarche of Pawcatuck and Mark S. Roche and his wife, Beth Rodgers Roche of Ashaway, R.I.; a sister, Winnie Dennis of Florida; and six grandchildren, Ivy Mellow, Amy (Mellow) Panucci, Dylan, Daniel and Stephen Roche and Nicole Pelletier.

Robert was predeceased by two sisters, Dolores Lubas and Theresa Roche.

Visiting hours will be held from 10 a.m. to noon Monday, Jan. 15, 2018, at Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly, immediately followed by a funeral service at noon in the funeral home. Burial will be private.

For online condolences please visit www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com.

In lieu of flowers, please send memorial donations to St. Michael's Building Fund, 60 Liberty St., Pawcatuck, CT 06379.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 13, 2018.

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Gracie Clark Newton

January 29, 2018

With deepest sympathy for the whole Roche family. I have many happy memories at their house hanging out with Sheryl. Wonderful people. Rest in Peace Mr Roche.

Jay Jordan

January 29, 2018

Sending heartfelt thoughts and prayers to the entire Roche family.

January 24, 2018

Sheryl & Larry, Lorraine, Robbie & Mark, I have many fond memories of the Roche family while growing up. An amazing family with an amazing father. Sending sincere condolences. - Diane Olszewski Reynolds

Pam JOHNSON

January 22, 2018

During this time of sorrow, may the words of Psalms 94:19 comfort you and soothe your pain. My deepest condolences for the loss of your love one.

P. J.

January 18, 2018

God has given us a life span of 70-80 years if we are especially strong. May you celebrate a life well lived and loved by many. May the words of Psalm 90:14 comfort you.

Lois Kisch

January 14, 2018

I just heard this sad news. So sorry for your loss. Words can't even begin to express how sad I feel right now. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

George Buster Mapes

January 13, 2018

In memory of a wonderful friend.

January 12, 2018

Our tough, courageous Dad.

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