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Robert John "Bob" Vanasse

1934 - 2022

Robert John "Bob" Vanasse obituary, 1934-2022, Oro Valley, AZ

BORN

1934

DIED

2022

Robert Vanasse Obituary

Oro Valley, Ariz. - Robert John Vanasse, 88 of Oro Valley, Ariz., passed away Sept. 6, 2022. He was born June 12, 1934, in Providence, R.I., to the late Arthur and Laurette (Denomme) Vanasse and was the youngest of six children. Rene, Emile, Herve, Paul and Therese Vanasse Caron all preceded him in death.

Robert "Bob"was an ace pitcher at West Warwick High School graduating in 1952. He played for the Pittsburgh Pirates minor league team for one and a half years before joining the United States Army. While in the Army, Bob pitched for the Army team and was spotted by a scout from the Baltimore Orioles. After his discharge, he played two years for the Orioles minor league team, and then left to marry his high school sweetheart Amelia Christina Petrarca and start a family. They were married May 11, 1957, and had five children: David (deceased), Robert, Brian, Julie and Michelle. They resided in Coventry, R.I. where Bob enjoyed coaching Little League teams that his sons played on.

In 1972, Bob and Amelia moved their family to Groton, where he was a senior designer for Electric Boat, a Division of General Dynamics. He designed mechanical equipment for submarines and traveled to submarine bases across Europe, Guam, and Hawaii, to perform ship checks of his designs.

Bob and Amelia were married 27 years and raised their family together until she lost her battle with cancer August 15, 1984. Upon her death, Bob moved to Napa, Calif., to work at Mare Island Naval Shipyard in Vallejo, Calif. He chose to retire in Tucson, Ariz., where he met the second love of his life, Donna Cadia. They were a loyal and loving couple for 20 years until his death. They enjoyed road trips, cruises and their travel trailer. As much as Bob loved to travel, he most enjoyed the mountain and desert view from his backyard in Oro Valley.

Bob was passionate about golf. He was a natural, and loved tough competition. He could remember every hole on every golf course he ever played, from St. Andrews in Scotland, to Pebble Beach, Calif. He remained very competitive into his late seventies when he was sidelined with acute heart disease. He was also talented with his hands, making beautiful wooden tables and clocks.

Bob is survived by Donna Cadia; his children, Robert Vanasse (Joanne) of Maryland, Brian Vanasse (Maggie) of Connecticut, Julie Lewicki (Tim) and Michelle Lewicki (Tom) of South Carolina. Bob is also survived by seven grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Bob will be laid to rest next to his beloved Amelia in Colonel Ledyard Cemetery, 240 Mitchell Street, Groton. A graveside service is planned at 1:30 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 5. Following the service, Bob's family will gather at the Groton New London Church of Christ hall at 151 Shewville Road, Old Mystic.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 25, 2022.

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Peter Petrarca

October 6, 2022

Bob, Brian, Julie, Michelle,
I am sorry for your loss. Your dad is with Aunty Millie now , deepest sympathy. Cousin Pete

Ray 'n' Mindy Hamilton

September 28, 2022

Dear Brian, Maggie, and the entire circle of Bob´s family `n´ friends,

I´m a brother and friend of Brian and Maggie´s from church. Understanding the hole a spouse/parent leaves behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable...the grief...which will come...is painfully necessary...but is also a measure of the loving impact this very special man had on your lives! So truly sorry to hear about your partner, father, friend. At least now he´s at peace with our Lord... definitely keepin´ y´all in our prayers!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss...inconsolable...she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m´dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton ~*~ March 19, 1989

Our sincerest condolences...loving prayers,

Nancy Finkelberg

September 27, 2022

Bob, Brian, Julie and Michelle, please know how sorry Dad and I are to hear of your Father's passing. Our families shared some good times! Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers!

Mr. Moran and Nancy Moran Finkelberg

Donna Tarasevich Carroll

September 25, 2022

Sending love and condolences to you all for the loss of a vibrant man, your father.

Petrarca/Vescera

September 25, 2022

Dear Bob, Brian, Julie, Michelle, Donna, and families,
We are so sorry for your loss. Know that he will Rest In Peace alongside Aunty Millie. We extend our deepest sympathy.
Love, Cousin Carol and Frank

Carl Burnett

September 25, 2022

To the children, I worked with your dad at EB, we bowled and played golf many times, went to Red Sox games with your parents, had picnics, truly enjoyed the friendships. Rest In Peace, my friend, and thanks for all the good memories...

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