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Susan "Sue" O'Keefe

6/12/1941 - 4/24/2022

Susan "Sue" O'Keefe obituary, 6/12/1941-4/24/2022, Glastonbury, CT

BORN

6/12/1941

DIED

4/24/2022

FUNERAL HOME

Mulryan Funeral Home - Glastonbury

725 Hebron Avenue

Glastonbury, Connecticut

Susan O'Keefe Obituary

Glastonbury - Susan (Lyons) "Sue" O'Keefe died peacefully in her home in Glastonbury, April 24, 2022, at the age of 80. Born Susan Lyons to the late William J. Lyons and Mary Carroll Lyons June 12, 1941, in Manchester, N.H., Susan lived a self-described "idyllic" childhood.

Upon earning her bachelor's degree from Notre Dame College in Manchester, Susan, in many ways ahead of her time, set out on an adventure for Colorado with a friend to work and ski, until her skis were stolen, and it was time to return home. A supervisor in one of Susan's early jobs suggested that she would make an excellent teacher and the rest was history. Susan's teaching career began shortly thereafter at a Catholic school in Manchester, N.H., where her roles included drama coach - which will not come as a surprise to anyone who knew her. Upon moving to Connecticut, Susan was proud to be among the inaugural teaching staff of Academy School in Glastonbury, helping to establish curriculum for the incoming sixth grade students, a role she described as a highlight. Susan married Gerald "Jerry, the Bat" O'Keefe June 20, 1970, and the two lived in Manchester, before settling in their beloved town of Glastonbury, to raise their family.

Susan is survived by two sons, John O'Keefe and his wife, Meredith Fabiaschi O'Keefe, of Canton, and William "Bill" O'Keefe and his wife, Jenifer Ryder O'Keefe of Glastonbury. Susan's "sweet peas" were her three grandchildren, Taylor, Jack and Olivia. There is nothing that Grandma wouldn't do for her "sweet babies," including showering them with gifts, graciously allowing toys to scatter throughout her house at the Shore, reading "the Sunday funnies," and watching the Boston Red Sox.

Keeping Susan engaged and youthful right into 2022, was her longtime service as a substitute teacher for Glastonbury Public Schools. Susan had an affinity for going a bit off-script, giving high school students life lessons on college savings, loans, career opportunities in the trades and other practical matters. She enjoyed working in special education classrooms, where she got to know students as individuals and often held long-term sub roles. Susan was an active volunteer and patron of the Glastonbury Friends of Football.

A consummate loyal friend, Susan is survived by countless friends from all facets of her life: childhood friends of over 70 years, the Delmar Divas and many local friends, including Glastonbury school staff, Noank neighbors and newer Meadow Hill neighbors, who stood by her side in her final years and days. Her family extends their gratitude to each of Susan's friends who have visited and shared their support in the past few weeks. Susan celebrated her 80th birthday last June with a tour of Manchester, N.H., including her childhood home and a luncheon with a small group of friends and family.

She loved "rock and roll," was known to boogie down on the dance floor at weddings and could be heard singing a high-pitched a cappella version of songs such as "Day by Day" and "I Feel Pretty." An avid gardener, Susan was also well-versed in antiques, and served as a volunteer at the Little Red Library.

Susan's life will be honored with calling hours from 3 to 5 p.m. Sunday, May 1, at Mulryan Funeral Home, 725 Hebron Avenue, Glastonbury. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 11 a.m. Monday, May 2, at St. Paul's Church, 2577 Main Street, Glastonbury, and burial to follow in Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Gerald and Susan O'Keefe Memorial Scholarship, benefiting a GHS student. Please mail to 6 Noja Trail, Canton, CT 06019. To share a memory of Susan or send a note to her family, please visit mulryanfh.com.

If you are still reading, Sue would appreciate that, as she could hold a crowd in the winding, colorful journey of a story, as was the story of her life. Finally, Susan's daily and weekly rituals involved reading local and national newspapers, which always began with "the obits." We hope we are doing her justice here.

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Published by The Day on Apr. 27, 2022.

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Anne Webster

April 21, 2025

Dear O'Keefe Family,
I miss your mother!!!!
What fun we had over the years!! Times always became "alive" when you were with Susan!! She was smart, funny, a great story teller and best of all a dear friend!! You could always count on Susan to back you up and support you!!
She remains always in my heart!!

DON ANDERSON

May 2, 2022

To The O'Keefe Family : Deepest sympathy to you all. My years with Sue at Central High School continue today as a fond memory shared with many other of her friends. We hope as tears flow at this time, the wonderful days of so many years gone by will create a message that will dry your eyes and bring a smile for you all who knew Sue as a friend and a classmate so many decades ago.

Don Anderson, Marco Island, Florida
Manchester Central High School Class of 1959

Sky Farley

May 1, 2022

Dear Susie,
This morning I awoke
with you on my mind
Smiling back on
such cherished times
Tending your garden
with such pride and delight
gatherings on your porch
on lazy summer nights
The warmth of your welcome
the twinkle in your eye
the sharing treasured stories,
we´d laugh and we´d cry.
No mincing words
always true to your core
Putting Love into action
.... there´s oh so much more.
Your gifts to this world are
ones that keep giving
in each one you´ve touched
by your way of living.
In deep gratitude and Celebration,
Susie, we hold you forever in our hearts

Pastel Peace Basket

The Webster Family

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Detlef and Carmen Engels

April 29, 2022

We´re so very sorry for your loss. Our family will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

John Bonneville

April 28, 2022

To the O'Keefe family so sorry for your loss. Mrs O was an amazing sub from when I had her.

Heather Boyne

April 28, 2022

What an amazing woman and a wonderful friend.

Kara Nelson

April 27, 2022

Susan had a heart of gold, and cared deeply about so many. She loved the high school kids she taught, and cheered for them from the stands on Friday nights (unless she was in the press box spotting the ball at home games). She was an amazing supporter of the Friends of GHS Football and took much pride and joy in the scholarship she awarded annually in her husband's memory to support a senior in his college journey. Susan had a great sense of humor and was a fabulous human being. My condolences to all who loved her; she will certainly be missed in this community.

Nancy Munson

April 27, 2022

I am in shock to learn Susan has passed away. I hadn´t talked to her for awhile so thought things were going well. She was the best friend ever for over 50 years. So many memories fromGlastonbury and Noank. If I ever needed cheering up I would call Susan.
Would someone in the family please call me at 15613130702

Sandra Siena

April 27, 2022

I´ll miss our long conversations at work! Sue was one of a kind. She always had great stories to tell. Condolences to her many friends and family.

Gerry Ouellette

April 27, 2022

Sue was a good friend and I'm sorry we weren't in touch these past few months. May Sue rest in God's peace and may her family find comfort that she is now with her beloved husband Jerry in heaven.

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Mass of Christian Burial

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