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Thomas Bakke Obituary
He was born May 14, 1955, in Portland, Maine, the son of Elmer and Florence (Gates) Bakke.
Thomas was preceded in death by his father and brother, Stephen Bakke.
Tom is survived by his mother, Florence; his wife, Pamela (Williams) Bakke; his daughter, Danielle Bakke of Enfield; grandchildren, Gage and Adamina Glidden; and a nephew, Christopher Bakke. He is also survived by other loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and close friends, too many to mention. Tom enjoyed traveling and sharing his experiences with others. He also enjoyed skiing with friends over the years. His most treasured moments were with his grandchildren, Gage and "Minabean".
Family will receive friends from 2 to 4 p.m. on Friday, June 15, at the Swan Funeral Home, 1224 Boston Post Road, Old Saybrook. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the charity of your choice.
Please visit www.swanfuneralhomeoldsaybrook.com to view memorial tribute.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Bakke
Mary Thompson
June 30, 2012
It has been so many years, I was just a kid when I met Tom. I have not had contact since we left school. Pam I pray that you and your family have peace. We are very sorry for your loss on behalf of The Dean family, from Vinegar Hill Rd. Mary Dean Thompson '74'Brother Andy '72. God comfort you all.
Midge Hansley-Ingalls
June 15, 2012
My sincerest sympathy Pam and family. I will always remember him fondly. GOD bless you Tom.
Rachel Haywood
June 15, 2012
Danielle and Gage,
So sorry for your loss. Looking at his childhood pics, I can see that Gage looks exactally like his Grampie. Love you both. My thoughts and prayers are with you today
Chris Wiegman
June 15, 2012
Memories of the time I spent with Tom will always put a smile on my face. I've had the opportunity to work with Tom in various capacities throughout the years. Tom was even responsible for helping me get an important new position I enjoyed for many years. More importantly, Tom was friend. I often received text messages from Tom, each one reminding me again of his tremendous sense of humor! Tom and I could talk about nothing at all, or about decisions that would shape our futures. He was just that kind of guy. I looked up to Tom, always interested in his opinions and direction. I'm going to miss the friendship, guidance and humor Tom shared with me and all who had the opportunity to know him. My prayers go out to Pam, Danielle, Gage and the Bakke family for your loss.
September 2009 Cape Code
Cherie Williams
June 14, 2012
Cherie Williams
June 14, 2012
Dearest Pam, our deepest sympathy, remembering the good times you had together will help you through this time. Know I am and will always be here for you, Love always, Cherie, Carl and all the kids.
Carleen Mejza
June 14, 2012
Tom was my neighbor on Kennedy Drive when we were young. I remember his sense of humor well. I was saddened to hear this news. I will light a candle for him and his family. Carleen Mejza
Jim Hall
June 14, 2012
I'll never forget his laugh and his guitar playing at the talent show in school.
Marci Onorato
June 14, 2012
Remembering high school days and what a wonderful person Tom was. May he be at peace.
Curt Haney
June 13, 2012
I had the distinct pleasure of working with Tom many years ago, and listening to his wonderfully told stories. My life is a little brighter for having known him. He was always so full of life and will be sorely missed. My condolences to all who knew and loved him.
Suzanne Cattanach
June 13, 2012
I was so sorry to read about Tom's passing. I worked with him from about 1985-1990 at The Computer Lab in New London, in that great decade of the 80's (and early wonder years of the Apple Macintosh). We had a lot of fun there. I hadn't seen him since then, but the photos were nice to see, he looked like he was having fun as always. I had heard that for a few years he had the tool franchise and every time I see one of their trucks I think of him. My sympathy and prayers to his family and friends.
Patty Hall
June 13, 2012
Dear Pam and the Bakke family, I am very sad and shocked to hear of Tom's passing. He had been helping me since the beginning to plan our 40th high school reunion and his passing has profoundly affected all of us who shared our high school years together. We will miss him and keep his memory near to our hearts next July. Our most sincere sympathy.
Kevin Leyland
June 13, 2012
To Tom's Family, my sincerest condolences. Life brings people in and out of your life, and I feel lucky to have met Tom when we both lived in Gales Ferry. Rest In Peace my friend.
Louise Manzi-Gray
June 13, 2012
Dear Pam, I was so sorry to hear about Tom. I will always remember all the fun times at the house playing cards, going in the jacuzzi or just hanging out. He was a great guy and will be sorely missed. Please let me know if I can do anything for you. Yours, Louise
Scott DAniello
June 13, 2012
Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was a great guy! I enjoyed you guys coming to the Cuckoos Nest when I bartended there. We would talk about everything and laugh like crazy. My deepest condolences. Sincerely,
Scotty
June 13, 2012
Tom , RIP save a seat for me up there for happy hour. Pam I'm sorry for loss. I will remember those many many times we shared at the nest.
Fireman john
Robin Fox
June 13, 2012
Tom and I have been friends for more than half my life. He gave me the most amazing gift when he introduced me to his long time friend now my husband of many years. My condolences to all who loved him. He was a great guy and I shall miss him dearly.
George Bekris
June 13, 2012
Tom was one of my best friends for the last 30 years. He was a great man,friend,father,son and husband. He will be sorely missed and I will remember and cherish all the great times we enjoyed together. To Tom's Mom, Pam and Danielle, my condolences to all of you, we all loved him.
Doreen Bono
June 13, 2012
Tom worked with me at The Computer Lab in New London years ago. My deepest condolences to the Bakke family.
Donna Walker
June 13, 2012
Dear Florence
So sorry to hear about your son what a terrible loss. Tom did always try to share his good fortune with everyone. I don't know what else to say as there are no words that can ease your pain.Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.I have an appt. on Friday afternoon so I won't be able to see you.
Donna Rolfe Walker
Monica Gibson
June 13, 2012
To the Bakkee family my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in loss of Tom. Ton was a sweet person and had a special way about him. May the memories you carry in your hearts see all of you thru this difficult time.
Sincerely, Monica
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