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Thomas Rolfe Obituary
He was born on July 16, 1959 in New London, the son of Priscilla (Calkins) Rolfe and the late Ernest Rolfe. A 1977 graduate of East Lyme High School, Tom worked for many years as a Heavy Equipment Operator.
In addition to his parents, Priscilla and James Rolfe of Niantic, survivors include his son, Matthew Rolfe of Preston, a daughter Victoria Rolfe of Norwich, three brothers, Ernest Rolfe of Niantic, James Rolfe and Steven Rolfe both of Pennsylvania and a granddaughter Addilynn Rolfe. He was also predeceased by their sister Laura Gandy.
"If I'd leave here tomorrow
Would you still remember me?
For I must be traveling on, now
'Cause there's too many places I've got to see
And if I'd stayed here with you, girl
Well, things just couldn't be the same
'Cause I'm as free as a bird now
And this bird you cannot change
Bye, bye, baby, it's been a sweet love
Though this feeling I can't change
But please don't take it so badly
'Cause the good Lord knows that I'm to blame
And if I'd stayed here with you, girl
Things just could not be the same
'Cause I'm as free as a bird now
And this bird you cannot change"
-Free Bird by Lynyrd Skynyrd
The family will receive relatives and friends from 5 to 7 p.m. on Saturday (Feb. 9th) at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 48 Grand Street, Niantic To send the family an online condolence, please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com
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Teri Portofee
February 17, 2019
Rest in peace Tom. You are now in a blessed and peaceful place. You will always hold a very special place in my heart. Buster and Polly - I will always hold memories shared with your family close to my heart. You got me through some tough times and I will be forever grateful. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
February 13, 2019
rest in peace my friend
February 11, 2019
Mr. and Mrs. Rolfe,
I was very sorry when I learned (from my father and from a sister) that Tom had died. I remember lots of hours at your house. And Tom spending lots of hours at ours.
I looked back at our yearbook; I'd forgotten that he and Teri were a couple.
I'll remember Tom as a sweet guy and a great childhood friend.
Michael Taber, from Maryland
Robin Worrall Nelson
February 9, 2019
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Tom was a great friend. I have known him all my life. Love you brother with all my heart
Joann starkweather-kerr
February 8, 2019
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
George Eccleston
February 8, 2019
My condolences to Tom's family. I worked with Tom many years ago at Appleby & Cutone Const. We had some good times at & after work, never a dull moment! RIP Tom......
Tom T.
February 8, 2019
Ernie,
I'm so sorry to read about your brother. My thoughts are with you.
Tom T.
February 7, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
February 7, 2019
You will be missed Tom Love You!Aunt Marilyn & Uncle Bob
Anna Jean Pulito
February 7, 2019
Our sympathy to Polly, Buster, Ernie, Jimmy, Steven, Matthew and Victoria. Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you all. May Tom rest in peace.
Anna Jean, Dan, and Family
NANCY POWELL
February 7, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. He will always will be remembered in your hearts. Hope you find comfort from family and friends. Thinking of you both. Love Always, Nancy Powell xxoo
A B
February 7, 2019
My condolences go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. May you find a measure of comfort found at John 6:40 which says that soon we will all see our loved ones again
joyce lumadue
February 7, 2019
To Polly and the entire Rolfe family: My condolences to you all during your loss. I remember his younger days and his friendship with my Donald. Prayers for peace and strength.Joyce Lumadue
Pierre, Janet and Family
February 7, 2019
Keeping the family in prayers during this time of sorrow. Our deepest condolences
Tonia Green
February 7, 2019
To the entire Rolfe family. Sorry for your loss.
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