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Marianne Boncutter "Mare" Lorenz

1938 - 2015

Marianne Boncutter "Mare" Lorenz obituary, 1938-2015, Indian Wells, CA

BORN

1938

DIED

2015

Marianne Lorenz Obituary

Marianne "Mare" Boncutter Lorenz

October 19, 1938 - March 9, 2015

Marianne died peacefully at home with her husband, Fred, at her side. Born and raised in Seattle by her devoted parents, Al and Fran Boncutter, she graduated with honors from Whitman College where she was a proud and active member of the Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority, as well as the Seattle Junior League. Married nearly 53 years, Mare and Fred raised a daughter, Jennifer, and a son, David. David and his lovely wife, Jenn had given Mare three beautiful granddaughters. Marianne is also survived by her sister, Jean, and numerous relatives who reside in Seattle and the Eastern United States. Mare stayed in great mental and physical shape by lots of walking, golf and tennis. She and Fred loved to travel throughout the United States and Europe, and they also loved their "home away from home" in Indian Wells, California. She had a magnetic personality and was admired for her intelligence wherever she went. Her warmth, charm and beauty will remain in the hearts of all those who came to know and love her. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Mar. 27 to Mar. 29, 2015.

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Carolyn (Holmes) Farnum

February 11, 2016

Marianne was a sorority sister of mine at Whitman College and I am so sad to hear of her death. What a full and happy life she had lived.

April 16, 2015

Dear Fred: I saw the obit in the Desert Sun and thought, "I knew a Marianne Boncutter in Issaquah HS"...and again thought, with no mention of Issaquah in the item, it couldn't be the same classmate. I still have a lot of friends in the Seattle area and today I was talking to a friend from school who mentioned Marianne's passing. It was the same Marianne! I remember Marianne as a beautiful, popular, lively and funny girl and the carefree days we had in our teens growing up there. I have lived in Sun City Shadow HIlls for the last ten years and didn't know she was in the desert...Alas, I would have loved to see her again. The last time I saw her was at a reunion
years ago when we had combined several classes, (I was a senior when she was in junior year.)As you may remember, it was a small school and we were all like a family and knew everyone's brothers and sisters.
It's always sad to hear about her death, but know that she had a wonderful life all these years with you. I just wanted to offer you my condolences in your grief. Darlene (Soper) Turner, Indio

Allison Finney

April 12, 2015

Mr. Lorenz, I am so sorry to learn of Marianne's passing. She was a great lady, very kind and thoughtful and I always enjoyed seeing her at Eldorado. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

April 8, 2015

Dear Fred and family. I write this with a heavy heart and fond memories of Marianne. You all were great to grow up with as next door neighbors at Roanoke park. Mariannes bounless energy was always so much fun. She was a good friend to mom, and perhaps they are chatting it up as I write this. She will be missed by many I am sure. Be well Lorenz family and peace to you Marianne. From Stephen "Poncho" Jenkins

March 29, 2015

Dear Fred, We were shocked and saddened to learn of Marianne's passing. Travis and I looked for you and Marianne at the Asics Tournament at MH in January and missed seeing you. Marianne will be greatly missed in both Indian Wells and Seattle. Our love to you and your family during these sad days. Suzy and Travis Keeler

Peggy and Sally Habegger

March 29, 2015

Mr. Lorenz (Fred)
We were so sad and shocked to learn about Marianne. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We have fond memories of you and her at the STC. She was always so caring and friendly.

March 29, 2015

Dear Fred, David, Jennifer and the rest of Marianne's family,
We will miss Marianne very, very much. She and you all have been a part of our lives "in the alley" behind 10th for as long as we can remember. I loved babysitting at your home, my brothers loved playing there and our Mom thoroughly enjoyed walking and talking with Marianne.
With the next generation, and our son Dylan, you continued to show kindness and support letting him "take care of your house and the cat" when you headed south.
We shall miss Fred and Marianne walking down the alley past our open garage and back yard - saying hello to us on their walk across the bridge. We shall miss her smile and her unique laugh and her positive spirit in our changing neighborhood.
The great thing is that she and Mom get to walk together again. Peace and prayers to you all.
With affection,
Debby Walters and Dan & Dylan Patterson

March 29, 2015

I have many memories of desert Thanksgiving with the Dorado villas gang. Marianne made the best sweet potatoes! I enjoyed the way she engaged life and those around her. She will be missed but remembered often and fondly.

My best to you Fred during this time of profound loss.

Christian Ursino

Gene Hooker

March 28, 2015

So Sorry Fred.Maryanne was such a caring and enthusiastic person.She was always such fun to be with. Welcome to widower hood.

March 28, 2015

I was so sorry to hear of Marianne's passing. She was a wonderful presence in my earlier years. When I was in my 20s and had moved away, mom said that when she and Mare would walk Greenlake they would look for cute guys for me. I just loved that : ) Love to you all and rest peacefully Marianne. (Sally - Walters - Pollard)

March 27, 2015

Fred we r do sorry. Our love & prayers. Sheila @ Bruno Boin

March 27, 2015

Fred,

I read this morning with such sadness about Marianne's passing. I hope you and your family are being comforted by your faith, family and friends. I will always remember Marianne's kindness and gentle spirit whenever we spent time together during my Eldorado days. My sincerest sympathies. JoAnne Thompson

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