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Alex Grafft Obituary

ALEX DAVID ANGELO GRAFFT Cedar Rapids Alex David Angelo Grafft died Saturday, Aug. 21, 2021, after complications from a sports injury. Alex was born Dec. 14, 1988, in Port-au-Prince, Haiti. Premature and tiny, he turned into the boy who lived. He was adopted by Rita and LaMar Grafft, from Iowa, in June 1989, where he joined a sibling group of seven. He graduated from Washington High School in 2007 and wrestled for a short time at Loras College before continuing his education at Kirkwood. There, he started his cheerleading career which led straight to his passion of coaching. He graduated boot camp and joined the Iowa National Guard in the spring of 2013. He received a degree in Criminal Justice from the University of Northern Iowa in 2016, where he also was a valued member of the cheerleading team. Throughout his life, Alex always held several jobs at a time like delivering papers, detasseling, roofing, construction, Two guys and a Truck and Subway. He was a cheerleading coach, plasma donor and corrections officer. He was a hard worker with an untouchable work ethic and was always willing to lend a hand. Alex was positive, funny, energetic, genuine and never afraid of being himself. He was a light, a beacon who inspired and befriended everyone on his path. He persevered and never let his dreams die. After a long road of interviews, Alex was looking forward to joining the Des Moines Police Department in September. He was preceded in death by his brother, Daniel; and his grandparents, Melvin and Ruby Borcherding and Delbert and Virginia Grafft. He is survived by his parents, Rita and LaMar; and his siblings, Cara, Megan, Luke, Clay, KC, Nick, Lia, Taneeka, Tori, Marc, Carly, Kenzie, Jamie and Molly; and numerous nieces and nephews, who will always and forever hold him in their hearts. Please leave a message for the family on the website www.cedarmemorial.com under obituaries Visitation for Alex will be held from 4 to 8 p.,m. Wednesday and again from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Thursday at St. Stephen's Lutheran Church located at 610 31st St. SE in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. His funeral will follow at the church at 11 a.m. Then a military graveside service at Cedar Memorial Cemetery followed by lunch and visiting back at the church will take place. A memorial will take place in Des Moines at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please direct donations to the family for the Alex Grafft memorial fund. His family is looking at multiple ways to honor Alex's memory. Checks can be made to St. Stephen's Lutheran Church or to his father, LaMar Grafft, and sent to 4104 E. Lang St., North Carolina 27828.

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Published by The Gazette on Aug. 24, 2021.

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Rhonda Griffin, Centro, Inc.

August 24, 2021

So very sorry for your loss. Was sad to see this. I remember Alex well from his days at Centro. He was a hard worker! I remember he worked here and with Two Men and a Truck and had an amazing work ethic, beautiful smile, and was focused on getting his student loans paid off. Wishing peace to you and your family.

Rhonda Griffin
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St. Stephen’s Lutheran Church

610 31st St. SE, Cedar Rapids, IA

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610 31st St. SE, Cedar Rapids, IA

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610 31st St. SE, Cedar Rapids, IA

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