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Carolann Woolever Obituary
Norwalk Resident
Carolann Woolever (Retter) passed away at Norwalk Hospital on January 15, 2013.
Carolann is survived by her husband, Paul G. Retter, of Norwalk and her son and daughter-in-law, Charles P. and Danielle Retter of Portsmouth, Rhode Island.
Carolann is lovingly remembered by her brothers and sisters, Lorraine Woolever, Bunny Fleming, Bruce Woolever, Renee Zernitsky, Holly Woolever, and Thaddeus Woolever.
Carolann was born in Bronx, NY, on December 29, 1947 and grew up in Sullivan County, NY. She was employed by the Norwalk Inn for fifteen years and at 9 West for ten years. She was also a professional belly dancer and worked for Walter Medicis Dance Studio in Syracuse, NY.
Carolann was a member of the Black Rock Congregational Church in Fairfield, CT. She always sought to help others, serving as an assistant Cub Scout Leader, Sunday school teacher, ESOL Volunteer, tutoring area children in reading, and giving her time to Support the Troops.
Carolann adored her four grandchildren and loved taking her dog Stormy on long walks through the neighborhood. She relished long walks on the beaches of Connecticut and spent hours at the park. Her kindness was extended to everyone she met along the way.
Carolann will be deeply missed by all who loved her and whose lives she touched.
Services will be held at the First Congregational Church on the Green at Park and Lewis Streets in Norwalk on Saturday, January 26th, at 10AM, starting with greeting time followed by a celebration of Carolann's life and a reception for all.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of your choice or any of the following: Vitas Innovative Hospice Care, 99 Hawley Lane, Suite 1204, Stratford, Ct. 06614 ; Pet Therapy at Norwalk Hospital 34 Maple Street, Norwalk, CT 06850; or Black Rock Church Care Ministry, 626 Surf Ave., Stratford, CT 06615.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carolann Woolever
Richard
January 15, 2025
Mom and I were just talking about you and wondered where you were and how you are doing? We laughed about the two of you talking to the TV every time. Mom still does it and it drives me crazy, this is why I will never take her another movie after the Titanic. People were telling her to be quiet...Funny how that memory is now funny to recall, I will do the same once my mom is gone and laugh at the times I made her do to her own room to watch TV.
Diane
January 15, 2024
Hard to believe how many years have gone by, but no matter that time marches on I still think of you often, and miss our break time chats way back when. I see your welcoming smile and hear your cheerful voice as clearly as it always was, greeting every guest by name, remembering their children spouse and pet names too! RIP Carolanne. I'm sorry life was not easier for you - no one deserves peace and comfort more.
Richard
January 15, 2024
Carolann I know you already know this but mom and I were talking about you the other day. She says you were visiting her for some time after you left us. I am sure you found a way to do that and wherever you are I know you are helping others. You are not forgotten and we will se each other again!
Richard
January 15, 2023
Bunny and I were just talking about how you and my mom talk to the television out out loud to no one in particular. Definitely a family trait and worthy of a chuckle every time. Mom still does it and I ask who are you talking to, pause...no reply. We love you and miss you still, you are not forgotten.
Diane Cece
January 15, 2022
No one who is remembered is ever truly gone. I still think of Carolann often, especially when I drive by or visit The Inn. That smile! It's simply unforgettable, and was truly her way of spreading joy to every one she met. Carolann, I think your life here may not have been easy, but you always took the time to make sure everyone around you was happy. I picture you in heaven, smiling and dancing, and giving that famous hug to all who join you now. Thank you for the memories, which I cherish. I will never forget you.
Richard
January 15, 2020
You are free to be who you always were without restriction or conveyance. I know you are loving the freedom, lightness and clarity that comes with returning to spirit. You are now truer to your natural form and your time here is not forgotten. I hope your journey has been an exciting one and peace comforts you, love you always Richard
Your finale Sunset
Renee Zernitsky
February 19, 2013
As we sat and watched the last moments of your life ebb away, we thought, “It's time” and we said, “its okay Carolann, you can let go." I saw the struggle you went through knowing it meant that you would be leaving us behind, and I saw you cry wanting to stay. But as you began to realize there was a new beginning waiting for you and your body could no longer keep you here, you silently slipped away. The loved ones who passed before you were awaiting your arrival and you saw them there waiting to greet you and hold you in their arms again.
We all will pass your way one day and hope your being there to greet us will help us make that transition from this life to the next a bit easier. Teach them what you have learned while here and find peace and freedom from pain.
charles retter
February 19, 2013
Thank you everyone for your kind words and fond memories. It means a lot to my Father, my Wife and I as well as all of her sisters and brothers.
Family Photo Smallwood, NY
February 18, 2013
Family Photo Easter Sunday
February 18, 2013
Carolann and Baby Charlie
February 18, 2013
Carolann
February 18, 2013
Carolann's Wedding Day
renee
February 18, 2013
Grandma Kadlec and Carolann in the country
Renee
February 18, 2013
At Grandma Kadlec's House
February 18, 2013
Diane
February 14, 2013
"If tears could be a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven, and bring you home again".
Carolann had her immediate and extended family, and her Nine West family and belly dance family and neighbors family and pet family. And she also had her Norwalk Inn family- I was there recently during the day and can only say I miss that smile and voice of the Inn so, so much. Though grateful for the happy memories, things just will never be the same to walk thru the doors and know I won't see her.
Cheryl
February 13, 2013
I was very sad to hear of Carolann's passing. I worked with her at the Norwalk Inn and we became very close friends. She extended extreme compassion and kindness to me when I needed a friend. I will truly miss her! My condolences to Paul, Charlie and the rest of the family.
Love, Uncle Ed & Aunt Eileen
February 11, 2013
God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
and whispered, "Come to Me".
With tearful eyes we watched you.
And saw you pass away.
Although we loved you dearly,
we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating.
Hard working hands at rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He only takes the best
February 10, 2013
February 10, 2013
February 10, 2013
February 10, 2013
big Sis & Carolann '97
February 10, 2013
xmas '97
Sissy Woolever
February 10, 2013
We had many happy days in Florida.I looked forward for your coming for xmas.
Your big sister misses you. Thank you for sharing yourself with me. I say good night to u every night. I know you hear me. Hope your'e enjoying your new teaching job. That's what u loved doing and did it well.
Stewart Sr and Carloann
Stewart Woolever,Jr
February 10, 2013
Dad always held you close in his heart as he did all his daughters,as do your siblings.
Stewart Sr and Carolann
Stewart Sr and Carolann
Stewart Woolever,Jr
February 10, 2013
Bunny
February 9, 2013
Sisters : In the cookies of life,
sisters are the chocolate chips.
A sister shares childhood memories and grown-up dreams
Sisters are different flowers from the same garden.
Sisters function as safety nets in a crazy world simply by being there for each other.
Having a sister is like having a best friend you can't get rid of. You know whatever you do, they'll still be there.
A sister is a gift to the heart.
Sister to sister we will always be.
Never forgotten and In my heart always.
Aunt Judy
February 8, 2013
Reading all the love and appreciation so many people had for Carolann leaves me wishing I had gotten to know her better. Peace to all those she leaves behind.
Barbara Hudgins
February 8, 2013
I am sad to know of CarolAnn's passing. For a brief time of our friendship, I was above all moved by her kind generosity and sensitivity.
Condolences to all the families.
Thad Woolever
February 6, 2013
Growing older we grew apart, but you will always be my big sister. The time we spent together when we were young and the time we spent together recently, I will always cherish. I loved you then, now and always. Always miss you. Your little brother P-Nuts
Diane Reiter
February 6, 2013
I knew Carolann through Paul and she was a very loving, kind-hearted, and generous person. She liked to help people and I always liked her advice. I have had some challenges over the years and Carolann gave me excellent advice. I especially liked her optimism and enthusiasm. She truly loved her son and grandchildren. I remember how proud she was showing us (Paul's tennis friends) the photo albums of Charlie and his kids about 3 or 4 years ago. She will be fondly remembered. My condolences to Paul, Charlie and her family.
Tom/Janet Twomey
February 4, 2013
Paul--We are so sorry to hear about Carolann's passing. We have so many fond memories of her going all the way back to the dating years. We are thinking of you and send our heartfelt sympathy.
Renee Carolann Bunny Holly and Sissy 1985
February 1, 2013
Renee
February 1, 2013
Just a note to say - We are all missing you.
Holly and Carolann 2008
February 1, 2013
My Great Aunt - Love you from Riley
February 1, 2013
Linda Woolever
January 30, 2013
I'm sorry I didn't get to know Carolann. My condolences to the family.
Eileen Harrington
January 26, 2013
As one of the people touched by Carolann, I was stunned and saddened to learn of her recent passing. We shared a number of long walks at one time, and became friends. I was always inspired by her resilience and optimism. When we both volunteered for Literacy Volunteers, I listened as her student gratefully praised Carolannn's patience and support in helping the student to learn English. Her enthusiasm for life, her pride and love for her son, Charlie, and his family, her ready smile, and kind interest in others will continue to touch us as we fondly remember her. My condolences to Paul, Charlie, and to all her family.
Elsa Obuchowski
January 26, 2013
We are deeply saddened to hear of Carolann's death. We will miss her friendship. Our deepest condolences to Paul and the rest of the family. Love, Elsa and Dan
Diana Babcock
January 26, 2013
God Bless you Carolann
Susan Reed
January 25, 2013
I had the privilege of visiting Carolann on new years eve in Norwalk hospital. My dog Lilly and I are a part of the pet therapy team at the hospital. I know Lilly brought joy and comfort to her that day, she held onto her leash, and stroked her face. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
January 25, 2013
Sisters
renee zernitsky
January 25, 2013
Heather Woolever
January 24, 2013
Aunt Carolann you will be missed dearly. But we know that you are looking down on us an watching over us. XOXO
Your Sister, Holly Woolever
January 24, 2013
My silly sister Carolann who mowed the lawn in her duck pj's. She would sit with me at night watching scary movies until 2am. It was fun waiting to see who would get scared first. You always made me laugh so much and made my Summer very special. This I will miss. I know you have an angels heart that loved and cared for everyone. You had a great smile and always gave great hugs. No body can tell me you wouldn't have been a great hippie. Miss you forever.
January 24, 2013
You will be missed Carolann. My heartfelt sympathy to Paul, and to all Woolever families.
Heather
January 24, 2013
We will miss you Aunt Carolann, I know you are in a better an happier place now. We all miss an love you very much!! RIP. XOXO
Bruce Woolever
January 23, 2013
To my sister may you have rest and peace.
You warmed all out hearts.
January 23, 2013
Carolanne, You are always in my heart, reminding me, now more loudly than ever, that; time is short and life is precious. I love you very much! We will meet and have fun together again.
January 23, 2013
January 23, 2013
Charlie, Danielle and all four grandkids
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
Mom with Arianna and Alissa
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
Mom and Dad with Arianna and Alissa
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
Mom with me and Sean
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
Charles Retter
January 23, 2013
renee zernitsky
January 23, 2013
Sisters n Brothers
renee zernitsky
January 23, 2013
renee zernitsky
January 23, 2013
Baby Carolann
Renee Zernitsky
January 23, 2013
Renee Woolever Zernitsky
January 23, 2013
Woolever Family
Renee Zernitsky
January 23, 2013
Our sister when she was 6
January 23, 2013
Angela
January 23, 2013
I will miss your laugh, and your long hugs. The way you looked at people was more like looking into them. You were such a special person. With such a big heart. May you rest in peace now with Stormy.
January 23, 2013
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are sending hugs.
xox
Janet and Marty
Sally & Stan Zacharczyk
January 23, 2013
May god hold her in the palm of his hand! We are deeply sorry for your loss!
Kathy and Joe Ross and family
January 22, 2013
Charlie and family. So So sorry to hear about your loss. May she rest in peace.
Kristen Basone
January 22, 2013
CarolAnn I will never forget your smile and cheerful hello when I would see you at the Norwalk Inn. I know that my dad and so many from the Inn are so sad that you are gone. Rest in peace.
Joan Papsun
January 22, 2013
I was so sorry to hear of Carolann's passing. I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They have just gone to their eternal home with God, where we will join them one day. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. May you find comfort in knowing that many lives have been enriched by having shared Carolann' love. I always enjoyed speaking with Carolann at St. Peter's. Paul, please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandi
January 22, 2013
I am saddened to hear of Carolann's passing. She and I worked together at 9West so many years ago, I can remember seeing her smiling face, her kind words and energy filled the office everyday. My thoughts and prayers are with her family....RIP Carolann you will be missed.
Leah Horn
January 22, 2013
We will miss you Aunt Carolann, but we know that you are free to dance whenever you want now!
Linda Hopp
January 22, 2013
Paul and Charles although I never got to meet you - I worked for almost 4 years with Carolanne and she was such a beautiful person. It was the greatest pleasure to have known and worked with her. The great hello in the morning when you can in to the conversations during the day we special. I sadly miss her here and hope she is resting a peace with God now and no longer in pain. Bless you both and rest of Carolanne's family and may God guide you through you loss.
Linda Hopp
January 22, 2013
We celebrate Carolann's life and remember how many lives she touched in the time she was with us. We take take comfort that she is now safe and happy in the arms of our Heavenly Father in his kingdom.
Louise Simpson
Richard
January 21, 2013
A caterpillar comes to season and has only one purpose, to transform into its true form
As days pass like seasons do for humans
the voracious caterpillar eats its own body weight absorbing nutrients in preparation for the change;
like the caterpillar who weaves its own cocoon we ready ourselves for the journey restoring us back to our original form; spirit
The great one calls us home to our purest expression; love in spirit
We transition from this life easing into the next shedding our bodies, woes, and pains
We are welcomed by our creator and our teachers await us, rejoicing;
Like the caterpillar you have transitioned through a metamorphosis
you have come home returning to your original state of being and you are beautiful, free to fly....
Love in eternity your nephew Richard
Jacqui Moody
January 21, 2013
I will miss you, Carolann. Your kindness, sweetness and cheerfulness enriched me every time I saw you. God bless you, my dear friend.
(Lois) Maureen Cece
January 21, 2013
Carolann and I worked together at 9 West all those years ago and she was the light of the office then, always kind, smiling and I knew she truly cared about each of us that were employed there. She was remarkable always on the move multitasking yet always had a kind word. I had the opportunity to meet up with her again at the Norwalk Inn all these years she remained a very kind caring friendly woman. I will miss her... My prayers are with her family
Renee Zernitsky
January 21, 2013
Your smile is what stands out the most when I visualize your face. Your bright childlike eyes comforting and giving hope and faith to those that take the time to see.
Thank you for your smile, it helps me smile today.
Your Sister Renee
lorayne Beinke
January 21, 2013
paul, carolann was the kindest, gentlest, caring and most of all she was loved by us all. I ask the lord to give you his strength, I know that she doesn't have to suffer or be in pain, she is in the hands of the lord, we will miss her a lot.
Roena Littlejohn
January 21, 2013
My deepest sympathy to you in the loss of Carolann, God grant you strength as you remember her.
Blessings,
January 21, 2013
Just think of her as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and no years. Think how she must be wishing that we could know today how nothing but our sadness can really pass away. Think of her as living in the hearts of those she touched... for nothing loved is ever lost- and she is loved so much.
Love you Aunt Carolann,
Angela
Marna Schirmer
January 21, 2013
Paul,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Marna Schirmer
JoAnn Shapiro
January 21, 2013
Dear Paul,
I was sad to hear of Carolann's passing, but take comfort that she is with our Lord. I am glad I got a chance to talk to her before she passed and to know she was strong in her faith.
I will miss her til we meet again.
January 21, 2013
Hi Paul,
I am thinking of you, Carolann and family at this most difficult time. My prayer group and I are praying for Carolann and to you and family Carolann's spirit is looking out for you and to all of you love, Toni
donna donahue
January 21, 2013
for you sweetie you will always be in my heart i will miss you and the walks and laughing you will always be in my prayers you will be gratfully missed
Donna Donahue
January 21, 2013
Hi Paul i was sad to here that she passed carolann was a great woman i am glad they made her comfortable and she is in heavan she will be greatfully missed and always in our hearts
Kim Mallardi
January 21, 2013
My special friend for close to 30 years.
I will truly miss our long talks about
family and life.
You were a good friend and an amazing
women.
May God bless you and your family.
Godspeed my friend.
Kim Mallardi
Diane Cece
January 21, 2013
I am beyond saddened to learn of Carolann's death. She was truly one of the bright stars here on earth and now a beautiful bright angel in heaven. I will always remember her beautiful smile and cherish the days we worked together at The Norwalk Inn, the very first person I met when I walked through the doors. I'm sad to think her smiling face and warm personality will no longer be there to greet guests, and am sure she will be missed immensely by all the clients and staff.
My sincere and heartfelt condolences to her family. Carolann was a very special person and I'll always keep a place in my heart for her.
Stewart Woolever,Jr
January 21, 2013
Rest in peace my sister
Barbara O'Connor
January 21, 2013
Dear Paul,
I was sad to hear of Carolann's passing, but take comfort that she is with our Lord.
I am remembering you and the family in my prayers.
Sissy Woolever
January 21, 2013
Your spirit of love will always be in my heart. Safe journey my sister. Enjoy your everlasting peace with God. I will miss you forever. xxx ooo
charles retter
January 21, 2013
I love you mom and will never forget our time together.
Eileen Greco
January 21, 2013
Carolann may the candle of life guide you through your journey to heaven to meet our Lord.
Eileen Greco
January 21, 2013
Paul, Charlie, Danielle, the Woolever and Retter families,
Carolann was a very warm and loving person, she loved life, she loved her son and grandchildren very much. She was a inspiration to so many people including myself. Carolann and I worked together at Nine West, our sons were born in months of each other. Even though I moved to Pennsylavnia we still kept in touch through the years. She was truly a great friend.
Charlie, your mother loved you with all her heart, we spoke of you often. She is now your Angel watching over you, Danielle and the kids.
Keeping you and your families in my prayer during your time of need. My sincere condolences of the loss of Carolann, a mother, sister, wife, grandmother and most of all my true friend. Love you Carolann until we meet again.
Your loving friend Eileen Greco
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