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Robert Ferrara Obituary

Robert J. Ferrara "Bob"
Robert J. Ferrara "Coach Bob," 81, husband of the late Renee Redway Ferrara of Norwalk, passed away August 11, 2020 at Bridgeport Hospital surrounded by his loving family.
Born February 15, 1939 and raised in Stamford, Connecticut, he was the son of the late Paul and Anna Ferrara who taught him that above all, God and family always came first. Raised on the West Side, Bob had two brothers, identical twins, James Ferrara and the late Paul Ferrara whom he loved tremendously. Bob wholeheartedly embraced his job as big brother and enjoyed telling amusing stories about Jimmy and Paulie's antics and accomplishments throughout their lives.
Bob loved baseball and was the starting catcher on the first Connecticut team to win the Little League World Series Championship in 1951. These same Little League teammates, including his best friend and late cousin Frank Robotti Jr., went on to win the 1953 and 1954 Babe Ruth World Championships. Bob played 4 years of American Legion Baseball and played 3 years of Varsity Baseball at Stamford High School where he captained the team his senior year. Before injuring his knee, Bob caught the eyes of several major league scouts. Being side-lined was tough, but in true Bob fashion, he went on to share his love of the game through coaching.
In 1956, Bob graduated from Stamford High School where he was part of the "Boys of 56"; the members of the SHS class of 56 that formed close friendships with one another that lasted their entire lives. It has been said that there has never been a group of this many classmates anywhere that has remained so close for so long with such enduring love and respect for one another. They will always be affectionately remembered as "THE BOYS."
With a degree from Southern Connecticut State University in Health and Physical Education, Bob started his teaching career at Burdick High in 1962. He moved to Rippowam High School in 1968 where he coached football with the late Al Shannon and baseball with the late Mike Sette. In 1978 Bob became Rippowam's Head Baseball Coach and remained there as a guidance counselor until 1983.
In the fall of 1983 Bob returned to his alma mater, Stamford High, where he finished out his career. Bob will forever be known for making a positive impact on so many students, teachers and families as an honest, caring and influential coach, guidance counselor and assistant principal. His greatest gift was the ability to see the potential in every human being and help individuals find a meaningful path. He devoted 35 years to the profession he loved and was honored and revered by his colleagues and friends as he left The Stamford Public School System in 1997.
Above all, Bob's ultimate pride was his family. He married Irene (Renee) Redway in June of 1961, who was truly the greatest love of his life. They moved to Norwalk and became proud parents to three children, Maureen, Lisa and Michael, who later went on to give Bob and Renee seven doting grandchildren.
Carrying on his parents values, Bob and Renee raised their children with the love of God and family. He was without a doubt, their rock, their hero and the very best mentor they could ever ask for. Regardless of the circumstances, Bob was ALWAYS there for his children, with wise words and a gentle hug.
Bob and Renee were the biggest fans of their seven grandchildren and were always in attendance during sporting, theater, and school activities where they continued to add more and more friends to their lives. The two also enjoyed listening to music and would often sing together, creating beautiful harmony.
Bob is survived by brother, James Ferrara and wife Elsie of Stamford, CT, daughter Maureen Matthews and husband Jay of Hamden, CT, daughter Lisa Devaney and husband Mike of Trumbull, CT, and son Michael Ferrara and wife Sheila of Easton, CT and seven grandchildren, Rob and Breanne Ferrara, Brendan and Michael Devaney, Adam, Alice and Amelia Matthews. He is also survived by his in-laws Janet Ferrara, Jack and Sue Redway, several nieces and nephews; and many of his cherished cousins the Robotti, Vitti, Salvati, Coughlan, Macarella and Zaccagnino families.
In addition to his wife Renee, he was predeceased by his brother Paul Ferrara, and his in-laws Juanita and James Baltovich.
Due to COVID, there will be no calling hours. Visit www.collins-funeral.com to leave condolences.
A funeral mass will be held 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, August 22, 2020 at The Church of Saint Cecilia, 1184 Newfield Avenue, Stamford, CT. Burial will be held privately at a later date.

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Published by Stamford Advocate & The Hour on Aug. 16, 2020.

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Denise Ekstowicz Monte

July 16, 2025

Bob was my guidance counselor at Rippowam High. He was the one person that got me through the death of my father when I was 15 yrs old. I sat in his office many hours talking and feeling safe, he was the father figure I lost during some very difficult years of high school. I wish I could have told him just how much he helped me. RIP, you were my greatest memory of High School. God bless

Rob Ferrara

September 21, 2023

Miss you - my instinct was to send you a Yogi Berra article I came across today. Thinking of you.

Herm Alswanger

September 8, 2020

Dear Ferrara family,

We are thinking of you all during these days. Bob was a first class person. Myrna and I were so lucky to know Bob for many years and be his friend. He was a colleague at school, and for a time he was a key member of our Camp (Long Ridge Camp) and his loss has been felt by all of us. His friendly smile, charm, wit and good nature is something that is increasingly rare these days. While his loss is hard for all of us to come to terms with, we will always smile when we think of Bob.

Lisa Devaney

September 4, 2020

Link to his celebration speeches: https://youtu.be/g08flnpszrI

DEBRA HINES

August 24, 2020

knew Mr. Ferrara from Burdick. Wonderful person

Willie Caporizzo

August 22, 2020

Lisa, Maureen, Michael and families,
We couldn't make it to the services today, but our thoughts and prayers were with all of you. Bobby was one of the boys of 56 and my best man. I remember all the great times we had together growing up. You will always be on my mind. Rest in peace dear friend.
Love, Willie and Angie

Annette and Vinny Cortese

August 22, 2020

Jimmy and Elsie and family, we are so sorry for your loss. He was my daughter Lisa’s guidance counselor. I don’t think she would have made it without him. Bobby was a great guy, RIP in the arms of Jesus❤

Richard Rizzi

August 21, 2020

Mr. Ferrara was my coach at Burdick and Rip. We had many great times and laughs together. He loved to play volleyball. He would give us passes for being late to class in order to finish a game!! We remained in contact through out the years. When he was a councilor and I was teaching at Stratford high school, we would reminisce about the old days and laugh every day during breaks. I will sadly miss him.

Allan Yaeger

August 20, 2020

Condolences to the Ferrara Family, Relatives and Friends on the passing of Bob. Thru sports we became friends and teammates that started with the 1951 Little League World Series and the 1954 Babe Ruth World Series Championship Teams and continued with American Legion Championship teams in 1955 and 1956. Bob was always a leader on and off the the field and it followed him thru life as a Teacher and Coach. We remained friends until now and he will dearly be missed.

Ronald a./Louise Sabia

August 20, 2020

Jimmy & Elsie & Family. Sorry to hear of the passing of your brother Bob. Our prayers & sympathy go out to All. The last time I saw him He was @ the West Side Boys Dinner. He looked great. He was like an older brother to us younger guys.

Patti Gaudio

August 20, 2020

Jimmy, Elsie and family, So sorry to hear of Bob passing. He was our son’s baseball coach and guidance counselor during his high school years. A mentor and friend to all his students. He will be missed, our prayers to all the family. May he Rest In Peace. Patti, Lew Gaudio and family.

Gail H Epstein

August 19, 2020

Thinking of the Ferrara family during this time of sorrow.

Gail and Richard Epstein

John Julius Geter

August 19, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Al and Dee Colacicco Cape Coral Fl

August 19, 2020

Jimmy Ferrara and the extended Ferrara family, our sincere condolences and prayers to you and your family on the passing of your brother. My mother Lena Deleo was very involved in that 51 World Series and always talked with pride and love for those boys. Our prayers are with you Jimmy

Barbara Wasil Bambino

August 19, 2020

I will always remember Bob as my brother Andy’s catcher in the 1951 Little League World Series in Williamsport PA. Bob was a wonderful member of the team. May he Rest In Peace.

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Peter Rigakos

August 18, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jack DeVito

August 18, 2020

To the Ferrara family,
First, my most sincere condolences.
Growing up on the West Side of Stamford and living on the upper end of Finney Lane, I knew Bobby and the twins. With his exploits in baseball, we all knew him.
He always had a smile on his face.
I did not see him for awhile until I became a teacher at Norwalk High School. I had been fortunate to have two of his children, Maureen and Mike, as biology students and we met at various times while the kids were in school there. After he retired from SHS and I from NHS, I would meet him sporadically at our monthly Wednesday night diners in Stamford ( neighbors from the West Side).
He still had that smile.

Tony Pavia

August 18, 2020

To Renee and the entire Ferrara Family,
My most sincere condolences on the loss of a wonderful man and true friend.
I had the pleasure of working with Bob as both a teacher and later as the principal of SHS. In both cases, Bob was the consummate professional as well as a valued friend and mentor. His kindness and empathy with both students and alike colleagues was legendary and his assistance and guidance to me, as both a young teacher and as a new principal will always be profoundly appreciated.
We have lost a wonderful man whose impact on others will always be remembered.
Sincerely,
Tony Pavia

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Rob Ferrara

August 17, 2020

We said goodbye to a great man last week. The patriarch of our family. I'll cherish all of the memories and laughs. No matter the topic, Grandpa always seemed to know the right thing to say. He touched the lives of so many family members, friends, students, and players.

I'm sure he's eating some of Grandma's chicken parm with the Mets game on right now. After the game, he'll eat a cannoli and watch The Godfather I & II.

I am a bit biased, but they just don't make 'em like my grandpa anymore. Thanks for showing us the way. I love you and am proud to don your name!

Jack & Barbara Leydon

August 17, 2020

Dear Elsie and Jim, May God heal your grief and your many memories help you with your heartache. With sympathy and friendship, Barbara and Jack

Willie & Darlene DiPastina

August 17, 2020

Jimmy ,Elsie and the entire family. So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time

Rita Conte

August 17, 2020

Dear Ferrara family
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. 8 was a student at Ripp while Bob was coaching. He was such a kind person and easy going man. He will live on forever in your hearts.

Bill & Pam Romaniello

August 17, 2020

Jimmy, Elsie and the entire Ferrara family. Our deepest condolences in the loss of your brother and father. May the memories that you all shared through the years bring you peace.

Tori Fauci

August 17, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Ferrara Family, I was his Team Mate on the Little League 1951 and 1953 and 1954 Babe Ruth Champion teams. RIP Bobby

Dan McNeill

August 17, 2020

My sincere heartfelt sympathies go out to the entire Ferrara family. Your dad was truly a great man. Love and peace to you all.

Jim Aulenti

August 17, 2020

to his family and closest friend my sincerest condolences.

I remember Bobby well. He was one of my boyhood hero's, having played as did my uncle Angelo on Stamford's 1951 Little League World Series Champions and later Babe Ruth and SHS. He was my physical education teacher at Burdick, I remember he taught me to climb the ropes and encouraged me, as I touched the rafters it seemed like 100 feet high. Later I worked for him doing "market research' at the grocery stores in Stamford, and then selling Cutco Cutlery. A great guy, friendly, and a good role model for Stamford kids. From our family to yours, sincerest condolences.

~The Sette Family

August 17, 2020

Dear Lisa, Maureen, Michael and Family -
We are deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Bob. Our heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you at this time.
Bob was loved by so many, including us. May your beautiful memories give you comfort and get you through the days ahead.

Aida (Edi) Calandrelli-Longo

August 17, 2020

My deepest sympathy to Bob's family and loved ones. Bob was always great to be around, always happy; we all had a lot of laughs and a lot of fun, all good friends, close classmates. May Bob rest in peace.
Edi Calandrelli (Longo) Class of '56

Jim Aulenti

August 17, 2020

I remember Bobby very well. One of my teachers; my Uncle Angelo was on that 1951 team, and my Dad Vito was at RIP and then SHS.
Loved and respected Bobby,
followed his footsteps to SC and I later became a health teacher and baseball coach. He ran a market research company in the sf summertime and then Cutco Cutlery which I still have from 1972. Sincerest condolences from my family to yours.

Tony Socci

August 17, 2020

i knew Bob for years playing ball in the Twi-lite League with him he was a champion in everything he did baseball, coach great family man RIP my friend

Marceille Ashton

August 17, 2020

He was my guidance counselor!! My condolences

August 17, 2020

Our sincere condolences to Jim and all of Bob's family. May beautiful memories always live in your hearts. Bob (Mr. Ferrara) was my guidance counselor at Rippowam and many of my high school memories include him. I'll always remember him as a positive influence and a really great guy.
Rich and Liz Powers

Ralph Portanova

August 17, 2020

To the Ferrara family

Mr Ferrara was a tough but fair coach at Burdick junior high school
and was big factor to many students in all sports, My condolences to the family. He will be missed.

Sue Cholden

August 17, 2020

Bob was truly a caring, kind, person. As a guidance counselor at Stamford High School, he helped my children through their tumultuous years with his concerns for them and actions. He gave my daughter an opportunity to attend UCONN in Storrs where she blossomed.

We send our sympathy to the family who should take comfort in knowing what a good human being Bob was. Rest in peace Bob.
Sue & Larry Cholden

Vicky Perillo O'Connor

August 17, 2020

To the Family Of Bob Ferrara - I remember Mr. Ferrara way back when as I was a student at Burdick Jr. High School. He always had a welcoming smile and will be remembered as a kindhearted person who enjoyed what he did and did it very well.

August 17, 2020

Please extend my deepest condolences to Bobby's family,I was a team mate of his in1951,1953 and1954, Little League and Babe Ruth Championships. He was not only a team mate but a very good friend to me. Tori Fauci

Sue and Larry Cholden

August 17, 2020

He was a loving caring, person whom I credit for turning my son and especially daughters' tumultuous teenage years into success. He was single handedly responsible for an opportunity affording her entrance to UCON where she blossomed. Rest in peace, Bob

Joseph Franchina

August 17, 2020

My name is Joe Franchina. Mr. Ferrara was my gym teacher at Burdick Junior High School from 1963-1966. He later became my colleague when I taught at Stamford High School. I have many fond memories of him. When I began teaching at Stamford High, I hadn’t seen him in 30 years. Once I introduced myself, we began talking about Burdick Jr. High. He remembered me! When we would talk, I would call him Mr. Ferrara. He would say Joe, call me Bob. Out of respect for him I always called him Mr. Ferrara. He was the best!!! My sincerest condolences to his family. He will be missed but not forgotten.

Michael + Ann Reppucci

August 16, 2020

Bob it was an honor to have known you for all these years ,You were always a gentlemen an respect for everyone , my children had you as a guidance counselor and always said how much you help them when they came to you. With the deepest sympathy to the family. You will be missed but never forgotten

Bobby Goldstein

August 16, 2020

The Ferrara Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. R.I.P. Coach.

Patty Gordon(Remski)

August 16, 2020

He was a truly good man. I have fond memories of squaredancing with him while a student at both Burdick and Rippowam. My sincere sympathy to his family. He will be missed.

Lucille Dinella Spera

August 16, 2020

To Bob's Family and Sue & Jack Redway, my deepest condolences. I remember Bob from Burdick Jr. High. Years later, I moved to Old Saybrook and Sue & Jack were my neighbors. When he was visiting I got the opportunity to say HI Mr. Ferrara remember me !!!, he couldn't believe it and we reminisced about the old days. Rest in Peace Mr. Ferrara, I will forever remember those days at Burdick.

Robert J. Daly

August 16, 2020

RIP, Coach...You taught me how to lift weights for wrestling after school at Burdick, a habit that I practice to this day...then we both moved to Rippowam, and you remained a coach, teacher, and friend...God Bless you and condolences to your family...Robert J. Daly (SPD Ret.)...

Walker

August 16, 2020

Wow! Wow! Wow! What a man! Coach is all I ever called him. Thanks coach for the good times at Rippowam.
John W. Walker 1977

Jeff Coughter

August 16, 2020

Rest in peace, Coach.

Glen

August 16, 2020

One of my favorite coaches of all time, big part of my life from Burdick through Rippowam, RIP coach...Glen Ely

John Rosa

August 16, 2020

Heartfelt condolences to the entire Ferrara Family at this difficult time.

Manny Blosio

August 16, 2020

ying golf ,going to Arthur Ave,going out to dinner with our wives and so much more..Sure going to miss him ....

Ginger Orgera

August 16, 2020

My Dear Maureen, Lisa & Michael:

Extending my deepest sympathy to you during this time. My prayers and blessings are with you.

What wonderful memories I have to cherish growing up with Bobby and the rest of my cousins. Memories that will never be forgotten - except for the fact that Bobby will not be here to continue to tell the stories. He had that special way.

Another shining star has joined the heavens and he is now with his beloved Renee.

May he rest in peace.

Ginger

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