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Aaron James Shehu

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Aaron James Shehu obituary, 1993-2010, Groton, NY

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1993

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2010

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Aaron Shehu Obituary

Aaron James Shehu, age 17, of 9 Eden Drive, Groton, NY passed away Saturday, November 27, 2010 in Penn Yan, NY. Aaron was born July 29, 1993 in Ithaca and is the son of Xhem and Nancy Brown Shehu of Groton. He was a student at Dryden High School and at TST BOCES where he was studying for a career in cooking. He was a member of the McLean Fire Dept. and had completed CPR and First Aid. Additionally he was a member of the Assembly of God Royal Rangers and attended the Christian Assembly of God Church in Cortland, NY. Aaron was active in helping his parents with many years of foster children. He had a love of working with babies and children. Survivors include his parents, Xhem and Nancy Brown Shehu of Groton; his siblings, Lynn Shehu, Christopher Shehu, Alex (Sonya) Shehu, Ryan Shehu and Tasa Towsley; grandparents, Iva Aiken, Rev. Elwin and Rev. Marian Brown. He is also survived by siblings, Ashlee Martinez and Randy Martinez and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
Funeral services will be held at 10 AM, Thursday, December 2, 2010 in the Christian Assembly of God Church, 175 Port Watson St., Cortland. Burial will follow in Mclean Rural Cemetery, Mclean, NY. Friends are invited to call from 4 to 6 PM, Wednesday at the Perkins Funeral Home, 55 West Main St., Dryden, NY. Memorials are directed to the McLean Fire Dept., Mclean, NY 13062.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Nov. 30, 2010.

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Xhem Shehu

December 28, 2010

Washington Vacation

Xhem Shehu

December 28, 2010

Alex Shehu

December 21, 2010

Aaron I miss you so much! It has been very difficult knowing your not with us any more, it hurts so much. We love you very much and will never forget you. Some day we will see each other again.

Love,

Al

amanda oneil

December 8, 2010

:( RIP

December 7, 2010

Aaron is in the arms of Jesus awaiting his family to be with him. What a wonderful family The Lord gave him while he walked his short journey on this earth. Nancy and Xhem are amazing parents to all their children and to every child they minister to. May The Lord grant great peace and comfort during this heart breaking trial to the whole family. May He use this trial to touch lives that could not have been reached in any other way. God is good. Leonard and Sally Park (Rossville, IN)

Joel DeMartino

December 6, 2010

I love you guys, and I believe good can come from this heartbreaking loss... God is in control.. Aaron was our buddy and we are going to miss him, but let his death be a constant reminder of the little time we have here together, love, and cherish one another always!

-Joel Richard DeMartino

Sara Kuras

December 6, 2010

Any member of the Shehu family. Can you PLEASE find a way to contact me. I am a good friend of Aaron's. I can only receive texts 315-317-4183 please!! WE LOVE AND MISS YOU AARON

December 5, 2010

Shehu family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm praying for God's comfort.

Ryan Dean
St. Louis, MO

Gladys Sirvent

December 5, 2010

To the whole Shehu family,
I remember having Aaron in our Rainbows class.He enjoyed playing with all the kids.He grew up fast and has been taller than me for quite a while.I think of how aweome it is to watch children grow up and how excited they are when they are learning something.It has Blessed me to see him grow,learn and play.I know you will miss him alot.I pray God will sustain you at this time and when ever you think of Aaron in the future.May God comfort you and Bless you.In Jesus name,AMEN.

Sonya Shehu

December 3, 2010

Aaron,
I want to let you know how amazing of a brother you were. When I was down you always made me smile. I think the best laugh was when you were getting in to the car and Alex starting driving. A few seconds later we heard you calling our names from the back seat. As we looked back, we found you still outside the car, running to catch up to get in. Alex asked you why you didn't yell sooner, you replied "I did not want to interrupt" because Alex and I were having a conversation. That was classic. I am so very glad that we got to share that memory and so many more like it. I will never forget you. I love you so much and I will see you again someday.

Jennifer Sayles

December 3, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Jennifer Sayles

December 3, 2010

Dear Xhem, Nancy, and family...I saw this poem here and immediately thought of you. I hope it is a comfort at some time.

December 3, 2010

god bless Ross

Nancy Hull

December 2, 2010

Dear Xhem and Nancy and family I only met Aaron a few times as a younger man I was allways at aw when I would see him handsome ,quiet and the most dreamy eyes .I allso want to say you are two of the greatest parents any child could ever have.Aaron is your angel watching over you as you did him for 17 years.My heart goes out to you and your family God Bless you all and God Bless Aaron as he watches over you

Martha Vandenburg

December 2, 2010

Sincere sympathy to the entire Shehu family and to Elwin and Marian Brown of Berkshire.

Brittiny/Daryl Metzler

December 2, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

~Britt and Daryl Metzler
(your neighbors across the street)

December 2, 2010

Aaron, I loved you as one of my own boys...you were my bud...I have so many fond memories of you but mostly the heartfelt smile!!!

Joyce Jones

December 2, 2010

Just close your eyes and you will see
All the memories that you have of me
Just sit and relax and you will find
I'm really still there inside your mind
Don’t cry for me now I'm gone
For I am in the land of song
There is no pain, there is no fear
So dry away that silent tear
Don’t think of me in the dark and cold
For here I am, no longer old
I'm in that place that’s filled with love
Known to you all, as "UP ABOVE"
My thoughts and Prayers go out to The shehu Family

Love Joyce Jones, Deidra and Jenna Sill

December 2, 2010

To the Shehu family,
We are so fortunate to have had the pleasure of sharing our lives with Aaron. We had so many fun times together each summer. Each day when Aaron smiled the air felt so much lighter. He was funny and made us laugh. He was kind and gentle. He was loved. We are so sorry for your loss and Aaron will be missed by many.
Friends - Ithaca Youth Bureau

December 2, 2010

Xhem and all the Shehu Family, I am so sorry about the loss of Aaron. You have my deepest Sympathy. Nothing I can say will help relieve the saddness you all feel right now. Just know I am thinking of you all. You have a very Special Angel looking down on you, now.
Shirley Leonard

Justin Witty

December 2, 2010

I've had the honor of having Aaron as part of my Royal Rangers outpost. He is an awesome young man of God who was awesome to be around. He always seemed to bring joy with him and I can't think of a single time that he wasn't smiling. Aaron, you are missed, and we will see you again someday and rejoice with Jesus.

Xhem Shehu

December 1, 2010

In memory of my dear son Aaron. it is now just 14 hours before we lay your body into the ground. I know that it is just a body and you are already in heaven and pain free. You suffered through your short lived life, that I understand, but the joy that you brought to so many was witnessed tonight. You have left behind many, with a great deal of sadness for ourselves as we miss you each day to come. It is Wednesday night and about the time you would call me, I am very sad, yet I feel a calmness that you are now safe and a messed up system will not fail you again. You would be very proud to know all of the support we have seen over the past few day's. My heart truly aches Aaron, I miss you so very much. Forever in my heart, love Dad.

Justin DeMartino

December 1, 2010

I'll never forget when Aaron was just a little guy, he always had a silly smile on his face and was just an all around sweet kid! I pray that God would touch and reach the hearts of many people through the story of Aaron's life. May peace and comfort shower upon those who where closest to Aaron. We love you guys and are continuing to pray for you.

Larry Creighton

December 1, 2010

To the Shehu Family, I'm sorry to hear about your lose of Aaron. I'm sorry I can not be there of Alex. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Charlie Conklin

December 1, 2010

Xhem and Nancy, I'm sorry for your loss, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. May GOD Bless you and keep you until you see Aaron again. No words can comfort you, but know that GOD can and will. Keep your eyes on him and let him be your guide.

Robert Campbell

December 1, 2010

Xhem, Nancy, Chris, Alex and Ryan

I am flattered that you have considered me part of your family. I wish I had known Aaron better, but I will be happy to hold on to the memories I have. Every time I was around he knew how to make light of any situation, and It would have been a privilege to call him my brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. RIP Aaron.

Samantha

December 1, 2010

I never met Aaron but I am good friends with Ashlee,I am so sorry for your loss!

Ed Hill

December 1, 2010

I cannot begin to express my sorrow over Aarons passing, he was a great person with a helping heart. I will always remember the time we spent working togeather last spring.

Bob and Daisy Wallace

December 1, 2010

Xhem, Nancy and family: We are uplifting your family in prayer during this tragic and difficult time in your lives. Words cannot express our deepest sorrow for you with the loss of a son, brother and uncle. We love you!

BillieJo Fuller

December 1, 2010

Dear xhem, nancy and family,
I am so sorry for your terrible lost. My prayers and thoughts are with u during this difficult time

Linda Van Berkom

December 1, 2010

Nancy and Xhem, I am praying that the Lord will fill the hole in your hearts with our saviour's love. I cannot begin to understand the pain you must be experiencing, but I know that our Lord will see you through this time.

December 1, 2010

Aaron was a special guy and we will miss his smile and his willingness to help in any way. Please accept our heartfelt sorrow at his passing. RIP Aaron.

Julie White

December 1, 2010

I cannot begin to understand the pain your family is going through...Xhem know that you and your family are in my prayers! RIP Aaron

Mrs. Sue Sherwood, Mrs. Walters, Mrs. Kowalski, Ms. Portzline

December 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at such a difficult time. We enjoyed seeing Aaron in the halls because he would always speak. He had such a beautiful smile it would just make your day. He will be greatly missed by many.

December 1, 2010

Dear Aaron, You are in my daily thoughts and prayers. We had one wonderful year together and I remember how much you enjoyed cooking. You were a joy to work with that year. I trust you will find peace and happiness in heaven with the angels to guide you and God to love and support you. My love, Ms. Donaghy

Millie Goodell

December 1, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Xhem and your family! I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had gotten the pleasure of meeting him. I know he will be missed by many, but not forgotten. May the Lord be with you all and comfort you during this difficult time. Love and God bless.

Frank and Annette White

December 1, 2010

Xhem and family, for whatever reason, God wanted Aaron in heaven...take comfort in that, and let your faith help you through this difficult time.

Kelly Davis

December 1, 2010

I pray that God will show you some of His gifts in your time of sorrow. I know they will be hard to see and it may take time. God has great things planned for Aaron I am sure. I haven't seen you guys in a very long time but I am sending my prayers and a ton of virtual hugs your way. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through.

Sheila Eibert

November 30, 2010

Aaron, the light from this candle reminds me of how your smile lit up a room! I Remember your bear hugs and how gentle and helpful you were with the younger kids at church functions. I love & miss you Aaron as if you were family. I will see you in heaven some day. To the Shehu family my heart goes out to each of you but know you were good parents and brothers and sisters. I am happy that I had the opportunity to know Aaron and all of you.

Jennifer DeMartino

November 30, 2010

I remember when Aaron and Ryan's adoption was finalized. We all went together to the court house. It was a happy day for our family. Aaron was always a happy, smiley, cuddly and affectionate little boy. He grew up into such a handsome young man, still with that sweet spirit. He helped us just this past Spring when we moved out of our house. Aaron you are already missed. Love, Aunt Jenni

Lynn and Carrie Mae Nielsen

November 30, 2010

We remember Aaron back when him and Ryan were little at Groton Assembly of God. We remember that smile and the joy he was always filled with. Always in our hearts Aaron and sending tons of love and prayers to the Shehu family

Emily

November 30, 2010

I remember Aaron as that happy little monster who was always running around the Shehu house full of life and smiles.
I have two memories to share.... The first was going to Nancy's parents house for Christmas and Aaron singing Christmas Carols at the top of his lungs. The second memory would be going to Skate Estate after church on a Sunday and having the Shehu boys teach me how to skate and playing Laser tag for the first time. Of course Aaron and Ryan's team beat us! The most important moments are those that brought your family together. No matter what you all faced for the short time I did know you, you were always happy and smiling. Keep Aaron in your hearts. He's watching over you now.

Tamie Jacobs

November 30, 2010

I can remember holding Aaron when he was just a baby and then seeing him grow into a young man. He was such a handsome young man and had such a great smile. He touched so many lives and was a huge inspiration to so many people. My prayers are with the Shehu family. Love you all!!

Patrick and Joanna Shehu

November 30, 2010

Aaron James Shehu,Always smiling! Never would you see Aaron with out that smile! When Xhem and Nancy brought him home,Joanna and I wanted to take him home with us. He will always hold a very special place in our hearts. We love and miss you Aaron,uncle Patrick and aunt Joanna.

Sarah Todd

November 30, 2010

I'm not sure where I should even begin... I've known Aaron for a long time. I can still remember babysitting the Shehu boys when they were younger. Aaron & Ryan could be such a high strung handful at times but were always a ton of fun. Aaron loved playing games, eating ice cream, and wrestling. My how times fly and I watched him grow into an incredible young man. He was loved by many, will be missed dearly, and his memory will always live in each of our hearts. He has touched so many lives in so many different ways. To some he was a friend, to some he was a son or brother, to some he was inspiration, and to some he will always be that young innocent boy that gave me a new appreciation for the little things in life & the precious value of time. My thoughts & prayers are with all of the Shehu family. I love you all dearly and can't imagine the pain and mixed emotions being felt at this time.

Meghan Gallow

November 30, 2010

"My thoughts are with you on this diffcult time. Aaron was a great kid. things i can rembember is sunday morings at church he would also come see me and say hi. he would also have the biggest smile on his face. Aaron R.I.P . Meghan Gallow (groton,ny)

Ryan Shehu

November 30, 2010

Oh God what to say... We had so many good times Aaron. Like messing with Mrs.Peck at rangers on wenesday nights. And going to Alex and Sonya's and hanging with them. But most of all just hanging around the house with each other. I am so sorry for not being there as much as i should have. I love you and i will forever miss you, until we see each other again one day when i die or Jesus comes for us all to take us home. I love you and I am thinking of you always.

Kirsta Lynch

November 30, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Shehu family. Aaron will be missed very much, he was such a great kid. RIP Aaron!

Danielle Towers

November 30, 2010

I remember Aaron when he first came home to his Mom and Dad, Nancy and Xhem...you see, my husband and I ran the nursery at Groton Assembly of God and more often than not we were in the nursery taking care of the babies...I remember taking care of Aaron. He was a beautiful baby! My family and I left Groton A/G and moved to Christian A/G in late 2001. Aaron and his family joined us once again a couple of years ago...boy had those 2 boys grown up! Aaron was now a handsome young man w/a delightful smile. I am thrilled that we were able to get to know Aaron over the last couple of years. Aaron, you will be sorely missed! To the family, may God give you comfort and peace during this time of great sadness. We love you all!

nickisha libbey

November 30, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

MOM

November 30, 2010

Aaron my son - words cannot express how much my heart aches. My only consolation is knowing that you are not in pain anymore. I know that you are in heaven and we will be together again one day. Everyone talks about your beautiful smile - you lit up a room when you walked in. I love you and you will always be a part of me. Go and dance with joy in heaven my son.

Deb Myers

November 30, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult and heartbreaking time. I know I have not remained close to your family but I do remember Aaron as a young boy, always smiling, always right there with a hug, Such a sweet child....... I will be thinking of you all over the next few days, weeks and months. Although I can't be there for the services, please know I will be there in spirit.
Love and prayers,
Deb Myers

Zach Thorp

November 30, 2010

I will always remember the days from youth group when i would go over and try getting Aaron involved in games.Rest in Peace.

Ryan Shehu

November 30, 2010

I remember the most about my brother is wenesday nights at royal rangers. We would go to Mrs. Pecks room and torment her in our mischivous ways. And she always welcomed us back week after week. Aaron, Elizabeth, Mrs. Pecks daughter, and Me would run around chasing each other trying not to get in trouble with her dad or Pastor Sam. I miss you so much Aaron... Rest in Peace Bud

Joseph Sirvent

November 30, 2010

November 30, 2010

I'll always remember you, Aaron. R.I.P..little buddy. I'll see you in heaven some day soon. For now, rest with Jesus.

Nanci Blakeslee

November 30, 2010

Aaron was one of my most interesting and challenging students at Dryden. He frequently questioned the reason for many of the activities I gave the students. He enjoyed taking the other side of an issue which resulted in some great discussions. He often saw an angle to a topic that others did not see. He was helpful to the younger students and always polite. He loved talking about his extended family. I got a kick out of his quick wit! Aaron will be remembered with affection.
Nanci Blakeslee

Joseph Sirvent

November 30, 2010

barbara houseknecht

November 30, 2010

My thoughts are with you on this road that you've been brought too. Be easy on yourselves and if you need anything just call. your son was a sweet young man who left us far too early. In darkness there is light

Elizabeth Peck

November 30, 2010

"Dear Aaron, you were a great friend and like a brother to me. I will never forget the times we had at Groton Assemble of God. I am looking forward to seeing you someday. I can't put what i'm feeling into words, all i can really say is, I love you and i miss you very much. You always made me laugh.You always made my sun shine. R.I.P Aaron"

Royal Rangers Power Camp Oct. 2009

Joseph Sirvent

November 30, 2010

My experience with Aaron was mainly through the Royal Rangers program with the Assemblies of God. I would see him at every camp out and event. Of all the various activities he participated in and things I was able to see him do, through it all there is one glaring feature Aaron had that sticks out in my mind. Aaron always seemed to have a smile on his face. It seemed that God formed his mouth that way. His smile was so persistent and natural that it lifted up everyone around him...I know it lifted me up when I saw him.

Lesley Coit

November 30, 2010

I had the plesure of meeting you with your family at the McLean Fire Station. How could anyone forget your smile, you wanted to help when you could. You will be dearly missed by your family and friends. May you rest in peace Aaron

Pastor Mike Stout

November 30, 2010

I did not have the pleasure of meeting Aaron. I was shocked as i know you are at the loss of your son. My prayers are with you Xhem, your dear wife, and family. May God grant you the peace and Grace to endure this difficult time. May you be comforted with that eternal and elastic truth of Heaven..."Wherefore comfort one another with these words." I Thess. 4:18

Kristin Rooker

November 30, 2010

I wish I would have known him Xhem. My heart goes out to you and your family. I am sure he will be missed immensely but try and remember he is in such a better place with God. Love and prayers- The Rooker Family.

Lorraine Aichele

November 30, 2010

Aaron I remember you as Ryan's brother mainly, tagging along picking him up from 4-H and chores, never an issue, never quite sure of the horses, but willing to try anything once. Always that big smile, loving life, your family and your brothers. May you find peace in Heaven.

Xhem, Nancy and family, no words can ease your pain, only time will soften the sharp edges. Reach for Gods' hand and each others in this time of sorrow. With all my respect and love.

sarah

November 30, 2010

I am thinking of you and praying. You are in my thoughts.

Crystal Harris

November 30, 2010

RIP AARON

Linda

November 30, 2010

I will always remember you coming to my Ranger Kids class room and talk with me while I prepared my lesson. You always had a smile that lit up the room. You are sorely missed. I am looking forward to seeing you some day in heaven. Linda Peck

Cory Kelly

November 30, 2010

dear Aaron you were a good friend and like a brother to me but most of all you were my wing man we helped each other through hard times but just remember you will be missed forever and let god bring you to a better place R.I.P Aaron

Cory Kelly

November 30, 2010

Dear Aaron you were a good friend and like a brother to me but most of all you were my wing man we helped each other through hard times let god bring you to a better place but just remember you will be missed R.I.P Aaron.

Cory Kelly

November 30, 2010

Dear Aaron u were a good friend and like a brother but most of all u were my wing man we had lots of fun time and we helped each other out may god be with you. You will be remembered for ever and let god bring u to a better place R.I.P Aaron:(

Kitty Hall-Thurnheer

November 30, 2010

Xhem, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. -- The Thurnheer Family

Cliff & Sara Ostrander

November 30, 2010

Dear Shehu Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We pray God will be your ultimate comfort during this most difficult time. Aaron, we will never forget your beautiful smiling face!

Marianne

November 30, 2010

My memories of Aaron are of a very happy, smiling little guy who knew that that he was loved and knew that he had a special place among his family. My heart goes out to all of you.

Pamela Seaman

November 30, 2010

Dear Aaron, you may be gone but will never be forgotten. We shared many good times & laughter. Even during the rough patches you could make me smile. May you soar with the eagles and look down from Heaven with your beautiful smile! Love, Mrs. S

Don & Bonnie Scutt

November 30, 2010

Xhem, Nancy, and family: We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Fall back on the love of family and friends to help you through this difficult period.

Pamela Seaman

November 30, 2010

Dearest Aaron, you may be gone but shall remain in my heart forever! We shared many good times & laughter. Even during the rough patches you managed to make me smile. May you soar with the eagles with that beautiful smile looking down from Heaven. With Love, Mrs. Seaman

Nancy Alfreds

November 30, 2010

To the family of Aaron, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when I watched him when he was a little boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joanne & Ed Monroe

November 30, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Pamela Seaman

November 30, 2010

Dearest Aaron, you may be gone but you will always be in my heart. We shared many good times & laughter.Even through the rough patches my love for you never waivered. May you soar with the eagles and look down from Heaven with that beautiful smile of yours! Love, Mrs. Seaman

Eric Peck

November 30, 2010

You were a wonderful young man. You will be missed dearly.

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