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Dr. Paul H. Steen

1952 - 2020

Dr.  Paul H. Steen obituary, 1952-2020, Ithaca, NY

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1952

DIED

2020

Paul Steen Obituary

Dr. Paul H. Steen

Ithaca - Dr. Paul H. Steen, of Ithaca NY, died of a heart attack on Friday, September 4, 2020. Paul, a son of Frederick H. and Marion R. Steen was born on June 22, 1952. He grew up in Meadville, PA. Paul graduated from Western Reserve Academy in Hudson, OH and subsequently spent a gap year at Eastbourne College in England. At Brown University, Paul received an ScB in Engineering and an AB in English Literature; he completed a fifth year of undergraduate studies at Bristol University in England. Paul earned his PhD in Fluid Dynamics at Johns Hopkins University and was a postdoctoral researcher at Stanford University. In 1982, he joined Cornell's School of Chemical Engineering, and in 2008 he became the Maxwell M. Upson Professor of Engineering, an endowed professorship which he held until his death. For thirty-eight years, Paul was a valued teacher and advisor across departments and graduate fields in the College of Engineering at Cornell. He was internationally recognized as a scholar in fluid mechanics and engaged broadly and generously in the international research community. Paul had a special skill for identifying basic scientific questions within important engineering contexts. He had a keen sense of humor and an infectious laugh. Paul was a runner, hiker, and avid bicyclist who enjoyed traveling and experiencing other cultures. He was a remarkable man who is survived by his wife, Kyra D. Stephanoff; daughters Ana and Frances; sister, Martha Steen Whitney; and brothers, Robert, John and Rodger. We thank you, Paul, for sharing your life with us! Due to COVID-19 restrictions, no services will be held at this time. A memorial will be held at a later date at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations in memory of Paul's life be made to the United Way of Tompkins County, 313 N. Aurora Street, Ithaca, NY 14850 or to Brown University Gift Cashier, Box 1877 Providence, RI 02912.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Sep. 16 to Sep. 19, 2020.

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SM

March 20, 2023

I just came across this as I was thinking back to my undergrad years at Cornell. I'm so sorry to hear of Prof. Steen's passing. I was a ChemE undergraduate student of his in the 90's and I remember him fondly as a kind, intelligent, soft-spoken teacher in the ChemE department. A terrible loss for all.

Jeff Patton

April 17, 2021

Oh, so very sorry to learn this Kyra, I am so out of date. I did one of those "hope an old friend is doing well" searches this evening. I can see your husband Paul was so well accomplished in his profession, what a notable career. But I am sure you and your family was the prize of his life. Carol and I extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family and friends. (don't feel bad if you hardly remember me from the 1980s here in the Lehigh Valley, I was pretty much a yutz back then, still am for sure, not Carol though, just me). Warmest thoughts.

Fadil Santosa

October 31, 2020

Dear Paul,


You are too young to leave this world. I had in mind that we would grow old together. I thought we would trade tips on how to best spoil our grandchildren, and continue to drool over Mercedes 250SLs and Porsche 911s late into our 90s. I thought we would meet at places around the world to take hikes, and spend hours figuring out what to eat. I thought we would catch up from time to time, and talk about books, movies and academic gossip. Your leaving unexpectedly is both shocking and sad. I am not ready. So, forgive me while I grieve.


I met you shortly after you got to Cornell in 1982. We were so young and so driven, but we managed to have fun times together. I will remember the many Friday afternoons we spent at the Chariot. You were someone with whom I share many values and interests. As we got closer, I began to see you more like my older brother. I really valued your opinion, and we were honest with each other.


When I left Cornell in 1985, I was glad we managed to stay in touch. We talked on the phone and corresponded, and I would love to recover letters you wrote. When I started to see Jan, I couldn’t wait for you to meet her. When Jan and I got married, I was so happy that you could be a big part of our wedding. You read “The Master Speed” by Robert Frost, and you pranked our hotel room.


When you and Kyra got married, I was glad I had a special role. My skills at tying bow ties came in handy. We had kids at around the same times. I have a picture of us with our pregnant wives in Austria in 1990. When we had our sabbatical in Ithaca in 1995, our families spent a lot of time together. That was precious.


I am so glad we had a chance to meet up in Chicago in 2007. We walked a lot that weekend, and we also ate well. I wish we had more trips like that.


My lasting memory of you is the joy that you expressed at seeing so many Mercedes Benzes in Stuttgart last year. I have a picture of you in front of a blue 190SL, a better looking sample of your old green one. I also have a picture of you grinning in front of an orange Porsche tractor. I thought then that a Pagoda was in your future, followed by a Porsche tractor. You were seemed pleased that I encouraged you to keep dreaming. Had you gotten an MB to restore, I would have gladly served as your assistant mechanic while you spend hours under the car.


When we moved to Baltimore, I had hoped that you would give a private tour that will give me a glimpse of your life here when you were in grad school. I am sorry that this tour will not happen. I can only imagine how fun it would have been.


Your death has been for the huge loss to your family and to the many people whose lives you have touched. It is also a huge loss to science. While I miss you terribly, I feel lucky to have known you. I can confidently say that I am a better man because of you. I will always think of you, dear friend.


Fadil

Armin Heurich

October 11, 2020

Kyra, I'm so very sorry to learn of Paul's passing. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

Cynthia Schnedeker

October 10, 2020

Kyra-so sorry to hear about Paul's death. My thoughts are with you and your family during your time of grief. I remember riding with him on Sat rides a couple of times so long ago.

October 8, 2020

Paul was visiting us in Switzerland and it was a pleasure to discussed and exchanged with him. He brings me further on the melt spinning research.

Mark Welshimer

September 23, 2020

Paul was a wonderful classmate and friend at WRA. Always calm, kind and cheerful, and unusually able. A very special person.

George Rosic

September 23, 2020

I was Paul's sophomore roommate at WRA. A great, great guy. My favorite memory of him was when I bet Paul that sophomore year that he could not run a 2 miler in under 12:00. Sure enough, we went to the track and Paul shocked me by doing it. I understood then his extreme determination and quiet athletic ability.

I tried to reconnect with Paul about 5 years ago and Paul said he would try to stop in on a visit to Northwestern University here in my town of Evanston. Unfortunately never happened. Paul said he never came to WRA reunions because reunion always conflicted with his Brown University reunions.

This is very sad.

Tom Seligson

September 22, 2020

I remember Paul fondly as a classmate at WRA. My condolences to Paul's family.

Iris & Dominik Barz

September 22, 2020

We were very sad to hear the news of Paul's passing. We only have the best memories of the time that we spent together.

RON WELLS

September 21, 2020

Great guy and my roommate at WRA. Many fun memories and my deepest sympathies to his family.

Martha Steen Whitney

September 18, 2020

My dear brother, Paul, you brought so much happiness ,love, fun and laughter into my life! You left us too soon. I have to trust that you are with Mother & Dad. I promise to think of you every day and know that will give me strength to go on with life. All my love, Sis

Christian Karcher

September 18, 2020

It is very sad to learn that Paul passed away unexpectedly. In good memories I am thinking back to the early 90s when a I was a post-doc at Cornell working under Paul's supervision. The was not only a great teacher but also a nice person and beloved family father. RIP, Paul.

Bonnie Sisco

September 17, 2020

It was such a privilege to work with you in Chemical Engineering. I will always remember you laughing at me when I told you I sat in the water in my beach chair, reading at the beach. Lol! You were a good guy, Paul!

Robert Hampton

September 17, 2020

I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Steen on his latest research project that is slated to launch to the International Space Station later this month. I enjoyed my time working with Paul, he was always so enthusiastic about his work. He will be missed My heart goes out to the Steen family. We plan to continue on with the research in his absence, research the family can be proud of.

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