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COMPARETTO FRIEL, 55
LAKELAND - Tanya Comparetto Friel, 55, passed away on Thursday, November 19, 2015. Tanya was born on December 1st, 1959 in Tampa, Florida. She grew up in Tampa and graduated from The Academy of Holy Names ('78). She attended the University of Florida ('82) and then continued her education at Mercer University ('85) from which she earned her law degree. Family had moved from Tampa to Lakeland, so she decided to make the move as well after law school. Tanya began work as an Assistant State Attorney in Bartow. After several years she went into private practice in civil litigation. In 1993 Tanya married William Friel of Lakeland. She opened her own law practice in 1995. In the same year she became a mother and eventually would become a mother of two. Tanya was a member of Big Brothers & Big Sisters, Leadership Lakeland, Junior League of Greater Lakeland, and the Lakeland Bar Association, in which she once held the position of president. Tanya made the joy of motherhood, owning a business, and being a loving wife seem absolutely effortless. Tanya is survived by William Friel (husband), MaryHelen Friel (daughter), William Friel II (son), Mary Comparetto (mother), Karen Comparetto Lee (sister) - husband David of Lakeland, and Frank Comparetto Jr. (brother) - wife Geg of Lakeland.
The family will receive friends on Sunday, November 22, 2015 from 3-5 pm at the Tribute Center at Heath Funeral Chapel and funeral services will be held on Monday, November 23, 2015 at 10:30 a.m. at St. Joseph Catholic Church.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Santa Fe Catholic High School to the General Scholarship Fund in the name of Tanya Friel.
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Linda Cesar
November 15, 2019
I simply miss you Tania, your warmth, your welcoming smile is stuck in my mind forever. I pray that your children (Will and Marie Helen) and your surviving husband Bill find solace in knowing that you are in heaven watching over them. Rest in Peace Beautiful soul.
Dawna Stone
September 26, 2016
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Patti Shistle
November 24, 2015
Dear Bill and Family,We pray for you and want to share our love for Tanya! She was such a wonderful soul that all that have been touched will share in her spirit.
The Shistle Family
Debbie Miller
November 23, 2015
Oh I am so sadden to hear of Tanya's passing. She was such a viberant, radiant individual and always has a beautiful smile upon her beautiful face. She was beautiful inside and out. My prayers for her husband, children, family and friends that God will give each if
you the comfort and peace. RIP Tanya. Heaven has gain an angel.
Amy McHugh
November 23, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your entire family are in my thoughts.
She has some amazing company up in Heaven! xo
Leslie (Friel) Richards Daughter/ Buddy's Granddaughter
Jeanhelen Carpenter
November 23, 2015
Bill, I am deeply saddened by the loss of your lovely wife Tanya. You are in my prayers more than you know. I know what you are going through. The best thing that helped me was to remember ALL the wonderful memories and her life will ALWAYS be alive in your heart, memories and talking about the times you had together. Love and prayers to you and the family. Please let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do. Please keep her "library of memories open". Much love and peace to you.
Becky Perkins
November 23, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I used to work for Frank. I didn't know. Prayers and thought to your family.
Laura Schlichting
November 23, 2015
My prayers go out to the family during this heart breaking time.
Tonya was a wonderful person and a great friend . I will always cherish our times together.
Rest in peace Tonya, you are gone but not forgotten.
Ruby Brown
November 23, 2015
So very sorry for your loss.
Diane and Randy Boyd
November 23, 2015
So sorry for your loss.
Don't think we had met Tanya personally but know her brother Frank.
Our thoughts and prayers to the family
Ginger Corda
November 22, 2015
Such a loss for all who knew her. Sending my love and sympathy to the entire family ~ I am so sorry. May God bless and comfort you each and every moment. ♥
Lynn Gutierrez-Mortazavi
November 22, 2015
Its so hard to even write in this book. I can't stop crying. I have know Tanya and her family since we were children. Our brothers have been best friends since high school. Tanya was really one of the kindest,sweetest people I knew. All of our hearts are absolutely broken for her sweet mother,brother, sister,husband and especially her children. Tanya we will never forget you. I know you are with your dad and find some peace in that. May God shine his light on all that miss you.
Amy Devore
November 22, 2015
Tanya was always a smiling face in the early morning hours at our gym, TBC 24Fitness. Sending my sincerest sympathy to her family.
Maria Gallo
November 22, 2015
Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. I am as shocked now as I was when I first heard the news. My sympathies
Lynn Rhodes
November 22, 2015
Prayers for the family. Prayers for Tanya. May perpetual light shine upon her.
Ernie Jones
November 22, 2015
I couldn't have been more shocked and saddened to learn of Tanya's unexpected death! She was such a vivacious and enjoyable soul. My heart goes out to her Bill and their children, and the rest of her family.
Roxie
November 22, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss I considered Tanya my friend and she was always so sweet and considerate. She will be greatly missed. May god give you and your family peace during this time and always. God Bless
Cyndee Pena Brickhouse
November 21, 2015
My heart goes out to Tanya's family. I knew Tanya from AHN, and remember talking about ballet, and moaning about sore feet. Tanya had such a kind spirit, and was quick to laugh.
Pat Owen
November 21, 2015
Bill - Ken & I are sending prayers for you & your family. What a shocking loss of such a beautiful & vibrant wife, mother & daughter.
November 21, 2015
Very sorry for your family's loss.
Mimi Jenko
The Gangwers
November 21, 2015
We are shocked hearing the news of your loss!! We will greatly miss Tanya's exuberant cheering of her beloved Will at the Santa Fe soccer games. We are praying for your family for strength and comfort in your grief. Tanya will still be cheering you on from heaven. God bless you all.
Nancy Lott
November 21, 2015
Bill, your family, Tanya's family, friends: So sorry for your loss. It's been many years since I've seen either of you, but it seems like yesterday. May you find comfort in eachother until you meet again in Glory.
Sean & Lisa McCall
November 21, 2015
We are so saddened by this news. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Friel family.
Lorraine Valerino
November 21, 2015
My thoughts and prayers to the Comparetto and Friel families for the loss of your beautiful Tanya. May God bless you all in your grief.
Gurtha Murphy
November 21, 2015
Bill and family, my deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers for all of you.
Kenneth Lee
November 20, 2015
My sincerest condolences to the Friel family for the loss of your loved one. She was an amazing person.
Melody Bachman
November 20, 2015
Tanya was a friend from AHN high school. She has always had the brightest smile and sweet spirit. I am so sorry to hear about her passing. Please know your family is being lifted up in prayer daily. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around you and comfort you all during this time.
Irene Rodriguez
November 20, 2015
My prayers are with your family. May you find comfort knowing so many who loved her are with you at this time.
Debbie Zimmerman
November 20, 2015
I can't even believe what I'm reading. Tanya was a vibrant, enthusiastic and caring wife and mother. She was one of the first students in my aerobic classes in the mid-80s. Even then, she was dedicated and never missed a class. Over the years I've enjoyed seeing and catching up with her around Lake Hollingsworth and at Santa Fe functions. Now, she is touching the face of Jesus and walking streets of gold. Her memories will long be cherished. My deepest sympathies Bill, MaryHellen & William. May God's loving arms wrap you in comfort now and always.
Linda Cesar
November 20, 2015
Dear Tanya: I know that you are looking at us from above and praying that we are all fine. I was touched by your warm embrace and your effortless kindness and humility. I already miss your exuberant cheers, encouraging every single player in our team. It was an honor to know you and thank your for sharing your smile and heart with my children and I. See you someday. Rest in peace.
Sandy Hall
November 20, 2015
Bill, My deepest sympathies for your loss.Thoughts and prayers to your family.
Ron and Celeste Henkelman
November 20, 2015
Words cannot express how much we mourn along with your family. We've known each other too long to not feel as though Tonya is our sister too. She was a genuine spirit part of a beautifully close family with a strong bond. May your strength, faith and love of family and friends carry you all through this most great loss. Love and hugs,
November 20, 2015
Bill, MaryHelen and William.....
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Tanya had a contagious smile and was as beautiful inside as she was outside. Our prayers are with you. Chris, Vicki, Phillip and Jacquelyn Molton
November 20, 2015
I am so sorry for your your family and all of Tanya's friends! My sister, Robin Qualey, has kept me in the loop of what has transpired. Tanya was a beautiful woman, a wonderful mother, a loving wife- and I am sure she will be an awesome angel! She left her earthly friends too soon... But only God knows the whys ...until we meet again...sending prayers to all of the family and special people in her life..
Shawn Eady Wilson
November 20, 2015
I am so saddened by the passing of this lovely person. I pray that the Lord will bless her family with peace and comfort.
Teresia Bradford
November 20, 2015
I'm in complete shock! Heartbreaking! My sincerest condolences and prayers❤
Maria Murphy
November 20, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Tanya was a great friend from our time at the State Attorney's office.
Gail LaLonde
November 20, 2015
So sorry for your family's loss. Knew her years ago. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
November 20, 2015
Bill, MaryHelen, and William,
We are so sorry to hear of Tanya's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Sandy Hall
November 20, 2015
Bill, Deepest sympathies for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to your family.
marsha Cooper Bentley
November 20, 2015
I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your wife and mother, and my friend since the eighth grade at the Academy of Holy Names. She was such a blessing to us, her Academy sisters, and I have such fond memories of such a wonderful person. May God bless you all and comfort you during this difficult time.
Santa Fe Family
November 20, 2015
Myself and my daughter Nikki are so very sorry for your sorrow . We pray your family will find peace .
Tina Hunt
November 20, 2015
I am so very very heartbroken by Tanya's passing. May she be at peace now. My thoughts are with you all. She was the light and glue of our law school family.
November 20, 2015
Tanya was such a glowing angel. We keep all of in our prayers..
Susan Earl Bieda
November 20, 2015
Dear Bill, MaryHelen, William and the entire Comparetto family,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your beautiful Tanya. From the moment I met her she was incredibly warm and the fact that she loved my high school friend Bill, made her instantly cherished. I will keep Tanya and all of you, in my prayers.
November 20, 2015
Mary Helen, William, and Bill,
We are so so shocked and saddened to hear of Tanya's passing. We know how special she was to each of you. She always so wonderful to Heidi. We will keep you in our prayers.
Love, Jude, Donna & Heidi Grosser
Mike and Karen Stockstill
November 20, 2015
Bill, over all the years that we have visited with you and Tanya, we have so many joyous memories. These will never fade from our minds and we will remember Tanya's glorious spirit always.
Sherri Hussey-Bellotto
November 20, 2015
Bill, I think you know how much I loved Tanya. She is the only one to ever put up with all of my shenanigans and still love me. We will all miss her so much. I will continue to pray for you all. Much love to you and the kids.
Leslie Priede
November 20, 2015
I was an upperclassman of Tanya's at AHN. She was such an upbeat, kind person. I am so very sorry for everyone in her family. Godspeed?
Law Office of Gregg Kamp
November 20, 2015
We are very sad to hear of the passing of such a beautiful lady. Your family will stay in our prayers.
Lana Swartzwelder
November 20, 2015
Tanya was an amazing, committed and strong woman. Her faith and her family were her priorities and that showed in her actions. She was a role model to many. Words can't express how sad my heart is for your family. I pray that the great memories you have will fill the empty spot left in your hearts.
Tracy Thornhill
November 20, 2015
A great lawyer and person. Very sad to hear of her passing.
Donna Canning
November 20, 2015
Our family sends lots of prayers to help guide you through one of life's most difficult times for the ones left on earth. May God be with you all.
Donna and Chris Canning
Andrew and Ana Gillespie, Adriana, Julia and Liam
November 20, 2015
Bill, MaryHellen and William,
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your beautiful wife and mother. She will hold a special place in so many hearts.
Ben Hardin
November 20, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless you all.
Theresa Daley
November 20, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the Friel family. I pray for comfort and healing of the broken spirits who must now move forward but know that there will be comfort in the mark she left upon the hearts of many.
Linda Hite
November 20, 2015
Bill and family,
Just heard of Tanya's passing. I kept the children a couple of times when your children were small. Tanya and I just visited together a couple of months ago and she was just her sweet wonderful self. My blessings to the entire family. May God comfort you in time of sorrow.
November 20, 2015
Frank, I am very sorry of your loss. I still have a vivid memory of your recommendation of Tanya for my particular legal needs. I will keep Tanya in my prayers.
Tina Rice
November 20, 2015
I am so sad to hear this news. My heart breaks for you.
Jesse Balingit
November 20, 2015
I am very sad to learn of her passing. Very sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences.
Jimmy Duclos
November 20, 2015
Sorry for your loss. May god comfort you and your family Bill.
Dean and Patti Burnetti
November 20, 2015
Bill. What an amazing woman.
Tanya was a blessing to all who
knew her. I am persuaded that she is in God's presence.
marie lorino
November 20, 2015
Tanya was such a wonderful and beautiful person. This is such sad news. I will always remember her as a person with a warm smile and a warmer hug. She will be missed greatly. My thoughts, prayers, hugs and love to the family.
Natalie Oldenkamp
November 20, 2015
I am just devastated to hear about Tanya. She was a lovely and dear person, and I send love and light to her family.
Michael Giesel
November 20, 2015
Dear Comparetto family, we at Michael's pool service inc are saddened to here that Tanya is no longer with us. Tanya helped us with a lot of legal papers. We would like to send the family our condolences and keep you in our prayers, Tanya will be missed
Karen Gillespie
November 20, 2015
We are so saddened to hear of this. Tanya was a beautiful light and the world will be that much darker without her. All of our love and prayers to you Bill, MaryHelen and William. Karen, Steve and Erin Gillespie
Jody & Mike Ciavardone
November 20, 2015
She will be missed, our prayers are with her family. May God give you strength at this difficult time.
Ann Johnson
November 20, 2015
RIP Tanya, God Bless. ❤ My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends.
Deb Mancini
November 20, 2015
Dear Bill, MaryHelen and William,
We are saddened to hear of Tanya's passing. Prayers for comfort and healing.
The Mancini Family; Alan, Debbi, Marcus, Roman and Adriana
KENNETH SIEGEL
November 20, 2015
MY THOUGHT AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FRIEL AND COMPARETTO FAMILY.
ed brandt
November 20, 2015
i am sorry to hear of this tragic news. i just spoke with tanya several weeks ago. thoughts and prayers bill to you and your family.
Ana & Duke Fenton
November 20, 2015
Dear Bill, MaryHelen, and William, We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Tanya was such a kind spirited, warm hearted, lovely lady. She will be greatly missed. Our prayers are with you. God Bless You,
Ana and Duke Fenton
Brother Paul Santoro, OFM
November 20, 2015
My sympathy to all of you. Be assured of my prayerful support during this time. Love and peace to you.
Kathy Newell
November 20, 2015
Bill and family. Having just lost Bruce, am so sorry to hear about Tanya. She was such a great lady...so sorry for your loss.
November 20, 2015
To the Friel and Comparetto family
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Tanya was a lovely lady and over the years I came to call her my friend. God give you strength through this difficult time.
Barbara Godshall
Catherine Bailes
November 20, 2015
Bill, I am so sorry for your loss and the loss to your whole family. I didn't know Tanya personally, but I can imagine based on what I know of you she was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
November 20, 2015
Bill and family, we are so very sorry for your loss. Tanya was a very special lady and will be missed by all who was blessed to have known her. You all have our deepest sympathies and are in our prayers.
Mark & Pagan Taylor
Kathy Armistead Brands
November 20, 2015
Bill, So very sorry to hear of your loss. God bless you and your family.
November 20, 2015
Dear Bill, MaryHellen and William,
Our deepest sympathies for your loss. May God give you comfort during this time of such grief.
Mike, Lynn & Ryan Preiner
November 20, 2015
It is with our deepest sympathies that we turn our thoughts and prayers to your family. Please accept our condolences and know that she will be missed.
Les and Kim Renfroe
Hillarey McCall
November 20, 2015
Bill,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tanya was a wonderful person who loved her family with all of her heart. Heaven has gained an angel. Hillarey
Kristin Wnuk Stokes
November 20, 2015
Dear Bill, MaryHelen and William: I am deeply sorry for the loss of your wife and mother. I have many memories of Tanya from when I first worked for her back in 1989 at Clark & Comparetto. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know my prayers are with you and the rest of Tanya's family.
Linda McGill
November 20, 2015
Bill and family, I am so sorry for your loss of Tanya.
Christina & Richard Kachadurian
November 20, 2015
Our deepest condolences for you and the Family, Bill.
Christina & Ricard Kachadurian
November 20, 2015
Our deepest condolences to Bill and the family.
Doran Stark
November 20, 2015
My family was so fortunate to have known Tanya. Over the years her smiles and empathy have contributed greatly to many lives. We miss you.
Hope Pattey
November 20, 2015
Bill, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
November 20, 2015
Bill, MaryHellen, William,
We are sending Love and peace your way. I am so very heartbroken for you. Tanya was a special lady and we are so proud to know her and call her our friend. Much Love, Dan, Suzie Shaun Slachta
Edward Mingus
November 20, 2015
Our condolences and prayers to the entire Friel family.
Elaine Dallas
November 20, 2015
Bill and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Tanya. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Rusty Franklin
November 20, 2015
Dear Bill, MaryHelen and William:
Words cannot express our sympathies. We love you so much.
My God bless you now and forever.
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