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Efraim Vela Obituary

Efraim (Coach) Vela passed away peacefully at his home on September 30, 2023. He was 93 years of

age. He took his last breath surrounded by people he loved most. Coach Vela was born in McAllen. He

attended McAllen schools where he would excel in sports. Vela, a 1949 graduate of McHi, lettered in

football, baseball, and track. He was named to the 1948 "Iron Man Team in the State of Texas" as center and

linebacker. After his career at McAllen High School, he played football at Sul Ross State University in Alpine,

Texas. He came back to the Valley after graduating from Sul Ross and began his coaching career at Rio Grande

City High School. He then came to McAllen ISD in 1970 as an Assistant Coach. He coached successful football

and track teams at the 9th grade level. In 1982, Coach Vela was named Assistant Athletic Director until his

retirement in 1995. Once retired, he and Steffie chose to live in Red River, New Mexico until 2014 when they,

again, returned to the Rio Grande Valley, their home.

He is preceded in death by his parents Luis H. and Conchita Vela, his daughter, Norma Linda, and Steffie,

his wife of almost 70 years. He is survived lovingly by three sons Efraim (Patsy), Bobby (Steffenie) and

Richard (Linda), nine grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.

He often reminisced of his most memorable wins and losses. He touched the lives of many athletes

throughout the years. Many wonderful stories are told about the tremendous positive influence he had

on so many of them. He enjoyed the last years of his life spending time with good friends, his

family-especially, his grandchildren.

The family will gather to celebrate his life with a religious service on Saturday, October 14, 2023.

Memorial donations honoring Coach Vela may be made to Our Lady of Sorrows Church Capital Campaign

at 1108 Hackberry, McAllen, Texas, The Boys and Girls Club of McAllen, 2620 Galveston Avenue, McAllen,

Texas or the charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Monitor on Oct. 12, 2023.

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Lauro and Leigh Guerra

October 20, 2023

Condolences to the Vela family on the loss of this good man and friend. He provided mentorship to thousands of us and his loss is felt by all.

Ricardo A. Garcia

October 19, 2023

Knew coach vela from school when he coached the RGC Rattlers, Remember his speeches @ the pep Rallies encouraging all student body to attend the home games, coach vela was one of a kind coach very Laid back making friends with all his players & students very sad to hear of his passing. R.I.P. Coach

Victor M. Carrera

October 18, 2023

Efraim Vela was beloved and well respected during his tenure at Rio Grande City High School. He is greatly missed, and will never be forgotten by the students that he coached.

Pat Alden

October 16, 2023

He will be missed. I great man, coach and life teacher. A very good influence in many former players hearts and soul.

Mike Russell

October 15, 2023

He was Coach Vela to me but to the three sons he was Dad, one of the highest callings. I celebrate his life and the many lives he touched, but feel sorrow at his passing. Most of all he was an encourager of men. He will always be Coach to me and my favorite coach. Blessings and comfort to the family!
Mike Russell - Rattlers football 1969

Tomas Calzadias

October 13, 2023

Fraim Vela, May You be in Our Lords Grace,we, Rio Grande City Alumni, will never forget you.A quote I will always remember,"need some dead wood."MayOur Lords Blessings be Upon All Your Family,and give them the Faith to continue in His Glory... Always,Tomas Calzadias Class of '70 RIP, Coach..
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Aurora Cantu

October 13, 2023

My deepest condolences to the Vela family. Coach Vela was a great man. I had the pleasure of meeting him while, I also worked for Mcallen ISD for 40 awesome years. Coach may you RIP.
Aurora Monteagudo Cantu

Beatriz Vento

October 12, 2023

Dr. Vela...I am sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved Dad; may the love and prayers of many bring peace to you and all within your family. Mrs. Beatrice Vento. Austin, Texas.

Joel Palmas

October 12, 2023

Our condolences to the families!

Joel & Liz Palmas

Ricardo Guerra

October 12, 2023

In the mid 1980's I was lucky to be invited many times to go Deer Hunting with Mr. Vela " Coach ". I had a blast spending days at his Deer Camp. I have many good memories of those times at the Ranch. He was always very good to me. I send my condolences to the family of Coach Efraim Vela.

Juan Escobar

October 12, 2023

Our deepest condolences to the family of Coach Vela. I knew him as a student-athlete at Roma High School. He was a positive influence in all students, whom he coached or met. His wife was related to my wife´s family (Gonzalez). A good man waits for us in heaven. Rest In Eternal Peace, Coach!

Albert Guerra

October 12, 2023

I am saddened with the loss of Coach Vela. He was a father figure to many. With all the success I´ve had in athletics, Coach Vela made the biggest impact on my Coaching Career. RIP Coach.

Kine Venecia and Family

October 12, 2023

Our condolences to the Vela family. I had the pleasure of working under Coach Vela when he was the assistant AD in McAllen. Rest in peace Coach Vela.

Coach Joe Palomin and Carmen

October 12, 2023

Our condolences to the Vela family. I had the pleasure of working with Coach Vela at McHi. A great man, may he rest in peace.

Baldemar Garcia, Jr.

October 12, 2023

Rest in peace, coach!!! Lincoln Jr. High. McHi class of 1975.

Mike Villarreal

October 12, 2023

May God bless his family with peace during this time of loss and sorrow. May he rest in peace.

Roy Guzman

October 12, 2023

Coach Vela was a dear friend and will be missed tremendously by all who knew him. He never missed an opportunity to make a young coach feel better about himself by complimenting them and just being positive. Coach Vela is just one of those persons that left an indelible mark on many of us that knew him.

Andres Martinez

October 12, 2023

Our condolences to the Vela family. I had the pleasure of working with Coach Vela when we moved to McAllen in the early 80s. He made us feel right at home and was a great man to work under. May he rest in peace.

Coach Andy Martinez and family

Julio Guerra (aka J.R.)

October 12, 2023

We are sorry to hear of his passing. He was our next door neighbor for many years when Steffi and he lived on south 35th Street. Our condolences to his family and friends.

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