To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Oscar Mejia
April 11, 2017
Robert I miss you so so much. I am so grateful for the time acting on stage together. There was something different about you ,something I can't find with anyone and it's something we need more of in this world. My thoughts are with your family. Know that you are alive in my thoughts and I will always meditate on the goodness that you brought into this world.
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
My handsome son R.J.
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Loving you forever son!
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Tency Martinez
September 9, 2016
Oscar
January 6, 2016
I dreamed of you the other night. We were just catching up while walking on the sands of South Padre Island and I told you that Donald Trump was running for president. You laughed and we just stood there watching the Sunset. It was great.
I think of your family often. I wish them peace and strength.You were loved and life is just not the same without you.
I miss you man. May peace be with you.
Quint Rogers - Movie Director
January 28, 2015
We miss you my friend.
Tency Martinez
January 21, 2015
I still feel your hands as I rubbed them so you could relax. RJ I'm having a difficult time with the emptiness of our home. The silence is overwhelming but in the midst of it all, I can almost hear your footsteps coming down the stairs. I look to see if I can get a glimpse of your smile but to no avail. Son my son I'll see you in your new home where there is no more pain or suffering. I love you mijo. One day we'll walk together while we contemplate God's heavenly love.
Tency Martinez
January 12, 2015
Son I miss you so much. I get home and call your name thinking I'm going to hear your voice and but I'm found with a silence of desolation and grief. I cry out to God and remind Him of his promise to me. "Do not fear for I the Lord am with you. " I pause and my heart folks with God's true love and Peace. Living one day at a time. Mom
Tency Martinez
December 19, 2014
One candlelight had ceased to glow. My home is quiet and empty with a sadness that overtakes the moment.
Robert James my son I can't hear you anymore. No light to shine again forever gone. MOM
Tency Martinez
December 19, 2014
The days have gone and I pain for your absence. You are forever felt in my sleep, my arms, my hands feeling your hands and then reality hits; you're gone, my only son. Living a sorrow that drowns my dreams of what could of been. Happiness gone to sleep and an eternity of PEACE for Robert James my one and only son. Ich liebe dich immer. Living one day at a time with a lifetime of absence. Your Mom.
Tency Martinez
November 7, 2014
In remembrance of RJ my handsome son. "Out of the Darkness" walk for prevention suicide on 11/8/14 . Miss you so much and my pain is intensified. Only God's mercy has sustained us. Living one day at a time. Love mijo.
September 19, 2014
You are missed my friend.
Tency Martinez
September 18, 2014
The candle in our home has ceased to glow and we continue to seek God's loving face to soothe our hearts that have deepened with pain. Living one day at a time. MOM
My 3 beautiful children RJ, Jiovana,& jaylah.
Tency Martinez
September 17, 2014
RJ & Jiovanna Martinez " My son saying goodbye to his sister as she travels to school.
Tency Martinez
September 17, 2014
September 17, 2014
The months have gone by so fast but the struggle with absence of my son is so painful and the sorrow invades me more each day. He's not in pain but has left me sighing and crying in my sleep. God continues to give me strength everyday and in my weakness he lifts me up. I love you mijo so much. I'll see you one day. MOM livng one day at a time.
Excersing and practcing Martial Arts
Tency Martinez
September 17, 2014
Going Home !
Robert James Martinez
September 17, 2014
Robert James with grandparents and his sisiters.
Hortencia "Tency" Martinez
January 4, 2014
Martial Arts Lover
Hortencia "Tency" Martinez
January 4, 2014
Loving you RJ always
Hortencia "Tency" Martinez
January 4, 2014
Lily Cuellar
December 28, 2013
My brother Joshua and I met James in church many years ago. We shared so many great childhood memories that we will forever carry in our hearts. James was a great person and certainly had a great sense of humor. My condolences to the Martinez family.
Joshua Cuellar
December 27, 2013
James was a great friend that I shared many child hood memories with.
Spc Joshua. A Cuellar
United States Army
Quint Rogers
October 10, 2013
My condolences. Robert was in my film. We will be having a movie premiere. I would like to invite you and your family. I can be reached at [email protected]
HORTENCIA "TENCY" MARTINEZ
October 8, 2013
TO THE MEMORY OF MY SON ROBERT JAMES WHICH I LOVED AND CARED FOR SO MUCH. HE HAD SUCH A TENDER - HEART AND SO LOVABLE. HE HAD A SENSE OF HUMOR THAT I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER. MY ACTOR, WRITER, AND POET WILL LIVE ON IN MY HEART. IT'S UNBELIEVABLE THAT I STILL STAND AT THE FOOT OF THE STAIRS TO LOOK UP AND FEEL AS IF I CAN CALL HIM AND HE WILL COME DOWN TO SEE WHAT I NEED. GOD IS GIVEN ME THE STRENGTH TO CONTINUE WITH THE VOID I FEEL. MY HEART IS TORN INTO PIECES. I KNOW GOD WILL BE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN MEND IT TOGETHER. LOVING YOU ALWAYS SON. MOM
Kathy McAlister
October 7, 2013
To the Martinez family, we are deeply saddened by your loss of RJ. He was a wonderful young man and I enjoyed meeting him while I was in McAllen visiting my sister Diana and brother in law Rudy. He is in God's hands now and will always be remembered. God Bless and you are in our prayers.
October 6, 2013
He was a great actor and a friend.
Dee Martinez
October 6, 2013
Tenchi and Robert, there are no words that would do justice at this time except to let you know that we are praying and thinking of you and your family. May you find strength during this very difficult time and may you know that we love you. Dee and Joe Martinez
Veronica Cortez-Davis
October 5, 2013
Robert and Hortencia, our deepest condolences on the loss of your precious son. May God comfort you and give you strength.
October 4, 2013
My sincerest condolences to the family. My heart is heavy at the loss of Robert whom I remember as a wonderful student. We can only be comforted in the fact that he has reached a peace that is unattainable on this earth and his eyes have seen the Lord.
Mary Ann Moore - friend, neighbor, teacher
Dalia & Marcos Alcantar
October 4, 2013
My Prayers and Condolences go out to the Martinez Family and Friends. May you find comfort in the Lord at this time of sorrow and pain. His Memories will live on in your heart.
Alexis Trevino
October 4, 2013
Martinez Family, my deepest condolences on behalf of the Salazar Family (Donna, TX). I offer my prayers for your entire family. May God bring you Peace and Serenity.May God Bless each and every one of you.
October 4, 2013
OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO THE MARTINEZ FAMILY
CORINA PALOMARES
October 4, 2013
OUR CONDOLENCES TO YOU & YOUR FAMILY.MAY GOD GIVE YOU PEACE. CORINA & GERARDO PALOMARES & FAM
Raul Saenz
October 4, 2013
Robert and Hortencia, as well as all family members, my deepest sympathy at your lost. We know that through our Lord Jesus Christ and His Atonment we will be together with our loved ones. May God bless you and sustain you through this hard time. May the Lord bless you and give you strength.
Hermila Sanchez
October 4, 2013
May you find comfort in The Lord at this time. With deepest sympathy.
Eddie & Irene Luna
October 4, 2013
Robert, Tency and all the Martinez family- our hearts and our prayers are with you.
Sylvia Romo
October 4, 2013
My prayers are with the family, losing a child is the hardest thing to go through in life. Be strong and lean on each other for the support. Never will RJ be forgotten, he will be our angel in heaven watching over us.
October 4, 2013
My moste sincere condolences To the Martinez Family. May God give you strenght to overcome this saddness.
Love,
Delia Montanez
Ruben & Margot Martinez
October 4, 2013
So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. God bless you!
October 4, 2013
my prayers r with u robert and hortencia god has a plan for robert james john 3 16 pete bazan and family
Romeo Rosales
October 4, 2013
My deepest condolences to the Martinez family. May you be at peace with God, Robert. It was great to know you in high school and play basketball with you. Rest in peace my old friend.
Joe Trevino
October 4, 2013
With my most Heart felt and deepest sympathy to you and your family. God bless you and your family.
October 3, 2013
Thinking of your family during this difficult time.
Norma Jean Gonzalez Lasley
Yolanda and Hector Quiroz
October 3, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May he rest in peace.
Showing 1 - 64 of 64 results
Funeral services provided by:
Aurora Funeral Home - Sam Houston706 West Sam Houston Blvd, Pharr, TX 78577
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more