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Toby Martinez Obituary

Toby Wayne Martinez, 67, of Elizabethtown, passed away Sunday, Jan. 19, 2020, at Hardin Memorial Hospital in Elizabethtown, surrounded by family.

He was an Evansville, Indiana, native before attending Murray State University, where he earned a bachelor's degree in special education and was a proud member of the Sigma Chi International Fraternity and ROTC program. Toby was commissioned into the U.S. Army, Armor Branch in 1975. For the next 20 years he served with and led cavalry troopers in the U.S. and overseas including duty on the German border with the 2nd Armored Cavalry Regiment and in Operation Desert Storm when he served as the senior Aide-de-Camp for Gen. Fred Franks, commanding general of the U.S. VII Corps. Toby was a leader, mentor, trainer and teacher. This professional cavalryman loved the Army and soldiers and is no doubt at peace with those gone before in Fiddlers Green, the eternal resting place for cavalry troopers. Following retirement from the Army, Toby was a special education teacher with Hardin County Schools. He was an avid golfer and University of Kentucky sports fan. He traveled the world and provided his family the same opportunity. He was an amazing and loyal husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. Toby never met a stranger, yet never could remember a name, and his wit and constant humor will be greatly missed.

Toby was preceded in death by his parents, Tony and Joan Martinez.

Survivors include his wife, Susan; two daughters, Stacey Martinez of Elizabethtown and Allison (Evan) Wheeler of Indianapolis; a stepdaughter, Michelle (Fred) Ingram of Ithaca, New York; three grandchildren, Richard and Alice Ingram and Remy Wheeler; an honorary grandson, Colton Martin; two sisters, Susan (Richard, dec.) Walther and Linda (Ray) Barrett, both of Evansville; and several nieces and nephews, whom he adored. Last but not least, Molly, his German Shepherd, who was his best friend for the past 14 years.

The funeral is at 11 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 25, at Brown Funeral Home in Elizabethtown with the Rev. Ben Brown officiating.

Visitation is from 4 to 8 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.

Donations may be made to University of Kentucky Philanthropy Jeffrey and Kevin Graham Memorial Fund, University Counseling Center, 106 Frazee Hall, Lexington, Kentucky 40506-0031; or In Memory of Toby Martinez to the Hardin Memorial Health Foundation, 913 N. Dixie Highway, Elizabethtown, Kentucky 42701, to provide scholarships to nursing students in honor of the nurses who provided Toby excellent care and compassion.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News-Enterprise from Jan. 21 to Jan. 26, 2020.

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Dave Porter

January 15, 2023

Gone, but not forgotten.

COL (R) George C Goller II

January 15, 2022

I worked with Toby when we were both contrators supporting exercies at JMRC in Germany. Great soldier and good friend. He is missed!!

Robert (OB) Oberlender

January 15, 2022

Toby was not just a friend. He was a mentor and always ensured that his group was attempting excellence. His dedication and friendship are missed.

Tim Doyle MAJ RA (Ret)

August 18, 2021

So sorry to belatedly learn of the passing of a superb soldier, leader, and mentor. I had the great fortune and honor to serve as his Troop Executive Officer (XO) in 1st Squadron, 2nd CAR in Bindlach Germany in the early 80s, the second of his three Troop/Company level commands. (Most Captains only get one, if that). Later met him again at Ft Bliss, TX. when he was commanding a Squadron in the 3rd Armored Cavalry Regiment. He was a truly exceptional leader and officer. My sincerest condolences to his lovely wife and daughter. Toujours Pret! Keeping you and all yours in my thoughts and prayers until we meet at the Fiddlers Green. God Bless!

Tommy Goolsby

July 16, 2020

I served with him in the early 80s in bindlach Germany RIP

MSG (ret) Rafael Pabon

January 31, 2020

I had the privilege to serve with Toby while we both worked at the 2d Armored Cavalry Regiment HQ's in Germany back on the early 1980's, a top of the line warrior and a great mentor to all. Condolences to his family and friends.

Bryan Sidebottom

January 28, 2020

I am sorry for your loss. He was my E Troop, 2/2 ACR troop commander in the early/mid 80s in Bamberg, Germany. May God give you comfort during this time of grief.

Karoline (Kari) Luckow Roehl

January 25, 2020

So sorry to hear of Toby's passing. I spent many a summer across the street watching what Toby and my older cousins (especially him and Keith) were up to. He was the sweetest guy, always there to help out, showing such care and concern for his siblings. My deep condolences to his wife, children and sisters.

Kim Renteria Burrows

January 25, 2020

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Martinez in Bindlach Germany when I was 13. I used to babysit for him and his wife. He was my dad's Commander. My family and I send our condolences. He was a good man. Sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers to the family. May you RIP. You will be missed.

Bonita Staub Luckow

January 24, 2020

Many memories of you as a baby along with my nephew Keith. Both were close friends throughout their childhood as our families were so connected. Now both of you have left us and I'm sure a happy reunion in heaven is going on. My sympathies to your wife, children and sisters.

C. Perales

January 24, 2020

Great warrior,mentor,and friend.RIP.

Paul Jussel

January 24, 2020

What a loss to so many! A wonderful friend and colleague. Ride off to a safe rest in Fiddler's Green.

Sam and Lisa White

January 23, 2020

We served together in Bamberg, Germany. A terrific friend and mentor.

Luis Miranda CSM (Ret)

January 23, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It was an honor to served alongside you. God bless you and your family. Always Ready, Second to None, Sir!

David Smith

January 23, 2020

We served together from 80-82 in Bindlach Germany. You were a true Mentor to me as well as your Soldiers. God Bless and may you always Rest In Peace my Brother !

Oscar Ruiz

January 23, 2020

Until the Green, Dragoon. Toujours Pret!

Tommy Russell

January 23, 2020

I worked with Toby when he worked for Camber. He made work enjoyable and had a great sense of humor. RIP my friend.

Kathy Brossart

January 23, 2020

So many memories from El Paso rush back into my thoughts. Toby and Thomas will be sharing laughs and stories. Ride on in Fiddler's Green.

Stephen Morgan

January 23, 2020

Rest peacefully my friend. Thanks for your service to our country, and for years of friendship. May your memory bring smiles to your family and friends.

Michael Player

January 22, 2020

It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather, we should thank God that such men lived.

Toby was a good friend and always someone you wanted to be around. I will miss his smile and friendship. May the Lord bless him and his family.

January 22, 2020

RIP old friend....

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