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Harold J. Carpenter -Oshkosh, WI. June 22, 1927-August 10, 2013.
Our father, Harold J. Carpenter, passed away peacefully on Saturday morning August 10, 2013 at Evergreen Care Center. He was born to Elizabeth and Fred Carpenter on Regent St. in Madison, WI. The youngest of seven children, his brothers and sisters were; Joe, Agnes, Dorothy, Fritz, Roman, and Betty. He and our mother, Betty Carpenter, were married on September 13, 1952 in Madison. Together they raised ten children; Teri Carpenter, Larry(Mary) Carpenter, Carol (Nels) Naslund, Joan (Bill) Pike, Mary (John) Kupsch, Kathy McCallister, Paula(Chris) Brown, Margaret (Doug ) Gerth, Helen (Mark) Lira, and Lois (Mickey) Noone. Together there are 13 grandchildren in the family.
Harold was a man of many talents. He was a very good athlete. He played basketball for the 1945 Madison West State High School Championship team as well as playing varsity tennis in high school.
He served in the Navy Sea Beas at the tail end of WWII on the island of Guam. He played tennis for the UW Badgers after the war and graduated in 1951 with a degree in Art Education. He was also a very talented artist and did well in numerous state art contests. He sang Barbershop in various quartets and choruses for many years and really treasured the friendships he made-thanks Jack.
Harold and Betty moved to Oshkosh in 1954 and started Harold Carpenter Overhead Door Co. and they worked together for many years building the business. Harold retired in January, 2011, at that time his daughter Lois took over ownership of the business. He worked down at the shop until 2012.
Our father worked hard to give us a roof over our heads and food on the table, as well as a Christian centered family life. He was a serious man who also had a sense of humor and kept that sense of humor until his illness took over.
To honor our father's wishes, no memorial service will take place. However, he would like to thank all of the people who touched his life and those he helped during his journey on this earth. A memorial fund will be established and the proceeds will support the Alzheimer's Association. A special thanks to the staff at Evergreen for the great care you provided.
Pa, we thank you for a wonderful life!
Fiss & Bills-Poklasny Funeral Home & Crematory 870 W. South Park Ave Oshkosh, WI 54902 (920) 235-1170 www.fissbillspoklasny.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Harold Carpenter
Sponsored by Grandchildren: Tyler, Kesley, and Tanner Pike.
Marc White
April 8, 2014
I loved Harold. I worked for him in the early 80's and he is the best boss I ever had. We played tennis together for over 3 decades with Harold hitting a great shot saying: "Marc...your seeing 30 years ago". He will always be etched in my memory and with happiness :)
Roger Rozek
January 15, 2014
I had the opportunity to meet Mr. Carpenter, when bidding out some work. His straight talk and great personality will always be fondly remembered.
August 23, 2013
Hello my dear cousins,
I am so sorry for the loss of Harold. Your dad was my favorite uncle! I simply adored him . . . . always!!! He was still living at home when I was a little kid and we (my sister Kristen and cousin Pat Grady) had so much fun with him. One of my favorite memories was going to our grandparent's house on Sunday morning before church. Grandma gave me the job of waking him up. I'd run up to his room and jump on him - then the game was on!! I couldn't say my "R's" so I called him "Unco Hewold." Another time I was riding the city bus with my Grandmother Mittler and looked out the window to see him in his car next to us. I got so excited and demanded that we get off the bus right then and there so I could see him!
He was a very special uncle, a wonderful and talented man, and I'll never forget him.
Much love to you all and your mother!
Steffie
Rose (Missy) Carpenter
August 16, 2013
My Carpenter Cousins,
What a sweet man we've lost. You are all in my prayers. Lois, I will forever be grateful to you for getting Uncle Harold to Papa's 90th birthday party almost two years ago. Those two brothers were so delighted to see each other! You've been an awesome daughter and an incredibly adept caregiver. Your dad, like mine, is reunited with his family in heaven.
Love, comfort & blessings.
Jeff Schneider
August 16, 2013
I have many fond memories of Mr. Carpenter and his family. My deepest sympathies.
Melodi & Bob McGuire
August 15, 2013
Dear Carpenter Family,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Harold was a great guy. I will never forget getting our garage door repaired many times & he knew exactly what year he put it in & who we were & how long we lived at our home & our parents & that I grew up in Berlin & on & on....it amazed me how incredible his mind was & so funny & so many stories, loved chatting with him...he always made me smile! What a wonderful father you had! He was one-of-a-kind guy & will be missed. Thoughts & prayers go out to you & your family.
Lori Mitchell
August 14, 2013
Condolences to the Carpenter Family. Harold was truly 'one of a kind!' Growing up, there was never a dull moment at your house~ many, many, fun memories! Jim really enjoyed him & his stories/jokes when he did our garage doors. A witty, kind, & generous man. He touched many lives,& glad I was one of them! Memories bring a smile to my face. (Mary, I'm sure you know my favorites!) The world lost a special, unique man, but I have a feeling there's a lot of singing & joking in Heaven! Wishing you all peace & comfort~ Your family is in our thoughts & prayers. Hugs & God bless~ Lori & Jim Mitchell
Ken and Cindy Gear
August 14, 2013
Teri and family:
Your father certainly was a blessing to you all and to many others by the sound of the nice writeup, which probably doesn't do justice to the true impact he made in this world.
Our warmest thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mary Erickson
August 14, 2013
A beautiful obituary for a man who was a good husband and a good father. . Harold and Betty were fortunate to have had ten children... His left a legacy of humor, the worth of hard work and love for family. , I am so sorry for your loss.
Dawn Meton
August 14, 2013
Helen,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Leigh Ford
August 14, 2013
it is with sadness that I send our sympathies to the family . We have know Harold and Betty for over 40 yrs. Harold was a very kind and generous man that always had a story to tell or a joke to crack. I will fondly remember the times we played tennis together and the times having a cup of coffee at the shop , talking about our families .With sympathies --Karen and Leigh Ford
Advantage Overhead Door Chris Draeger
August 13, 2013
My deepest sympathy to all of the "Harold Carpenter family". Harold and I have spent my hours hashing out the problems of the Overhead Door business. It was always a great learning experience and I always appreciated his lessons. The garage door world lost a great pioneer. RIP my Friend.
August 13, 2013
Dear Teri,
So now we know where you learned to play tennis and your appreciation for fine art and the performing arts!
Our thoughts continue to be with you and your family. Love, Caroline & Paul
Matt Marx
August 12, 2013
I would like to extend my Deepest Sympathy to the Carpenter Family. Harold came to fix my Broken Spring in my Overhead Door a few Years back, and I told him who my Father was. He knew my Dad, and said Very Nice things about him! It made me feel very Proud!
He never did send me a Bill for the Spring Replacement!! (Lois, don't get any ideas now.) He was A Great Man, and will always be remembered by many.
Laurie Brown
August 12, 2013
To my cousins, I am very sorry for your loss. I wish I had known my Uncle Harold a little better but we all live far away. Our deepest condolences. Laurie Brown, (and George Denliker, husband)
Peg Robbins
August 12, 2013
Kathy, Emma, and family, I am truly sorry for your loss.
Chelley Beck
August 12, 2013
Paula - Please know you, Chris and Trevor are in my thoughts and prayers. I know what you are going through. Hang on to the wonderful memories they will help soften and heal your heart. You are my dearest friend and I am here when you need - anytime!! Love you friend - Chelley
August 12, 2013
Larry - So very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you, Mary and your entire family.
Kay & Gary Kvasnica
Judi Wyrembeck
August 12, 2013
Harold was one of a kind. He and my father were friends many years ago. He left a lasting impression as well as keeping our doors working.
Georgina Arrieta-Ruetenik
August 12, 2013
Dear Billy & Doug, EJ & Audrey,
Jim, Ken, and I keep all of you in our prayers as you remember your father, father-in-law, grandfather. Lovingly...
Jim Running
August 11, 2013
I feel very fortunate to have known Harold Carpenter. He was a great person and had a big influence on my life. My mother and I had a wonderful visit with Harold last fall. My thoughts go out to the entire Carpenter family.
August 11, 2013
Dear Lois and family...what a better way to pass the time than to come to the shop and visit Harold to discuss sports, Oshkosh events and world news. I will miss Harold and his quick wit, humor and sincere care for others.
How very quietly you tiptoed into our world Harold, silently, only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footprints have left upon our hearts.
Deepest sympathy...
John & Paula Hathaway
Oshkosh
Jaya Goyal
August 11, 2013
Billy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, our heartfelt and sincere condolences.
Mikki Futta
August 11, 2013
Your Dad was a great person,I'm so glad I got to meet him. God Bless You All.
Cindy Lemere
August 11, 2013
Billy -- Just wanted to let you know that Gerry and I are thinking of you at this sad time, and wishing you and your family comfort and peace.
Sharon Panske
August 11, 2013
I have many fond memories of your dad, I think we wore the grass out playing games as kids in our back yards!
My thoughts and prayers to the entire family.
Sharon
Dave Merten
August 11, 2013
Sorry to hear about Harold's passing, I will always remember him as having a lot of energy and someone who loved to talk. I originally met Harold through a late friend of mine, Russ Schmude. Russ worked for Harold for many years. They are probably greasing the doors to heaven now.
Bill Roberts
August 11, 2013
My condolences to the Carpenter family, one of the finest families I have ever known. Harold...I can't find the words, he will forever be in my thoughts and when I think of him as I am now, a smile comes to my heart. You will be missed.
Jenny Sohm
August 11, 2013
We are so sorry for the loss of the entire Carpenter family. Harold was a special person & meant alot to many people. My grandfather Fred Sperling was a very good friend of Harolds & now they can sing together again.
John Rossing
August 11, 2013
Harold was a great man, always interesting and fun to talk to, he will be missed. My sincere sympathies to the family.
Jon Boyce
August 11, 2013
He will indeed be missed. Our condolences to your family from ours. Peace Mr. Carpenter.
Wendy Brandt
August 11, 2013
Your father was a wonderful man. He and your mother raised an amazing family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May you find peace and comfort in all the memories he has left with you to cherish forever. He will always be with you.
Melissa Radley-McConnell
August 11, 2013
Paula, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please know that I'm sending you and your family loving thoughts and prayers.
Steven Noe
August 11, 2013
A kind and caring man with a loving wife and a fun family. Remember girls, no hair brushing in the kitchen
August 10, 2013
GrandPa Harold. I hope you know that I will always wear your 'navy tag' and think of you! Love, Evan John
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