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Robert Spanbauer Obituary
Robert M. "Bob" Spanbauer, 51, of Oshkosh, died unexpectedly Monday, October 28, 2013. He was born in Oshkosh, January 16, 1962, the son of George and Jeanette Steinert Spanbauer. He married Wendy Boese on June 20, 1987.
Bob was employed for 31 years for the Oshkosh Area School District, most recently as the Supervising Custodian at Oshkosh West High School. He was a member of Christ Lutheran Church.
He is survived by his wife of 26 years, Wendy, two sons, Brad Spanbauer (Dan Riegelman) and Kyle Spanbauer of Oshkosh. One brother, Tom (Jessica) Spanbauer of Oshkosh. Four sisters, Jean (Don) Fietzer of Townsend, Judy (Bill) Nolte, Janet (Dick) Strand and Susan (Steven) Bauer, all of Oshkosh. He is further survived by his mother-in-law Jackie Boese of Butte des Morts, brother-in-law, Robert (Linda) Boese Jr. of MI, sister-in-law, Jackie Spanbauer of Oshkosh; and numerous loving nieces and nephews.
Bob was extremely proud of both his sons. He was proud of his job at Oshkosh West, always going above and beyond what was expected of him. He truly enjoyed helping anyone and everyone he could with his handyman talents. This was his true passion. He also enjoyed spending time out in the woods, hunting and spending time up north with "the guys" at the cabin. He loved having his backyard fires as he puttered around, feeding the birds and enjoying a beer or two. And for those of you who knew Bob, well you probably have a "Bobism" or two in your memory.
He was preceded in death by his parents, his brother Richard, his nephew Joseph (Joey) and his father-in-law, Robert Boese Sr.
A time of sharing and support will take place Sunday, November 3, 2013 in the Fiss and Bills Poklasny Funeral home from 12:30 to 4 pm.
In lieu of flowers a memorial has been established.
Fiss & Bills Poklasny Funeral Home
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Spanbauer
Linda Kaufman
November 11, 2013
Wendy, I am so sorry to read about the lost of your husband.
God Bless you and your son's and family.
Len Herricks
November 6, 2013
I was so very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a great worker and even a greater man! He will be missed by many. I had the opportunity to have lunch with him in recent years a few times while working at West. I always enjoyed the great conversation. May he R.I.P.
suzie graf
November 4, 2013
I can remember going to school at lakeside and everytime mr spanbauer was fulfilling his custodial duties, he always had a smile on his face. Again, seeing him at west when i went there. he was still the same smiling and proud man. its sad to know one of the greatest custodians is now gone. mr spanbauer is now keeping the halls of heaven looking in spectacular shape! my condolences to the family.
Cindy Grancorbitz
November 4, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss, Bob was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Tom & Tammy Rogers
November 3, 2013
To all of the Spanbauer Family. We are so sorry for your loss. We have been friends with his sister Susie since school, so we knew Bob "way back when". He was a nice guy then and a wonderful man now. Reading all of these messages really is a great tribute to him. Our hearts are breaking for you. Please know that you will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all.
Sossina Chirhart
November 3, 2013
I am deeoly sorry for your loss. Mr. Spanbauer was an amazing guy and that doesn't even really begin to describe him. My fondest memories are of chatting with him at the end of what I called "the rainbow road" (which was this super sparkly path leading down to where the custodial staff would hang out or break) and he knew my mum and so usually we'd talk about my family and school. And if my day was going rough, it was a sure thing that Mr. Spanbauer could put a smile on my face. Or if I needed help with something or a box or to borrow something or if it'd lost something, I could always find that helping hand and friend in him.
He will be greatly missed. Have fun in heaven Mr. Spanbauer.
Coral and Clint Jensen
November 2, 2013
Wendy and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember Bob from when I attended West and I remember he was always very kind and always smiling. I remember when you guys moved in and I was happy because I knew how nice he was. He was a great neighbor always waving hi and asking how we were when we would run onto each other. You all are in our thoughts and if you need anything please let us know.
Dana Robinson
November 2, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot even imagine the grief you are going through
Jaclyn Phillips
November 2, 2013
Jackie, Wendy and family. I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Know you are all in my prayers!
Beth Abraham
November 2, 2013
Sorry for your lost Wendy, my prayers are with you and your family at this time of great challenges/loss.
November 1, 2013
Sorry for your loss was truely one of the good guys. Gerry & Janice Potratz
November 1, 2013
Wendy I was so sorry to hear about Bob, my prayers are with you and your boys, if you need to talk please call. Bev Herbst
Matt Thill
November 1, 2013
To all the Spanbauer family. I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Bob, when I started at OASD, he always made you comfortable. He was a good role model. Such a genuine and giving person. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Spanbauer family.
Melinda Wallace
November 1, 2013
Gods love and peace to all of you. He will be missed.
Lynn Brown
November 1, 2013
Bob,
I am lifting your family up in my daily prayers.
Uncle Val Juedes
November 1, 2013
Wendy & boys: So sorry to hear about Bob, he was always so polite & friendly. He will be missed by many. love Uncle Val & aunt Helen.
Chris Augsburger
November 1, 2013
Sending the Spanbauer family my deepest sympathies and my hope that you find God's peace. I am so sorry for your loss. I am very grateful for how kind and supportive Bob was to my niece Cait. He meant so much to her...
Rhonda Bartels
November 1, 2013
Our sympathy to the Spanbauer family. I had the pleasure of working with Bob through West Woods and Waters when Kyle was in it. Bob had a passion for the outdoors and mentored many students. He was always there to help with banquets setting up and taking kids to work on many service projects. I appreciated his help sooo much!!! I will never forget you Bob. We had alot of great times with West Woods and Waters. You were a true friend. I know this hunting season you will get a bigger buck then me in heaven!!! To the family, we had many conversations and they were always about the love he had for all of you. Kyle remember that no one can take away all of your loving memories. Rhonda,Gary,and Casey Bartels
Alyssa Larsen
November 1, 2013
Bob was such an amazing man!Such a friendly person to have around all my middle and high school years! Always had a good chat when we saw each other. You'll be greatly missed, RIP. ,<3
Cory Ulbrich
October 31, 2013
Tom and family I am so sorry for your loss. May the Lord be with you during this time to help with healing of the hearts.
Nicole Martell
October 31, 2013
You were truly one of the greatest memories from elementary school, and were such a joy to see around high school. So many memories will forever be remembered.
Pam Potter
October 31, 2013
So very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a kind, sweet man. He always had a smile on his face and a skip in his step. He was such a pleasure to work with. I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you all during this difficult time.
October 31, 2013
We are sorry for the loss of Bobby. I have a lot of great memories from working with him over the years in the schools. I will miss hearing him call and say ' Bob at west calling'. Prayers are with you all. John Stueber
October 31, 2013
To the Spanbauer family,we are deeply saddened by your loss. Bob was very dependable, hard working and above all a pleasure to work with! Here's to you Bob, you will be greatly missed.
Richard and Lois Gruetzmacher,"Lean'n forward all the way!"
Tom & Barb Kaufmann
October 31, 2013
Our hearts go out to Bobby's whole family,we will remember him fondly. He was a great guy.
grady butzlaff
October 31, 2013
I'm so sorry to the family I know it must be very hard hope you guys stay strong
Shelley & Deacon John Ingala
October 31, 2013
Our hearts and prayers go out to Wendy, Brad, Kyle and all of their family and friends at the unexpected loss of Bob. May they find peace and comfort in the loving arms of family, friends and Faith. May God bless you.
Bill Kies
October 31, 2013
Dear Wendy and Boys,
I was given on of Gods gifts when I meet Bob as the new kid in the fall of 78 at Oshkosh West. All those Friday night Fish fry's at Wendts may have been a long time ago but yet it feels like yesterday. The memories of the great times we had will be with me forever. Although unfortunately we would not hook up as often as the years passed, we could always pick right back up and have a great time. May Gods love be with you.
Jim Wilson
October 31, 2013
So sad to hear of the passing of a wonderful guy. He always had a smile and something good to say. God Bless all of you at this time of loss.
Nate Loper
October 31, 2013
Bob was a great boss, role model and friend to me and I am very sad that he is gone. He had a positive impact on many and will be sorely missed by all. Lots of great memories to hold onto…like sneaking up on the 3rd shift guys at West, fires and beer in the backyard, the broken picnic table at Fratellos and the list goes on. My condolences to Wendy, Brad, Kyle and the entire Spanbauer family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
October 31, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Sid and Nancy Hogue
Andrew Boese
October 31, 2013
Wendy & Family, My sympathy and prayers are with you. Uncle Andy
Kitch
October 31, 2013
Bob, thanks for always being a friend and mentor. You will be sorely missed.Wendy, Brad, Kyle if you ever need anything don't hesitate to call, our thoughts and prayers are with you always.God Bless. Kitch
Kelly Klick
October 31, 2013
I have known Bob for over 30 years. Was once a Spanbauer myself. And though I didn't remain a Spanbauer. Bob always made me feel I still was one. Even if we didn't see each other for years...when we did we always could come right back to the same place.Wendy as well. Always kind. And oh yes always funny. Just a genuine person. You will be dearly missed Bob. Prayers to all of you.
Bob Kossel
October 31, 2013
Bob was a pleasure to work with both professionally and personally over very many years. He will be greatly missed. Thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.
Kim Lubenow
October 31, 2013
To the entire Spanbauer Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I went to highschool with Bob. We met again when we worked at Lakeside together. I was always happy when he came to clean my room so that we could talk and laugh! He was a great man. May God be with you and help heal your broken hearts.
Sandy Achterberg
October 31, 2013
I was saddened to hear of your loss. Bob was a great person who made my years working at West so comfortable. I could always count on his help with anything that needed to be fixed, moved or cleaned. I pray that you will be comforted by all the great memories.
October 31, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
October 30, 2013
So sorry to hear about your loss Judy, Susie,ken and the rest of the family.You will all be in our prayers
Jeff & Carol Helms
Rob & Robin Kraemer
October 30, 2013
Wendy, Our Love and Prayers go out to you and the boys.
Wendy LaCount
October 30, 2013
I can't express enough how much my heart breaks for all of you. I had the pleasure to work with Bob for 15 years. He was a true friend and went out of his way to help anyone at anytime. I will miss him, his sense of humor and smile so much. My prayers are with all of you as you go through this difficult and trying time. Rest in peace Bob!
October 30, 2013
Our Weiske hearts are shattered. We loved Bob more than life itself. Our son Ben would shout "Bob Bob Bob's here" as he would see Bob's truck come into our driveway. Our girls would light UP when they saw him walk into the kitchen. He always had a kind word of love and encouragement for Ms. Ella. Pike loved drinking beers, eating cheese and sausage sticks and enjoying Bob's company anytime he could.
We are FOREVER indebted to Bob and Wendy for all they have done for our family. Bob's love and friendship will live on in our hearts forever.
Gone TOO soon but NEVER forgotten.
All our love and friendship and constant prayers to you Wendy, Brad and Kyle.
May God's love and light guide you daily.
All our love. The Weiske Family
Lisa M. Anderson
October 30, 2013
I was saddened to hear of Bob's passing. He was a joy to work with and I liked his sense of humor very much.
I recall the birds that lived in the attic over the theater and how we laugh at the various complaints we both heard about it. He wait until the little birds could fly before finding a way to plug the hole.
Judy Harmon
October 30, 2013
Bob was one of the kindest, gentlest men I've known. I had the honor to work with Bob at Lakeside School, where he made every day special with his humor and friendship. We all felt a loss when Bob moved from Lakeside to Oshkosh West. The loss of Bob on Monday is unbearable.
Wendy,Brad and Kyle, you have my deepest sympathy.
Theresa (Terri) Richter
October 30, 2013
I was shocked to read of Bob's passing. I know him from the days he was at Lakeside school when my children were there and then again while they were at West. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky Chirhart
October 30, 2013
I worked with Bob and a student who swept the floors. He is a wonderful guy. He was always helpful and happy. Thanks for being a great person to work with at West High School. Blessing to your family.
Peter & Paula Wenhardt
October 30, 2013
Wendy, Brad, Kyle and family:
We grew up on the southside and I went to Smith school with Bob but was in Tom's class. Our paths crossed again when our children attended Sunshine pre school. We saw a lot of him when the kids attended Lakeside and then again when he was at West. He would always have a smile on his face and would always take the time to chat. We send our condolences and prayers to you all. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you.
Peter, Paula, Brittany, Emily and Nick Wenhardt
Dee Miller
October 30, 2013
No words can fix your hurting hearts with the loss of Bob..he was my favorite janitor growing up I'm shocked to hear of him passing. he always had a smile on his face he will be missed by all who knew him! Prayers to all of his family
Ed Polzin and family
October 30, 2013
Too many "Bobisms" to think of from our 40 plus years of friendship. Our thoughts and prayers to the entire family.
October 30, 2013
we are so sorry for your loss, my husband and I worked with Bob at West as custodians for a cleaning co. He was helpful and hard working. This is truly a shock. Marge & Geoff Graves
Tanya Bahr-Hielke
October 30, 2013
So very sorry for this loss in your family. I went to school with Bob K-12. He was always such a sweet kid and nice man. Blessings on your whole family.
todd patzlaff
October 30, 2013
hi wendy sorry to hear about bob he is a great person
October 30, 2013
we are very sorry for your loss.Bob will be missed by all who knew and worked with him.Merrill Middle Custodial
Susan Tetzlaff
October 30, 2013
Wendy, Brad, Kyle, Aunt Jackie & all of Bob's family,
I cannot be there on Sunday except in spirit. May you find some comfort with your family and friends at a time when you remember Bob with love and embrace the love he also had for you. May he rest in peace and the love of our Heavenly Father. God Bless! Love and prayers surround you all. My sympathies, Love, Susan
Jeff and Ann Koplitz
October 30, 2013
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
October 30, 2013
So shocked and saddened to read that Bob has passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family.
Karen Russell
Walter & Amy Phillips
October 30, 2013
Wendy & Kids,
We are so sorry to hear about Bob. He was truely a great guy and a great neighbor. He would certainly do anything to help anyone who needed it and it was greatly appreciated. If you need anything just ask and we'll do our best. So sorry for your loss.
Walter & Amy Phillips
Doris & Dave Daun
October 30, 2013
Dear Wendy, Brad and Kyle,
We are so sorry to hear Bob has passed away. We will all miss him, he touched so many of our lives. Our love and support will always be here for you.
Valinda Applebee
October 30, 2013
Thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this difficult time
Carol Hayes Reinders
October 30, 2013
It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.
Tracy & Mike Schettle
October 30, 2013
Kindness, a quick whit, wonderful sense of humor and the first to lend a helping hand is the best way to I can describe Bob. My deepest sympathies to Wendy, Brad, & Kyle. Truely a tragic loss. Keep the campfire burning bright in Heaven Bob.
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