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for David Lapos
Kimmie
February 11, 2025
No matter how many years pass us by, you remain in our hearts, minds and memories!
Darlene Wills
March 7, 2012
Dear Judy, Karen & Matthew,
I was so very saddened to learn of David's passing. I have known David since he was a "little guy" having grown up being best friends with his cousin, Cheryl. He was always so happy and was always smiling. I had not seen David for several years, but when I saw him again at Kristy's wedding he had not changed from that "little guy." He still had his warm and beautiful smile. I just know that he is smiling down on all of us everyday. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please take good care and God Bless You Always. Fondly, Darlene Pohlod Wills
Paul Liebman
March 5, 2012
David Lapos
Wrote this when I heard in Feb. and misplaced it.
1. I first met Dave @ Ellen's jam during my first banjo year (with Ellen, Betsy, Fred Weiss, others?). Very accomplished banjo player who I still try to emulate. Handsome, quiet, great smile and physique that I only now learned came from his weight lifting with a high school buddy. Learned of his devotion to teaching “tough” kids and respected him greatly for that ability and commitment.
2. Heard at Betsy's post party after our street performance in Phoenixville that Dave went to HUP for multiple myeloma chemotherapy. Since I work there, I visited several times and brought him needed appurtenances from “the gang”.
3. Talked with and heard Dave play several times at Tom's barn and other places.
4. We met at Judy and Jack's jam where he said he was ok now but would rather die than go through another round of chemo (very, very nauseated, weak, excruciating bone pain, hair loss) though he looked very happy together with his lady friend.
5. When I saw him some months later, he had gone through another round of chemo and was bald.
6. I last saw Dave at Old Fiddler's jam area last August. He looked fine and said he was fine but had not brought his banjo. I loaned him mine which he played for an hour or so, industriously comparing songs and breaks with another couple players.
7. Got Ellen's fateful message.
8. Miss him much. A bright, hard working, gifted joy of a person.
Paul Liebman, Penn Med
Karen (gallagher) Spafford
February 24, 2012
Dear Mrs. Lapos, I was very saddend to hear of the passing of David. I was a classmate of his, Pannther Valley 1980. He was always smiling and very happy type of guy. He will be very much missed. My condolances to all of the family.
Lisa Phillips
February 24, 2012
Dear Lapos Family,
I can't imagine how painful the loss of your dear David must be. I remember David from churst at the St. John's Lutheran Church in Lansford, from High School as I graduated in 1979, and all those summers we spent at Mauch Chunk Lake. David was also kind and smiling - enjoyed life to the fullest. When those we love have left this earth, we still can feel them near. We'll see a picture, hear a song, and it's just like they are here. Take comfort in your memories of David. I know I feel blessed to have known him.
February 23, 2012
David Lapos was such a fine scholar and wonderful teacher. He introduced me to the importance of the Reading Specialist as a Literacy Coach. I believe his students were quite fortunate to have his support as a teacher. I know I feel blessed to have known him as a scholar when I was a relatively new professor at Kutztown University. With heartfelt sympathy, Dr. Jeanie Burnett
Tanya Kama
February 21, 2012
To the family
words cannot express the sorrow you are feeling today I met david when he used to come for his bloodwork no matter how bad he felt he never complained he always had a smile on his face and that is what I will miss the most he had a infectious smile no matter how bad your day was going his smile made it better no more pain no more suffering he is at peace RIP DAVID
Tanya Kama
February 21, 2012
To the family
words cannot express the sorrow you aee feeling today I met him when he used to come for his bloodwork no matter how bad he felt he never complained he always had a smile on his face and that is what I will miss the most he had a infectious smile no matter how bad your day was going his smile made it better no more pain no more suffering he is at peace RIP DAVID
February 21, 2012
Dear Judy and Family: Although we did not know David very well, we did have the honor and pleasure of meeting David at your birthday party. Our heart-felt sympathies are extended to you and your family...Judy and Ron Engleman
Barbara Hughes-Stout
February 20, 2012
Mrs Lapos, Karen and Matthew - My deepest sympathies to you all in the loss of David. I will always remember his smile and how friendly & kind he was with everyone. May the warm memories lessen your sorrow during this time.
February 20, 2012
Although I never met David, if he was only half as nice as you, Judith, he will be sorely missed. My sincere sympathy to you and your family. May you find solace and comfort in the days ahead.
Russ Miller, Lehighton, Pennsylvania
Jamie and Jessie Lyles
February 20, 2012
Dave was a very kind and genuine person. I came to know Dave while working with him at Saint Gabriel's Hall. He had a love for learning to play music and we found the time to practice together. My family affectionately knew him as Banjo Boy. We put together a little group called the Rambling Boys and his debut was at the first annual Father Folk Festival. His picking and grinning brought the house down. Dave's passing has saddened us all and we will miss him.
Kimmy Emerson-Byers
February 20, 2012
David was the boy next door who stole your heart with his smile and humor...one of a kind. He loved his family more than anything and he was at his happiest when he would gather with them on any occasion. I loved watching him play with Zack and Nate, the game turtle...he was a little boy at heart and his laugh set the world on fire. I am so thankful to have been part of his world for the past 12 years. He held a very special place in my heart and was always MY FRIEND!
I am deeply sadden by the loss and send so many prayers your way for comfort and support and love. God has him for now, he is probably swimming in his OWn Eternal lake and playing a banjo of Gold with the angels. I will miss him so, but know that one day we will all be together in Heaven. No more pain and suffering.
God Bless and keep each of you in his loving and caring hands. Love to all.
Ann and Jim Yusella
February 19, 2012
Our deepest condolence to David's family. Heaven has another angel.
Robert McLaughlin
February 19, 2012
I went to school with David, he was always a smart, fun, pleasent guy to be around. My heart is heavy with the weight of loss. My sincerest condolances and prayers to his family for his passing. May God be with you all at this time.
Luke Skillan
February 19, 2012
David was my best friend in our senior year of high school at panther valley. We trained together and competed in a body building contest. We hung out at mauch chunk lake and spent alot of time together. He was such a cool guy. So unique and funny. He did a great Mick Jagger impersonation and had the moves like jagger. I'll miss him but I know I will see him again. May God be with you in your time of grieving.
Carmella Badowsky Visconti
February 18, 2012
I went to school with David, he helped me with my Chemistry class without even asking him. In later years I saw him at Mauch Chunk lake. He looked wonderful, we talked about lifting weights a lot. He was probably one of the nicest people I will ever meet. I'm so sorry.
Joseph Bohovich
February 18, 2012
Judy, Karen & Family,
I'm sorry to hear of Dave's passing. Although i have not seen him for many years, he was always a sweet, genuine, down to earth guy who always had a smile on his face.
My thoughts & prayers go out to you.
February 18, 2012
Judy, So sorry to hear about the loss of your son David. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers. God Bless Pat and Gene Peltz Sun City Center Fl.
Maria Swankoski (Eremus)
February 18, 2012
My sincere sympathy to the Lapos family during this difficult time.
Christy Phillips
February 18, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about David's passing. I remember our afternoon catechism classes in the basement of the St. John's Lutheran Church.(1980 classmate too)
Ginny (Corby) Tatusko (PV 1980 classmate)
February 18, 2012
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Ruth & Lyle Augustine
February 18, 2012
We have many wonderful memories of David from the time he worked with us at Carbon County AVTS..especially when he shared in celebrating our wedding day in 1989. Knowing David he must have had a successful career, and "made a difference" in many lives. He left this earth too soon, but he must have completed God's plan for his life. We hope you will find peace and comfort in the love of family of friends - you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dennis Rodrigues
February 17, 2012
It has been some years since I have seen David. I recall him as a regular at the Phoenixville YMCA and a weight lifting instructor. David always had an uplifting presence. Great guy. Great loss of a fantastic human spirit.
Sandy Ferland
February 17, 2012
Please know I am very sorry to hear about David's passing. Prayers for peace and comfort during this difficult time. Sandy Hebda (PV 1980 classmate)
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