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Dustin Southam Obituary

Dustin Dix Southam

St. George

Dustin D. Southam, 43, passed away on March 5, 2014. He was born on June 4, 1970 in Salt Lake City to Glade and Marilyn Southam.

Dustin was raised in Draper, Utah where he attended Alta High School. He graduated from the Weber State College of Engineering where he excelled in his career as a Molding Engineer. Dustin loved wood working, geocaching, biking, hiking, the Running Utes, movies, and animals (especially his cat, Winney.) He had an infectious laugh and a great sense of humor, which we will miss dearly. Dustin lived in St. George at the time of his death, but he preferred the cool weather of Salt Lake City.

Dustin is survived by his two children who he loved with all his heart: Natalia and Zachary Southam, (West Valley City, Utah); his parents, Glade and Marilyn Southam (St. George, Utah); siblings: Debra Southam Buchanan (Murray, Utah), Brian Glade Southam (St. George, Utah), and Brenda Alayne Southam (St. George, Utah); nephew, Parker Chase Buchanan (Murray, Utah). Dustin also leaves behind many dear friends and family, including the mother of his beautiful children, Marcella Abarca Southam.

Funeral services will be held Monday, March 10, 2014 at 10:00 a.m., with a visitation at 9:00 a.m., at the McDougal Funeral Home, 4330 South Redwood Road, Taylorsville, Utah. Interment will be held in St. George, Utah on Monday at 4:00 p.m. in the Tonaquint Cemetery located at 1777 South Dixie Drive. Arrangements entrusted to the care of Metcalf Mortuary, (435) 673-4221. Please visit our website at www.metcalfmortuary.com for condolences, complete obituary and funeral listings.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Dustin Southam's Children at any American First Credit Union.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Spectrum & Daily News on Mar. 9, 2014.

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Alcaraz Abel

May 7, 2016

I just barely learned that Dustin had passed away, I was a coworker of his in pocatello and I still remember working nights with him when he used to put me in charge while he locked himself in his office trying to do some of his college homework. I also Remember building a potato gun with him that actually worked awesome. Also the pranks we used to pull on people at work were so fun ,he definitely will be missed RIP Dustin. Abel.A

March 12, 2014

I am very sorry to hear about Dustins passing. I use to work with him at Ballard in Pocatello.He had a sense of humor that was crazy.I will miss him. Grant Cossey

Rosae

March 12, 2014

My sincerely condolences to Dustin family it was a honor for me to know him as a great man and humble at the sametime.

Joe Avila

March 11, 2014

I worked with Dustin at BD. He was a fun person to talk to everyday.
My prayers go out to the family.

Don Johnson

March 10, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Dustin was such a fun guy to be around. I will always remember the good times and the projects we worked on together at BD. I will miss him!

Interminged in the Grove

Dianna Doty

March 10, 2014

Dear Southam Family - I am very sorry for you loss, he was always good to work with and be around.


They were young and old intermingled in the grove
Some bent by the weight of elements
Others show markings of the misdeeds of life
Strange how a group of trees could look so nice

There was a calm in the woods, a hush to be found
Leaves fluttered all the way to the ground

Standing among the trees you saw
Some had fallen and silently lay
While new shoots and twigs appeared close by
Following the footsteps of the trees leaving before

We all leave in time, some young and some old
A family like these trees has a story to be told

The Aspen have lived in nature this way
Each family bonded through roots they share
Their colors of fall show where they stand
Signaling out where the roots carry on

D. Doty 2003

Hazel Loosli

March 10, 2014

Southam Family, So sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Dustin at BD and his office was covered with pictures of his children and the U red. God bless and comfort you all at this time.

Debbie Banks

March 10, 2014

I had the honor of working beside Dustin here at BD. What an amazing gifted and wonderful man. He had a great sense of humor and infectious smile/laugh. He talked highly of his children and loved them very much. I will miss you young man, you always will be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers to his family. Debbie Banks

Scott Baker

March 10, 2014

I worked with Dustin in Pocatello and my children would play with his children on occasion. He was a hard worker and a good provider for his family. Marcela, please accept condolences from my wife and I. We have fond memories of time spent with your young family.

Kathy Derrick-Shields

March 9, 2014

Hello Brenda, Glade and Marilyn: I just wanted to express my sympathies to you after seeing Dustin in the paper. I know it has been a long time since we have spoken but Dustin was such a good person and I know you all loved him very much. I am so sorry for your loss.

Kim, Valarie & Austin Candelario

March 9, 2014

To the Southam Family, we are dearly sorry for the loss your family endured, the loss of a son, brother, and father - Dustin Southam. To his immediate family Zachary, Natalia and the mother of his children Marcella, our hearts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May you receive the Lord's Blessing for your loss.

Alex Kim

March 9, 2014

Dustin was a friend and a former coworker. His was a hard working but kind spirit. Dustin would put others before him and always willing to help. I have fond memories of him and will miss him dearly. I pray for his spirit and his family.

March 9, 2014

Dustin, may you rest in peace young man. I will always remember working on projects at BD and what a quality person you were.
Mike Johnson

March 9, 2014

Dustin was our neighbor in Salt Lake City. I remember standing outside talking on summer days. He also was a very positive influence for my children, who grew up with Zach and Natalia. I remember him taking all the kids to a company outing at Boondocks, and was so impressed with his generosity, Aimee remembers a conversation on Natalia's graduation day. A bit of advice for the ACT's that she said she used successfully. Although these are not big things, these are some of the things that I will remember.
Marcella, you're right. He gave you the greatest gift, your wonderful kids. My heart goes out to you, as you move through this painful experience. My heart and prayers to you all. May God comfort you and bring you peace. Love, Saran,Aimee and Kammeron

Stacy Dow

March 8, 2014

Dustin you will be missed by many many people. I will always remember how nice you were with my family especially in our time of need. You are an amazing man whose life ended way to soon.

March 8, 2014

Southam family, I am sorry for your loss. I worked with Dustin, he always spoke highly of his children. He will be missed.
Michele Brydson, Taylorsville, Utah

Sonya Ingersoll

March 8, 2014

RIP Dustin. You will be missed by many people. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

cathy duran

March 8, 2014

RIP dustin you will be missed. Your were a good friend and your infectious laugh will be missed as well as your smile.

March 8, 2014

Dustin give me the most beautiful gift the a woman can get our kids...and I always love you. Marcela Southam

Lisa Roesbery-Elg

March 8, 2014

Brenda & Family,

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Dustin. I remember him as a little boy running around on Cora Way. I remember when you got horses, he was excited to take me and Tammy out to the stable and see them. We think of your family often as we look across the street at your old house.

You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you at this time and always.

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