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Gary Aceal Terry

1935 - 2018

Gary Aceal Terry obituary, 1935-2018, St. George, UT

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Gary Aceal Terry

St. George - Gary Aceal Terry, 83, died September 18, 2018 in the Southern Utah Veterans Home, Ivins, Utah. He was born April 2, 1935 in Ogden, Utah to Hyrum Aceal and Viola Sorenson Terry. He married Carole Ann Eitel of Ellerson, Virginia, on June 23, 1962 in Los Angeles, California.

Gary spent his childhood in Cedar City, Utah, where he was the Student Body President of his High School. Upon graduation, he joined the United States Navy, where he served on the U.S.S. Princeton during the Korean War. His plan for a career in the Navy was halted abruptly when he returned from a tour of duty in the Far East only to be diagnosed with spinal paralytic poliomyelitis. He spent two years in the U.S. Naval Hospital at Corona, California and in April of 1958 was placed on the Navy retired list and transferred to a Veterans Administration Hospital for rehabilitation.

After his release from the hospital, he began his college career, which he interrupted to serve a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the Central Atlantic States Mission. After his mission, he attended U.C.L.A., where he received a Bachelor's degree in Political Science and specialty in Public Law. He then attended and graduated from George Washington University Law School in Washington, D.C., where he earned a Juris Doctorate degree. While attending law school, he worked in the government relations office of the Bethlehem Steel Corporation. He served on the 1969 Presidential Inaugural Committee. He then served as an attorney in the Office of the General Council for Housing and Urban Development (HUD). He resigned from HUD to begin a trade association to represent resort developers when it became apparent to him that they had no representative organization. He was a founder of, chairman and president of the American Resort Development Association (ALDA/ARDA). During his 22 year career, Gary met many outstanding business men and women, who became great friends.

While in Virginia, Gary served and loved many young people, as bishop of the Langley, VA Ward. He served many years as a missionary leader in the McLean Stake and loved missionary opportunities. Upon retirement, he and his wife moved to St. George, Utah to escape ice and snow, as his post-polio impairments increased. In St. George, he served as chairman of the Pioneer Center for the Arts and also as chairman of the Celebrity Concert Series. In 1998, he was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease, which brought him to the SUV home in 2017

A great joy to him has been the arrival in his life of grandchildren: Erik Lon (Ranae) Wallace, Steffan Ken (Malin) Wallace, Jasmin Helen Wallace (Andreas) Helgesen, Danielle Sofia Terry and Christopher Andres Terry; great-grandchildren: Jade Thompson and Evelyn Wallace.

Gary is survived by his wife, Carole; children: Stephanie Terry (Kent) Wallace of Lake Orion, Michigan and Brendan (Maria) Terry of Sandy, Utah; five grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and siblings: Debra (Jerry) Walter, Kim (Robin) Terry and Patrice (Duane) Beaumont.

His family is grateful for the care of many professionals who have helped him through his medical challenges: Dr. Dan Madsen and Dr. Jason Swigert and many other doctors and nurses, and the caring staff members at the SUVH.

His family is also grateful for the kindness and care of members of the St. James Ward and the SUVH Branch of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday, September 29, 2018 at 11:00 a.m. at the St. James LDS Ward Chapel, 1095 East St. James Lane, St. George, Utah. Visitations will be held Friday evening from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Metcalf Mortuary, 288 West St. George Blvd, and Saturday, prior to services, from 9:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. at the church. Interment with Military Honors will follow the services at the St. George City Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to the care of Metcalf Mortuary, 435-673-4221. For condolences, full obituary, and funeral listings please visit our website www.metcalfmortuary.com.



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Published by Spectrum & Daily News from Sep. 23 to Sep. 26, 2018.

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Jackie Flanigan Robinson

September 30, 2018

Gary was my classmate. I'm so sorry about the health challenges he had to face. May "the peace that passeth understanding" be with his loved ones.

Rexine Rowley

September 25, 2018

A kind and gentle man. Gary was so cheerful and courteous when answering calls for Carole from her piano students.

Timothy Eicher

September 25, 2018

My condolences to Carole and the family. Gary was a dear person and someone I admired so much. He was brilliant in his ability to make others feel comfortable while continuing to hold fast to his faith and beliefs. He had the quickest wit and a great sense of humor. He was a great example of a person with strong ethical standards and a heart of forgiveness. I will miss him.

Penelope Eicher

September 24, 2018

I remember Gary as always exuding a big warmth for others and putting everyone at ease. His humor was clever and warm as well, even when teasing others. I treasured our book club meetings, where he always helped me feel at ease with his love and kindness.

Carole, may you and your family, and all your friends be comforted in the weeks ahead by the treasure of loving memories.

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