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Jay Rogers Obituary
Mr. Rogers, Jr. was born March 16, 1958, in Charleston, SC, the son of J.D. Rogers, Sr. and Catherine Padgett Rogers. He was a graduate of The Citadel, Class of 1980, Charlie Company, and a proud member of the Alumni Association and the Association of Citadel Men. He was also a member of St. Andrews Parks and Playground, the South Carolina Wildlife Association and Pinecrest Baptist Church. He was a teacher and coach with Charleston and Greenville County School Districts. He was also a coach at North Greenville College. He left coaching to enter the construction management field for a bit, but it was always in his heart.
He is survived by his wife of Charleston, SC; his parents of Charleston, SC; one daughter: Sara Jayne Rogers of Charleston, SC; his dog Beau of Galivants Ferry, SC; sister-in-law: Kelly Stalcup of Charleston, SC; brother-in-law: David Powell of St. Mary’s, GA; three nephews: Josh Powell of St. Mary’s, GA, Perry Powell of St. Mary’s, GA, and Jack Stalcup of Charleston, SC. He was predeceased by a sister: Renee Rogers Powell.
Memorials may be made to The Citadel Development Foundation, 171 Moultrie Street, Charleston, SC 29409 or to Charleston School of Law, 81 Mary Street, Charleston, SC 29401.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jay Rogers
yvonne chisolm
October 31, 2008
Lou Rogers and family
Dear God, your love embraces me like the warmth of the sun, and I am filled with light. Your hope enfolds me in arms so strong, I lack for nothing. Your grace fills me with the strength I need to move through this day. For these gifts you give me, of eternal love. eternal peace, and most of all, eternal friendship, I thank you, God.
Take Care of Yourself,
Yvonne Chisolm
Tom and Allison Chamness
October 20, 2008
Lou and Sara,
We were devestated today to hear about Jay's passing. Although, we know there are no words to comfort you at this time we pray that you will find comfort in Gods love. Please know that you both are in our thoughts and prayers. We so enjoyed "hanging" with you guys on the field at Mann and in Charleston on our first anniversary. Jay was a wonderful friend and he loved his girls so much. Please let us know if there is anything we can ever do for you.
Lisa (Bledsoe) Parr-Smith
October 19, 2008
Dear Lou and family,
So sorry to hear about Jay's passing. I enjoyed reconnecting with him a few years back via Classmates. He was a remarkable person who will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Daniel Lee
October 15, 2008
Dear Lou and Sara,
I am so glad there is this way of telling you how sad I am learning of Jay's passing. I wish I could be there with you now, but will see you when I return home for the holidays.
I love you two, and will speak to you son on the phone.
Danny Lee
Yvonne Chisolm
October 5, 2008
Lou Rogers and Family
So sorry for your loss. My heart goes
out to you and your family. May God bless you and keep you and your family under his umbrella of love.
Ronald Oliver
October 3, 2008
Dear Lou and Sara,
So sorry for your loss. We are keeping you in our prayers. The Olivers in Iowa - Ronald, Angella, Cassie and Ryan.
Bob Shell
October 3, 2008
I'm sadden by Jay's death but I hope GOD will direct your lives.
Bob Shell (J.L.Mann)
Jennifer Grove
October 3, 2008
I know what a profound loss this is for you, and I want you to know I’m here if you need me. God bless you both.
Greg and Victoria Griffin
October 2, 2008
We have had the honor of knowing "Jay-Bird" for 11 yrs. and we have never known any one person that could touch so many lives.
He will be greatly missed and NEVER FORGOTTEN.
What an exciting place Heaven is now.
Kenny Reid
October 2, 2008
Dear Lou and Sara,
I am so sorry for your lose or should I say "our" lose. Jay really loved you both and was so proud to be your husband and father. Then came his love for the Bulldogs.
Jay was a great friend and colleague. He always set the bar higher and challenged others to meet it.
Jay called me on Sunday and I will be sorry for the rest of my life that I missed that call.
One day when we all are with Jay again, we'll find him in the "Big Stadium in the Sky" He'll being coaching his team to victory, with Lou and Sara in the stands cheering him on. I'll walk up to Jay and he'll slap me on the back and say " Where have you been, Bo. I've been waiting on you."
Until then we have our memories of Jay and how he shaped our lives.
May God be with you in this time of deep sorrow and pain.
beverly w gibbons
October 2, 2008
Dear Lou and Sara,
Betty called us tonight to tell us about Jay. We're thinking of you and all your family at this time of loss. Logan was at The Citadel from '81-85 and enjoyed getting to know y'all and playing with baby Sara. Our relatives are so spread out & we seldom get to Charleston anymore -- I do try to stay caught up with my side thru Teenie, Betty, or Margaret. I'll let my sisters know. God Bless all of you, and I'll write you a personal note soon.
Love, Beverly & Mac Gibbons
Hartwell, GA
Max and Jackie Crosby
October 2, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Danny Williams '80
October 2, 2008
Jay Rogers - My friend, HS / Citadel classmate thru present day – You made life 'FUN' - the captain of your boat w/ Lou / Sara as 1st mates - there was never a dull moment around you - your comical wit and devilish antics w/ that gleam in your eye gave us all a boost of hope & left us w/ a smile - you always found the positive in any situation – but most of all Jay was a man of faith - honor, truth, and high integrity - a Southern gentleman and true ‘Citadel Man’ living life to the fullest while setting a high standard for all to match - I am privileged he was a part of my life – May God Bless you as transcend on to new adventures –
Your Brother,
Danny Williams
Middleton HS ’76 / The Citadel '80 Charlie Co
Marsha Bailey Wood
October 2, 2008
Dear Rogers Family:I graduated from Middleton 1976, I have fond memories of Jay from Orange Grove, Wallace and Middleton, Jay was a friend to everyone and always wanting to go that extra mile to help.My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.May God be with your entire Family.
Lynn O'Neil
October 2, 2008
Sara Jayne and family: Our thoughts are with you during this challenging time. Love you, Bill & Lynn
Debra Gupton
October 2, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Rogers, I don't know if you remember me, but I remember Jay. We graduated from Middleton HS in 1976. He was a good guy. I was sorry to hear about his death. May God be with you and all of his family. Debi Gupton
Phyllis Mishoe Rogers
October 2, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Rogers, Lou, Sara,
I pray for strength, peace, and comfort as only God's Holy Spirit can give you in this time of grieving. I pray that you are surrounded by Christian friends and family remembering the good times and rejoicing in thoughts of Jay, now whole and complete, dancing and laughing with Jesus.
Vivian Atkinson
October 2, 2008
My Darling Lou and Sarah,
My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you during this time. I am so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I remember the "good ole days" at MIPH. Sarah just a beautiful little girl then, and now grown up. So many happy thoughts. I know God will be near and keep you and hold you close. I hope Kim has already met Jay in heaven where so many of our friends and love ones have gone on. Love, peace and prayers.
Chad and Erica Schaffer
October 2, 2008
No words can ease the pain you are all feeling with the loss of Jay. He was always so full of life, happy, and fun to be around. We hope that you can find comfort knowing he is in a better place with our maker. We are thinking of you in this time of sorrow.
Joey Clark
October 2, 2008
Lou,Sara,Cat ,Sonny
I was torn when I got the news about Jay ,here in Afghanistan. He called a couple of weeks ago but I had just left on my deployment. I can only imagine how tough these last years have been for you. The good times we had will be in my heart for every.
You all our in my prayers every night Joey
Pam Ozmore
October 1, 2008
Lou, Sarah, JD & Cat,
I was surprised when Linda told me about Jay's passing yesterday. I am in Boston for a work conference otherwise, I would surely be at the service.
I think often about growing up with Jay & Lou and seeing their love mature and going to church with them & the others in the youth group with Linda, Jerry, & me at that time at Pinecrest. Those were important days in my life. Jay always has had a twinkle in his eyes and a smile on his face. Tonight when I looked at the sky, I saw a star brightly twinkling... I think that was Jay in heaven. God bless all of you at this difficult time.
Roy DeHaven
October 1, 2008
If Jay's mission was to live an interesting life filling it with laughter and friendship. He succeeded.
Roy DeHaven, C Co. Class of 81'
Duncan Seaman
October 1, 2008
To the family:
The Citadel has lost a loyal friend. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
In the spirit of '80.
Michael & Terri Wiggins
October 1, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Rogers, Lou & family,
We just wanted to say that we were sorry to here about Jay. God bless him and all his family.
Cyndi Bowers Hopkins
October 1, 2008
Mr.and Mrs. Rogers,
I am so sorry to hear about Jay. My prayers are with you both. God Bless.
Debbie McCaskill Mitchell
October 1, 2008
Jay's Family:
My name is Debbie McCaskill and I graduated high school with Jay in 1976. I am so very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. May God's amazing love surround your family during this difficult time and the days ahead. He rejoices now with the Angels in Heaven.
David Swain
October 1, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jay was such a fun, encouraging guy, a classmate of mine at The Citadel and a friend. I pray that the Lord would comfort your family at this time. We grieve with you.
Emily Long
October 1, 2008
Dear Lou and Sara,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my prayers and have my deepest sympathy.
Carol Grayson Buddin
October 1, 2008
So many of us from the class of '76 were fortunate to have been classmates for 12 years. Through Orange Grove, Wallace & Middleton. Our class has continued to be close. Losing Jay is sad for all of us. Always courteous and smiling, Jay was adored by everyone. He was so in love with Lou in high school (causing lots of disappointment on the part of the Middleton girls) and so loyal to her. I had hoped to see him at a reunion, but will always remember chasing him at Orange Grove and having such respect for him in high school. My sympathies to Mr. & Mrs. Rogers on the loss of both of their children...so hard for a parent to even imagine. God bless you all during this sad time.
Chuck Lee '80
October 1, 2008
Jay was a good man, a Citadel Man, and a friend. I pray for his family and ask that they find comfort in this difficult time. I will remember the good times from days gone by and will remember him as the young man with his own style and sence of humor. He will be missed but he will also always be with us in our hearts.
Rose Mary McGregor
October 1, 2008
We are so sorry to hear about Jay. We loved him. He had such a great laugh! We love you and Sara and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bobby Hale
October 1, 2008
Jay's Family
I was verry sorry to here about Jay's passing yesterday.He was one of my best friends at Wallace Middle School. I will always remember him with that great smile and sharp wit. I know Jay must have been a great father and husband because he was truly an unforgettable freind. I am sure he touched the lives of all the people he came in contact with. May God bless you and your Family. Heaven became a better place yesterday.
Bobby Hale
October 1, 2008
Jay's Family
I was very sorry to here of Jay's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jay was one of my best freinds at Wallace Middle School and I will always remember him with that big smile and great wit. I am sure he made a lasting impession with all the people he came in contact with during his short stay on earth. I know he must have been a great husband and father! Jay will be missed but he will live on in the memories of all the people he touched during his life. May God bless him!
Bobby Hale
Timmy Nates
October 1, 2008
Jay was an outstanding guy when we were at Middleton High from 72-76. A good sport and always had a smile. He had great friends who have stayed close all these years. That in itself says much. I wish all the best to Lou and their daughter.
Ronnie & Debbie Chesser
October 1, 2008
Mr JD and Ms Cat,
I am truly sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you and your family. I hope to see you soon. Please take care.
Jim Bryant
October 1, 2008
My family and I express our deepest sorrow with Jay's passing yesterday. As a class mate and friend, Jay brought sunlight and happiness every day we knew him at The Citadel. Jay's warmth and friendship will always be remembered and missed. God bless your family during this time of sadness.
Warmest Regards,
Jim Bryant, Ph.D.
Charlie Company Commander
Class of 1980
Ashley Grace
October 1, 2008
Mrs. Rogers & family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Lots of love,
Ashley Grace (formerly w/ Pain Assoc of Charleston)
Tionette Campbell
October 1, 2008
Lou and family. Sorry to hear of Jay's death. I am Aunt Connie's Daughter - Tionette. Betty called me last night to let me know of his death. My thoughts and prayers.
Love, Tionette
Lisa and Billy Schaffer
October 1, 2008
Lou, Sara, Aunt Cat, Uncle Sonny,
Words can not express the sadness we felt when we heard about Jay. I know the Lord will wrap His arms around you all during this time. He will never leave you or forsake you. Keep all your memories of special times close to your heart. We love you all and pray for strength and comfort . Love, Billy, Lisa, Mallory and Luke Schaffer
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