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for Paul Whitlark
Chris Beis
April 22, 2024
I can't believe it has been 7 years since you passed,my brother. I still think of you often and it brings a smile to my face. You were a great guy,Paul and you are missed. Miss you,love you my brother,Chris Beis
Derrick A Washington
April 30, 2023
Paul you will never be forgotten . Memories of you from back in the day always bring a smile to my face . You never seemed to let anything get you down . On behalf of all your teammates/classmates from 1977 , your memory is a blessing .
Derrick A Washington
Frank Caggiano
April 21, 2023
Hard to believe it's been six years. The Rock and Pizza Man have never been the same for me. I miss that warm and ever present smile and the pure generosity of his spirit. We would be a far better community, state and nation if there were more people like Paul who walked among us.
GEORGE C BEIS
April 21, 2023
Pauly,I can't believe its been 6 years! Still miss you. And talk about often at The Rockaway when having a drink or when I run into people.Love you,Bro,Chris Beis
Devonna Taylor
August 25, 2022
Hey Paul, you handsome, hilarious, caring, kind, intelligent childhood bud. Many years have passed but I still remember the sincerity and warmth of our friendship hugs. Until we meet again...
chris beis
April 21, 2022
Paul,I really can't believe it's been 5 years since your passing. I think about you often and still miss you,my brother. I still look back at our working relationship @ The OLD Rockaway and it always makes me smile! Take care my friend,miss you and love you,my man! Chris Beis
Chris BEIS
April 21, 2021
Pauly, I can't believe it has been 4 years since you passed. I still miss you,brother! Now you are looking down from Heaven with Woody,J.C. & Jimmy and all ya'll, I'm sure are having a cold one and smiling at us. Still miss you, still Love you,my brother. Chris Beis
Kelly Wingate
April 21, 2020
Paul, miss you today and will miss you tomorrow and......wish you were still here, but you are here in spirit and in our hearts forever! To your family, please know I am thinking of you also; bless you all!!!
chris beis
April 21, 2020
I cannot believe it has been 3 years,Paul! Still miss you like the brother you were to me. I am dog gone sure you are in a much better place than here. I know you are looking down on us from Heaven with a cold one in your hand and smiling! Love you,bro and miss you,
Chris Beis
Bill Oliver
May 24, 2017
Paul was a dear and loyal friend, who I called "brother". and my heart sank when I got the News of his passing. God bless you brother, I am truly going to miss you, much love to you Pauly...And my prayers go out to the entire Whitlark Family.
cindi giddings
May 16, 2017
I knew Paul since the doors of Rockaway opened and beer was in a cooler and sold for 80 cents apiece. I no longer live in Columbia, but the first place I went when I visited recently was Pizza Man. Paul,You were a friend and may you rest in peace. you will be missed by many. cindi giddings
Duncan Breckenridge
May 13, 2017
I'm so sorry to hear about Paul. All of you are in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
Yvonne Basil
May 9, 2017
Elizabeth, Natalie and Hannah- I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Yvonne Basil
Melinda (Missy) Mitchell
May 8, 2017
Still stunned by the news, I thought I would see Paul at the next reunion of the class of '77. He will be missed. My thoughts go out to Paul's family and many friends.
Frank Caggiano
May 6, 2017
Dear Whitlark Family, I was stunned to learn of Paul's passing and that I somehow missed this tragic event; I remember Paul with great respect, admiration and affection. Losing John Forrester and now Paul is a sea change in my life. A turn of the century British minister, Charles Spurgeon, is credited with saying "A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble." There is no doubt that Paul's name and legacy is carved on countless grateful hearts. My love and prayers to all of your family. Sincerely, Frank Caggiano
Hub Plott
May 5, 2017
Thoughts and prayers to all. Paul and Rockaways were a big part of my life from college thru today. He will be missed!
Mary Barth
May 2, 2017
My deepest condolences to theWhitlark family. He was a one-of-a-kind individual and was never forgotten by the people of Buffalo. Truly amazing interesting kindest person you've ever met. I am sorry for your loss.
Renee Brown Giacomone
May 2, 2017
My deepest sympathy to all. Paul was a one of kind great spirited memorable guy. He will be missed.
Eileen Sullivan
April 30, 2017
To all the Whitlark's, I am so very sorry for the loss of Paul. May God bless you during this difficult time.
Mike Alderman
April 30, 2017
Thinking of Paul. Paul's personality accentuates how Whitlarks make you feel like family.
Cynthia Edwards
April 30, 2017
I have only fond memories of Paul and his family from the original Rockaway years. Paul was always very cordial to me, my sister and our friends. He made us feel welcome - we always felt safe at the Rock! I remember how proud and happy he was telling everyone about his babies!!! My sincere condolences to his wife and children and to his family. He will be missed.
Keith Crosthwaite
April 29, 2017
Paul was one of the most memorable people that I have met in my life. His friendship during our years at Cardinal Newman was so valuable to me at a time when I was trying to find myself. I pray that his family will feel God's Presence, Love, and Peace throughout this difficult time of grief.
Penny Calcina
April 29, 2017
Liz, Natalie and Hannah, I am thinking of each of you and holding you close in my heart!
Ricky Floyd
April 29, 2017
My deepest condolences to Liz, Hannah, Natalie, Forest, Mark, Joe, Kevin and the Whitlark Family. Paul had a big heart who never met a stranger friends with everyone. Known Paul and the Whitlarks since early 70's. When visiting RAC back in the day, Paul made everyone feel special with his kind hospitality. A big part of RAC success. Rest in Peace Paul. My prayers are with the Whitlark family.
"Jake" Duncan
April 29, 2017
John, Diana, and I will always expect to wave at Paul walking as we drive down Old Woodlands. The Eagles( Grandmas)/ Rapid pizza parties were special events courtesy of Paul.
RIP , my friend
Ricky Floyd
April 29, 2017
My deepest condolences to Liz, Hannah, Natalie, Forest, Mark, Joe, Kevin and the entire Whitlark family. Paul had a big heart who never met a stranger friends with everyone. When visiting RAC back in the day he made you feel special with his hospitality a big part of their success. Rest in Peace Paul in heaven. My prayers are with the Whitlark family.
Betsy Siemers
April 29, 2017
Liz, Hannah, and Natalie,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Paul loved you so deeply and was so proud of you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
April 29, 2017
Amy Weston Yarbrough
Joe Malloy
April 28, 2017
Liz, we are very saddened to hear of Paul's passing. Paul was always so nice to our children, especially Brendan. We will keep you in our prayers. Joe and Terri Malloy
Helen Breckenridge
April 28, 2017
Kevin, Joe, Mark and to the rest of your family so sorry for your loss. Lots of fond memories growing up on Northshore, ping pong and pool, icons in open and closed in car ports for practically every one growing up. I always remember Paul having such a sweet disposition. Comfort 's!
Pam Scott
April 28, 2017
RIP Paul, You will be so missed every day but will be remembered at PizzaMan and RockAways every day by all who loved you ! Hear us share the stories and memories of all the great times you shared with so many! Prayers for the entire Whitlark family!
Dee Roberts
April 28, 2017
My thoughts and prayers go out to all the Whitlark family. I will miss Paul. I have known him for over 28 years. I remember the great times at the Original Rockaways! My coworkers and I, at Palmetto Citizens Federal Credit Union, will miss seeing him every week. He would sometimes surprise us with pizza for breakfast. He was very thoughtful. He would come in and run his coins through our coin counter, which sometimes took a while and he would always entertain us while he was doing it. He had that unique way about him. RIP.
April 28, 2017
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Anne Frate
April 28, 2017
I kind of felt like you would always be there - making sure everyone else was taken care of. You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go to the Whitlark family.
Tripp, Paticia and Legaci
April 28, 2017
We shall miss you, Paulie, our beloved Southern Irish Catholic Pizza Man! Your love, your humor, your generous spirit made good days great and bad days bearable . We know you are embarking on a new adventure...just remember to leave some crumbs on the trail so we can follow.
Thank you Liz, Hannah, Natalie, as well as all of the Whitlark Family for sharing this wonderful man with the rest of us!
April 28, 2017
Please accept my sincere condolences. We lost our Liz year and a half ago, she and Paul were classmates. May they praise the Lord together now.
Paula Gorgey
Joyce Kinney English
April 28, 2017
Prayers of comfort to the family of a very special man. I have fond memories of Paul at Cardinal Newman, class of 1977. Such a loss to his family, friends and the community.
Christina Knauss
April 28, 2017
So very sorry for your loss. Paul was a wonderful man and I was glad to know him. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
April 28, 2017
All of the Whitlarks are in my thoughts and prayers.
Agnes Frazier Richard, Richmond, Va.
Marilyn H. and Marty Ludwig
April 28, 2017
Keeping the Whitlark family in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Ginnie, Matthew and Daniel Lacoste
April 27, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Charles Brooks
April 27, 2017
I've know the Whitlark Family since 1952... a long long time...all are priceless gifts from God. God Bless all the Whitlar's...especially the soul and the family of Paul Whitlark....
Billy Pittenger
April 27, 2017
Much too young to be taken from us, condolences to Whitlark family.
Ann and Mike Leath
April 27, 2017
Our condolences to the Whitlark family. May God comfort you during this very difficult time.
Nancy Leath Chastain
April 27, 2017
Lifting up prayers for all the family during this difficult time. God's love, strength, comfort, and peace will see you through the days ahead. God bless .
Cheryl Anderson McLaughlin
April 27, 2017
Sending thoughts and prayers to the entire Whitlark family. Paul will be missed by his Cardinal Newman friends and the Rosewood community.
Beth Bruckmann McShane
April 27, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Whitlark family. Very sad news. When I think about my time living in Columbia as a college student during the mid 80's, Paul was a huge part of it. I loved working at RAC. Every time I tell a Paul Whitlark story, I have everyone laughing. He was one of a kind.
Randy & Joanna Ellis
April 27, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with all the Whitlark family. Paul will be missed, we have many memories of him. Always friendly a true friend. We will miss you, Rest in Peace.
Derrick Washington
April 27, 2017
This is such sad news . I will always remember the good times we all had together playing football back in high school. My condolences to his family.
You will always b remembered.
Kelly Wingate
April 27, 2017
I've known Paul for over 35 years and love him dearly; such a huge heart! Words just cannot express how much Paul will be missed. To the entire Whitlark family, you are ALL in my thoughts and prayers. With love......
Janis Regan Mullinax
April 27, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for all who loved Paul!
Jim & Nina Jeffcoat
April 27, 2017
We are so sorry to hear this. He was such a friendly guy with a great sense of humour.
John Morales
April 27, 2017
So sad to hear of Paul's passing-my deepest condolences
April 27, 2017
So sad to see Paul pass my deepest condolences John Morales
Alice Perritt
April 27, 2017
So sorry to hear this news. Paul will be missed. My sympathies to all of the family.
Bruce Chavious
April 27, 2017
Love and light my old friend. My condolences to the Whitlark family. Rest in peace until we meet again..
"People come and people go, but the ones who stay we all shall know."
Karen Owens
April 27, 2017
Thankful to have known you and sorry that it's been so long since I last saw you. Your family is in my prayers, and I trust you are in God's comforting care.
Lisa Elliott
April 27, 2017
Whitlark family
I am devastated to hear about the loss of Paul! His humor and kindness will be my fondest memories of this beautiful soul! I wish I had words to express my heart felt sorrow.
Peggy Linton
April 27, 2017
So sorry for your loss, Whitlark family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jay McAlister
April 27, 2017
Rest in Peace, Paul.
My deepest sympathy to the Whitlark family. May the Lord comfort you and grant you peace and strength.
Godspeed.
Mark Nold
April 27, 2017
We Love You Uncle Paul. You beat us to the finish line but now you're cheering us on. We will see you soon!!!
Lara South
April 27, 2017
A well loved man and one of my favorite employers ever. Paul possessed an intelligence that was truly enlightening and his spirit embraced life with such gusto that you felt better just being around his style of joy. Regal man that crowned my favorite lifetime libation. I salute you Sir always in my heart. Hugs to Liz and his family. You will be missed.
April 27, 2017
To All the Whitlock family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Although it has been some time since I have seen Paul, we would always had some old childhood memories to look back on growing up. He will truly be missed Sincerely,
Mark Rich
Bobbie & Steve Sonefeld
April 27, 2017
Very sorry for your loss! RIP Paul!
Debbie McDaniel
April 27, 2017
I don't think I can even remember not knowing you. From the old Rockaway location to Pizza Man you always made me smile. Love and light to all of your family.
DAVID ISAACS
April 27, 2017
Thoughts & prayers to the family during this difficult time...
David Isaacs & Family
April 27, 2017
To All the Whitlarks,I'm truly sorry for the loss of your Brother,Paul. He truly was one of a kind! Having known and worked for Paul,my life was all the better for it.Paul,rest in peace and thank you for having made me one of your brothers!!!
Love & Prayers,Chris Beis
Mary Hill
April 27, 2017
May the love of family and friends carry you through this difficult time. Continue to be the strong family I remember.
Cherish your beautiful memories of Paul.
Mary Stier Hill
Wanda McMurray
April 27, 2017
My heart is heavy! Paul was always kind and loving always attending to others at the RAC. Gods blessings be always with Liz and his precious girls and Paul's entire family. Rest in peace.
April 27, 2017
I love you and will miss you little brother. Be careful who you pick as your Bridge partner.
Boogsie Jr.
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