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Judge Thomas Drayton Conley III

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Judge Thomas Drayton Conley III obituary, 1949-2022, Lexington, SC

BORN

1949

DIED

2022

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Thomas Conley Obituary

Judge Thomas Drayton Conley, III
December 3, 1949 - December 28, 2022
Lexington, South Carolina - Judge Thomas Drayton Conley, III, at the age of 73, passed away peacefully in his sleep Wednesday, December 28, 2022. Tom was born on December 3, 1949 and grew up in the Hialeah/Miami area of Florida.
During some of his formative years, he went to Georgia Military Academy. He attended and graduated from Miami Central High School where his love of the printing industry began. When he was 16, he took a printing course there and also had the privilege of working part-time at Printcrafters where he always said he was eternally grateful for that experience.
After high school, Tom went to Florida Bible College where he met the love of his life, Dianne. They were married on March 12, 1971. On January 9, 1975, he was blessed with his only son, J.T., who was the pride of his life.
Tom's print life continued with a joint venture with a colleague to form Rapture Press. From there, he worked at another small print shop before going to work for Virginia Paper Company in Miami in 1979, which then moved him to SC in 1983 to be Operations Manager in Columbia. Tom then went to work for Mac Papers in 1989. In 1993, he joined in partnership with James S. Kohn, Jr. to purchase Professional Printers where he was V.P., CFO for 30 years. Two years later, Jess. W. MacCallum also joined the partnership.
The love of teaching Adult Sunday School classes and holding Deaconship positions at Lauderdale Community Church and Calvary Church in Florida and more currently, Covenant Community Church, was a huge part of who Tom was.
Tom also loved getting involved with community and school fundraisers and food drives. One of the most endearing things about Tom was how important it was to him to always help out another human being whether it was being benevolent or just doing counseling when needed.
Tom's favorite pastime and hobby was turning pens and he loved giving them to people as soon as he would finish one.
Tom was predeceased by his father, Judge Thomas Drayton, Jr.; his mother, Phoebe Louise Dean Conley Bunga and his sister, Shirley Louise Conley Dice. Tom is survived by his wife, Barbara Dianne Churchill Conley; his son, Judge Thomas Drayton Conley, IV (Marny Lee Williamson Conley) and his sister, Rochelle Manora Conley Williams. Extended surviving family members include three first cousins, two nieces and six nephews.
Memorial services for Tom will be held at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Lexington Chapel, on Thursday, January 5. Visitation will be from 3:30 P.M. to 5:00 P.M. and his memorial service will begin at 5:00.
In lieu of flowers, please send memorials to Covenant Community Church, 1302 Old Orangeburg Road, Lexington, SC 29073.
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.caughmanlexington.com for the Conley family.

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Published by The State on Jan. 1, 2023.

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Laura Roberts

January 6, 2023

I am so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.

Kenya Salmond

January 5, 2023

Dianne, you and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry to hear about the the loss of Tom.

Rhonda Mooneyhan

January 5, 2023

Dianne, I'm so sorry to hear this news. I always appreciated your and Tom's kindness towards me over the years. Please know I will keep you in my prayers. Much love and many hugs to you and your family. God bless.

Alex & Kay Weatherly

January 4, 2023

Dianne & JT, Tom was the epitome of a Christian Businessman and a genuine friend. We will miss him tremendously. Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for you as we mourn Tom's loss, celebrate his life, and anticipate the day when we will see him again.

Timothy Goff

January 3, 2023

Dianne & JT I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was a real gentleman that I enjoyed all of my conversations with.
My prayers are with you all.

Carolyn Conley Simons

January 3, 2023

Thinking of you all at this time. Offering prayers for you and for Tommy in my daily prayers. Sending hugs and kisses with Sally. Love you.

Sally Conley

January 2, 2023

I grew up with my mother and father talking about Bunky (Tommy). They loved him like he was their own even though he was just a nephew. Bunky was always one of my favorites and will remain that way. He was always up to something and would continue to make you laugh. See you on the other side... I love you! Sally Conley

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January 1, 2023

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